Praying For A Soul Mate
I have been praying to God for so long to send me a soulmate, I am 30 and still single, of course by accepting someone more than 30 years older than me is weird, and is it impossible for us to find a soulmate if we are very specific in our needs. Am I too choosy in looking for a soulmate?
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---Cherry on 10/21/05
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NO NO NO!!! You cannot be too choosy! In fact you misu be picky!! Tell God exactly what you want in a mate-if you are too vague it wont work. You CAN have the man of your dreams! Read Yonggi Cho's book caled 'the fourth dimension' and Frederick C K Prices's book called 'answered prayer-guaranteed.' You need to list all the qualities you would like in your mate-your list cannot be too long and it can have silly little details on it too-if they are imporatnt to you then write them down! Then you must feel wonderful and thankful that God is going to send this person to you. There is more detail in the books but I just had to share that with you! If you feel miserable about not having someone then they wont show up. |
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---Bekah on 9/13/09 |
I believe that we are allowed to be specific to God, but be open to His will. Ask God for direction and wisdom is your mate selection. Do not go ahead of Him even though you feel like you're getting older. Our time is not God's time and just as He kept His promise to Abraham about a son, He will do the same for you because all you have to do is ask and wait patiently on the Lord. He will give you desires of your heart. God bless! |
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---Keesha on 10/24/08 |
Bible: Delight youself in The Lord and HE WILL give you THE DESIRES of your heart, When we give gifts from our hearts to those we LOVE..we give them what we know they want....and also knowing that it will not HARM them. Be specific! God's LOVE is greater than ours. EX: I want my mate to be tall, dark and average to handsome....A BORN AGAIN, spirit filled and engulfed in Biblical knowledge. |
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---Bobbie on 9/4/07 |
Check inside and see if maybe you're a bit afraid of love--emotional blocks can delay a soulmates arrival. Make a list instead of three of your greatest fears about falling in love with the wrong person. And let the fears go or ask God to erase them from your subconscious memory. There is a great book out called Divine Complement--all about soulmates. It spells out the psychological road blocks that can keep soulmates apart. |
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---Ariadne on 10/8/06 |
I made a list of what I wanted in a soulmate. Then I added..God, this is what I think I want but you know what I need in a man. Thank you for bringing me the man you have for me when we are both ready...Do not settle for less. You will know when it is the right one. It's worth the wait. |
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---Terry on 8/10/06 |
I came on ths site to see if anyone has any answeres to this age old question. I am 39 and i have been married before and God has spoken to me and told me he already had a mate for me but I think the hard part is the waiting. I find myself haveing feelings for a person that is in my life but am not sur eif he is the one or not. I guess how do you know? |
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---Stephanie on 4/17/06 |
Hi the one good piece of advice i can give you is stop looking because a woman is not suppose to look for a man. proverbs 18;22 who soever findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtain favour of the lord. You are the favour and he needs to find you. Don't become like potiphar wife, chasing after a man.I have been single for almost 6yrs. Its not easy but I want god to pick him. what i pick is a hot mess. find something to do to take your mind off it. like Ruth work and he will come. |
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---towan9767 on 11/22/05 |
I am single too, and never married. For several years I advertised in the matrimonial columns of newspapers, magazines, etc., until I realized that I needed to totally surrender this area of my life to Jesus. I asked Jesus, in faith, to send me my lifepartner. I believe God has already created him for me, and even if he is presently somewhere at the North Pole, God will guide/send him to me, IN HIS TIME ALONE. So, ask our Lord, have faith and hope, Cherry. He will answer your prayer made in faith. |
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---Christabel on 10/27/05 |
I am living proof that God has a soul mate for us all.
No, you are not wrong in being choosy. Start praying specifically for him. I started praying for my soulmate at 15 years old and on a beautiful Sunday evening there he was in a teal jacket, matching tie, and khaki pants leading my favorite hymn Marching to Zion. 1 year later he proposed in front of the whole church! On August 28, 1999 we said I do he was 30 years old!
Have hope sister!
Blessings,
Alicia |
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---Alicia on 10/22/05 |
Thank you everyone for the feedback. I really appreciate it. Definitely, I will do that and I am one of the members and I hope that I will find my soulmate here. God Bless!!! |
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---Cherry on 10/21/05 |
Cherry ... I agree with Pierre on this one.
God gives us brains, emotions, and these will help us find a partner. God will not just send your future soul-mate knocking on your front door! If you expect this, maybe you are both sitting at your separate homes, waiting for that knock, and you never meet each other! Why not sign on the PenPal section here, and check out the men on this site? |
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---alan8869_of_UK on 10/21/05 |
Cherry, I'm not so sure there is such a thing as being too choosy in this area. I've heard a few testimonies about this particular subject and the women giving them encouraged being specific. They said they were and God sent men into their lives (their now husbands) who were specifically what they'd prayed for. And if it makes you rest any easier, I'm 31 and still single (I've managed to recognize some specific reasons for this). |
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---Heather on 10/21/05 |
Why be so choosy. God is known to be an almighty God he knows who and what is right for both our spiritual and emotional lives. Why not have the confidence and trust in the Lord and believe that he will not dissapoint you when he will give you that special someone. What if God has a different plan for your life and wants to use you for his will and needs you to be still so that he can manifest his glory on you. Be reflective and Godly trustworthy. He will not dissapoint you. God bless you. |
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---Erica on 10/21/05 |
I believe that what you ask GOD is what he's going to give to you,but you have be patient and trust in him for he cannever disappoint you.But dont be too choosy. |
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---francisco on 10/21/05 |
There is nothing wrong with being choosy. Why would you ever settle for someone? The Lord knows the desires of your heart. Just keep living for the Lord and He will direct you to the right person, place and time. When you get to the point that it's no longer the main priority in your life, that's usually when you end up meeting someone! |
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---Cathy_Y on 10/21/05 |
God didn't send me my soulmate/spouse until I was 44. Patience is hard, but God's timing is perfect. Never a second too late or too early. |
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---clark on 10/21/05 |
I honestly don't believe that God picks and sends life partners. I believe that He will give you all the help you need to find that person but you have to look and eventually make the choice yourself.
Start by looking right here in the Profiles!
Best wishes, Pierre |
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---Pierre on 10/21/05 |
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