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Gave Myself To Men And Women

I abandoned my marriage to a great husband who loved me tremendously and gave myself to sin and adultery with men and women. Should my husband take me back?

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 ---Regiane on 10/29/05
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Hello,you know this happens,more often then we want to know. I had been married such same type person. He was not honest nor repentant.He ruin my life. I got saved after so much pain 'n hurt. It been many years ago. He is dead now. I believe the lady here is truly sorry,becuz it's hard to revealsuch intimate details about one self here unless,she really repentant. I try not to judge no one. I hope things went well and God bless them both,If they got bk together or husband went his way. Thankyou for sharing! Maybe helped someone... Love of Jesus!
---ELENA on 4/26/12


Unless in matters of Adultery is a clear teaching. or will God keep the victim victimised also from his word? He came to set people free, not to condemn them. and moreover i do believe that the directions in 1 Tim 3.1 also talk about divorce and remarriage so one may remarri, yet looses every right of ministrie in such a case. Paul also sayd that it is better to remmarrie then to burn. (last time i looked all pauls letters wher in the bible.
---Andy on 1/2/09


The Bible reads when a divorce can happen. However,after the divorce it does not state the person can re-marry. Death is the only thing that clears a person to re-marry, otherwise the person lives in adultry with who ever they marry after a divorce.
---Mike_Sr. on 12/3/08


Your husband has every right too keep you out of his life, evenb when you repented your sodomie. He has the right to marrie whoever he wants.
yet when he is born-again he might concider the option of forgiving and reconciliating. However I would not recommend it to him.
---Andy on 12/2/08


I was in the same situation except I was still in my marriage. I made a promise to God that if he said I was to reveal my infidelity then I would. Well he used a bible study I was in to tell me, without a shadow of a doubt, that I had to tell him I had been unfaithful. I had prayer warriors all over my town praying at the moment I told him. The response could only have been from God. He was not mean nor did he blow up or cry. He did not touch me for 13 days but he spoke kindly. We are still together 4 years later! I know you are thinking that your husband is not like that, I was right there with you, he is NOTHING like that. But I found out he is, through God. Bless you!
---Shaunna on 9/9/08




Your husband has no obligation to take you back, of course. There is one person who will never leave you, who will always seek you and seems to have found you. If you are truly repentant, God is quick to forgive you, and you are translated into the community of Christians and the blood of Christ has washed you completely clean again. You need to get yourself into a church and start to put your life back together again. At this point you need to get with other believers and repentant sinners. Don't even think about whether your husband wants you back. If he wants you he will find you. Especially if he has your phone number.
---frances008 on 9/8/08


scripture says that it is up to your husband if he accepts you back. But he has that choice not you. (1)God hates divorce, (2)Jesus said there are only two ways of divorce: Death, in which no one has a choice. And sexual immorality, where it is the choice of the spouse that it was committed against,(your husband) to accept or reject your apologies. But First seek forgiveness from God, you committed a crime against Him first, then ask your husband for forgiveness. God doesnt want him to divorce you But, it is his choice. By God's word, the Bible, he is free and clear to divorce you.
---steve on 9/8/08


Regiane:I do not know you but for you to make such a Public declaration shows you are sorry.Since You were bonded as 2 in one flesh to the man who adored you. You will have to seek 1.Gods Mercy 2 Your husbands forgiveness in order for you to obtaion His Mercy as in 1.The desire to change lies within you, this you have to prove to yourself, your God, and your husband.May peace reign in your heart is my wish to and for you, as you seek this goal.
---MIC on 9/8/08


You need to be saved,sanctified and filled with the Holy Ghost. You are in a very poor and unstable condition. You also need very quick medical attention. You are drowning in your own darkness,sin and shame. Now you want to go back and drag your poor husband down with you. This is so sad. I would not even consider this if I were the spouse.
I would forgive but I could not open myself up to you ever again. Too risky.Too toxic,too dangerous.
Please get yourself some help before it is too late.
God bless
---Robyn on 9/8/08


Are you sorry enough to quit messing around? If the answer is yes, then may be! He will have to decide not I or anybody else.
---Pierre on 9/8/08




If my wife did this, was repentant and wanted to return, I think I would take her back. I don't think there is any sin that cannot be forgiven by God or people (with God's help). However, I don't think it would be a sin for your spouse NOT to take you back. Adultery is a biblically acceptable grounds for divorce and some people just might be unable to recover from it. I wish you and your husband all the best.
---steve on 9/19/07


This is just my opinion: IF my husband did something like that to me.....NO-WAY would I ever take him back!! I know God forgives, but I dont think I could. Not something as sick as that! I would be thinking of the possibility of diseases,,Sorry, just my opinion. Get help.
---pl on 3/26/07


This is just my opinion: IF my husband did something like that to me.....NO-WAY would I ever take him back!! I know God forgives, but I dont think I could. Not something as sick as that! I would be thinking of the possibility of diseases,,Sorry, just my opinion. Get help.
---pl on 3/26/07


I am sorry to hear you gave up a loving marriage for adultery. The question should not be "Should my husband take me back?" It should be, "How do I repent and get right with God?" Have you repented and given your life back to God where it belongs?
---Madison on 10/30/05


If your husband is a believer, then yes. You so wish to dwell with him. You will have to show yourself worthy and hopes that he will be able to our Lord's voice.

Remember, the calling of our Lord is unto repentance. Even Hosea took back Gomer after her many whoredoms.

If your husband, however, has divorced you and has found and married another woman and had a second divorce, then it would not be lawfull for him to take you back.
---David7647 on 10/30/05


yes i believe he should. Jesus said that divorce was given because of the hardness of mens hearts but in the beginning it was not so. paul said that you should be rejoined if the unbeliever choses to stay with thier mate. love and forgineness is God`s way
---tony8343 on 10/29/05


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yes i believe he should. Jesus said that divorce was given because of the hardness of mens hearts but in the beginning it was not so. paul said that you should be rejoined if the unbeliever choses to stay with thier mate. love and forgineness is God`s way
---tony8343 on 10/29/05


Have you repented and turned away from the sinful lifestyle? Wether he should take you back or not is up to him, but first before you even ask him, you need to be tested for std's.
---Melissa on 10/29/05


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