I Email Her And Get No Replies
There is a special friend whom I wish to get to know better, but everytime I try to email her, she doesn't reply. I wish to maintain this friendship, but what should I do? Help!
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---Chrissy on 4/16/05
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Make one last attempt to reach her. Let it be spectacular. A really nice e-greeting. A long and meaningful email, expressing your heart desire,for her. Leave a phone number or some other type,contact information. If she does not respond. Let go! The lady has ice water in her veins and does not deserve you. Let go! She would not make a good friend and certainly,not a wife prospect. Easy does it! Let go! For your own good. Blessings
---Robyn on 7/15/10|
She probably realises that you want her to be more of a special friend than she can be.
So she is trying to hint to you that she can't be your special friend and all that that means.
It's happened to me!!
---alan8566_of_uk on 7/12/10|
If there's an absolute honest reason for her not to reply, that should be sufficient enough.
But, if she is doing so for spite, you just wait & see what happens, because I believe in the ole saying, what goes around comes around.
---Lawrence on 7/10/10|
Danelle ... It was not my question?
I hope Chrissey now has a proper friend
---alan_of_UK on 9/4/08|
Allen,people have a way of getting distracted with new Blog Questions that grab thier attention.So, if you don't get a reply from someone you wrote to,please understand that it is not because they don't care for you...they have been distracted. You are a case senstive..don't take it personally,
---Danelle on 9/3/08|
Very good question, Alan of UK. (Hope you don't mind me responding). If a person does not reply, I think the message is very clear, providing there aren't some unknown problems.
---Judith on 9/3/08|
All I can say is, I have had similar experiences with people. It seemed as though we had some good conversations going, things in common, then nothing! Not quite sure why, can't worry about it, just move on. I'm not losing sleep over it, I know who I am It is their choice.
---Judith on 11/18/07|
This happened two years ago.
Not a current blog.
---Observer on 4/23/07|
Hey Bro.. She is either really busy and cannot get to you or else she is trying to give you a hint. Lay off for a while, if she is really your friend maybe she'll make the next move.
---Jim on 4/22/07|
Catch a clue and knock off the e-mails.
Desperation never helps either. Move on.
---Brad on 4/22/07|
if she is so special there has to be a reason why she doesnt answer the e mails,do you know her right name, if so write her ,if you dont, then i think it is a lost cause.
---irene7395 on 4/22/07|
There could be any number of good reasons: 1. She never got the e mails, 2. She changed her server, 3. She isn't interested in you. If you know her name, you can always to a name search on the InterNet. (It doesn't cost anything.)
---WIVV on 1/17/06|
maybe her email box got deleted. or she could have forgot the password. or, maybe something happened to her. always get a back up email address when you find someone you want to stay in touch with. even a phone number.
---bar on 4/30/05|
Prayer is your first answer not your last.Commit her to the Lord and pray for her.The rest, leave her to the charge of the Almighty Father and move on.If needed by you they know where you are........
---nina on 4/23/05|
Maybe the mailbox is full.
---Eloisa on 4/21/05|
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No reply is a reply.
It's like Non-denominational, that is a Denomination. Or someone judging that you shouldn't judge.
---Elder on 4/18/05|
Chrissy, Just because she hasn't replied to your emails doesn't necessarily mean she is trying to avoid you. There could be something going on in her life, that has nothing to do with you. I had a similar thing happen to me about six months ago. I sent another email and asked the person if anything was wrong, and that I really miss their corrispondence. Less than a day they emailed me back with a big apology, a good excuse and that they missed talking with me. Step out and try this, it just might work. Let us know. It is great corrisponding with you! God bless.
---John on 4/17/05|