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God Is Convicting Me Of My Sins

I'm with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 yrs. Recently, I attended church and realised that fornication is a sin. But I've been doing that for so long. And I still want to be with my boyfriend and hope to get married soon. But he doesn't want to get married so soon. I feel stuck. Please help.

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 ---Chrystie on 6/7/05
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Consider two things, sweetie: First,why WOULDN'T he marry you? Our culture pushes rewards but not responsibilities. If you were pregnant,would he be found?? Second, the Lord wants His Children to focus on HIM.When a relationship has us confused or it interferes with the Eternal perspective, there's no inner peace.You've been "joined"(3 1/2 years!!!)and if this relationship is not God's Will for you, it's going to be a painful process to get your soul back!(How much does he REALLY love YOU?)
---phila4543 on 6/22/05


There is this huge hang-up about sexual sin, but your fornication is no worse than any other sin.

You have become "one flesh" already ... best that you ask God to bless your union, by getting married.
---Alan_of_U.K. on 6/8/05


Hello, Have you repented of your sins and accepted Jesus Christ in your heart to live a life unto him? If you have then you pray and ask Jesus to fill you with his Holy Spirit. I know you love this man, God has already convicted you of this sin, so you should pray and ask the Lord to help you to do the right thing, and to to let you know if this is the right man for you. You have a different life now, and the Lord will send you someone that will serve Jesus with you, if this guy is not the one for you.
---Mary on 6/8/05


The right thing for you to tell your friend is that you have been convicted of a sin which you have been practicing wih him but which you no longer want to engage in. In addition you would tell him that you would greatly appreciate it if he came to the
same conclusion but that if he did not, you would at least expect him to honor your conviction and not put pessure on you to continue the practice. If he respects you and does not apply pressure keep him, if not dump him!
---Pierr7958 on 6/8/05


Chrystie, If you truly want to experience the greatest joy and blessing more than you have ever known in your life, try obeying God and putting His desire above your own. You will see, that He will work all things out for good for you. By obeying God you enter into His covenant and He is obligated to fulfil His word in your life. If you disobey God isn't obligated to you for anything. He always honours His own word. And the result is your blessing.
---lisa on 6/8/05




God speaks to us to show us the errors of our ways. He calls us to be Christ-like & speaks to us when we are at a place in life where we can hear & make changes. You know what you need to do & yes, it seems hard but if he really loves you he won't make you compromise with your Lord! You have a choice before you now, to choose God or Sin. This is your test. You can make the right choice, take a deep breath, God will give you the courage to walk down this road. It won't be as hard as you thought. God Bless
---Angie on 6/8/05


God speaks to us to show us the errors of our ways. He calls us to be Christ-like & speaks to us when we are at a place in life where we can hear & make changes. You know what you need to do & yes, it seems hard but if he really loves you he won't make you compromise with your Lord! You have a choice before you now, to choose God or Sin. This is your test. You can make the right choice, take a deep breath, God will give you the courage to walk down this road. It won't be as hard as you thought. God Bless
---Angie on 6/8/05


God speaks to us to show us the errors of our ways. He calls us to be Christ-like & speaks to us when we are at a place in life where we can hear & make changes. You know what you need to do & yes, it seems hard but if he really loves you he won't make you compromise with your Lord! You have a choice before you now, to choose God or Sin. This is your test. You can make the right choice, take a deep breath & God will give you the courage to walk down this road. It won't be as hard as you thought. God Bless
---Angie on 6/8/05


God speaks to us to show us the errors of our ways. He calls us to be Christ-like & speaks to us when we are at a place in life where we can hear & make changes. You know what you need to do & yes, it seems hard but if he really loves you he won't make you compromise with your Lord! You have a choice before you now, to choose God or Sin. This is your test. You can make the right choice, take a deep breath & God will give you the courage to walk down this road. It won't be as hard as you thought. God Bless
---Angie on 6/8/05


Hi what you feel right now is good news because God is working in your life He wants you to experience life in abundance as Jesus has promised us. Psalm 23 is for you my sister, you have Jesus to provide you whatever you need. Just let go and He will never let you down. I have experienced it myself and I've never been happier in my whole life. Be strong and courageous!!! That's all it takes.
---joyce3433 on 6/8/05




Praise our Lord and Father for showing you the truth!You have been blessed my sister and given a chance to get out of a sinful life style. I know its difficult, but if this b/f persists, tell him to take a hike.
Which is more important, your eternity with God, or sinful 'happiness' on this earth? God bless you in abundance.
---NV_Barbara on 6/8/05


First thing, stop doing that. Give yourself time to think if you really want what God wants for you! If you ask Him to save you from sin, then you'll love Him enough to follow what He asks of us in the Bible (His Word). Maybe you're not married yet, because he will never become a Christian and God knew that. Do you have a girlfriend or family you can stay with for a short time and consider your faith in God? BUT be careful, boyfriend may just fake belief to keep you with him; many guys will do that!
---danie9374 on 6/8/05


I want to say to you it is wonderful that you have accepted Jesus as your Lord of your life. I would like to point out to you a verse found in Proverbs 3 verse 5 and 6 that states trust in the lord with all your heart and he will direct your paths. I will pray for you that the Lord will work in your heart as well as your boyfriend.
---Lasha_5949 on 6/7/05


I would listen to God, after all he has the last word. You can't have it both ways unless you get married. After God has convicted you did you get saved or repent? If not, he may not convict you again, or knock on your hearts door. God didn't promise us chance after chance after chance. I would be afraid not to listen to God.
---Rebecca_D on 6/7/05


Jesus said, if you save your life you will loose it and if you loose your life you will save it. In other words, if you cling to your old life at the expense of your new life in Christ, you might feel you have gained now but you will loose in eternity. On the other hand if you choose your new life in Christ over this life, you will have life eternal.

Which is more important, this life's pleasures and relationships or eternity?
---Bruce5656 on 6/7/05


Chrystie, Congratulations!!! You have become "Born Again". You are a new creation in Christ Jesus, old things have past away, all things have become new. Go with it and see what happens. God has something wonderful for YOU!
---John on 6/7/05


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I do not know you belong to which race.But 31/yrs.is a pretty long period.You should have settled down in life.The first thing is you have not understood the fact that God's mercyis so great that He foegives all your past sins,provided you repent for your sins ask Jesus to forgive your sins.,This delay is an indication that he is having some one in his mind.Pray to God to reveal what is in your boy friend's mind. .Apply your mind. .God has a plan for you.May God bless you,piua 7855
---Pius on 6/7/05


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