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Young Lady Is Not Saved

There is a young lady I'm interested in but she is not saved what to do?

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 ---fred on 8/10/07
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Get to know her and very carefully, slowly and gently, tell her about Jesus. And in the mean time, show by example how great it is to be a Christian by your actions.
---sue on 10/27/08


I truly think you need to pray about this thing. Do not start dating her because you guys are not equally yoked, and I've been there and done that for 4 1/2years and it does not work. Trust me, God's word does not lie, it does not come back void. Pray to God to lead you in the right path and if this woman is for you, then God will save her and make her ready for you. BE BLESSED!
---bessy on 8/17/07


If having God's blessing on your relationship means anything to you then you will have to break it off. Find someone who God approves of. It it doesn't matter to you then go ahead and proceed, but know that God's will is not to be unequally yoked.
---john on 8/11/07


This is an easy one. The Bible teaches that you are not to be unequally yoked with a nonbeliever. No matter how much you lust after or think you like her, she is not dating material unless she is saved. Period. You asked.Find a Christian woman. Blessings
---jody on 8/11/07


There is nothing wrong with having friends who are unbelievers. Be her friend, don't let the relationship go past that. As Christians, we need to reach out to the lost by showing others an example of what Christ's love has done for us. She may or may not become saved because of your friendship, but who knows, maybe you are the one to plant the seed in her and in the future, she may make some godly man the a good wife.
---Katie on 8/11/07




That was a load of doublespeak, RD.
---Toby on 8/11/07


According to RD, stick your hand in the fire, fred. Third degree burns heal very slowly, but hey, go ahead and play with fire.
All is fair in love and war, divorces are only a few thousand dollars. You can get yourself someone new down the road, right RD?
---Toby on 8/11/07


Pray for her Salvation, most of all. There is nothing wrong with you two becoming friends. But if your a Christian and she isn't you would be unequally yoked. But you to can become friends. Just don't let her drag you back into sin.
---Rebecca_D on 8/10/07


Greetings Fred, the Word of God warns us about being unequally yoked. 2 corinthians 6:14, Be ye not unequally unyoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? I cannot advise you as to what you should do, but I would suggest that you examine this situation by the light of God's Word.
---Cynthia on 8/10/07


Ahab compromised himself by allowing Jezebel in his life. it is a dangerous thing to think you can stay in the world AND be of the world. Pray for her let uninvolved parties witness to her, but keep clear of starting a relationship with an unbeliever. Best wishes- have strength bc you'll need it if you move forward.
---Andrea on 8/10/07




Pull yourself together and move on.
Evangelism dating is not Scriptural. You date the pretty girl in hopes you can get her to the altar really quick, before it all goes haywire. You're falling for temptation, and you know what the Bible says, don't you? Do not join yourself to someone who is unequally yoked with you - non-Christian. Move on, fred, move on.
---Brad on 8/10/07


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