It sounds as if yuo want to find signs of adultery.
---alan_of_UK on 5/28/08|
I wouldn't be snooping around suspiciously looking for signs of adultery. I'd pray, tell him honestly about your fears, and let the spirit lead. If you're having these concerns, it's probably a good idea to get Christian counseling regardless.
---Todd1 on 5/28/08|
Lipstick on the collar, new perfume smell, phone rings, then hangs up, condoms in his cabinet that havent been used with you, pulls up into the driveway with lights turned out, leaves for work early comes home late, and treats you like you don't matter at all.
---Cynthia_1 on 5/28/08|
my husband claims to be a christian and he is showing all the signs of cheating and i have basically caught him.but he is still deny it.he told my mother yesterday he will take a lying test to prove to me.but thats bull to because i went on the computer and under lie detecter and their saying there is all kinds of ways to pass the test.what do you think?
---teresa on 9/4/07|
Another sign of cheating is a spouse becoming more secretive about their activities. While everyone is entitled to some privacy, if you notice such things as quickly closing a computer browser window *every* time you walk into the room, there is reason to be suspicious.
---Debra on 5/27/07|
How have you been relating with your spouse? Possibly, your spouse has gotten more "distant" because of YOU going slack; and if you be more sensitive and attentive, this could be what you need.
I have had times when I was so sure I had PROOF that so-and-so had cheated me, somehow, but then I found out the real explanation, which even my paranoia could not deny.
---Bill_bila5659 on 5/22/07|
Susie said a lot of good signs but I know of one. If they acuse YOU of being unfaithful and begin looking for things to accuse YOU of. This happens too sometimes. I will pray for you. What a rough thing to deal with!!
---jody on 5/22/07|
That feeling is so deep and can consume you I suggest you pray about it ask for strength and wisdom be strong and ask him over a home cooked meal.
---Sandy on 5/7/07|
If your spouse is not a good liar, some signs they are cheating could be:
1. Suddenly start telling you the things that you need to change about yourself and sometimes say you should be more like another particular person.
2. Begin making up excuses to leave the house more often at night and on weekends.
3. Don't want you to answer their cell phone.
4. Sit around daydreaming more than they ever have before.
5. Start spending more time on their personal appearance.
---Susie on 5/4/07|
I guess you could hire a private investigator.
I am not familiar with all of the signs.
A storekeeper knows when someone is dipping into the till.
A spouse should know when a marriage is haywire long before the signs show up.
Communication goes out the window, you go your separate ways. That's the time to get on your knees and ask for Jesus to help. He is a very present help in our time of need.
J E S U S, H E L P M E, P L E A S E
---Charles on 5/4/07|
Just answering Reagans question Charles, this stuff is common knowledge. And as for my own life, I do have Biblical grounds, no question. Fasting, seeking God about it.
---Cynthia_1 on 5/4/07|
Many times there are no signs that a spouse is committing adultery. There are some very good liars in this world. My experience is that you cannot ever know anyone else for sure. You do not know what someone else is capable of. Accusations of cheating can sometimes be as destructive as cheating itself. So, before you start accusing, make sure you are not wrong.
---Susie on 5/3/07|
If all of a sudden your spouse dresses up and goes out almost every evening alone or with friends. Doesn't want you to tag along. comes in late, becomes grouchy, ignores you. talks about the oppisite sex. Stops showing you affection. Gets upset if you answer cell phone or home phone when he/she is home. comes home late for work.
---Rebecca_D on 5/3/07|
Cynthia, are you speaking from experience.
I know you are staying there for the kids.
You said in the beginning that you kept yourself out of the way to avoid trouble.
You're educated. Cynthia - are you a kept woman in a tower of the castle. I can hear your misery, decisions are coming.
---Charles on 5/3/07|