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Husband Left Me For A Man

I have great hurts as my husband left me and the kids for another man.

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 ---inez on 9/29/05
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Inez, you are in my prayers. You will get through this, and you'll be stronger for it.

Your husband has done you a favor by telling you the truth. When you are ready, you are free to have a life with someone who is crazy about you. God is!
---deb on 4/3/08

My prayers are with you. What a heel.Most likely he was gay before the marriage. He was trying to come to grips with it before he married probably. You are not alone.Be encouraged and let the Lord help you through this very lonely time. God bless you my friend.
---Robyn on 4/3/08

I am so sorry this happened...but praise the Lord anyways, praising him in bad times is the highiest form of praise. when I read what you wrote the first thing that came to my mind was he wasnt your soul mate. also I put myself in your shoes for a second and said, I would be thankful if he left cause what if he was practicing it out side the marriage and gave aids to you. but still pray for him, he is weak and gave over to the seducing spirits. God's divine will be done in this situation.
---Jan4876 on 4/3/08

Inez, I cannot imagine being in such a horrid situation, I feel for you.

You husband married you under false pretences, one does not turn gay as part of a midlife crisis. You have grounds for an annulment which would be as if the marriage never happened in the first place.

This will be hard on your children but I hope that you will have the support of your Christian community.
---lorra8574 on 3/29/07

We are clearly admonished by the Lord, to refrain from certain behavior. What God calls Sin is contrary to what is Holy of God. Strict rules are stated not to "lie with a man as one does with a woman"
(Leviticus 18:22); We also read this warning, "since this Man is my guest,Don't Do this disgraceful thing" (Judges 19:23). Men were not following what was Holy, but lusted after their own desire. God's Will is not our Own.
---rosem4839 on 3/29/07

I have a few clients who this has happened to. What I can say to you is this, do not look at yourself as less of a woman or the cause of his decision. The mistake lies with him and sin. Welcome to contact me. Junia 6337
---Junia on 3/28/07

Inez, I am sorrowful of heart that this has happened to you. I pray that the comfort of the Holy Spirit would grant you the peace that passes all understanding and you would experience the love of Christ that passes knowledge.
---Linda_Smith on 3/28/07

Inez... be strong my friend! I can't imagine the pain that you are going through right now.. it must be awful. But please remember that we are here for you, you are not alone!
Hang in there...
---Alex on 9/30/05

The Lord told me by your testimony they will be set free.My deceased spouse had this sin too.God tried to protect me with separation many times. I finally gave it to God.It was never about our relationship with God but mine alone. The battle is the Lords. Pray for him.My husband was infected with HIV and Hep C. I was completely protected from both these deadly diseases. God has done miracle after miracle since his death. Do you now see how Daddy God is taking care of you. Be obedient, pray for his soul.
---kathy_ramona on 9/30/05

Am sorry that happened to you.All things work out together for good to them that love the Lord Sister take heart and Look upon the cross..Bancy Kenya
---Bancy on 9/30/05

all things work together for the good of them who love God and are called according to his purpose. Be thankful he is gone.
---shira_5965 on 9/30/05

Sister Inez, I am so sorry for what happened to you. I mean the why. I believe it was good that he left because it could be that God wanted your safety and your families. I don't have any idea how you feel. No one knows but you. You have all of us and many here will be willing to help you. We are one body and when a part of that body hurts the others feel it and want to help. God will carry you through it all.
---Lupe2618 on 9/29/05

Count Your Blessings & get medical tests for all! "Nothing new under the sun...", you've got company!


God's Best!
---bob6749_[Elishama] on 9/29/05

I would say that he has committed adultery ... and that you are therefore free to divorce him.
---alan8869_of_UK on 9/29/05

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