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Hard To Be A Christian

I have heard this phrase from some people, not here but others I know, they tell me that is is hard being a Christian. Why do you think, they think it is hard being a Christian? If their heart is right with God, then how could it be hard?

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Because we are human, we all want to be accepted and loved by everyone, its especially hard when u find other groups of ppl who are really nice and sweet and are overall good ppl, but not into the whole christianity thing. we are afraid of rejection and being alone and forfeiting certain intimate friendships that we know can make us happy, but what u should always keep in mind is that there is no greater love then Jesus' and even when the world tries to offer better or equal happiness, we need to show God just how much we believe in him by sacrificing certain things we may want, it hurts, but God will guide u through it and will show a better outcome than u expected. God doesn't want u to be unhappy,but rather get the best out of life
---anonymous on 9/10/09


I can FULLY understand that. Sometimes it is difficult to be a Christian. I've had a few times I felt like giving up, but (Thank you Lord) God helped me realize that what the world has isn't all that it's cracked up to be, and WHY would I want to even THINK about going back to empty tinsel and glitter, or self-absorbed mindsets? It was during these times that I grew stronger. Oftentimes, it would preceed a new and deeper, more spirit filled experience.
Isn't that what "Grace" is all about? Depending on God's sustaining power in His Word, In Prayer, In Fellowship, In Praise!!!
Dear Friend in Christ, Check out these verses...Galations 6:7, Matthew 11:28-31, or how about Jesus never leaving us, nor forsaking us, no matter what.
---timotheus on 10/7/08


richa6693
it's impossible to live life as a Christian, have you tried loving every neighbour or being holy?
Gal 2:20 it's no longer i who live but Christ who lives in me.
our life died and was buried, and was exchanged for the Christ Life.
we try and dig the memory of our old life up, instead of abiding in Jesus and let Him reveal His Life to a hurting world, through our mind will and emotions.
---richard on 10/4/08


Being a christian hard-"the process of denying yourself". Matthew ch13-14 -is this scripture really meaning its hard to be a christian or could it mean its easier to do wrong then to do right. According to 1john5:3 this is love for God: to obey his commands. and his commands are not burdensome(hard). Yes its hard because flesh or spirit is not made up.Is it hard to love? Then its hard to be a christian. I would think Jesus would say its hard to go through trials as a christian but easy if you know the cost and submit to the Father.It becomes easier as a christian when we know the father more and more because like Jesus he new the outcome.
---davidaloca on 9/26/08


Because it is! if you really follow Christ. It is impossible without the power of Jesus Christ. true Christianity is not a comfy religion.>>>>The devil will see to that!
---catherine on 8/27/08




Jesus always speaks clearly and hides nothing from us.
---Nicole on 8/26/08

Mans eyes are dim & there hearing is dulled from ALL the generations of traditions & laws that have been put in his place for salvation, "Again".

Jesus only spoke clearly to his D's, all others were spoken to in parables.

We(people in these times) have the advantage of reading what the D's wrote, which has made the word of God even clearer...

Like Peter & Saul said, Acts 15:20 & 29
---Duane_Dudley_Martin on 8/27/08


The Bible calls it the "Narrow way" for a reason. It's not easy to walk a narrow path.
---Paul on 8/24/08


Good point.

Jesus always speaks clearly and hides nothing from us.
---Nicole on 8/26/08


To be a real Christian costs you everything. Remember how Abraham had to choose between God and his only son? In other words, Jesus must be number one to you, before your spouse, before your children, before your family, before your career, before your home, before your church, before your possessions, even before your self. Jesus must be your Most Highest God. If Jesus is not first and your all in all, and mean more to you than anything else, than you cannot be his. Please Read- Mark 10:17-31+ Luke 9:57-62+ 14:26-35.
---Eloy on 8/25/08


The Bible calls it the "Narrow way" for a reason. It's not easy to walk a narrow path.
---Paul on 8/24/08


Temptations? Frustrations because other Christians don't see things the way you/I see them? Disappointments, when things that some promise don't happen? Being misled or caused to doubt or wonder, about false doctrines? Realising that you can't stop that sin? Illness, financial difficulty ... why doesn't God look after me?
---alan8869_of_UK on 8/10/08




duane, Yes, it's God's power that we must depend on & use in our life, daily. Faith without the power/unction of the Holy Spirit in our life is dead. Temptations lose their "appeal", when we depend on/use God's power, truly falling in love with Jesus(humility & a obedient heart/walking in the Spirit) is the key. (Colossians 1:10). God Bless!
---Mrs._Morgan on 7/26/07


**IF WE LIVE THROUGH FAITH, The christian life is joy, not hardship.
If we live through flesh, its impossible**

Awesome, true statement. However, becuase of the narrowness of love,...cont'd...
---OK on 7/26/07


2) until Jesus comes, the Christian walk also requires personal sacrifice and denial, that become the hard or challenging junctures of Christian walk, among the sweet and joyful ones. With our knowledge being limited, certain sacrifices will no doubt be painful, but at the same time gratifying in righteousness when we see that God is pleased because we obeyed.

The Christian life is sweet not hard, yet,
The Christian life is hard.
---OK on 7/26/07


Mrs. Morgan,
I agree with you...It is Gods power
---duane on 7/26/07


(Romans 11:21,22)(James 1:12-16,22).
---Mrs._Morgan on 7/26/07


duane, Faith without God's power, the Works of Christ/the Holy Spirit in ones life is dead faith(James 1:27). You seem to be a little different then some other OSAS false doct.supporters on CN(same goes with Pastor Herb),but there's a deadly confusion about Grace & the 2 types of works. We must have godly fruits, a good tree can't bear bad fruit & a bad tree can't bear good fruit. Jesus said those who love Him keep His Sayings(abide in Him/the Word), a must!
---Mrs._Morgan on 7/26/07


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Mrs Morgan,
I have read James and the rest of the books.
Nothing in any of them will shake the foundation of Christ that I rely on.
Im a forgiven saint, I know that...I have imputed righteousness, my sins are not counted against me. Sin has no power over me.
Dont you know,all flesh sins and sin shall not enter? How can man say he is saved, if sin is still counted against him? ..Jesus took sin away......
---duane on 7/26/07


I agree with Jay. He's also perceptive. I think that duane is a want to be. You can tell who is real and who isn't when your a Christian. These are just opinions now, so let the apples fall where they may.
---Gloria on 7/26/07


duane, Read the book of (James), okay?
---Mrs._Morgan on 7/25/07


I have been told before in these blogs that Im not saved...Even for saying Im forgiven always as a Christian...go figure...
---duane on 7/25/07


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Jay.......I do not believe that you are aware of what constitutes being a christian.
Brother duane is a child of God. Who are you to say who is a christian and who is not.
---JIM on 7/25/07


Prophets don't go around bragging that they are, and I believe that duane is a dreamer and a Christian want to be. I've heard it before. George seems pretty perceptive though. The dross will be cleaned off.
---Jay on 7/24/07


Amanda: Inner peace we do have as Christians, it's the other persons that make living a Godly life that's unbearable. What Godly person in the entire Bible had the easy life?
---Steveng on 7/23/07


IF WE LIVE THROUGH FAITH, The christian life is joy, not hardship.
If we live through flesh, its impossible.
---duane on 7/23/07


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Amanda>> I used to think like you because I was Christian only in word and not in Actions. Honey, being a Christian isn't just hard it is impossible. This is why Christ had to come down to the earth and live it for us, so that we could live it through him. However even with his spirit living within us we still have to struggle with our carnal nature. This is why Paul states that the good that I want to do, that I do not do.
---Marcia on 7/23/07


I have to say that it was always a sin to think about killing someone (or commiting adultery which was the example used), Jesus simply clarified that for us, he did not add to it.
---Amanda on 7/22/07


Also, I do not believe it is hard to be a Christian. First, God will not give us an unbearable burden. He promised to give us whatever strength we need to bear it. Second, I believe that some say it is hard to be a Christian because they are trying to be one by themselves, and not through God. I can imagine that task would be extremely difficult.
---Amanda on 7/22/07


Yes, it IS hard to be a Christian. Everything today seems to be against Christians when you think in worldly terms. In the OT it was a sin to kill someone, now it's even if you think about it. The apostasy happens when Christians cannot endure being a Christians any longer because of the tribulation/ adversity in their lives. This is especially true for the pre-trib Christians. It's the inner peace that God provides which makes us strong even when man kills the body.
---Steveng on 7/22/07


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are we nywhere promised aneasy life?we are to e3xpect trials BUT we have God's strengthto cope we have HIS peace which the unsaved do not therefore even in trouible we are blessed I am deaf and disabled and have lost a child so know about suffering God bless
---doree4573 on 7/22/07


Hello George ::wow are you on a rampage?Cathrine a prophet?, she is a narcissist?She used your name to prophesy.lighten up man .surely you dont mean all that you are upset.Cathrine you must be wrong .you seem to know more about her than most.Love is a soothing balm not anger .blessings
---Emcee on 7/22/07


No, and neither are you.
---George on 7/22/07


George are you a prophet?
---catherine on 7/22/07


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In the first place your heart right with God has absolutely nothing to do with it. However, the more obedient you are the more you will suffer. As far as the question reads: Ofcourse, It is not hard to be a true Christian it's impossible, without the help of the Person of the Holy Spirit.
---catherine on 7/21/07


catherine, as I said to you earlier, I have compassion for your family.
It's really hard on the family to live with a narcissist. This disorder does run in families and it's hard to treat. Most Narc's will not seek medical treatment. They are like a tornado that rips through a family, leaving a path of destruction every where they go.
---George on 7/21/07


For the record, catherine wrote those two posts using my name. It speaks of her character. She's pulled this before.
She is angry because I do not believe she is a messenger or prophet of God, not at all.
I do believe she is Christian woman with a testimony of Jesus Christ. We will probably never hear the real testimony because she would have to give up her prophet personality that she uses as a weapon against others for survival.
---George on 7/21/07


I asked the question, should we tell them the truth and risk the chance they might throw themselves into a walleyed fit. The answer was YES, that the truth will set them free. I will not enable catherine's prophet personality using curses to scare people to her authority. That is spiritual error, controlling and manipulative. I feel so sorry for her family members.
---George on 7/21/07


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Let us ask Jonah was it easy?

Let us ask Abraham, Jacob, and Isaac was it easy?

Let us ask Peter and Paul was it easy?

Let us ask David, Elijah, and Isaac was it easy?

Let us ask Celeb and Joshua was it easy?

Let us ask Jesus was it easy?
---Marcia on 7/21/07


Some here crack me up, even Herb. Yes, He makes our burdens light but we have to do our part as Christians and it's not always easy. I'm not talking just about temptations here either. Some must even die for the Gospel of Christ and that is far from easy. Even Jesus didn't want to do it, but never the less He agreed that God's will be done. If you think that being a Christian is easy, you better check your spiritual growth.
---John on 7/21/07


Let us go to the word and listen to the testimonies of those who have gone ahead of us.
---Marcia on 7/20/07


So much did I like this post by Rev. Herb I decided to post again."It is hard being a Christian if you try to be one under your own power. Jesus said that his yoke was LIGHT. "
---Rev_Herb on 7/20/06
---Mima on 7/20/07


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Its NOT hard being Christian if you believe the Gosple. Its very hard to live under law.
Jesus came and set us free but very few so called Christians really believe that.
---duane on 7/20/07


If you think that being a Christian is not hard, you are deceived and are not one. Get right with God before it's too late! The road to destruction is very wide and most will go there. Yes, most people on planet earth are going to hell, forever!
---George on 7/20/07


Marcia explained it well. It was hard for even Jesus.
---George on 7/20/07


I also have said that it is hard to be a christian but,when you are a young man.It is hard because of the many presures and temptations they face.The only way to make it kinda easy on that trip to glory is-not to depend on man and pray that God will give you strength,joy,faith, and understanding the whys of life.We must serve with boldness and trust that God will allways pull us through for the good.thanx!
---Annonymous_E on 7/20/07


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If you are trully living out your faith you will be persecuted, ridicules, slandered, cheated, lied about, and abused, I know this because all this and more has happened to me. Satin will do all he can to ruin your testimony. Nevertheless in I am and you are more then conquerers because of Jesus Christ who is our strength.

Yes it is hard, but it is worth it.

Narrow is the way that leads to Christ.
---Marcia on 7/19/07


It is not hard being a Christian at all, most of us do not want to give up any part of the world and that is why they say it is hard being a Christian.
---Alfreda on 7/19/07


It is not hard to be a Christian, It is impossible, without the help of the Person of the Holy Spirit. [Jesus]
---catherine on 6/22/07


Rebecca, it can take some years to mature. It is a learning experience. Once we understand that God can strengthen us to do all things that he expects of us we depend less on ourselves and more on Him. Those who believe it's too hard being a Christian most probably haven't reached that understanding yet. Tney don't run to God as they should when they are faced with unmotivation. Christs's commandments can be followed at all times, even easily, as long as we are walking in the Spirit.
---Matthew on 6/23/07


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Discipline is never easy. It goes againt our very nature and a christian is a disciplined learner. So if we choose to walk the ways of Christ, it will never be easy going. Jesus himself said that "In this world you will have troubles..." The beautiful this is that we have a High Priest who is touch with the feeling of our weakness. So be encourage saints and always remember Jude 24.
---Kevin on 6/22/07


Yes it is hard to be a Christian because the spirit and the flesh are always at war with one another. We can have joy in the Lord though. We'll need it because the Word of God tells us that the joy of the Lord is our strength.
---Peter on 5/24/07


So you people think it is hard to praise and worship God? To abide in him and he in you, is hard? To live right in the eyes of God is hard? The TRIALS are HARD to go through with. BUT SERVING GOD IS NOT HARD TO DO.
---Rebecca_D on 5/24/07


You can't deny it. If it's easy for you to be a Christian, you have not been sifted yet. Obeying God's laws are not greivious, but sometimes the trials we face are very hard. We have new decisions to make as Christians that the unsaved don't. I can testify that being a Christian is not easy, but the rewards are inconceiveable to us now.
---Bill on 5/24/07


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It is the most difficult job you will ever have. Hard it would be if it were not for Jesus Christ. Difficult at times you better know it is. I am hopeing these Christians you are referring to are not useing that as an excuse not to go on in serving the Lord thy God. Have a good day. ++
---catherine on 5/24/07


1. There are lot's of people who call themselves Christians, that only follow God in what they choose. Thus, they will tell you that it's easy to be a Christians. Sure it is, if you do that. The Holy Spirit will convict them of something that they should or should not do, and they will just ignore it. After awhile their heart will become callus and they will no longer hear God's warnings. Yes, for them it's easy to be a Christian. They are deceived. God is not mocked. There will be a price to pay.
---Nancy on 5/24/07


2. If your following Jesus, it will not be easy. That's the plan. You will be persecuted in different ways, according to Christ. Was it easy for Jesus? Are we greater then Him?
---Nancy on 5/24/07


The trials gets harder, when one does more for God. That is expected. What is so hard about living right for Christ? It isn't hard serving him at all. We make things harder on ourselves by not listening to God. I don't find it hard to live for Christ. The trials are what is hard. But if I keep my faith, God sees me through.
---Rebecca_D on 5/24/07


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I agree. We must crucify the flesh just as Jesus was crucified. He chose to go to the cross, just like we must choose to do right over wrong. If you think that's easy, then your not hearing God's voice or your resisting God's will. The trials will come, and the temptations will follow, and they are not easy. If you are Christ's child you will suffer, but only for a season, and God will reward you, if you indure and abide in Him. Those of you who say it's easy being a Christian, you better check your walk.
---John on 5/23/07


Yes indeed, being a Christian is hard. I didn't say it wasn't a joy. There is a difference. I just came back from a memorial for a wonderful brother in Christ who went home to be with Jesus. He led a humble life and glorified God through his obediance and suffering. It was anything but easy and he was an inspiration to me.
---Timothy on 5/23/07


It's not easy being a Christian. If you think that it is, something is not right, and your deceived.
---Jim on 5/23/07


I find it very difficult to be a Christian.
The more I desire to do for the Lord, the more harder it becomes. I try planning and the time is used up, I try waiting and I don't get around to it.
I have however learned to just stop, and make small steps in the new direction I need to go in. Otherwise I might get stuck:)
I've learned to (try to) laugh at myself, and take it easy while I'm living and working for God, and basking in His never ending labor of love.
---lynet on 5/23/07


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Timothy: It isn't hard being a Christian. How hard is it to worship, praise God? It isn't hard at all. The tribulations and trials we go through with is hard. I know the closer one gets to God and does more for God the harder the tribulations are. Paul said when I do good, evil is always present. The trials are hard, but being a true child of God isn't hard at all. And yes I am so truely a Christian. People believe it is hard being a Christian, as you claim, because you make it hard.
---Rebecca_D on 5/23/07


Rebbeca, Lean not on your own understanding. If you don't find it difficult to be a Christian, then you are not one. You may think you are, and are just going through the motions. I have been saved through Christ for 25 years and the closer I get to God the more the trials come. If it was hard for Jesus, Paul and other true Christians, then it will be for us likewise. Count the cost.
---Timothy on 5/23/07


Well honey. It is not for the faint hearted. You have to be totally committed to Christ. You cannot be straddled the fence like a lot of counterfeit christians. Either you are on God's side or you are not. A lot of people profess to be saved but are not. It stops right there with them. But getting saved is only the beginning. There's much more after that first step. No one ever said it was going to be easy. But it is a very worthwhile journey.It will pay off after while. Hold on to God's unchanging hand.
---Robyn on 5/22/07


Jesus Himself said it: "Strait is the gate, and narrow the way that leads to life, and few there be that find it." "Strait" is not the same thing as "straight" but means "difficult".
---Jack on 5/22/07


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Until one surrenders total control to Jesus and HIS word to lead one's life, it will be "HARD". When you tell God that you desire to live for HIM and HE should help you as it seems "hard" for you. At that instant GOD will send HELP to you and groom you to know the joy, peace and goodness of living that HE had designed for you & everyone.
---adetunji on 9/3/06


Rebecca, from what you said after I asked, i'll point out that some who call themselves Believers, really aren't. I met many like that while in the Navy! Instead of relying on The Spirit to live through them, either sinfully or because they never knew Him, their feeble attempts at living a 'good life' on their own were soon altered by peer pressure and various temptations. Some people are very fearful of losing their jobs, so do whatever they can to 'fit in' with the majority!
---danie9374 on 7/22/06


Rebecca, thats the hard part. Your flesh just loves to be in conflict with Gods word.Satan knows all your weaknesses and uses them against you, and your flesh is weak.Just get ill, or have marriage problems, or money issues, and on and on. Then see how much your flesh controls your mind away from spiritual thoughts.when you get oplder and you aches and pains stay all day, and your kids and grand children start having issues.Life Is hard , but harder without jesus.
---tom2 on 7/21/06


Sometimes doing the will of God is painful. Laying down our desire for His will can be extremely painful, but I found that when I did it, He gave me something even more beautiful, and now I wouldn't trade it for anything. Be encouraged. What can be hard and painful, God will turn it around for your good if you TRUST He'll do it and BELIEVE He'll do it....it takes time. Worship Him through it all, every day and it will seem easier.
---Donna9759 on 7/21/06


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About the time we think it is getting easier, Satan throws up a quick little temptation that catches us off guard. We should always be looking for Jesus' return and that will keep us sharp. It is a spiritual "battle" after all.
---Susie on 7/21/06


It shouldn't be hard to be a christian unless you turn loose of the plow, do a 180 degree turn, and focus on the beggerly elements of the world. I do not find it a hard thing. Not to say christians don't make mistakes, they do, but Jesus will forgive if you ask him.
---Truth on 7/21/06


Every man and women of God throughout the history of the world were persecuted in one way or another -- from Adam and Eve to Moses, Abraham, Isaac and David. All the prophets were not welcomed in their own land. So, why do Christian believe they will have it easy during these troubled times? If most Christians believe that the Rapture is to escape Gods wrath, why are the dead taken up? Paint your heart with the blood of the Lamb and youll be protected.
---Steven on 7/20/06


Jesus made it harder for Christians when not only if you DO the bad thing, but even if you THINK about it. It's even more difficult in today's world where everything catches your attention from News to advertisements, from TVs to computers, from an anti-social society to entertainment. Each is a temptation. Its hard NOT to think about bad things. Dont think about how to gratify the sinful nature Rom. 13:14; Say NO to ungodly passions Titus 2:11-12; Rom. 8:5-8; Matt. 26:41
---Steven on 7/20/06


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Romans:7:19:23

v 19
For what I do is not the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do this I keep on doing.
vs 23
But I see another law at work in the members of my body,waging war against the Law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within my members.
---Carla5754 on 7/20/06


It is hard being a Christian if you try to be one under your own power. Jesus said that his yoke was light.
---Rev_Herb on 7/20/06


These people I know that say this, they act like a different person when another Christian isn't around them. If a person was straddling the fence of good and evil then yes I could see why it would be hard to serve God. Even though I go through trials and tribulations, it is easy to be a christian, to serve God. I have temptation, but it isn't hard to resist that temptation. Maybe they think it is hard, I don't know why. Maybe the outer man is stronger than the inner man perhaps?
---Rebecca_D on 7/20/06


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