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My Husband Just Left Me

Two months ago my husband left. Two days later I had major surgery. Two days after returning home, my landlord said he was selling our home. Today I saw my husband with another woman. We have 3 young children and he isn't being a good father. Other than to pray, I don't know what else to do.

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 ---Crystal on 6/23/05
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I would encourage you to surround yourself with loving br/sis. Let God carry you through this horrific time. Your story reminds me of Job. In all his turmoil, Job said, "nevertheless, I bless you Lord"

I was separated from my husband for over a year and it was praying scriptures from the book, "Power of a Praying Wife" that brought him bck. But YOU know if you need to let your husband go or pray him bck.
LoVeYoU sweet sis and may God restore you!!
Isaiah 54
---inthegap on 2/16/08


My heart goes out to you. Do you belong to a church? Maybe you could go to your preacher and find out if they could be of help. Maybe your husband could go for counselling if the preacher arranges it with him. I think you should go for counselling, since I think you have been through a lot with no husband to help. Lawyer for legal rights.
---Junia on 4/10/07


Crystal, is that you up there in the question?
---Todd on 4/10/07


Wow, girl...my heart and prayers are with you!!! I am here if you ever need a pal.
---casey5399 on 4/10/07


dear sister,
the best thing to do for you is to stay calm and spend tiem with god, spend tiime with your children, dont be affected or controlled by your situation, dont look at your husband dont look at your situaion just look to god, god will make a way where there seems to be no way,god loves dont allow situations in lide to distrub you.
leena
---leena on 8/5/05




dear sister,
the best thing to do for you is to stay calm and spend tiem with god, spend tiime with your children, dont be affected or controlled by your situation, dont look at your husband dont look at your situaion just look to god, god will make a way where there seems to be no way,god loves dont allow situations in lide to distrub you.
leena
---leena on 8/5/05


My dear, in times like this, it is very easy to focus on the seemingly unyielding problems than keeping your focus on God. I know it is not easy but your only weapon at this moment is prayer and allowing the Word of God to strengthen you. The Bible says, we should cast all our cares upon the Lord for He cares. Stay strong for the sake of the children. Remain blessed.
---jackee on 7/21/05


My thoughts and prayers are to you and your kids. My wife had a similar experience. Her ex left just before she found out she was pregnant with their 2nd child. He is a good enough as a father,but being married again 3 days after their divorce was finalized, has had a lot of problem with his present wife. However my wife has found a solid foundation of faith and support. Be strong, trust in the Lord. Best wishes.
---geraa7578 on 7/4/05


I will pray for you. my husband left in February.he was having an affair and I knew it but wanted him to leave her instead. i still love him and pray that he will not destroy our famioy for good, but time will tell. You and I both have to be strong for the children God has given us. i will pray for you!. Patty
---Patty on 6/26/05


Stay close to God, Pray and keep God's word hidden in your heart. So not let the devil temp you to turn from God instead make this a time of growing closer to God in all things.
Tests and trials come our way but God NEVER leaves us or forsakes us. God always has a plan and loves you and is still holding you in his hands. Stay close to God and pray for strength to get thru this time.
---Marla on 6/24/05




God does not give you problems that you can't handle.take one problem at a time.pray! pray! pray! ask for guidance.ask for help.maybe the Lord has bigger beautiful plans for you.trials are part of our lives.God bless you friend. :-) divine
---divine on 6/23/05


God Bless you Dear Heart. Pierre has said most of what should be done at this time. Evidentally, he was unfaithful in his mind,long before he became unfaithfulto you.
Please stay in prayer, and watch out for self condemnation. The Lord is very near to you at this time. Praying for you sis.
---anon on 6/23/05


I have been through a similar situation this year. I advise to find a good attorney and make him pay for the attorney. I did this and prayed. I am back together with my husband after he learned he made a very expensive mistake.
---June on 6/23/05


Go to the nearest church of your choice and ask for help (food, baby sitting, spiritual care etc)
Go to Social Services and Court to find out about your rights (child support, foodstamps,low cost housing etc)
Be brave and ask the Lors to go with you!
---Pierr7958 on 6/23/05


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