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My Husband Is On A Ship

My husband is on a ship now and I found out that he's a liar from his emails. He starts to flirt with his co-employee and go outs. I love and am afraid to loose him. What God wants me to do?

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 ---tracy on 2/14/07
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Prince Albert in the can, what have you done with Helen?

frances, you're going to have to go back to the drawing board and come up with a better one. Or better yet, why bother making anything up at all. What is the point?
---Bob on 2/20/08


Thanks for all those details of your life, Alan of Uk, and I am being sincere, not clever. I like to picture who people are. I myself have one autistic son, live in a foreign land, and my husband is Japanese. I am quite lonely at times.
---frances on 2/19/08


My family are generational Catholics. I was given a rather frightening experience of a supernatural type in Spring 2004, which made me suspect that we humans on the receiving end of the television are being deliberately deceived in many ways. Manipulated you might say. That is why I started internet research and blogging.
---frances on 2/19/08


RitaH Only Scots by ancestry, My grandfatger was schoolmasster at Drumcree, until he moved to London
I have only been four times to Scotland!
---alan_of_UK on 2/19/08


Alan, I had no idea that you were Scottish. My parents favourite holiday place was Scotland. They went several times and their favourite place was Largs.
---RitaH on 2/19/08




Talk amongst yourselves.

OK, since you enjoy the confab about this dealio...here's one for yous guys.

I think that some of these names actually are a reference to people that you like or don't like, in your real life. In order to keep it all straight, you anchor them down. I like the way you anchor it down... : :: >>> and all of those other doo dahs that anchor each name, button the hatches and keep the lid on, so to speak.
---Cindy on 2/19/08


Cindy ... # 1 You do give us a laugh.
When did you start blogging in your name Cindy? Why could there not have been a previous Cindy?
I will confirm to you that I have always used the name Alan when blogging. At some point I added my PP I/D, so people could write to me if they wished.
For a time, when I had lost my PP membership, I set up using my second name, Quentin, and I blogged for about a month as Quentin the Scot (for although I live in England, I am Scottish)
---alan_of_UK on 2/19/08


Cindy ... # 2 I have never used any other names ... oh hang on, when I first started blogging, about 4 years ago, I was "questor" but then I started using my PP name.
But as for being any of those other people, I AM NOT. I have engaged them in blog discussions, and that does give yuo some detail about their life, where they live, what they do and what their beliefs are.
(Unless of course, you distrust anything they say)
---alan_of_UK on 2/19/08


Cindy ... # 3...You say there are only 5 or 6 bloggers. They must be mighty busy ... my own blogging (all in my name) takes up more time than I can really spare from my various activities, and looking after my house and garden, which are too large for me, since my wife died 5 years ago, and my four daughters have left home. Fortunately, the Granny-flat, in which my parwents lived until they died, is now occupied by a trainee youth worker, and so I do not have to keep that tidy
---alan_of_UK on 2/19/08


Have you noticed that no one is really visiting with those names anymore?
Even when their diaries are shared, no one is taking the bait. Too many storylines bored the cat.
There is only so much constant sharing about one person's life/relationship, that eventually you're going to hear answers that you do not like or others tune it out.
---Cindy on 2/19/08




No, Alan. There are not two cindy's. There are not two of any name left here. There is a sum total of about 5 or 6 people left standing on these blogs.
As you are incredibly aware of every single name, corresponding resumes, current locations and the one they'll soon be moving to, denomination of choice...

It doesn't matter whether it was written 18mo. ago or yesterday - did you write it?
---Cindy on 2/19/08


Are we being sprayed? Yes.
It's not April showers bringing May flowers, I'm standing on the curb waiting for a ride and a purpose driven driver swerves to hit a huge mud puddle, spraying me with muddy water, laughs hysterically and drives off.
---Cindy on 2/19/08


Cindy, who wrote last ... This seems to be one of those resurrected blogs.
The post about Cindy (the other)'s husband was written probably back in May 2007, but redated by the Mods, or the system, when the blog was resurrected.
It would help if when there are two people with the same name (and Cindy is not that uncommon) each should add an identifier. Why not call yuorsel "Cindy the Real" which would mean other Cindy's would not be confused with you?
---alan_of_UK on 2/19/08


If this was not written today, this is one of the many, many times that my name, Cindy, was used to write things like this.
It is also why many have parted company.
If written today, I know the imposter.
---Cindy on 2/18/08


I know you hate your husband, but do not use my name to write about it.
You've been doing that far too long, and you're not doing a very good job of hiding yourself. Stop.
---Cindy on 2/18/08


I am not sure what to tell you. I caught my husband once in adultery, 15 years ago. He was at wits end that he was going to lose me and the woman was my friend who told him a lie - that I was cheating on him. Give him a chance and if he is a serial cheater, get another man. If he is a good man tell him you will not put up with his bad behavior and work on your relationship. He may be worth it.
---Cindy on 2/18/08


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You need to confront your spouse at a convenient time. Find out what is really going on. Be prepared. God bless you with that BUT: I am concerned at your comment: you are afraid to lose him. This sounds so desperate on your part. I have a sneaking suspicion, this flirt is going to get away with a tap on the wrist.
If you want to know what God would have you do, ask Him.
---Robyn on 6/5/07


Tracy....I will be praying for you and that you will seek counseling from your pastor on this matter. Don't let it eat at you. You will need to forgive him no matter what he has done. It is very hard for you being alone, but God will be there for you. If you are not already involved in a church group, you need to be.
---Susie on 6/5/07


notlaw99
Your words are witty, but they lack compassion. We should all guard our speech...words have the ability to harm or heal.
---irene on 2/18/07


notlaw, I was told basically the same when my ex was cheating on me; nobody is perfect, of course, but when it comes down to it, the responsibility is on the shoulders of the one cheating; if it was me, I wouldn't want the guy back!
---Mary on 2/14/07


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Tracy be still, theres no reason to fear this life; Lord's words- sufficient undo the day is the evil thereof.

In other words Don't add to the evil that's done with more of your own. (worrying is it's root, a proverbs 31 woman doesn't have time) Losing sight of God's promised provision for his children is selling your trust and faith in him; the very thing that unites us to Jesus!

Guard your faith, pray for your husband, struggling for what you want without God will grind your teeth.
---Pharisee on 2/14/07


Do you share an e-mail account or did you receive e-mails intended for someone else?

Are you letting your emotions carry you away or do you have actual proof?
---Cindy on 2/14/07


So I guess the situation is that he is at sea on the Love Boat and you are still stuck in dry dock. So while you are there get a major refitting, a new coat of paint and an upgraded navigational system. If he sees that you are ship shape you might get him back.
---notlaw99 on 2/14/07


tracy, we love you. But you are asking us what GOD wants you to do. How would we know what God wants you to do? Why don't you go to God in prayer and ask Him? Read the bible for your answer. God's speaks through His word, and through anointed prophets and teachers of the word. Have you confronted him (your husband) yet? Maybe that's a start. Of course he will deny any accusations. Ask him what he is planning on doing to rebuild your trust.
---donna6598 on 2/14/07


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