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Husband Having Daytime Affair

Husband left me after leaving his job to be home with the boys. He has been having an affair at home. What do I do?

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 ---Angel on 8/29/07
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Leave him.Even though you may love him you have to also love yourself, enough to not put up with disrespect.
---Bennie on 9/29/07


forgave him the first time caught him well he did it again we talked he told me he didn't want a divorce he was confused i told him if our marriage was to work he needed to stop seeing her and lying and that we get into counscelling, he agreed but the next evening snuck off to be with her and told her everything i said eventually after the mortage loan came in to put a new roof on house he took the money and moved in with this woman and bought her a engagment ring and yet he has not divorce me..
---angel on 9/21/07


yes i confronted him he denied it and than moved in with her left us she knew he was married and yet still pursed him and he is not allowed to talk to me so and she has him convinced or he does that i was the one cheating not him i prayed to god to give him a disease or something that would let me know for sure and well ..it was confirmed he had herpes and is when he bolted to be with his partner in crime.i am just hurt cause they keep harrassing me and putting down my good name and our children.
---angel on 9/4/07


yes i confronted him he denied it and than moved in with her left us she knew he was married and yet still pursed him and he is not allowed to talk to me so and she has him convinced or he does that i was the one cheating not him i prayed to god to give him a disease or something that would let me know for sure and well ..it was confirmed he had herpes and is when he bolted to be with his partner in crime.i am just hurt cause they keep harrassing me and putting down my good name and our children.
---angel on 9/4/07


First question you should ask: "How do I know he's having an affair?" (There is nothing worse than accusing a person of something in error.)
Second: If you KNOW he's having an affair, confront him and ask him why?
Third: Get some Christian counseling - from a certified Christian marriage counselor.
---wivv on 9/1/07




You will have to make that decision, if he has committed adultry, according to the Word of God, you are free, however, if you can forgive him, that is better..... but, you alone know what to do about this....God be with you.Please ask for prayer before making a decision.....
---gayla on 8/30/07


Angel...Get an attorney! NOW!
---Susie on 8/30/07


This not the place to tackle serious issues like this - you really really need a counselor (pastoral) and a lawyer.
---Andrea on 8/30/07


Angel, I am sorry for you. What to do is entirely up to you though. Pray and pray. The Bible teaches that you are not bound to that marriage in the case of adultry so you are free to make any decision and are allowed to remarry if you do divorce. Any decision you make is critical however to your children. Talk to him and maybe seek professional help as well. Stay in prayer.
---jody on 8/30/07


okay this is not exactly what i wrote....it was me that quit my job cause husband wanted me to stay home . i found out he was having affair and he left me for a woman he knew 7weeks and she harasses me and kids constantly was looking for advice.
---angel on 8/30/07




If your still together, then boot his butt out the door. You or anyone else does not need to be treated like trash. God didn't make trash, so we shouldn't be treated like it. If you stay with him, then you shouldn't complain about what he does.
---Rebecca_D on 8/29/07


Have u confronted him on the affair? or the person he is cheating on u with? most likely she doesn't know therefore give her the heads up. And talk to ur pastor and see if he/she can help you with a marriage advice. Most of all forgive him even if your mad and hurt at him, it will make u feel better.
---ANN on 8/29/07


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