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Take My Husband Back

Seven years ago we divorced. I haven't dated, he lived with someone. We were christians when married. He isn't now. Should I take him back? No one else is interested.

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 ---wondering on 11/16/05
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First question is do you love him? Yes or No? Second question, are you a Christian? The bible warns us about being unequally yoked with a non-believer why would you want to live with someone who wasn't seeking the face of God with you? I would ask you to pray and ask God what he would have you do. Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart. jeffe5543
---jeff on 12/12/07


3. We do know that God doesn't like devorce and wants us to be happy but sometimes He allows things in our lives because He knows what is in your future. He works through many to get word to you. In the end you will see His work in your life. Be as sincere as you can. Take a good look at the whole picture and by prayer you will get the answer. When you do, don't question yourself and trust that God is with you till everlasting. That He will see that you receive what is best for you. God really lives.
---Lupe2618 on 11/18/05


2. there answer might be the wrong one for your case. When a couple breaks up, it is because there was a problem, if the problem is still there then nothing has changed. You have to remember that we are human and make mistkes and sometimes big ones. your relationship with God is more important then anything no matter how things look now. It is between you and God and your husband has his own. Do what will give the most glory to God. Listen to Him in prayer
---Lupe2618 on 11/18/05


Wondering, I am sorry for what you have gone through. I believe this question has many questions to it. For one, if you take him back you will have to forgive him and put everything behind without bringing anything up of that time. Can you do that? Another thing if he comes back will he change? I have seen God do great miracles in marriages. But what if he comes back and you have more struggles? you will have made a mistake. No one really has a perfect answer for you. Some have gone through the same but
---Lupe2618 on 11/18/05


Yes I beleive i still love him as he is only man I have dated.married and been with. Yes I am a Christian. 1 Cor.7:11 says that spouse is only man I can be with.when you ask God in to your life you are saved and become a christian. he had done this. now he lives a life that is not christ like. foul langage, drinking, denys there is a God. he lived with some one he was not married to and made a baby. I have been praying for him, now says he wishes to come home.
---wondering on 11/17/05




Dear Wondering,he is still a Christian,he is a sheep gone astray,a prodical son,so to speak,if I were in your position I would pray for God to touch him and then watch what God does,if you are to get back with him God will reveal that to you.May Gods will be done.
---Russell on 11/17/05


I am with Madison, how did he stop been a Christian? It would seem to me that maybe he never was. Can you explain?
---Lupe2618 on 11/17/05


If you are a Christian and your ex-husband is not, then you have now got out of an unequally yoked situation. It would not be wise to go back to that state. God does not like unequally yoked marriage, nor does He like divorce but, as you have gone through both, He would not wish you to go back for a second round I'm certain.
---M.A. on 11/17/05


How does one stop being a Christian?
---Madison on 11/16/05


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