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What Do Christian Women Want

What do you think that Christian women expect from the men they love?

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 ---Tonya on 9/11/06
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I think Christian women just want a man who fears God, I know that if I see God in my fiance' than I fully trust him in everything, and when he's on the right path with Christ he seems to show me he loves me more and that's huge for women. We want to feel appreciated.
---Jaci on 12/4/10


a Godly woman should want a man to stand beside her and speak up when he he/she needs.
---aka on 11/6/10


what doesn't a christian woman want? everything(reference Genesis 3).

What will a man do (or not do) to get what he wants? stand behind her and be silent. (reference when Ahab wanted to acquire some real real estate (1Kings 21)

a Godly woman should want a man to stand beside her and speak up when he needs.
---aka on 11/6/10


To love God above all. From this everything else will evolve. If a man loves a woman according to the Will of God, He will know how to treat her. Vice versa. Once you do this,appreciate what you have. Keep the bed hot,money available,other people out of the relationship. Hopefully both understand these priniciples and the relationship should perk along fine for quite a few years.
---Robyn on 11/1/10


Tonya, I believe that any woman would want their husbands to live by the WORD. Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself to her, and Ephesians 5:28 So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself.
---Dottie on 10/30/08




Do you agree with the saying "Its a wise & happy man who allows His wife to do His work if she is ready & willing in all things"after all God did give Eve as a helpmate to Adam.
---Emcee on 11/27/07


Most men will allow woman to be servants but pastors are servants in the church. I wouldn't want the pastors job, period. It is a tough job but a pastor doesn't boss people around they educate, exhort and encourage.
If you look deeply into scripture you will find there were woman apostles too
---Andrea on 11/27/07


1Pe 5:5 Likewise, ye younger, submit yourselves unto the elder. Yea, all [of you] be subject one to another, and be clothed with humility: for God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble.

you miss the point of scripture - Women are an assett to the body of Christ and should be used not as second class members and not subject to ALL men.
Do you get it that if it raeds your way it means all woman are subject to all men (not just their husbands)
---Andrea on 11/27/07


Thank you Crystal! :) You are a breath of fresh air desperately needed on this blog! God bless you :)
---Mary on 11/27/07


Mutual submission.
---Crystal on 11/27/07




The Bible says and quote"1Cor 14:34 LET YOUR WOMEN KEEP SILENCE IN THE CHURCHES: it didnt say let them be quiet in everywhere. The church is where we come in fellowship with one another and with or Lord. This is where we are subject to our Master, the men does everything in worship just as Christ was Master to all with the disciples in His teachings. Why do we continue to contend with what God has commanded us to????why indeed..its bcos of our defiant or stiffnecked hearts.
---jana on 4/14/07


Sister Catherine: dont follow others teachings as you follow Jim's. Study for yourself and follow God's teachings. Jim is all wind and just following wind. And no, I am not of Satan but of Jesus Christ our Savior who died for our Sins...Amen..
---jana on 4/14/07


Jana. You are exactly correct that because of the sin of Eve that women are to be in subjection to their husbands. And as the authority in my home I have allowed my wife to preach. Thus, by your theology, which I agree on in this case, the woman is allowed to preach because she is not usurping her husbands autority, she is doing what he desires her to do. You don't think Matt.28:19-20 would be only for men do you?
---john on 4/13/07


jana you misunderstood what I was saying.
---catherine on 4/13/07


Jana. Are you not preaching right now, here on these blogs? Why are you not silent? Why are you even teaching men here? According to your own theology you are disobedient. Can you see how taking the Word of God literally here would mean that you can't speak about Him? The whole heartbeat of what Paul is teaching is not quietness but to be in subjection and not usurp authority. You can do that and still speak. If not, then be quiet. This is what I believe Paul is saying.
---john on 4/13/07


It is written that men shall love their wives as they do their own bodies and honor them above all others but God. Women shall teach the younger women to honor obey their husbands. Paul wrote "I suffer not a woman to teach in the churches but to be in silence. If she would know any thing, she shall ask her husband and he will teach her."
She is to be respected and honor and treated with gentleness and kindness.
Feminism has destroyed that respect. It used to be that way with most men.
---Pastor_Claud_Lowe on 4/13/07


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Catherine: Exactly BUT!!! Did God say PREACH??? Never did He say that sister. He said"Let your women keep silent in the church, for it is not permitted for them to speak" The Scriptures teach that, on account of her part in the fall of man, woman has been assigned by God to a position of subordination to her husband
---jana on 4/13/07


b)catherine: See Gen3:6,16, Eph 5:22-24, 1Tim2:11,12, Titus 2:5, 1Pet 3:1,5,6.Owing to the change in his nature by the entrance of sin into his experience, the harmonious life that man had previously known was brought to an end. No longer was it practical for husband and wife to have equal authority in the leadership of the home, and God chose to place upon man the major responsibility of making decisions and instructing his family. Women must not usurp men's role..It is written...
---jana on 4/13/07


jana-- Like jim saids, in essence, who is highly intelligent, what are we women to do when God yells out to you and saids, 'PREACH". Are we to tell God I can't because that person over yonda saids I can't, yea right.Then I am dead and that person or persons that saids I cannot preach goes on living. Come on now.We have two obedience: the word of God and God DIRECTLY.And this is for you Satan. "I will obey God".
---catherine on 4/12/07


some Christian women just want to be the head. Look at them nowadays assuming mens position which God clearly set out for men. They even want to show the world that they can do better than men. They even preach. The Bible clearly says they shouldnt. As in Eve, women today are defiant beings and disobedient to God. Lord help us to be humble and assume our rightful positions.
---jana on 4/12/07


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I don't know about the men they love, but respect is what we want. Period. We can just forget it. Jesus did not get any respect when He was walking the face of His earth. He still doesn't get any respect on the face of His earth. UG,.
---catherine on 4/11/07


Women expect everything which is why there is so much female dissatisfaction.
---ralph7477 on 4/11/07


Assuming you mean husbands, I would think that Christian women expect to be loved by their husbands in the same way that Christ loves the church. Meaning, to be protected, guided, covered, cherished, understood and valued...for starters, lol.
---AlwaysOn on 4/11/07


jojo ibelieve that women want to see that closeness the spiritual bondness with a man to be loved i do believe in honesty and faithfulness women want more spiritual then physical women want a man who has a strong prayer life and a spirtual lifeo
---jeffrey on 9/26/06


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Jojo, what exactly do you mean you want a man in touch with his feminine side?
---bethie on 9/15/06


Oh, No, JoJo. You don't want a man in touch with his feminine side, do you really. You might end up on broke-down mountain. God made us differently for good reasons. We have more 'testy'rones so we can carry you across mud puddles, build homes, and steel buildings. My gears were stripped there for a minute.
---Spike on 9/15/06


From a man.. i think respect, love and care are the key things. but most importantly i would like a man who's in touch with his feminine side through and through. again it's necessary for the man to be able to provide the necessary.... anoyher thing i'm sure every chick would want from their man is total faithfulness.
---jojo on 9/15/06


Alright Bethie. 'The plan was simple, like my son-in-law Kent. But unlike Kent, this plan just might work.'
---Spike on 9/14/06


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Spike, yes a paycheck would be nice as well. However, I would choose a man who treats me lovingly, with a tiny paycheck, then a man who has a very large paycheck yet treats me poorly.
---bethie on 9/14/06


Spike: I don't live on air. I live on my teacher's salary and the money I earn at my part-time jobs. I don't need a man's salary to support me. I am self-sufficient. The Lord provides all my needs.
---Madison1101 on 9/12/06


Don't you care about the paycheck, too? My wife couldn't live on air like some of you can. Your answers are very nice.
---Spike on 9/12/06


I think the most important thing for me is that he has an active and growing relationship with the Lord. No. 2 would be that he has the heart of a servant leader. And, No. 3 would be a good sense of humour... which anyone married to me will desperately need. :o)
---daphn8897 on 9/12/06


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A heart after God. Character. Honesty. Trust. Helpful around the house. Sense of humor. God fearing. Loving the Lord and respecting his wife.
---Donna9759 on 9/11/06


To love their wives as Jesus loved the church.
---Dawn on 9/11/06


The impossible. Unconditional love and acceptance, and spiritual guidance.
---Madison1101 on 9/11/06


A good paycheck. Seriously, a believer in God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit. A good provider for the family. Strength of character. Be true to your wife and kids. Love them unconditionally. Doesn't hurt if you know how to hunt, fish, grow a garden, build - wire, plumb a house. My in-laws know I'll take care of them, too. With God's help, I won't let any of them starve.
---Spike on 9/11/06


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I wish for my husband to put Christ first, and me second in his life. I want him to love me as Christ loves the church. I want him to respect me and include me in his plans. I want our roles to be godly and in synch with one another.
---Katie on 9/11/06


Speaking from personal experience, a man who loves God more than he loves me. If he does not love God more than me, he cannot love me properly. The horizontal relationship with others is a direct result of one's vertical relationship with Father God.
---Linda6563 on 9/11/06


A passionate romantic chasing after them, a love they can't measure, and joy in simple things together.
Add to that security and faithfulness in intimacy.
For this we want respect more than love.
The male ego in most cases provides enough love for a man, add the love of God, and then all we need is someone to take us seriously so we can lighten up.
A man who is not respected, or respected conditionally at home is bitter, as is a woman not loved or loved conditionally by her husband.
---Pharisee on 9/11/06


Well I am a Christian woman, and if I had a man who loved me, I would expect him to show that love. I would want him to treat me with respect and love, I expect him to have patience with me, and to be faithful. I would expect him to be the head of the household, to be my protector, and to kill the spiders for me. I expect him to pray for me and with me, to just be there for me.
---bethie on 9/11/06


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