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Sister Is Dieing Of Cancer

What do you do when your sister is dieing with cancer and she is mad at you because of a no-nothing squabble? You call her at the hospital and she says "I don't want to talk to you"

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 ---BOBBY on 11/3/05
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Go to her bedside, with one single rose, and simply say, I love you more than you'll ever know.
---lynet on 4/30/07


I have a sister dieing of cancer also; we have not had words; but just being there for her, will make all the difference...you don't have to talk, just hold her hand, and tell her you love her. Good luck, and may God bless the both of you.
---pam on 4/29/07


Pray to God to prepare sister before you go to her. Holy Spirit will prepare her heart to hear what you have to say. Tell her you're sorry, no matter what she says to you at first. Ask her for forgiveness. When she offers you her forgiveness say that you love her and that all is right, not that you forgive her. Forgive her in your heart. It's not about you now, but her salvation. Tell her how much you love her, want her to go to heaven to be with Heavely Father. Talk about happy times that you've shared.
---EJ on 11/4/05


Pray for God's guidance and follow the path He lays before you. Giving your sister "space" is likely not a good thing at this point because you don't want to wait too long. Pray for Him to work in her life (He may well use you to do that).
---Heather on 11/3/05


Go to her, do not call her. Tell her you are sorry and needed to see her because you love her so much that you did not want to leave things in a bad way. Pray for her to soften her heart to you. God will tell you when to go. God Bless
---Robin on 11/3/05




No matter, if it's saying U R wrong, or U know that she is wrong, NOW's the time 2 try & put all of that aside. Is it going 2 matter 10 years down the road who was right & who was wrong, it is going against God, Bible or your Conscience, then U must do all that U can to re-gain the "peace that surpasses all understanding" both 4 U & your sister. Most of all, U don't want her 2 pass on carrying this, because then the closure process will be that much more difficult for you.
---Colleen on 11/3/05


First pray about the situation. Call her, go to her,but get the message to her and simply say, "I`m sorry", then YOU forgive HER for the anger she has toward you. Be genuine.. Remember, WE must forgive because God forgives us. Whatever happens beyond that is all up to God, but make your peace with her. Whatever she chooses to do is still her responsibility, and don`t let her actions dictate what You do. Be sure you have done all you can before she is gone.
---norma on 11/3/05


God is my source. Holy Spirit in me guides to talk and confess God's words because God knows she must cure from the disease. If she did not cure from the cancer I hope and sure we will meet her in the Beautiful Home. Anyway always that is hurting and hinderence for me in prayer. God only helps me to come out from that. But myself in my own wisdom I never forget.
---Margrateicsc on 11/3/05


Her emotional state is pretty sensitive at this point in her life so I believe the best route is to give her a little time,"and this too shall pass". And even if you know you are "right" about the situation in dispute sometimes it is better to be friendly than to be right, especially given her circumstances of health. a "maybe I came on a little strong on that one adn I'm sorry, would probably go a long way to reconciliation. Hope this helps. Von
---Yvonne on 11/3/05


God in Jesus name I pray for my brother Bobby that you would soften his sister's heart and reconcile the difference between them. I plead the blood of Jesus over both of them, and ask forgiveness for any sins that may be involved by either party. Amen.
---wes913 on 11/3/05




God is my source. Holy Spirit in me guides to talk and confess God's words because God knows she must cure from the disease. If she did not cure from the cancer I hope and sure we will meet her in the Beautiful Home. Anyway always that is hurting and hinderence for me in prayer. God only helps me to come out from that. But myself in my own wisdom I never forget.
---Margrateicsc on 11/3/05


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