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Where Is My Future Husband

Why do I have to remain single? Why does God want me to remain alone? I feel so frustrated and discouraged. That I cannot find a good Christian Husband. Why does God not help me?

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I agree with Steveng,

To place marriage at the forefront of your desires only sets you up for the counterfeits that the devil sends you unawares. Your so full of self that you leave no room for the state of this world, where the bible states that men (mankind) will become lovers of themselves and not lovers of God. There are thousands of women sitting in church today wishing to get married!!!!! and not without reason but without Wisdom. In this present climate one needs to put self on hold and absorb the goodness god has to give single women who can work effectively in the kingdom to teach and support other sisters.
---Carla on 2/3/10


Carolyn: "Please wait on the Lord. Don't try to get a husband in your own strengh...its not worth the misery. Wait patiently for God and he will deliver."

God did not build the ark for Noah. Noah built it. As a woman, you must put yourslef in a position to be noticed by a man. When a man sees a woman doing thing unselfishly, it will certainly arouse his interest.

If you really want to serve the Lord one hundred percent, don't get married.
---Steveng on 2/2/10


Lewis: "So what to christian singles do while they wait on God
---carole on 2/2/10
That's a very good question, Carole... Unfortunately, I don't know the answer. Hopefully, someone out there has a good answer."

To love God with all your heart, mind and soul.
To love your neighbor greater than yourself.
To bring glory to God.
To help populated the Kingdom of God.

Do an online LKV bible search for "one another," "each other," and "encourag" for living a christian life is a 24/7 lifestyle - not a once a week pep talk dished out by denominational "churches."

And remember: for every person you bring to Christ a multitude of sins will be forgiven.
---Steveng on 2/2/10


So what to christian singles do while they wait on God
---carole on 2/2/10
That's a very good question, Carole. I ask myself the same question. Unfortunately, I don't know the answer. Hopefully, someone out there has a good answer.
---Lewis on 2/2/10


So what to christian singles do while they wait on God
---carole on 2/2/10




Please wait on the Lord. Don't try to get a husband in your own strengh...its not worth the misery. Wait patiently for God and he will deliver.
---Carolyn on 1/31/10


To Miss Waiting Upon The Lord,
---Linda on 1/29/10


It's interesting how God helps others find someone immediately and, yet, many have to wait years.
---Lewis on 1/28/10
Lewis, don't you think there's a reason for that?
For your maker is your husband, the Lord of Hosts is his name. Come up higher in your thinking Lewis. Jesus said I am the vine and my Father the husbandman.
In jeremian God said, I wil betroth you to me. Betroth means marry.
When you get to the place where you don't feel you need a spouse because Jesus has become the lover of your soul, then that's usually when God brings you a mate. Take Him first as your Husband and see what mighty things He will do for you. (send you a spouse probably).
---Donna on 1/29/10


Thanks Lewis. I guess Gods time is the best time .
---carol on 1/29/10


Carol and Lewis.

Where do you each live?

If you're on the PenPal section of this Site, write to me at alan8566 and I will perhaps decide whether to are suited to each other!
---alan8566_of_uk on 1/28/10




Carol, don't feel so bad. I am 41 and have yet to meet a good woman. It is very difficult for me to find women and I am a very attractive and well-built man. It is getting to the point to where I am about ready to give up on finding somebody special. These past 20 years have been a nightmare and being alone has cost me dearly in everyway you could imagine. It's interesting how God helps others find someone immediately and, yet, many have to wait years.
---Lewis on 1/28/10


Hi

I am just coming to terms with what it means to wait . I am turning 31 and its hard not think when will the man come .
---carol on 1/13/10


my dear
thats an insults to the ears of the lord. how on earth will he want you to remain single. if he really wanted you to remain single he wouldnt have created Adam and Eve otherwise he would have ceated Adam alone.the lord knows his plans, stay on his plan he will provide the right husband for you. but you dont have to be too desperate for guy or else you will end up taking the wrong guy. wait upon the lord ps 27:14, he will see you through. there are so many christian guys out there but there are not yours the right one is with the lord.

maybe is also the way you ask god for we cannot just blame god, you need to go before his trone of grace with assurance so that you may receive mercy and grace to help you.
anatoria.
---anatoria on 1/7/10


Dear Sister,

God does not want you to be alone He loves you and feels your pain, remember He died alone on the cross, He knows.

If you are where you need to be in Christ then you must look at the men. Everything in life is a choice and often today men do not choose the Christian woman. Christian women are set apart by God for a special prepared Husband.

A man must have clear vision in the Holy Spirit to see you as his wife. Today there are no too many men in this condition.

Began to pray for God to heal the husband that is your future husband and that he will know you when he see's you. It could be that he has been blinded by satan and can not see his way to you. Pray that satan would lose his mind and heart amen.
---Dee on 1/3/10


Trav ... You get me confused
Following your point no 3 ... I wonder why you made such objection to the statement when I first made it?
---alan8566_of_uk on 11/29/09

Only objected to your positional attitude/understanding of...the "wife". GODs marriage is more beautiful.
Marriage proves to the Lost Sheep of Nth house of Israel an unheard, unduplicated plan of GOD. Unseen and untaught, nonapplicable by the wolfie/imposters/sheepshearers.
GOD married,Divorced to remarry. To remarry would have to die....as below.
1 Corinthians 7:39
The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth, but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will, only in the Lord.
---Trav on 11/30/09


Trav ... You get me confused

You tell me that God's marriage is like a human marriage, then refer to Mary bearing His Son.

That seemd to indicate a marriage between God and Mary.

Otherwise why bring Mary into this discussion?

Following your point no 3 ... I wonder why you made such objection to the statement when I first made it?
---alan8566_of_uk on 11/29/09


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1. You're now suggesting that God married Mary.

2. From what you wrote earlier, it must have been Mary that He divorced.

3. And you still say that human marriage is not a beautiful gift from God.---alan8566_of_uk on 11/27/09

You're a little touchy today.

1. Didn't say GOD married Mary. He married Israel.
2. Divorced Israel.
...the Northern house/nations of you can't seem to grasp. Many cannot. Took me many years, much checking.
He said he would remarry. Could not without breaking own law, or dieing. Which would free Her, Israel for remarriage.
3. It is a beautiful gift if you want me just come out and say it. Beautiful. With GOD outlining his in the process. Even more beautiful....agree?
---Trav on 11/28/09


Yes Trav, it was you not Trev!

You're now suggesting that God married Mary.

From what you wrote earlier, it must have been Mary that He divorced.

And you still say that human marriage is not a beautiful gift from God.

At least I think that's what you are saying that, since this correspondence arose when you supported Steveng's challenge to my statement which said "Marriage is a beautiful gift from God."
---alan8566_of_uk on 11/27/09


I am with Alan on this subject. There is nothing wrong with marriage and to say there is then God would not have permitted it. The passages in 1 Cor, in the context is speaking to singles and addressing their concern for not finding someone to marry and the priorities of those who are married. It suggest singleness has it benefits but does not teach that marriage is no longer binding or treated with seriousness (Eph. 5:22-33, Col. 3:18,19, nor should there be any physical deprivation (vv. 3-5), but Paul is teaching that marriage should not at all reduce one's devotion to the Lord and service to Him (Col. 3:2), to keep our priorities right.
---MarkV. on 11/27/09


Trev ... Having read your latest, I wonder why you objected to my suggestion that God's "marriage" was not the same as that of a man and a woman.
---alan8566_of_uk on 11/26/09

Are you talking to Trev or Trav.

Trav didn't object. Trav thinks it goes even deeper in concept. Possible? Why not. Mary, did have a child, it was not Josephs. As, we percieve things...perhaps it was arranged beyond our understanding.
---Trav on 11/27/09


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Trev ... Having read your latest, I wonder why you objected to my suggestion that God's "marriage" was not the same as that of a man and a woman.
---alan8566_of_uk on 11/26/09


Trav
1 ... So God married Mary? Then divorced her ... to avoid her marriage to Joseph being bigmous?
---alan8566_of_uk on 11/24/09
Not said. Far larger in scope but, always correct when GOD does it.
GOD was previously married to 12 nations of Israel. 13 named. He divorced 10 nations of. The Nthern House. He said he would remarry...all at a later time. He won't/wouldn't/couldn't re-marry all without breaking his own marriage law. Judah/Benj was not divorced/widowed at time of Christ. Even though Judah played the harlot like her sister...Jer 3:8.

He would have to die for Divorced/Israel to be free in widowhood....to be remarried.

Grab you Bible, concordance. Ask the teacher, healer to see. Heb 8:8-10
---Trav on 11/26/09


Steveng ... "when in history have you read an entire young generation going against the entire older generation - many times very violently?"

I have to admit that I have never seen that in history.

And I have to state most strongly that I do not see it occurring now.
---alan8566_of_uk on 11/26/09


alan8566_of_uk: "AS to children rising up, that too is a question of definition. For centuries ... even in OT times ... younger generations have challenged the ideals and rules of their seniors. The 50s & 60s brought nothing hew"

Maybe not anything new for there is nothing new under the sun, but when in history have you read an entire young generation going against the entire older generation - many times very violently. The birthpains are stronger and more frequent since after World War II.
---Steveng on 11/25/09


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Trav
1 ... So God married Mary? Then divorced her ... to avoid her marriage to Joseph being bigmous?

2 ... I see what you are getting at.

3 ... I see no trace in what you say of any appreciation of the beauty of human marriage. And I have said nothing to deny the beauty of what is to come.
---alan8566_of_uk on 11/24/09


Trav
1. You know that God has not been married to a woman in the way that a man married a woman.

2. it is a quetion not of "was" as you said, but "is" as I said.

3. You seem determined to denigrate human marriage, and to deny it is a gift from God.
---alan8566_of_uk on 11/24/09

1. Know that it was different? He had a Son. You presume way too much. This is GOD we are talking about. It is his allegory, his story. You mess with it....not me.
2. Marriage, seperation..divorce. Widowhood, remarriage. Thats what is stated.
3. Denigrate? Ha. Not in this life. I'm pointing to you of the beautiful concept of what GOD intends. The one you don't see.
---Trav on 11/24/09


Trav .... the "If God was married" was a mistype in my last post

You know that God has not been married to a woman in the way that a man married a woman.

But as to His marriage, different as it may be to our human one, it is a quetion not of "was" as you said, but "is" as I said.

You seem determined to denigrate human marriage, and to deny it is a gift from God.

Remember that the gift of your life has resulted from that gift from God to innumerable generations!
---alan8566_of_uk on 11/24/09


Trav ... You say "God was married" Is that a bit of Arrogance from Trav

1. If God was married,

2. I'm sure God appreciates that it is a beautiful gift.

3. Don't you?
---alan8566_of_uk on 11/23/09

Arrogance? Call it, Annoyance.

1. Jeremiah 3:14
Turn, O backsliding children, saith the LORD, for I am married unto you: ...

2.Now when I passed by thee, and looked upon thee, behold, thy time was the time of love, and I spread my skirt over thee, and covered thy nakedness: yea, I sware unto thee, and entered into a covenant with thee, saith the Lord GOD, and thou becamest mine.
Ezekiel 16:7-9
3. Hebrews 8:8-Jer 31:31 Awesome Beautiful then. Unspeakably beautiful is coming.
---Trav on 11/24/09


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Trav ... You say "God was married"

Is that a bit of Arrogance from Trav, and one who does not understand/care that GOD is married?If God was married,

I'm sure God appreciates that it is a beautiful gift.

Don't you?
---alan8566_of_uk on 11/23/09


Steveng .... since you have not experienced it, you are not in a position to downgrade marriage from being "beautiful and a gift from God" to being merely "honorable"
---alan8566_of_uk on 11/21/09

Arrogance from uk, and one who does not understand/care that GOD was married the implication of.

1 Corinthians 7:33
But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife.

1 Corinthians 7:39
The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth, but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will, only in the Lord.
---Trav on 11/23/09


Steveng ... Hebrews is about how to behave in mnarriage ... it is not a deinition of marriage.

I repeat, even if you choose not to beleive it " Marriage is a beautiful gift from God".

AS to children rising up, that too is a question of definition. For centuries ... even in OT times ... younger generations have challenged the ideals and rules of their seniors. The 50s & 60s brought nothing hew
---alan8566_of_uk on 11/22/09


alan8566_of_uk: "Steveng .... since you have not experienced it, you are not in a position to downgrade marriage from being "beautiful and a gift from God" to being merely "honorable""

You are such a fool, alan. Does a doctor need to experience cancer to be able to treat it? Does a christian need to experience the Kingdom of God before he or she can preach it? The word for marriage being "honorable" can be found at Hebrews 13:4. All wisdom comes from God.

alan8566_of_uk: "We have been in the end times since 2000 years ago."

The beginning of the end started in the late fifties/early sixties when children started rising up against their parents/establishment.
---Steveng on 11/21/09


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On 1/16/09, Corlynn shared the most excellent opinion. Your job is NOT to find a husband. According to scripture, it is a MAN who (looks for and) finds a wife. Until you are "found", you may want to spend time in preparation. As any married person will tell you, marriage is more than love and companionship, but it is work...HARD work. Study everything that the bible teaches about love and about marriage such as practicing selflessness, submission, sacrifice and servitude. Also, cherish this time to work on becoming the best that you can be and in deepening your relationship with the Father.
---AlwaysOn on 11/21/09


Steveng .... since you have not experienced it, you are not in a position to downgrade marriage from being "beautiful and a gift from God" to being merely "honorable"

We have been in the end times since 2000 years ago.
---alan8566_of_uk on 11/21/09


JackB: Thank you. I only shared with you from the experience that the Lord had given me. I have been waiting on Him since about 9yrs now, this month HE has solved my problem. I passed thro' lots of ridicule & mockery from fellow human-beings(naturally) but the Lord was/is by me & gives me peace always. Every one that asks from God, depending & trusting on Him for a godly thing SHALL RECEIVE IT Matthew 7: 7-11, John 14: 13-14, John 16: 23-24. I am by God's grace more than 45yrs old.
---Adetunji on 11/21/09


alan8566_of_uk: "Steveng .... Marriage is a beautiful gift from God."

I agree, marriage is honourable, but what I wrote is directly from scripture. We are living in the time of the end and getting married will only get our mind off of God and unto the world for he that is married cares only for the things that are of the world that he may please his wife. God truly needs people that will go out into the world and preach the gospel of the Kingdom of God and how to get there for the harvest is plenty, but the workers are few.
---Steveng on 11/20/09


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Steveng .... Marriage is a beautiful gift from God.

I never regretted a moment of it.

Sadly now, my wife has died ... some 7 long years ago. I still hope that maybe her dying wish will come true ... that I find someone else.
---alan8566_of_uk on 11/20/09


Stay single...

and devote yourself to God. Life is short and the time is at hand when Jesus returns. The children of this world marry, and are given in marriage: but they which shall be accounted worthy to obtain that world, and the resurrection from the dead, neither marry, nor are given in marriage: neither can they die any more: for they are equal unto the angels, and are the children of God, being the children of the resurrection.

I'm fifty seven years young and never regreted not being married. Well, maybe not never. Many parents would tell me that I would make a great husband and a father. Later that night, I would sit at home and think about it - secretly regreting not having any children of my own. Then I pray to God.
---Steveng on 11/19/09


Thank you for your words of encouragement, Adetuji :)
---JackB on 11/19/09


Angea, JackB: I can say God is using what seems to be the long wait to prepare/train you for your mate(that HE wills for you to share your life with). HE is equally preparing & training your spouses so that there will not be any occasion for regret(s) when HE brings you together, rather there will be thanksgiving from you & your spouse individually & collectively to HIM everyday. Please do not flinch in faith that God shall provide for you, Heb.10:35-36.
---Adetunji on 11/17/09


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I humour myself with this. "The one God has planned for me is so special thats its gonna be worth the wait"

My only concern is Im almost at the big 4-0 and wonder how many years Ill even have with the one that is to be my wife.

I was married from age 25-30 and she had an affair and divorced me. Now Im 37 and still single so I know what you feel believe me. At times Ive even been frustrated with the Lord because its taking so long. I just keep crying and praying and He always gives me strength.
---JackB on 11/16/09


Maybe the man God has for you just isn't ready yet. In the mean time, work on yourself. I know that I FEEL like I'm ready to be on my way, romantically. But there's always something in the way. So rather than despair, I take a look at myself, and work on making myself a gift to my future husband. I work on my character, I seek God's purpose in my life. Because that purpose, for all of us, is more than just getting married someday. God's timing is better than mine or yours. He knows what he's doing. Take comfort, and concentrate your efforts somewhere else while you're waiting. Good luck! God bless.
---Awkwardstranger on 11/16/09


God is so good i was just siting here thinking i should just give up looking. and i came on here and i read what you guys said, and i feel so much better.this is a nice net.
---shannon on 9/22/09


I read a great book by a christian psychologist (Henry Cloud) called "How to get a date worth keeping". It talks about getting out there meeting guys and building your confidence up. As a result of the networking skills I developed I introduced a couple of my christian friends to christian guys I had met (but weren't the right guys for me) and 2 marriages resulted.
---karalyn on 8/4/09


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Angea:-You want a husband well pray look around and go shopping for one but dont be ready to give up yourself and your scruples.Write down what you desire in looks In Behaviour in integrity steadfastness,see if He can stay the course are his values the same How does he stand up to pressure.and How willing is HE to be patientLook into his eyes to see the desires of His soul Then ask Jesus what do you Think Lord will he stay the courseThen ask Him similar questions If He loves you and is honest and agreeable to your Blueprint of 'OUR' lives Then Fix a date with the understanding. This contract is undisolvable if He agreesw accept Himhis ring and May God Bless you both This is a one way street no uees allowed.Good luck.
---Mic on 1/20/09


I have often asked myself these questions and more. And to be honest some people are made for marriage, and you sound like one of them. So I think what is happening is that God wants you to learn to lean on Him and trust in Him that He will find Mr. Right for you. One of the things that really helped me was reading a book called Authentic Beauty by Leslie Ludy and her sister in-law was asked if she ever thought she was going to get married and she gave the most unique answer that has stuck in my head ever since I read it. here it is, "Someday I may be called to be married but today I am called to be single."
Meditate on that and ask God to show what it means and it should bring you peace.
God bless
---Sammy on 1/17/09


First of all, the Word of God tells us that when a man "FINDS" a wife he finds a good thing and obtaineth favor of the Lord," so your not suppose to be looking for him he is going to find you. Fall in love with Jesus "first" then he will send you your soul-mate because then he won't become you idol in place of GOD.
---Corlynn on 1/16/09


Biblically speaking, woman could be married to a man that already had a wife. Next will come all of the comments about multiple wives being a sin even though GOD himself never/ever called it a sin. Kind of adding to the rules like the so called religious leaders of the old.
---carl on 1/5/09


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that kind of thinking didnt move God concerning those in the Bible who desperately wanted children but didnt have any.
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your situation in itself does not move God. what moves God is the prayer of faith based on His word. and praising God for the benefits of the single life that you have.
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find scriptures concerning marriage and having a good Christian husband and develope your faith. seek God diligently, cultivate a grateful attitude and God promises that you will be rewarded.
---opalgal on 1/1/09


The word of God says we should delight ourselves in the Lord and He will give us the desires of our heart. Be patient if it is Gods will He will bring you the right person. I had a friend pray for his mate for a year and now they are getting married in Oct 2009. Nothing is impossible with God.
---Sonya on 12/31/08


I understand your frustration. I have been alone for almost 7 years and I am waiting for the man God has for me. Please consider this, there is freedom in waiting. You are free to live your life in the way God wants you to live it. You are free to do things that married women cannot do without consideration of their spouse. Use the freedom in waiting that God has given you. Trust and believe that in God's perfect timing, he will give you the husband who you desire. All gifts from God is truly worth the wait.
---D on 12/30/08


Why did the Israelites have to wander in the wilderness for 40 years-because of griping and complaining, if they had thanked God and praised Him for the blessings He gave them, they wouldn't have had to wait so long. Many times this is why it takes so long for our blessings to come about.
---PAT on 10/24/08


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it's difficult to find a good christian man because most of them are only semi christian. i'd be so happy for you to find that everlasting joy of finding a true christian man, but we'd have to wait for christ to come back, for the rest all lack a little to alot.

alra
---anita on 9/9/07


who told you that you have to remain single?you know that if you desire to be married, God will provide for you. It has never been Gods will for anyone to remain alone and like a wasted desert. Have you asked God for a husband? Realise to that there are not too many men who want commitment these days or who are even Godly, so it will tkae time and patience, dont rush it.
---susanna on 5/8/07


May God bless you.

Maybe you could examine yourself in the light of the scripture to check if you are the woman of virtue God wants you to be for his servant. Assuming that he is a man of God, you are supposed to be a blessing for him, right?

I'll be praying for you, that you get ready very soon to receive the one from God.
---Vanessa on 12/26/06


Angea, there is no need for you to feel frustrated and discouraged about not finding a lifepartner. I am single too, and never married. Also, I am 50 years old, but, I firmly believe in Matthew 6:33. Angea, please also read Phil 4:6-7. Believe strongly that God has created someone just for you. When you rise each morning, thank the Lord, for, with each passing day, the day is nearing, when this special person who is to be your lifepartner is going to meet you.
---Christabel on 8/28/05


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waiting is hard. I'm waiting for my next call as wel as a wife. the important thing is to be ready for Christ when He comes again. as paul says the unmarried care about the things of God 100%. the married have to split there time in order to please a mate. see 1 Corinthans 7.
God has given you what you need to praise His name and will give you a mate if you need one in His time.
---Robert on 8/15/05


hi friend, just to say u are not alone out here. i have been seeking God and standing in faith for a marrage partner for 3yrs now. sometimes it can be very frustrating.
---david on 8/15/05


I didn't read the other responses, but Paul says, whatever state you find yourself, find contentment. You have to learn how to be happy by yourself, just enjoying your salvation and spending time with God to truly appreciate the man that He has in store for you. When it is time, God will send him your way but until then, keep pressing toward the mark of the high calling which is Christ Jesus. Seek ye first the kingdom of God and all His righteousness, then ALL these things shall be added unto you.
---Chosen on 8/5/05


God does not want you to remain alone, all you need is to listen to what he says, you know the problem is that people have set standards for God, careless statements like 'unequally yoked' cloud our fair judgement on spouse to be, your hubby to be might be someone out of christian circles but you might be the link to his conversion. Look at the wonderful work God did with Moses, Saul(Paul) who among today's Christians would have loved them given their upbringing.
---runya9977 on 8/5/05


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I'm here waiting to water some camels,also,Angea! Keep the faith,sister...and fall in love all over again with Jesus.He's got your future in His hands,dear.
---lovable_linda on 8/2/05


You do not have to remain single. Do you date? Friendship with the opposite gender usually precedes marriage. If you come on to strong, then you may be scaring the guys off. Most guys don't want to hear about marriage until you become good friends first. Pray about it, and God will help you. There are alot of singles available, as i myself am one.
---Eloy on 8/2/05


i completely agree w/ andrew-enjoy ur singleness while u can. there is a reason for everything that happens, no coincidences w/ God. for now-focus on becoming ms right while waiting for mr right.
---lisa on 8/2/05


Angea, I believe pierr has a great answer. All you have to do is make friends. Enjoy their company but keep your focus on God. I know after you meet someone you like you will began to get personal, and not speak about God anymore. Don't do that. Keep Him first and work through God all the time. Just be you and you will see that you will meet someone that God has for you. I believe all one has to do is walk by faith that God will come through for us. And God is faithful for He gets the glory in the end.
---lupe2618 on 8/1/05


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Only God knows His plan and all you can do is wait for things to happen in His time. Remember, nothing happens without a reason behind it and God never DOESN'T help one of His children-we're simply not always meant to know why or from what. As unpopular as this always is, not everyone is meant to be married-God needs some people to remain single to successfully complete His plan for them. Just remember Who always has the Perfect answer and trust Him.
---Heather on 8/1/05


There is hope! Our widowed friend who is in his early 50's often wondered if God had a woman for him. When we moved to the state where we live now he came with us to help start a church. We visited a church and he met this great lady. She is in late 40's and never married and saved herself for marriage. PRAISE THE LORD! They've been married about four months now and they are perfect for each other.
---Sally on 8/1/05


i am a man who is looking for a loving christian wife as well. however, i haven't found it yet. if you ask me am i feeling stress out because of this? no, enjoy singleness first while you are single, then someday we will find the right one. i mean some day.
---Andrew on 8/1/05


, seek and ye shall find.
---steve on 8/1/05


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So, chin up, and click over the PROFILES on line and happy hunting!
---Pierr7958 on 8/1/05


Can you believe that God IS helping you, Angea? He may be saving you from some bad decision. Are you willing to allow Him to be God of your life? Indeed, you should cry out to the Lord your heartbreak, but the bottom line is that God knows what's best for us. Not our will but His be done! If He wants you to have a "good Christian husband", nothing in this world can stop it!! Blessings.
---Elsie on 8/1/05


my husband and I have a precious friend. He is 42 and never married. He prays God will send him a wife. He is special and deserves a special wife-from God. So, you are not alone.
---shira_5965 on 8/1/05


Angea7453 ...
Maybe the Lord is wants to use you as a single person frist. Or maybe He is working on and in the person, getting them ready to mary you. Or maybe he wants to work in you for them. Be willing to follow God leadings, He may lead you to bump into him. Let Him work it out for you. He loves you and understands what you are going through.
---linda3939 on 8/1/05


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You must get out and do your part in this husband hunting expedition. Where are you hunting? Desireable partners are not out in the street with a sign on them. They are in the workplace, in churches, in singles groups, in schools, in auto repair, home repair and clubs with common interests. God will help but you must do your part too. There are too many unyoked and misyoked partners because they do not get out. Think of the example of the seeds being planted in various soils with various results.
---chuck on 8/1/05


Matthew 6:33
---Leon on 8/1/05


How do you know God is not helping?
He knew who you would be with before you where born. You need to learn to be content in yourself and in being alone before you can be ready for marraige.
God may still be preparing you or someone else to be your partner.
If you want right one you will wait in God's timing not your own because God does what is best for his children who leave the choices to him. You are not only one alone everyone has to wait and best relationships are those which waited on God
---Marla on 8/1/05




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