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How To Save My Marriage

I have been married for 13 years and I have just left my husband because I found out he was seeing another woman again. This is not the first time he has done this. He lies to these woman by telling them that we are divorced and we are not. I do love him and want my marriage saved. What do I do?

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Adulterers will not enter the kingdom of heaven.
---PhilipL. on 5/15/08


God bless you Jesus Christ loves you, in the Name of Jesus, i can tell you that donot leave your husband even if he is doing these things to you. i can tell you that the Lord is more and more than faithful and if you give this problem and leave it in His Hands, in the Name of Jesus, you will see what God will do, because for God everything, everthing possible amen aleluya God bless you Jesus Christ loves you amen aleluya
---jennifer on 5/14/08


We are living in a world where there is HIV & AIDS. I wouldn't advice you to carry on with the relationship unless you all get tested and test negative because you will die of AIDS, moreover the bible tells us to divorce when one of us is caught in another relationship. God bless you
---rumba on 5/14/08


If you do not have children, don't go ahead and have them. This is a potential disaster.
---Jhonny on 5/13/08


Reminds me of Scott Peterson, he did the same thing.

Is he abusive?
---anonymous on 5/13/08




Have you gone to councelling? If not, what are you waiting for?
---Caring on 2/7/07


I agree with Madison 1101, sometimes the only way to live peacefully is to live alone and let the healing come and restore your brokenness. More often than not, people who remarry ended up dealing with marital problems on a different issues. Based on my own experience, it would be much better to save the marriage rather than getting married for the second time.
---dela3435 on 2/6/07


Marriage is a respect for both party...if one cheated his/her partner does not show respect to one another...trust, respesct and love should always be present in a marriage...how do one keep all those.By putting God first as a Center of marriage. Pray so hard and ask God's wisdom and intervention that your husband will be enlightened and see the light that Jesus is the way to the truth. God bless.
---ana8864 on 2/6/07


IF you love Him and you want to save your marriage, I think that is special. How does He feel?
---CATHERINE on 1/25/07


Saw a book at the library. Explained seven levels of lying. Some will say a lie is a lie, but the level of lying that this man is at is advanced pathology. Maybe he is redeemable, maybe he is seriously damaged. He has committed humiliating betrayal, yet he may show remorse when he realizes you may leave him. Not all remorse is valid. I'm sorry this happened to you. Too much grief.
---jhonny on 1/24/07




I have to agree with Rickey here. I divorced a husband who was not faithful about 18 years ago. Though God allows for divorce in the case of adultery it is not his wish. I've known many women who loved their husbands so much they stayed. As I look back at my life I can see how God would have worked it out if we had stayed together. My exhusband is now a Christian and we are good friends. How much do you love him?
---faye4464 on 1/24/07


For me, I have to respect a man in order to love him. I was married for many years to the same type of man as you and I did not respect him. Instead, my self-esteem was so low that I believed that I loved him. I merely did not want to be alone. God will lead you through these dark times and into the light.
---Annie on 1/24/07


By the words of your mouth.(Proverbs 18:20-21)
Confess what the word says instead of the situation. God framed the world by His words & since we were created in His image our world(life, marriage,etc.) is frame/held together by the words of our mouth.
(Job 22:28; 2Corinthians 4:13)
Confess: "My marriage shall not die, but live and declare the works of the Lord".(Psalm 118:7; IPeter 2:24)

"By Jesus' stripes my marriage was healed"
---Rickey on 1/24/07


You have two choices. You can stay with this woman-chasing, lying, deceiving man or you can go on with your life without him. How do you love a man who keeps hurting you over and over? Unless he gets saved and repents, he will continue to do this over and over.
---Susie on 1/24/07


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