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In Love With Another Man

I was an adultress and then married the man. He left me a year later because of my children. I still love him, but guilt is burying me.

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 ---Louise on 2/25/07
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Our sin buried Jesus.
We are guilty of sin.
---Bob on 10/18/07


Louise, your guilt buried Jesus. Believe that and receive it, along with the benefits.
If you believe that His burial was your burial, then you won't have to suffer under something He delivered you from.
---Linda on 10/18/07


What kind of love is this that you speak of? This is maladaptive. Do you know what codependance is? Check out a book on it. Work through it. Very important for future REAL relationships with anyone (children,girlfirends,bosses). Please let yourself be forgiven and put your mind on God and not the man. I am in prayer for you.:)
---jody on 10/18/07


Only one prescription for sin, and that is repenting for it.
Guilt and sin can bury you, but you don't want to die without repenting.
---Bob on 10/18/07


louise, you never said whether you are a christian or not.well dear I can only say we reap what we sow.the senario you describe is outside Gods word.meanind sin.this man sounds like someone you don,t want to be with anyway.what guilt?what did the children do?
---tom2 on 10/18/07




When Mary was caught in the act of adultery, Jesus cast the demons out of her, and told her go your way and sin no more. Then said to all who were getting ready to stone her, let him who is without sin cast the first stone, and NO ONE COULD, for no one was with out sin. It is for the sinner Jesus came not the self righteous, I personaly was woken in my sleep buy an inner voice that told me I needed to be delivered from soul ties.
---Cynthia_1 on 3/2/07


We do reap what we sow but God is a loving and forgiving God. I hope you have learned something from this tragic and very costly mistake you have made. Ask the Lord for help and He will help you. Sin is a terrible and horrible thing. It does so much harm to ourselves and others. God bless you . I love you and are praying for you.
---robyn on 3/2/07


Stop beating yourself up over this. Ask God's forgiveness, go on with your life, serving the Lord. God doesn't expect us to carry guilt around once He forgives us. Have you asked the husband you were married to at the time of the adultery for his forgiveness? You should do that if you haven't already. Love is a decision we make in our life. If it is so out of control you cannot stop thinking about him, it is past love and has become obsession.
---Susie on 3/1/07


Dear Louise, Jesus loves you, but sin in not without consequence(ask the drunk driver who killed, or the wife beater who landed the [final] fatal blow,etc.).God will forgive those who are [sincere], but that doesn't mean that one can hold on to their past error[s], Repent, and Go and sin no more, then receive the Lord's [peace], He offers it to you in [abundance] if you walk [His] path. I will pray for you. God Bless!
---Mrs._Morgan on 2/27/07


God bless you, NVBarbara, for your compassion. While others are apparently without sin ("you reap what you sow"), your answer is more like what Jesus would say..."Go forth and sin no more."
---Nan on 2/26/07




Beth Moore does a fantastic 3 part series on Overcoming Insecurity. You can listen to it on the Life Today. web site. Look for the Beth Moore broadcasts link on the site. Your situation really fits what she talks about in that series. I am sure you will be really blessed by it.
---Faith on 2/26/07


Beth Moore does a fantastic 3 part series on Overcoming Insecurity. You can listen to it on the Life Today. web site. Look for the Beth Moore broadcasts link on the site. Your situation really fits what she talks about in that series. I am sure you will be really blessed by it.
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---Faith on 2/26/07


Louise, listen to Barbara, she's right on and I feel the same way. God bless you.
---John on 2/26/07


If you have repented then receive forgiveness and continue in your walk with God. I am in the process of reading Every Woman's Battle and I am really finding good things to apply to my life.
---Elizabeth on 2/26/07


Don't beat yourself to death Louise (others on here will do that for you!)
Hit your knees girl and beg for forgiveness from God. If you are not saved, PLEASE ask Jesus into your heart and give yourself totally to Him. He will lift your burdens and help you to forgive yourself so you are not burying yourself in guilt. Find a bible teaching church for you AND your children. God bless you. I'm always available to 'talk', barba4556.
---NVBarbara on 2/25/07


Sometimes the consequences of our sins catch up with us. You are suffering such consequences. I would suggest that you get involved in a Bible teaching church, and start fellowshipping with some women and study the Word of God. Let Jesus be your husband, and learn how great a relationship wtih Him is.
---Madison1101 on 2/25/07


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We all reap what we sow.
---catherine on 2/25/07


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