How To Find The Right Woman
I am a 26 year old man. I am still abstaining and waiting for the right woman of my life. How would I know that she is the right partner and how long should I wait? Will God give me the material to sustain her?
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---benjamin on 9/1/05
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Benjamin, you should talk to Sharr! Your ages are perfect, maybe your personalities would be too! More widows than widowers, because women have a few years longer life expectancy. I think its wise for a woman to marry a younger man!
Oops, I never tried playing matchmaker on here before!
---NVBarbara on 9/10/05|
Thank you so much for letting me know there are Christian men willing to live God's way. I too am abstaining and waiting for the husband God has for me. I am 32. My time is getting more limited to have children, so I grow anxious, but still I know the Lord will give me the desires of my heart. You are not alone in your impatience or your standards.
---Sharr4753 on 9/9/05|
The bible says, "whosoever findeth a wife findeth a good thing", wait on God Benjamin, the bible als says, "seek the Lord and He will bless you with the desires of your heart" You are desiring a wife, He will soon bless you with one...A GOOD ONE, only if you do it God's way.
---kayde on 9/6/05|
God bless you my brother. The bible tells us not to be anxious or to worry about any situation.
It tells us also that those who wait upon the lord shall renew their strength, they will mount up like eagles.
I started to pray for myGod given wife in 1989... i took my eyes off and met someone who i thought was the one... however after some 7 years God is now rewarding me with his choice.
Wait.. pray about those females who come.. remember satan is like a roaring lion seeking who he may devour.
---guyiyae on 9/4/05|
What are wonderful gift that you'll be giving your wife to be.
---EJ on 9/4/05|
Wait as long as it takes for God to put that special someone into your life. Wait for God's time not your own and God will bless and sustain you.
---Marla on 9/3/05|
Benjamin, it sounds as if you are becoming anxious about finding a woman. Don't be willing to settle. I've been through it all and the unfortunate fact is that you can almost never truly know who is the right one for sure. Love eliminates fear but it also clouds judgement. Spend some time reading postings on this site from women who want out of their marriage or advise getting out of a marriage for all sorts of reasons other than adultery.
---ralph7477 on 9/2/05|
It is very inspiring to see how you are honoring God by abstaining. As the Bible says God is faithful to those who are faithful to Him. And "in all things God works for the good of those who love him" (Rom 8:28). Take Abraham's faith, against all the odds he obeyed God and was rewarded 100 times over. For now, go after God with all you got and when she comes, you will know coz God wil reveal it to you and provide all other needs.
---tracy5858 on 9/2/05|
you will know in your heart.butterflies in your stomach are sign of true love.
---mary on 9/1/05|
Hi there, I think it's just wonderful that you are waiting until marriage to have sex. That is very honoring to God and to the girl that will be your wife. Are you looking for a girl who is also abstaining until marriage? You should. Anyway, I think you will just know when it's the right one. Perfect love casts out all fear.
Twenty six is not that old, especially when you're 45 like me.
Good luck to you. Keep looking up and He will take care of the rest.
---Connie on 9/1/05|
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