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Husband On Cellphone

If you catch your husband talking on his cell phone from somebody at work thats also married and he said he is not having affair, do I believe him?

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How can you come to the conclusion he's having an affair just by him talking on his cell phone? There are MANY other signs that a man is having an affair. What has your relationship been like? Are you 2 close? Do you communicate? Does he work late alot?
---Donna9759 on 3/2/08

Rebecca D: I have been married almost 30 years. I do not trust my husband as far as I can spit. And that's not very far. I don't just go around looking for things to harp on but I keep my eyes and ears open. You can never really let your guard down in marriage. Always keep that in mind. You never really learn people completely. Even in 30 years.
---Robyn on 6/2/07

No..he needs to show proof of that. Or you need to keep your eyes and ears tuned up. Stay alert and check up on him and the things he's involved in. But if a man wants to cheat or women, for that matter, they are going to find a way to do it.Just keep that in mind. But it could have all been innocent, which I would doubt.Stay ready for anything.
---Robyn on 6/1/07

What explanation does he give for the call?
Did he try to keep it from you?
If he told you it was a business call from a colleague. would you believe him?
---alan8869_of_UK on 6/1/07

Why not? If you were in his place, on the phone, will he believe you?
---Eloy on 9/17/06

Part 2:
In the mean time, pray that God will give you wisdom (James 1:5) and prepare you for whatever He reveals.
---Melodie on 9/16/06

There is not enough information here for anyone to say for certain. However, if a person believes their spouse is having an affair, the best thing to do to pray for God to reveal the truth in his time and in his way. The Bible says, "Be sure your sins will find you out." Trust that this will be true of the adultery, if it is so.
---Melodie on 9/16/06

I suggest you tell him how much your marriage means to you and God and how much the Devil hates it and wants to destroy it.
Cry to him and tell him you'd do anything to keep it together even forgive what hurts the most...but you'd better mean it.
My Brother has a female friend, I don't approve because it makes his wife insecure, but he won't break it off. It's innocent and He should do it for Her, this is love that forsakes all others, that was promised.
---Pharisee on 8/24/06

I would believe my husband because I know him. And in his line of work (Police Officer/Preacher) he is on his cell phone or home phone. I trust my husband in every way. If you have some reason not to trust your husband, don't nag about what or who he is talking to. If he is hidding something, you will know it. ask God to reveal the truth in your eyes. He will reveal the truth but you make sure your ready to hear the truth.
---Rebecca_D on 8/24/06

"catch him"?
---Bruce5656 on 8/24/06

The words, "Do I believe him?" suggest more about your ATTITUDE towards your husband and marriage than what is actually going on here with cell phone calls.

Question: How would you feel if he tried to hide the calls, or they suddenly stopped coming?
---Jack on 8/24/06

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