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The Feeling Is Getting Stronger

This fellow from church gave me a ride home from church one night and has been on my mind ever since. I have prayed about it but it won't go away. He isn't someone I would have chosen for myself but the feeling is getting stronger by the day what do I do?

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 ---sarah6674 on 8/15/06
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"Be still and know that I am God." IF it is God's will for you to meet again, God will arrange it. You will have a perfect peace about it and you won't be anxious. Rest in the Lord that He knows what He's doing in your life, He works all things after the counsel of His will. Pray "Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done Lord Jesus." Rest in that. Let the Lord do the work.
---Donna9759 on 8/16/08

Sarah6674: Your post is kind of sad. A fellow gave you a ride home and now you are enamored of him.You must be a very lonely lady. My heart goes out to you. Did this man say something or do something to you(bewitch you)did he feed you something? You need to show more resilence and strength. Don't be bought so easily honey. You are worth more than a ride home. I find this post so sad....I'm sorry.My heart feels a little heavy for you. I pray your situation improves.
---Robyn on 10/10/07

Keep on praying about it, but try not to fret over it, either, and eventually the answer will come.

I assume you mean he might be a possible husband.
---Jack on 10/10/07

I would probably ask the Lord to remove the feeling if it is not from Him.... and keep praying that every day. Ask Him to confirm to you if it is Him.
---Helen_5378 on 4/5/07

I would pray about it. Ask God for wisdom and guidance. Sometimes God will send someone into our lives when we least expect it. I am getting married in two weeks, and when I became acquainted with my fiance, I was not looking to meet someone and neither was he... but God had other plans, and I am so thankful for that! Sometimes it's not about what we WANT but what we NEED.
---Michelle on 8/17/06

Sarah ... Are you worried? Do you want this feeling to go away? Whilst you have a build-up of emotional feelings for the guy, do you feel in your brain that he is unsuitable in some ways? Do you feel uneasy with your feelings?
God may be saying to you ... "You feel good with this guy ... he is the one for you"
I can say this after a very happy marriage: When I met my wife she was not the sort of person I had expected, but she turned out to be a wonder.
---alan8869_of_UK on 8/17/06

sarah when I met this guy who turned out to be my husband, but I didn't know it at the time, I kept asking the Lord, "Is he the one Lord or should I wait for another." You may want to ask God that question. When God was drawing me near this guy, I was running away. He was much younger than I, and I told the Lord, "he's too skinny and has no meat on his bones Lord." HE TURNED OUT TO BE MY HUSBAND!!!! LOL
---Donna9759 on 8/17/06

Sarah, if you've been praying for a husband (I guess that has been going on), maybe this is God's answer.

One thing I've learned is that frequently God's answer is NOT what you were expecting.
---Jack on 8/16/06

If you are both single then it doesnt hurt to get to know him a little better. Another thought, if he has been on your mind ever since, then maybe he is someone you would have chosen for yourself but you just didnt know it. or, maybe God is making the choice, better him than us. Ultimately, you should pray about it.
---tofurabby on 8/16/06

Pray about it. Ask God to confirm it out of the mouth of two or three witnesses(2Corinthians 13:1; Deut. 19:15) Trust God to hook yall up. Don't get in a hurry about it.(Philippians 4:6) Ask God for wisdom in it.(James 1:5)
---Rickey on 8/16/06

I would ask God for confirmation. If it is meant for the two of you to be together, God will let you know. Ask God for a sign, for ex, ask God that if this fellow is the one for you, have someone come up to you and talk to you about this fellow. but this person must speak about him first. If this comes to pass, there is your confirmation. I have done this (about a job) and it does work.
---Rebecca_D on 8/15/06

And i have been with my boyfriend almost 3 years now.
I can tell the difference in what i feel for my boyfriend and what i had that feeling i had for my friend.It wasn't the same feeling.
---angea on 8/15/06

That if it wasn't mean't to be that someone else will come along.The feeling did get stronger for a month or two.I got that feeling in april and by the end of august or beginning of september it went away.I met my boyfriend that i am now with in october about a month later.The feeling i had about my friend,was infatuation,or a crush.I never acted on those feelings,because i didn't want to ruin the friendship.That friend is now engaged to be married in december.
---angea on 8/15/06

I know what you mean on that.I had that feeling before i met my boyfriend,about a friend.I never told that friend about it either.I prayed and asked the Lord if it was His will for us to be together to show me and him,and for it to work out,but if it wasn't his will for us to be together to take that feeling away.I asked Him to show me if this friend wasn't the one he had for me to show me now,take the feeling away,and send me the one he has for me.
---angea on 8/15/06

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