ChristiaNet MallWorld's Largest Christian MallChristian BlogsFree Bible QuizzesFree Ecards and Free Greeting CardsLoans, Debt, Business and Insurance Articles

Church Is A Waste Of Time

If one gets nothing out of going to church except wasteing two hours a week, why should one go? What do you get out of church that you can get without going?

Join Our Christian Penpals and Take The Apostasy Bible Quiz
 ---John on 7/29/06
     Helpful Blog Vote (18)

Post a New Blog



In general, the reason the institutional church is a waste of time is because people are supposed to do the work of ministry and not a caste of elite clergy.
The work of the ministry is a "one another" process. 58 times the NT says, "one another." Church provides a "from the clergy to the sheep" a one way process. The messages, in general, are directed to supposely make the listener a better person, if that church is lucky, but it generally does not teach the listeners how to do the work of the ministry to one another.
The church provides a very passive setting. Stand up, sit down, stand up, give your money, stand up, sit and listen, stand up, go home. Living for Christ is an active experience, or should be.
---Rod on 9/9/09


Steven I am well aware of the difference between a church, and the Church. I have been aware of this for many decades.

I have wondered if your avoidance of denominational churches stems from your desire to ba a loner, under no one's authority. Maybe in a denominational church your pet beliefs may be challenged. Mine are, and to the benefit of my spiritual growth.
---Warwick on 9/9/09


Warwick, it seems you have this mistaken definition of what a church is. The meaning of church is a lot different today than it was in Jesus' time. The churches mentioned in Revelation are not denominations as most christians believe, but locations of groups of christians. church is nothing more than people, God's people. Wherever two or more are gathered is a church.

Church today is more defined as a building ("Did you go to church today?"), a nonprofit corporation ("Our church is tax exempt."), or a denomination ("what denomination do you belong to?"). Christ is returning to join with (marry) his people - not a building, nonprofit corporation of a denomination.
---Steveng on 9/9/09


How much corruption can happen in 2,000 years?

Satan has had 2,000 years of infiltrating and corrupting the modern "church." Even when Jesus was alive the church, Christ's body of believers, was becoming corrupt. People today have slowly accepted the modern day (denominational) church. People join "churches that make them feel comfortable, that have a wonderful pastor, that include many activities, that include great entertainment, everything that they like but what is important - their eternal life. Most christian believe that a person must join a (denominational) church. Hogwash. All a person needs is a personal relationship with God - the same as having a personal relationship with an earthly friend.
---Steveng on 9/9/09


Steven churches are where mature Christians can and do help new Christians to mature.

Our pastor is of a different denomination and it matters not as we are, and he is, Bible based.

Our church is missionary oriented so obviously sends missionaries out. Also like any good church it aims to develop mature Christians who also become involved in various forms of outreach.

I believe churches are more divided by level of belief than denominational beliefs. It seems that many Christians here, come from 'liberal' churches which do not believe Scripture is God's absolute Truth. I could not in all conscience worship there.

Who says all churches are Christian?
---Warwick on 9/8/09




Denominational "churches" are detrimental to a maturing christian.

It forces people to become only hearers of the Word - not doers. What would happen to a church who grows apostles who go out into the world to preach the gospel - the kingdom of God? An empty church. If a christian of that denomination puts effort into it, then he is doing it by the traditions, ways of living and interpretations of the bible of that denomination - not of Christ.

Besides, if all christian churches are christian, why can't a catholic priest preside over a protestant congregation? why can't a Lutheran pastor preside over a Baptist congregation?
---Steveng on 9/8/09


Hebrews 10:24-25, Philippians 2:4.
Some principal reasons to fellowship with your brothers are to learn about the Lord, worship him in unity, to have an opportunity to apprehend and operate in ones office / gifts, and to receive ministry from others.
Titles Mathew 23:(10), 11, Acts 20:28, Ephesians 4:11, Philippians 1:1, 1Timothy 3:1-(12), 13, Titus 1:7, etc.
Diversities of gifts, ministrations, & workings: Acts 14:3, Romans 12:1-8, 1Corinthians 12 (4-11), 14:1-40 (3), Ephesians 4:11-16, Hebrews 2:4, 1Peter 4:9-11.
Ministries & Operations: 1Corinthians 12:27-30, 14:26, Ephesians 4:11, 5:19, Colossians 3:16.
---Glenn on 9/8/09


ARE you a Christian? Has your life been changed by Jesus who bore the penalty for your sins and stands ready to make you holy in the sight God?

If you can't answer an unqualified "yes", you probably will find little reason to go to church. And a church that doesn't help you come this this place, may well be little more than a tiresome repetition of prayers, hymns and sermons. If something in your heart reaches out to understand more of God...start reading the Bible. Ask God to show you a church that lifts up Jesus.

If you are a Christian, pray for a church where you are challenged as a Christian...get out of your comfort zone, get involved and MAKE your time there worthwhile.
---Donna66 on 9/8/09


Grace! My God truly loves, when you step into his house. Because there he can see you clearly, hold you in his arms. Kiss you, as even a mother with her children.
Its when you leave his house, you hide from him.


Now ye are clean through the word which I have spoken unto you.

I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing.

Herein is my Father glorified, that ye bear much fruit, so shall ye be my disciples.

So, when someone asks me! There is your church?
I just smile, look at your feet and thank God, for my lord!
God Bless
---TheSeg on 9/6/09


What we get out of church is what we put in to it.

God wants us to be actively involved with Him. We are saved by God's unmerited favour, but being God's workmanship we were 'created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.' Ephesians 2:10. Being a church-member is a God-given opportunity to serve.

As it is said churches are like hospitals, places where sick people go. In my church there are always people who need help, or friendship, or someone to talk to or someone to pray for them. Or all four!

We are to be givers not takers, servants not waited upon.

What a wonderful opportunity church attendance gives us to meet and serve our Christian brothers and sisters.
---Warwick on 9/6/09




I do agree with Susan on the blog. It is a privilege to be able to attend church. some people in other countries do not have this right. The church has deteriorated in the US. I do agree but it is still a place we can worship God and praise him for all that He has done and are doing in our lives. I try to participate in the service when I go. I like to clap,praise,worship, dance,read the bible, meditate and anything else to enjoy my God when I am there. I try to meet and greet others,be cordial and show love as Christ has shown to me.
Sometimes this is enough.
---Robyn on 9/5/09


Another view: Pastors and leaders have become so corrupt within the churches of God these days until people do feel church has become a waste of time. I have felt this way before but I refuse to let the Devil take me down completely. I still try to attend church on a regular basis.
Most members sit on the pews, wait to be entertained, give a small offering and then go straight home. This is the trend now. some do not speak to you,don't want to sit next to you etc..they don't clap and get involved in the service,at all.They don't have any sense of fellowship or show love to anyone.Some don't even bring a bible to church! How sad.
When church is over they head to their cars and feel they have done their Sunday duty.
---Robyn on 9/5/09


If youre church is not helping you grow nad you are not learning, then the correct thing to do is not to leave the church, but find a church that does help you grow in knowledge and fruits.

in all of the epistles paul encouraged and started and fed churches with the Word. we are to collaborate as the body of Christ sharpen and teach others and save others and help them grow as well.

Matthew 18:20 - For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.

that is a church. All the believers also make up the church and bride of Christ.
---Jake on 8/22/09


That would be better if you leave your church. Our relationship with the Lord should be direct...remember church cannot save us. Actually God commanded us to leave our church today. Rev. 18:4 bec. the problem of Antichrist is present in the churches or congregation 2 Thes 2,3-4. Unless we dont go out, salvation is impossible inside. Thanks
---rosalie on 8/14/09


I think this very question is why I'm tired of going to church. The church today seems composed mostly of people asking "what do I get out of it"? And so, as a church, we are not doing what we are suppose to do! We are inneffective and plagued with the exact same problems of the world around us. We don't actually do anything because we are too busy looking for "what am I going to get". Wake up Christians! Church is what we make it, and we are so far from Biblically correct thinking that we are making it all about "I" instead of all about God.
---Michael on 8/11/09


Some women go to the church just for socialising. Read, sing then eat.

Most men go to church only when somebody had die. Some dressed in suit and some in jeans, to pay the last respect to the deceased.
---Sheila on 12/22/07


Read These Insightful Articles About Online Stores


Thank you Cathrine, but I must know where I am running to I am not Forrest Gump.
---Emcee on 7/21/07


Not assembling with the saints is not a sin problem. It is a loving Jesus problem.
---Linda on 7/20/07


Emcee>>> Run, Run, Run, from false preachers, teachers, and prophets, if you ever expect to see God. The answer is run from. I do not know how to make myself any clearer.
---catherine on 7/20/07


Cathrine::Was that meant to be RUN TO or RUN AWAY FROM!!!Jesus said Come to me ye who labour & I shall refresh you.
---Emcee on 7/19/07


Read These Insightful Articles About Business Training


John, if you don't love the Lord and fear him enough to go to church as commanded and shown through types and shadows, are you sure you love and fear him enough to want to be in heaven?
Frank3443
---Frank on 7/19/07


Run, Run, Run, from false prophets, preachers, and teachers. Do you really want to go to heaven when you die? Or do you want to go to hell when you die? RUN.>>>>>Think about this on Sunday mornings. God is choosey when He chooses His Prophets or His Preachers. RUN!
---catherine on 7/19/07


Try participating in the service. The point of church is not to entertain you but to teach you, and every pastor could use a little help, whether as a reader or usher or volunteer to prepare the communion meal, or clean up afterwards, or assist with Sunday school lessons for the children in your faith community.

I trust that your pastor is reading from the scriptures every week? If not, then seek another church. But otherwise, you should be more active.
---lorra8574 on 7/19/07


Susan:There is no democracy in Heaven.Just love of God which you failed to mention in your post.
---Emcee on 7/19/07


Send a Free Just Because Ecard


Why does a man live with a woman ? one of 2 answers apply,one being love So also we go to church for the love of God to obtain His graces & in return we worship honour & praise HIM,Follow HIM.
---Emcee on 7/19/07


I go to church because I can. Being able to attend church services is one way to exercise democracy. Many people throughout the world don't have this freedom. We must remember our persecuted bretheren. They suffer for the belief that we take for granted. Also, I go to church because of the Eucharist, not because of any fancy preaching or inspiring music. Besides, church is free. It's not like going to a movie where you have to pay money.
---Susan on 7/19/07


For many it is the most scripture they will get out of a week. It is also a form of communal worship. Jesus did not set us up to be loners, we need each other for so many reasons.

Personally, it is one of the ways God communicates with me. Frequently I get the answers to my questions on an ongoing basis during the Mass. Many times I have even been guided in my answers for this site and other sites though the Mass.
---lorra8574 on 6/11/07


I would ask one question as well - what are you putting into the church service? We are supposed to participate in the worship service, not just sit there to be entertained.
---lorra8574 on 6/11/07


Read These Insightful Articles About Software


The purpose of attending Church is for you to be taught and to worship and fellowship. But if you are not going to Church of Christ( which is Jesus's Church) then you might as well stay home.
---Cheryle on 6/11/07


One thing...fellowship with other believers. The other thing...hopefully you are getting fed spiritually. Otherwise, you may need to put forth more effort, or find a church that is preaching the word and not wisdom of man.
---wes on 6/11/07


I wouldn't say church is a waste of time, if you have a desire to go. Please, do your best to ACQUIRE a GOD called preacher.
---CATHERINE on 1/30/07


John::IF Church is a waste of time then why did Jesus Say Matt16;17-19'On this Rock I will build MY CHURCH."Those who oppose are not of Him But against Him.Do you think Jesus was wasting HIS TIME?Follow me He said not Oppose me.Those who get nothing out of the word of God do not endeavour to participate in Glorifying God.Pew warmers.
---Emcee on 1/29/07


Read These Insightful Articles About Advertising


If one looks at the World,not at Christ's holy message of Sacrifice and Redemption, there is a different outlook;Jesus paints a New picture of Joy & Peace;He is"apart from the World",just as Believers must be.Nicodemus asks the great question of Eternal Life, and the Lord replies,"unless a man be Born-again,he cannot see the Kingdom of God" (John 3:3). That is what the Bible is,a testament of "New Life" in Holiness and Purity God Fulfills thru Christ's Resurrection .
---rosem4839 on 1/29/07


My only response is NOW I know where some of Mrs. Morgan's quirky ideas eminate from.
BTW who is Marlene Samual and Bob Hoffman?
---NV_Barbara on 1/29/07


Try different churches, maybe a charismatic church. It is a blessing to feel the love and fellowship of the spirit and also with the members. Worship music is very inspirational.
---Pat on 1/28/07


All of you praise me with your words, but you never really think about me. It is useless for you to worship me, when you teach rules made up by humans. ===matthew 15--8
---CATHERINE on 1/28/07


Read These Insightful Articles About Eating Disorders


TEMPLE--A christian or a group of believers. 1 cor. 3-16,6-19 This means a Christian is where God dwells, thus the Christian must remain morally pure.
---CATHERINE on 1/28/07


God tells me-- That He took me out of the church to prepare me. ===I would enjoy going into further details, but, for some reason, God doesn't go for that too much. I wouldn't mind writing a book about it.
---CATHERINE on 1/28/07


I've read the different views For & against & its amusing reading the different answers.No one even mentions of going to Church to show allegiance to Almighty God acknowledge Him as OUR sole source of Health wealth & prosperity, of the soul His part of Him within us.To bring us together as ONE FLOCK,ask for forgiveness for our sins & partake of His gifts which He distributes His Message sharing His Love & Him self.Taking Him home with us to sustain us for another week.This is what we do in the RCC.
---Emcee on 1/28/07


It is a big thing to go to church for the Bible commend us to gather together once in a week for encouragement and praying for each other. It's a place wherein we are trained to minister and to be ministered. Worshipping alone is for self edification. And heaven is a place of perfection. Training is the way to be perfect. As He is perfect, we ought to be perfect.
---Livial on 1/28/07


Read These Insightful Articles About Travel Packages


I can't even imagine NOT getting something out of going to church, and other church things like Christian songs, videos, prayer. I don't think I could get thru the week in this awful world without it. It lifts my spirit and gives me hope.
---Virginia on 11/15/06


You can only worship God through His Son Jesus and the Cross where Jesus died.
---Helen_5378 on 8/8/06


I don't think it matters where you worship god from as long as you worship him what does it matter?
---private on 8/8/06


I wonder if the North Korean Christians who are worshipping God in secret and sharing a single smuggled Bible are Fundamentalist, Anglican or whatever. Somehow labels, distinctions, divisions and petty quarrels seem so important in the presence of religious freedom.
---Benny on 8/8/06


Read These Insightful Articles About Credit Repair


Everyone re-read Rev. Herbs answer here. What he says is the absolute truth. That is why I am a fundamentalist. I didn't say legalistic....I said fundamentalist.
---shira on 8/7/06


John, in some countries people risk life and limb to own an illegal copy of the Bible, let alone enjoy the privilege of worshipping God with fellow believers.
---Benny on 8/5/06


Well with an attitude like that, you need to stay home anyhow. Because if you go to church with that attitude, your bringing in a negative spirit witch will bring the church down and the Holy Spirit can't move. I go to church to learn about Jesus, to listen to the word being brought forth. I have a desire to go, not everyone has this desire. Your not wasting your time, your wasting God's time. The reason why your not getting anything out of the service is because your not putting forth an effort.
---Rebecca_D on 7/31/06


Part 2:

****Another thing that upsets me is, that the Bible should never be rewritten. How many times has it already been?**

Where did you get the idea that the Bible was ever rewritten? Retranslated yes, but that's not the same thing. The Bible was NEVER originally written in English--not even the KJV.
---Jack on 7/31/06


Read These Insightful Articles About Christian Products


**What upsets me the most about going to church is when every Sunday they start preaching about how much money they need. Don't we all need money. Isn't going to church suppose to be about God, not money?**

As one old pastor said, salvation is free, but the church and religion cost money.
---Jack on 7/31/06


Donna2277, No, never would he say such foolishness, and I should know, he's my minister.
---Mrs._Morgan on 7/31/06


John I personally don't feel one has to go to church 24/7. I go to church once in awhile. But I do pray every day. What upsets me the most about going to church is when every Sunday they start preaching about how much money they need. Don't we all need money. Isn't going to church suppose to be about God, not money? Another thing that upsets me is, that the Bible should never be rewritten. How many times has it already been?
---Cindy on 7/31/06


Mrs. Morgan--Didn't Ernest Angley prophesy that the rapture would occur in 1999?
---Donna2277 on 7/31/06


Read These Insightful Articles About Christian Divorce


Nataa5464--What is your path to God?
---Donna2277 on 7/31/06


Do you waste 2 hours a week on any worldy habit?? say watching football,or basketball.how about the countless hours ,and lives wasted outside of Gods will???How about worship,corporate worship, which is commanded in scripture???suffer not yourselves to come together,paul wrote.A waste to the world a glorious time of praise and worship to a christian.Don,t think about what you get, think about what you GIVE.or giveup to God.
---tom2 on 7/30/06


Christianity is a 24/7 devotion not a 2hr wk. display of piety! One can fellowship at home or any where."where 2 or 3 are gathered in my name..."
---1st_cliff on 7/30/06


**I read the Bible, pray, fast and help others as God provides the opportunity, however I can't locate a church around that follows the Bible and don't see much point in going to church to put my two hours in and then get bad doctrine placed into my mind.**

Is there any possiblity, John, that maybe it's YOUR doctrine that needs to be adjusted? That maybe YOU might be in error in some things? That maybe God wants you to be somewhere as a HUMBLE LEARNER for a change?
---Jack on 7/30/06


Read These Insightful Articles About Christian Marriage


Church is a place where you can be together with people to talk, pray and think about God. Doesn't mean thats the ONLY place... I don't go to church because it gives me nothing. Everyone experiences God in different ways and in different places. If you feel you get nothing out of church, then thats not your path to God. It's not a bad thing, it's just not the path that is meant for you, so keep searching for yours.
---nataa5464 on 7/30/06


God can touch anyone in any church service. God never changes and He is always there for those who are seeking Him. You have to go into a service with the right attitude, expecting God to reveal secrets to your heart and bless you. If the word of God is being given out, it will not return void. Prepare the soil of your heart so that the seed of God's Word can grow and you will be blessed.
---Debbie on 7/30/06


John your in a bad place,when Elijah went to a cave because he was the only one left that worshipped God, God told him he had 5000 that had not bowed to Baal, he then gave Elijahs ministry to Elisha and took Elijah out. You need to get out of that Cave mentality and find your place in Ministry,It's overcommers that recieve a reward, if you know something some else does not then you need to tell them. I've been dealing with false doctrine all my life, I had to get it out of my life first.
---Exzucuh on 7/30/06


john, find an independent fundimental baptist church. They stick closer to the bible than anyone else I know.
---Rev_Herb on 7/30/06


Read These Insightful Articles About Debt Consolidation


John ,it's hard to find ministers out there preaching "sound doctrine",too many are either preaching a "tickle the ears" doctrine,or all out fanactism that isn't from God. May I recommend my minister Reverend Ernest Angley, he peaches good sound doctrine that really helps folks to grow in understanding in regard to the scriptures, If you're not in Ohio he comes on tv, has liturature, prayerline,website(you can google Ernest Angley, since we can't post websites here) God Bless.
---Mrs._Morgan on 7/30/06


In reading early christian writtings, I have found that sinners that were saved were not brought into the church until they were examined and then if it was determined they were converted then they were welcomed in to fellowship. At that time sinners weren't allowed in until after their conversion. They went out into the streets, highways, and byways, into the public to preach where the sinner was saved. Then after conversion taken into the church. It's not that way now.
---Truth on 7/30/06


Perhaps, John, Excucuh, you should be putting somethinhg In rather than just getting something out>
But if you find that nearby churches do not give you the doctrine you require, you should start questioning why that is. Exactly what points of doctrine are wrong?
---alan8869_of_UK on 7/30/06


I read the Bible, pray, fast and help others as God provides the opportunity, however I can't locate a church around that follows the Bible and don't see much point in going to church to put my two hours in and then get bad doctrine placed into my mind.
---John on 7/30/06


Read These Insightful Articles About Refinancing


I get blessed!!! Worship, fed the word, fellowship, giving of one's gifts...all are blessings. Being in the presence of the Lord with brethren!!! In HIS prence there is fullness of joy.
---christina on 7/30/06


Hebrews 10:25 Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching.
If you are not making a contribution to you church, just a bench warmer, you will get nothing out of church, you should bring your relationship with the Holy Spirit with you in to the service,to add your part whatever that might be. Church is not for entertainment but worship of God and edification.
---Exzucuh on 7/30/06


Is sitting in a bar or in front of tv for two houres a week a waste of time? If so, why do it? If church is a burden you're probably looking for excuses and don't want to go anyway. Otherwise you'd seek a different church and not question attendance. There will come a great falling away with many trying to justify themselves.
---Frank on 7/30/06


i have a hard time going to church because i don't feel people are reaching out as they should. you should be able to go and make good christian friends, but it doesn,t happen. i believe it is the churches responsibility to reach out to people, especially new members.
---chris on 7/29/06


Read These Insightful Articles About Franchises


First of all church is not a place you go it is a state of spiritual existence. Secondly a few people in here are right on, you don't go anywhere in this world asking God, "What am I going to get out of this?" A christian attitude should be, "I will choose to focus all my mind, strength and soul on the Spirit and give all I have today to glorifying God" Love is giving not expecting.
---Ryan on 7/29/06


All of the previous answers are excellent. Your words sound a bit angry and possibly hurt and insecure. Maybe you should look at the clues in yourself. When I am offended, I recognize that there is sometimes something very wrong with ME. I have felt the way you do before. God worked on me. Ask God to show you what you need to do...or if you are in the right church.
---Amy9384 on 7/29/06


It might say more about YOU than about your church.

If you go to church for "what you can get out of it," you are either going to the wrong church, or for the wrong reason.
---Jack on 7/29/06


If you expect to go to church to get something you have it all wrong. That is not the purpose of church. Church is a place of worship. Look up the word worship in the dictionary and study it in the Bible. It is a gift we give to God on a regular basis. Stop going selfishly to get something and start giving of yourself to God. He gave His Son so you could have eternal life. What more could you want from Him? The least you can do is give Him two hours of worship a week.
---Madison1101 on 7/29/06


Read These Insightful Articles About Lead Generation


John; You say "church" as if they were all the same. In this city they are everyting from and entertainment center,to a social club,to uncontrollable laughter falling on the floor,to boring speeches to hellfire preaching ...to whatever...It all depends on what you want to get out of it~ personally I don't go.
---1st_cliff on 7/29/06


If you get nothing out of going to church, then your heart is not right or your church is not right. If I were you I would check the heart first then look for another church if the heart is ok.
---Rev_Herb on 7/29/06


I take it you are not hungry for God....Church can do nothing for you. It is uplifting to Praise and Worship God with other believers.Also, Faith comes from Hearing...the Word of God.
---jan on 7/29/06


Copyright© 1996-2015 ChristiaNet®. All Rights Reserved.