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Do Men Desire Spiritual Women

I am looking for a deep spiritual relationship with a man. It seems to me the rest of what comes with a marriage relationship will follow that. Am I looking for something no man will desire in a mate?

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 ---suzi on 4/23/05
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A spirtual woman, christian woman,religious woman are different things. A woman can be christian and not spiritual and vice versa. A spiritual woman can be unsaved. A religious woman can be into religion and not into Jesus, the gospel etc...salvation. Christianity is not a religion. Religion is joing a church without being born again. Going through the motions but never having a personal or working relationship with Christ. She is into rituals and duty. No signs and wonders following,no works. Little or no prayer. Just a white-washed tomb. So we do have to be careful when it comes to relationships. There are no guarantees. We can miss God and get with someone who is a pretender. Take your time.
---Robyn on 11/6/09


Spiritual men will carnal men won't, it's that simple.
Still it will take some time into your marriage to get to that "deep spiritual relationship."

The bible says nobody knows the heart of the man but the man, so don't expect to jump over the usual personality and physical attractiveness that is native to our species. Important things develop over time.
Your lofty goal however is commendable. God bless.
---larry on 9/17/09


If you husband is deceased, UR Free to marry in the Lord. I pereceive the Lord, our Heavenly Father, through Jesus Christ the Lord, by the Spirit will summon a godly man, who will match you, to BE "bone of your bone, flesh of your flesh, DNA matching...your TRUST-FAITH required is to submit to the Lord Jesus Christ, as displayed to your husband that is coming in all matters, no issues of independece.He will love you, like Christ Jesus did the church, laying down his life for you but God will be first & you'll be second... I believe. He is a blessed man, fully of the Holy Spirit & Fire. a gentle man who is of the Word of God as his standard. the Spirit of Truth, based on the Cannon of Scripture, will guide him & his children.
---an_unknown_Disciple on 9/17/09


Robyn>>>Made a good point, but eric>>Made a better point. I thank you both!+++
---catherine on 5/18/08


This can be a very sticky situation. Everyone confessing to be a Christian is not.One thing we as Christians need to guard against is:being overly righteous and unable to relate to others)saved and unsaved). It is a big turn off. Loosen up and learn to have fun on our Christian journey,most do not know how to reach this balance.If I were married to an uptight Christian I would not be happy. I like the middle ground(balance)That is hard to find. I would as soon stay single than be sattled with a Pharisee.
---Robyn on 5/16/08




Jesus was a man, and so were the 12 disciples, and they knew how to have deep spiritual relationships. So there are men who desire deep spiritual relationships with women, but on the contrary, i have found alot of women to be materialistic and judgmental and condescending to men.
---Eloy on 5/2/07


I was reading your blog and you said when a man and a women are attracted to each other spirit what did you mean?
---Iishea on 6/21/06


I agree that women are mor spiritual then men, however, this can be a problem I have been watched by a man over a year and he still has not moved. I think some men a threatened by spiritual women
---Iishea on 6/16/06


Well I'm a male. Here's my personal opinion. I would place the highest priority on a woman who is a deeply committed chrisitan with a deep love for Jesus and who is biblically sound and discerning of error in the church. But thats me, and it reflects the way I strive to be. If you marry someone on a different level to you - you will soon or later be frustrated by the others lack of committment in the areas important to you - though God can change that - but be sure it's God that brings u together.
---eric on 5/9/05


Dear Suzi,if a man does not want a spiritual woman he is making a mistake.any Godly man would be very happy to have such a lady friend.They are hard to find though.I have dated many christian women who by the end of the evening you wouldn't know they were christian,always a disappointment but there is one out there somewhere and I will keep on looking ,you do the same,don't give in.Good luck and God bless.
---RUSSELL on 5/1/05




I am jay80108. I am looking for a lady who desires what you desire. Please write to me
---jay80108 on 4/30/05


I have only just joined this site, but through reading the feedback of this question, I am encouraged to know that there are spiritually-minded men out there. I have nearly given up hope. My experience has been that some men are spiritually threatened if they aren't as spiritual as the women.
---Boazgirl on 4/27/05


The conclusion of the matter is this. Love the Lord with all your heart, mind and soul, and He will give you the desire of your heart. If you wait on the Lord, the mate God has planned for you, which will not be a burden but a 'HELPMEET', will be put in your path. Sometimes, we get in a hurry because of lonliness or stress, and don't stop to pray and ask God. "And again I say, WAIT ON THE LORD!"
---rev on 4/27/05


Suzi,
You must be patient with the Lord. If you have prayed and asked, wait for God to bring him to you. I prayed and asked for a mate. God brought us together. Don't close doors God opens. let God pick out the man! Trust God all the way. Rejoice if you know He has heard your prayer.
---Linda on 4/27/05


Right on John! That's why so many marriages are failing today; they began with the wrong motives to start with: Only what can we do for each other (humanly speaking), instead of we want this marriage to glorify God and bring us closer to Him first, and then to each other! I def. want that latter part, but for sure not at the expense of leaving God out of it! I think one of the main reasons Christianity is 'in-effective' in the world today are all the so-called "Christian marriages" that aren't built on God.
---danie9374 on 4/27/05


I love spiritual women, I barely tolerate superficial and shallow ones. Rex
---Rex on 4/25/05


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eloy is exactly right again. way too many women have abandoned all interest in me just because i refuse to get physical with them. i suspect that men are generally more spiritual than women are.
---curt on 4/25/05


rev, yes i have. i really don't like stereotyping, however in general i think men are more analytical and women more sensual.
---Eloy on 4/25/05


If a Christian man and a Christian woman want any kind of a meaningful relationship with each other, they must both desire a spiritual relaitionship, or the foundation of their' relationship will fail.
---John on 4/24/05


Curt, perhaps you haven't looked in the right places. :)
---rev on 4/24/05


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i have to wonder,..... where are all the women who are interested in deep spiritual relationships? i haven't found any.
---curt on 4/24/05


I agree w/u cuz there is no other way if we are to be obedient to the Lord. I am a widow of 7yrs. and I desire to be loved and love again. The Lord knows my heart and will grant me those desires. Just chill and wait.
---mariana on 4/24/05


Absolutely not, and settle for nothing less my sister. If you are not equally yoked spiritually, a marriage would have little chance of lasting. Don't settle for feelings, or even love. I could not love a man who was not sold out to the Lord. Pray and ask God to give you your heart's desire. There are men out there, AND on this very forum who would cherish a Godly woman.
---NV_Barbara on 4/24/05


Eloy, materialistic, judgemental and condescending? Hm, such words. Pretty harsh. Each gender has it's own dark side, guess you haven't seen the light.
---rev on 4/24/05


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Johnny ... I think what you say is so true.

Men are that little bit more reticent about it

So ladies, do not despair
---Alan_of_U.K. on 4/24/05


no you are not.most men like myself are not as spiritual as women.even though we love the Lord an we are saved,we do not show it loke women do. I my self am looking for a woman who loves the Lord with all her heart and has the desire to do His will. also that has the desire to help me in doing His will. Just keep your head high,desires true and allow the Lord to lead you to the places to where He wants you to be.you may write me if you like also.
johnny
---Johnny on 4/24/05


hello,
if you dpnt mind, i want to meet you.
take care
Bye.....
---Engin on 4/24/05


I feel there is too much flesh that is involved in spiritual decisions. If a man or a woman is attracted to the other person's spirit then everything else will fall in place. Christ gave of himself and everything else was covered under all that blood. What else can anyone offer?
---tina on 4/24/05


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yes at least i look for a christian woman to share the rest of my life with and to worship the lord. because sharing the lord with the one you love just make you feel more loved and alive
---ray on 4/24/05


I know it might not seem like us guys are always looking for a spiritual relationship, but i can assure you that there are guys out there that are looking for a serious spiritual relationship. My friends and I are very serious about finding Christ following girls. The only problem is that we are having problems finding girls that want the same as us.
---Chris on 4/24/05


Suzi, you're looking for the right thing. Spirituality is what made me fall in love with my wife and that is the basis of my love towards her and her towards me.

Such love is solid and is able to conquer the difficulties that arise between a couple. May God be with you and guide you.
---Albert on 4/24/05


If your deep spiritual relationship is Christ centered and you put God first in your life than yes I think it is possible but not probable. You see to find such a man would be very rare, and only a few in between. From my experiences I see more worldly men that draw their strength from themselves than relying on the Lord's Spirit. In your relationship you should pray together and in there you will find your strength together. Maybe you should seek a man of less calaber so he may grow from you. Just my thoughts though.
---ron on 4/24/05


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Yes. You have to be willing to wait for God to send that Husband along.
---Paul on 4/23/05


A truly (I hate the word spiritual), rather a man who loves the Lord, dedicated to God and God's Will, is looking for a woman with like passions. The same should be said for a woman looking for a man. Do not be unequally yoked together you believing one way and your mate another. A man of God desires a woman who can love the Lord, worship and serve God in the beauty of holiness and togetherness. He's out there, probably wondering the same thing. God orchestrates the meeting and In time,when you both are made ready through the Word of God, and preparations of your spirits you'll meet.
---rev on 4/23/05


many women mistakenly think that men are shallow. this is the result of seeing too much of what hollywood shows us. the problem is, men are either persuing women or persuing God, no man can do both, if he does, his faith means nothing.
---steve on 4/23/05


that is exactly what most christian men are looking for. we want a wife who will share a deep spiritual relationship with us. unfortunately, very few women out there are looking for this in men, at least from what i have seen in life.
---curt on 4/23/05


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