What Do Women Want
I don't think money is all women want after all what is money married to an abuser of himself as well as others.
The love of money is evil and one knows when someone is just a black widow spider, or those on the outside see it.
Look it's plain and simple as long as you have the mind and heart to love and serve God as a man or a woman that's all your going to have to trust in unless your fortunate to find a partner who is really compatible with the words definition of a saved man/woman as yourself until then prepare to return to God as you are and live grateful you have a saviour Jesus Christ.
---Carla on 8/24/10|
I find many women want money, not the man.
---Eloy on 8/22/10|
There are so many women and men on this site who are hurting and I guess the message is wake up, the devil does not have to take your marriage or you life, God is always able to see you through you just have to trust him and read of his work and power, in the scriptures you find life and without them you cannot know what God wants from you or even how he said he will help us without that knowledge.
It is so important to know the word, it is what keeps, heals feeds and satisfy s your soul.
---Carla on 8/23/10|
Carla, may I say that I was saddened to read your description of your father's treatment of your mother. Naturally, I am sure that left a defective impression on you that God had or needs to heal. As you are aware, all men are not the same. There are good Christian men out there. The emphasis is on 'commited Christian' man. That makes the difference!
---Lin on 8/22/10|
as i read the replys to this blog i see why most you men are alone ! you are still carrying baggage from past relationships and a few women as well.......
as for me i have ask God for a good man one that prays with me and for me i want him to be my best friend , bring me flowers even if he had to pick them send me a card for no reason, but most of all for us to worship together in church as well as at home after marriage of course. Us women aren't so complicated God made us just for you men to appreciate. Learn to trust again then seek that one God has for you.Men, God made you to be natural hunters she wont hunt you down if she is worth her salt but she will be all You need, be good to her and love her as God loves her.
---Lea on 8/21/10|
Be under no illusion by what I posted women are now just as bad as men. But i know from watching the lives of women who changed from being the subserviant woman to being independant and rebellious simply through the bad behaviour of their husbands my mother had to run for her life as my father showed her that she had to wash his bath after him even when he had just jumped out of bed with another woman.
He beat her silly and expect a full meal day and night, giving five pounds after the pub and betting shops took his monthly wage, that five pounds came after several months of giving nothing.
---Carla on 8/21/10|
Christian men have the bible to guide them so why is that the church is suffering from awol men, where are they?
How comes women are taking over the church?
stop giving excuses men are more so lovers of themselves in terms of leaving their wives and families to go to church alone.
---Carla on 8/21/10|
//it just isn't something MOST men can admit to believe and actually are able to do!// ---Carla on 8/18/10
//2Ti 3:2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,
// ---Carla on 8/20/10
'men' in 2Tim 3:2 is 'anthropos' meaning men or human beings
2Ti 3:6 For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts, 7 Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.
Do you want to know the greek for silly women? It says in the Bible that the man is the covering of the wife. Can a wife just simply submit (without equivocation) as the Bible says.
---aka on 8/21/10|
this is a question of relationship. why was eve created? so are you suggesting that christians be single for the rest of their lives?
---tom on 8/20/10|
if you are looking for a perfect christian man, good luck.
there is no such thing as a perfect man or perfect woman in a relationship.
---paul on 8/20/10|
For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,
Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God,
---Carla on 8/20/10|
Very well rightly said. I think it's All part of the Eve syndrome that developed down through the yr's. Not pleasing to God.
---Lawrence on 8/20/10|
I enjoyed reading your post, warwick. God also can put in us what He wants us to have, just like that.
---catherine on 8/20/10|
Being a decades long student of human behaviour I have discovered that women say it is difficult or even impossible to find a man who will supply what they need.
And from my experience it is mostly because the women themselves really do not know what they want.
I believe feminism has created in women a yearning for unachievable things, things which no man can supply.
I believe feminism, at its core is antiChristian and anti female. Its aim is to destabilize male-female relationships by creating this intangible unsatisfyable yearning. A yearning which has no name.
Satan is very successful.
---Warwick on 8/20/10|
Lovable_Linda: the answers you gave to this question on 12/04/07 are very-good and very educative to all. God bless and use you more.
---Adetunji on 8/19/10|
What are the characteristics and traits woman want in a Christian man, but are so hard to find?
A saint in the church
A financial mogul n the world
A stallian in the bedroom
end of story!!
---francis on 8/19/10|
A Man who seriously loves God and adheres to every word of the bible in terms of and righteous/living/marriage/work.
Some how it just isn't something MOST men can admit to believe and actually are able to do!
---Carla on 8/18/10|
I gave the answer to this age-old problem in another blog. The post was just worded differently. I will give the answer again. Here goes: (For the men)Stop trying to understand and figure out women(in general) find a nice woman, get to know her and her ways then build on that.No guarantees in life but you should fare well. You don't have to know all women and understand them. Everyone is different. Just learn the woman YOU are with. Very simple. But yet complex. But you will be ahead of the game if you just do this simple thing. Same goes (for the woman). An older man shared this with me many years ago. I listened and profited from it. I thought it was very sage advice. God bless to all
---Robyn on 8/18/10|
I am pretty tough in this: I would be looking for someone who can except inperfectios,  Of course, loves God,  Kind and gentle, but, not in a over-do it,  strong and confident in the Lord, and  STABLE.
---catherine on 8/18/10|
It seems like the males have a list & the females have a list.
She says to him, I'd really like to marry you if only you'd get rid of your m - cycle. He says to her, ok, Only if you quit going to the bridge - club most nights with those cackling gossiping women.
Here we go round & round.
Most women Are to demanding from the word go & it ought Not to be.
---Lawrence on 8/18/10|
I don't know about women, being a man, but one trait they should want is a man that will allow the Lord to direct him to the right woman in his (the Lord's) time.
The same for men. They should seek a woman that will allow the Spirit of God to guide her to the right man in his (the Lord's) time.
It worked for me.
And my wife.
Even though now of days I am ugly old and happily married for 29 years.
And neither of us has been with someone else.
From virgins till death do us part.
---Frank on 12/19/07|
The Bible tells us what both women and men should desire in a spouse. The television gives us a different model of expectation.
Unfortunately I have met more television stars in Church than Biblical heroes. No wonder the Christian divorce rate is par with the secular tally.
---PHILOSOPHER on 12/19/07|
Many women make a laundry list of the desired characteristics/traits they want in a man.
They make a list and check it twice, forgetting that they may be naughty and not so nice. The list hangs in the balance, lopsided - imperfection wanting perfection..
Better to make a list of what needs fixing up in our own lives - that's a list God can work with.
---lovable_linda on 12/4/07|
To want it all, you have to "be all", as well.
God may be waiting for you to be completely content in Him before He will send anyone that meets all of that criteria.
Looking for anyone to fill in the blanks for our own emotional needs, is not a good match.
We are complete in and through Jesus Christ, alone. When we learn to lean and rely totally on Jesus Christ, that's when another completed person can enter a Christian's life.
---lovable_linda on 12/4/07|
I want someone I can admire as the spiritual priest of my home...with strong convictions about living godly. Someone I can respect, not bc I HAVE to, but bc I WANT to...who treats me with the tender care that God does..yet has no reservations when defending his family. A man who I can ask advice and not feel belittled...and who can turn to me for advice, knowing I also have insight and that I will encourage him without offending his manhood...I want a best friend...Gosh, I just want it all!! :-)
---danna9955 on 12/3/07|
What does Woman,or Man want?Does it really matter?WHAT DOES GOD WANT IN A MARRIAGE? Its HIS contract.Love your God like He loves you,love and be true to each other as He is to you.Bring up your Children to love your God by example.What would it profit a man if he gain the whole world & suffer the loss of his soul.Think of children and each other First.Happiness is within your self because you have been given the licence ,you must not abuse it. The gift of Love is a gift from God.
---Emcee on 12/3/07|
Respect, The Pointer Sisters said it will. Or sung it well rather. A God fearing man. One who knows where they stand with the Lord and is not a coward when it comes to Satan. It is hard for a man to put God first above his family. And when my husband does, I respect him for that. Especially for him being a Preacher. I am honored that God called him to preach. Honesty is very hard to find. Some say be like David, I asked why? Be like Samson, Why? I say just be the man God wants you to be.
---Rebecca_D on 12/3/07|
A man who loves God, can pray with me and who is smarter than me (but I dont tell him!).
Humor, somebody who can laugh and not take himself so serious all the time. A man who can work and not be lazy. These are some of the things I looked for and found in my husband of 26 years.
---sue on 12/3/07|
if you're looking for what you
now are capable of
wanting and perceiving . . .
2 Corinthians 10:12
I notice I can pass myself off for a pretty sweet and desirable guy - - if ladies are comparing me to certain ones they have had in their past lives, but if you were to compare me to Jesus our real Groom . . . glump (((o:
---Bill_bila5659 on 12/1/07|
Blessings to you my friend, Whisper. Great question! A Godly Christian man who puts God in their life first, and to share the Love of God together with his wife. Good Godly morals and Godly integrity. A loving husband who loves his wife as Christ loves the Church. Someone that you can laugh with as well as communicate with. God Bless friend!
---Cynthia on 11/30/07|
The want a man who worships God, yet doesn't expect to be treated like one.
They want a man who believes God heals, but still has health insurance.
One who believes God provides, yet has a stock portfolio and a 401 K. (Women are practical that way.)
And while they expect to 'forsake all others', they also want him to 'with my body, I thee worship'.
Like I said, women are practical sorts.
---Nancy on 12/1/07|
Since I was married to a Christian man (or so he thought he was) and now I am divorced, I have to say I would just like a man who's heart is after God's heart, who loves the Lord thy God with all of his heart and shows it by praying with me, going to church with me, by not controlling me, telling me what I can and cannot do, or buy or what friends I can't have over our house. A man who is willing to say he's sorry, and willing to admit he needs healing.
---Donna on 11/30/07|
Honesty, integrity, hard working, kind and caring are just some traits. Fortunately, I found these traits in my husband before we were married. Unfortuntately, many women are looking for material things and unspiritual things in a man. No one is perfect and many women and men are looking for the perfect mate. In order to find the right mate, sometimes we have to become the right mate ourselves.
---Susie on 11/30/07|
Perhaps the same things that are hard to find in Christian women these days...
---kady on 11/30/07|
It's possible that you don't have any of those great characteristics that you're looking for in someone else, and they will always be an elusive carrot.
You need Jesus Christ and in Him you will find all of the great characteristics of a Man, Husband, Father, God.
---Chad on 11/30/07|
You shouldn't be looking for characteristics/traits if you're already married.
---Chad on 11/30/07|