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Women Want An Immediate Answer

I work a very demanding job that takes a lot of my time. Many women on this site seem to get upset if I don't respond to an email within hours or by the following morning. Give us a chance - try to understand our stressed lives too!

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 ---dave on 8/10/05
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I guess I approach the penpal site with a bit of a pessimistic attitude...I send a note with no expectations of getting anything back...if I do, it's a wonderful surprise, but if I don't, I'm not disappointed. I totally understand the way you feel. No pressure on anyone from this end here. God bless.
---Ann5758 on 9/14/08

May I make a suggestion: for all of these impatient women, get fruitful, if you belong to God and leave the poor man alone. If you are not God's woman, I feel for you.
---catherine on 11/21/07

Hello Dave,
I don't know about the other women, here on this site. But, i understand what you are saying. Because, i work a very demanding job also. And, i don't always have the time to get online everyday. So, don't give up. There is some, who know, what you are going thru.
God Bless You,
---Ruby on 11/21/07

So Dave, Are things better for you now, than they were in 2005?
---Cynthia_1 on 3/28/07

so why dont you write to one woman only and then to another if previous realtionship didn't work. if you write to many women at the same time you feel that way but giving short reply when you write to one woman the same day is not difficult..
---Kasia on 3/28/07

This strikes me! I always need an answer, an immediate one. I am a teacher thus, I am used to have my questions be answered right away. I could not leave a question hanging because the answer to the question makes someone learn.
---bebet3754 on 3/27/07

Bravo, Dave! Just imagine if you were dating or even married to any of the women you are talking about. You would be hearing about a whole lot more than just emails.
---ralph7477 on 3/27/07

I believe that many people on the website depend so much on the web. They meet someone and they are right on it learning about the other person. I have friends that I have written for over four years. And we study, pray and learn together. I know what they are going through and when they lose a love one. Their pain and they know mine. We are all very close. If I ever meet them I know they will love me, cause I sure love them. They are just great people. I pray for the best in their lives.
---lupe2618 on 8/18/05

Hey Dave, just ignore them. I have done that many times.
---shira_5965 on 8/11/05

Just so things are not one sided. I have had men do the same to me. if I do not immedietly answer they send me a note saying "why have you not written me for so long" when they only wrote me a few hours before. I understand how irritating this can be, weather a man or a women.
I am a single mom and giving time to my son comes before emailing people.
some people need to learn a little patience.
---Marla on 8/10/05

I agree with the last person who posted. I feel it would be more courteous and respectful to the other person if you make it known beforehand that your schedule makes it difficult to respond in a timely manner. This way, the person doesn't have to guess why you haven't written.
---Jackie on 8/10/05

Why don't you put up on your profile that your schedule is a killer and don't be upset if you don't get a return answer as quickly as you would like?
---Auror3743 on 8/10/05

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