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Why Do Women Want Money

I want to know why women only want a man for his money. Why can't thay except what he has to offer other then money?

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I have never been one to look for a man that lets his money define him.
I look for a Godly man.
So, not all women want a man with money and not all women make LESS money than men.
When I was with my son's father, he thought that me making more money than him was wrong when it was me paying the bills, and everything while he put off his duties as father/husband getting drunk and spending his share on drugs and alcohol. When I asked him to please give that up, be a real man, he hit me and told me what he did was none of my business. That is why I left. And these days it is a big reason for divorce. So, obewan, you are blessed to not have gone through the sometimes horrors of marriage and divorce.
---miche3754 on 9/12/09


Rhonda you know what is shame in these posts the fact that relationships are judged on what a person has. A man should have something in terms of stability in Christ a loving heart and the ability to take care of his wife and family.

Judging from the comments some men seem to think it is about equality. When I owned my business my husband had nothing but we worked together and built a little business that allowed us to live a comfortable life.

When the children came along he was more than happy for me to give up my job and stay at home now it is my choice to re train and teach full time?

So whats the problem if it's the other way around??
---Carla3939 on 9/13/09


A woman needs a man of God not a man of boast!
---Carla3939 on 9/6/09

Amen

a young girl in twenties describes two types of today's generation of men she often see's

men throwing their money around ...their status possessions ...can't determine who they are because value is their money and identity ...they make an exceptional living but are void of substance nothing else to offer

other men who have no money values goals or drive to be anything other than whatever low paying job comes along - love living at home rent free coasting through life so they have plenty of time to enjoy idleness just "hang out" ...kind loving affectionate great traits to offer yet detached from responsibility ...it's a shame
---Rhonda on 9/12/09


Rhonda, women making less but spending most of the money in this country was not an opinion but fact.
*****

Interesting because I never said women didn't spend money I stated WHAT we spend money on ...since my husband is truly biblical head of our household working 12-15 hours a day ....I AM home with children purchasing for OUR household ...of course society should be geared to how women shop - my husband does not work long hours so he can spend his free time doing all the things I do while he works

to claim women only want a man for money is from whiny men of the world - a True Christian male looks for a women with character who is seeking a man with character
---Rhonda on 9/12/09


If women want money, where are all the Proverbs 31 women?

I have heard some women who actually mocked that passage as an "impossible" standard to hold up when I told them I am looking for a Proverbs 31 woman! But, in their defense, I will admit I have met a few. One of them fed something like 400 kids at VBS for 5 days for only $60! I could not believe it, but, I know because I was in the kitchen. (Of course, she got people like Dunkin Doughnuts to donate food too.) She was ALL proverbs 31 in the sense of finding "bargains" in the "marketplace".
---obewan on 9/12/09




This question really divides the Godly from the worldly!
---Carla3939 on 9/12/09


Rhonda, women making less but spending most of the money in this country was not an opinion but fact. Women for example purchase 70% of the men's clothes in this country and most of the marketing is done toward women 25-54 who spend most of the money.
Most stores are geared toward women's taste with desired items near the front of the store where male items are usually regulated to the rear or second floor. These should be not be viewed as items of discomfort but the market working.
When women vs. men salaries are discussed thr "purse strings" issue is rarely mentioned and that is also fact, though it may be uncomfortable.
Men have position but women have influence.
That's biblical.
---larry on 9/11/09


Another view: Men/women relationships are messed up these days.Men have since forgotten their place in marriage and society,in general. and the same goes for women. If a man truly comes forth and take care of home, bills etc...the woman feels he is boring and not flashy enough. If the woman is faithful and frumpy he is not satisfied. He begins to look around for something more exciting. This is not good. In order for a relationship to work we have to start with the main ingredients:love for each other and God. And then add other ingredients gradually: Graciousness,kindness,faithfulness,sex,commitment among other ingredients.
---Robyn on 9/11/09


problem is the more you got the more you want,having made millions,and spent them,mostly by 2 x wives I can tell you that though both were professing christian,the love of money ruled their lives,and when the money was gone,so were both of them to greener fields,if you get my point.
---tom2 on 9/9/09


WOW,know wonder everyone is divorcing.reading these replys has given me some serious depression.
---tom2 on 9/9/09
I am past the point of depression. That came 10 years ago at age 40 when I was put in the "old" singles group with all the divorced people. You would not believe some of the war stories I have heard from both men and women. It just makes me glad now that I have been spared that.

Now, I am content, but very cautious. If God wants me in a relationship with a woman, he is the one to work a miracle to do it.

Then too, I am approaching the age where some nice widows are available. The only problem with them is they elevate their "ex" to sainthood sometimes.
---obewan on 9/9/09




WOW,know wonder everyone is divorcing.reading these replys has given me some serious depression.
---tom2 on 9/9/09


Well, it takes money to live, and a lot of it! It is the responsibilty for the man to provide it, too. More women would be so very happy with their husbands and the divorce rate would be cut in half, if more men were acting like men and gave their wives more money!
---catherine on 9/7/09
Yes, but it could just as easily be said that the divorce rate would go down if more women could live on a budget and had more realistic "expectations".

My cousin is a surgeon with an enormous income, yet he had to divorce his first wife because she was driving him to bankruptcy with HUGE credit card bills for masses of monthly purchases in the $$thousands for jewlery and cloths and fancy resturant meals.
---obewan on 9/8/09


Most women don't want men for their money. They learn quckly though,he won't take care of bills,or her so they must get it before he blows it in. These women want money because they know their husbands can't handle money and if they don't get it while he has it,they and the children will have to do without what they need. No matter how much a woman loves a man if he turns out to be a spendthrift and terrible with handling money their love will be killed in degrees as he leaves her broke all the time and the "needs" of life denied her. Love just can't survive under those conditions.
---Darlene_1 on 9/7/09


Well, it takes money to live, and a lot of it! It is the responsibilty for the man to provide it, too. More women would be so very happy with their husbands and the divorce rate would be cut in half, if more men were acting like men and gave their wives more money! Praise the Lord Jesus Christ for He loves WOMEN!
---catherine on 9/7/09


because women like to shop and buy nice stuff.
---Tony on 9/7/09


Men have to learn that women don't love them the way they love women. Generally speaking, women see men as simply an aid through which they can achieve whatever it is they want out of life. Most women want to be taken care of so money and success is what they look for. If they don't have a man, they look to the government, which is why a majority of women love big government socialist programs.

Some women want men for emotional needs, sex, children. Men are basically interchangeable in the eyes of most women. Any guy will do. Also, generally speaking, men are DUMB, oblivious to the fact that he is simply being hired to perform a service. He will very often be summarily dismissed when his services are no longer required.
---ralph7477 on 9/7/09


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If we swap references to women and money with men and beauty the answer would still be the same. Watch:

"I want to know why men only want a woman for her beauty. Why can't they accept what she has to offer other than beauty?"

The answer to either one of these issues is the same. Society places a woman's value largely on her looks and a man's on his earning power.

Few men are searching for less than their image of a physically attractive woman. Sure, they may eventually fall in love with someone who isn't their ideal beauty, but on the surface and in the beginning they are looking for a physically attractive woman. Ditto for women and men with money, which equals security in a lot of women's minds.
---AlwaysOn on 9/6/09


obewan,

Any man flaunting wealth and singleness fearing loosing all to a gold digger looking down on women regardless,,,,, disaster sits at his door,

A woman needs a man of God not a man of boast!
---Carla3939 on 9/6/09
Who says I boast? I keep my income a secret, drive an econobox, and live in a small simple condo.

The problem I have is that virtually every single woman at our church has to live in a $400,000 home and drive a $40,000
SUV - ALONE!!!l One woman in such a situation complained of her debts and told me her electric bill was $350 a month. Simple living means my electric is only $85 a month. Those kind of lifestyle expectations are a HUGE red flag to me!!!
---obewan on 9/6/09


obewan,

Any man flaunting wealth and singleness fearing loosing all to a gold digger looking down on women regardless,,,,, disaster sits at his door, experience tells me men who sit around teasing single women with their big talk but have nothing other than their wealth accompanied with a healthy helping of emptiness end up marring Wealthy Educated Gold Diggers.... Eh! who do the most damage...... And do it WELL. WINK!

A woman needs a man of God not a man of boast!
---Carla3939 on 9/6/09


.Women always like to say they earn less ...never say women spend most of the money in this country and that is what really matters.
****

LOL gotta love women haters who LOVE and worship their MONEY ...women spend all the money? yes married women with children to feed clothes take care of home FAMILY vacations school activities etc ...if that is spending all the money then by golly we sure are money grubbers indeed

interesting thing about MONEY some who have it worship it without knowing - more concerned with MONEY then people
---Rhonda on 9/5/09


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That is not all women want from a man is money. But money symbolizes security and women want to feel secure. Women also are very vain and frivolous. Most like to shop and buy things they really don't need or want. Money lets them be able to do that. Also there are many things women need like:clothes,shoes,handbags,nails,wigs,hairpieces,makeup, the list goes on and on. You have to have money to buy these things.
I think women equate money with love. If a man spends money on them and buy them things they feel loved. Its all tied up with their emotions and feelings.
---Robyn on 9/5/09


Ought to give God thanks someone thinks your worthy!
---Carla3939 on 9/5/09


From everything I read, you appear to others to be quite wealthy (whether you are or not).
If you "look" wealthy, you'll attract a lot of people who are NOT but would LIKE to be...with your money

If you like people to see your expensive stuff...well, you are asking for what you get.
If you can de-emphasize material things, you may meet some different types of people.
---Donna66 on 9/4/09


Its not all women and many who subscribe to your premise are probably not Christians.
However to answer your question, when the Lord said the following in Genesis:

"The LORD saw how great man's wickedness on the earth had become, and that every inclination of the thoughts of his heart was only evil all the time".

..he was talking about males AND females.

I will agree with the questioner on the folowing...Women always like to say they earn less then men but they never say women spend most of the money in this country and that is what really matters.
---larry on 9/4/09


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because anything other than a good wage won't pay the bills.... Dough!
---Carla5754 on 9/4/09

I can see how that is true, but when it comes to gold diggers I prefer to say let them EARN their OWN "good wage" and pay their OWN bills. LOL

I had one young woman (age 24) ask me to be her NEW dad and marry her (age 42) divorced mom so I could pay for her graduate school bills. LOL
---obewan on 9/4/09


because anything other than a good wage won't pay the bills.... Dough!
---Carla5754 on 9/4/09


as single women, can work pretty much care free and go to school or whatever she chooses so she can take care of herself. when she marries, has kids, the main focus of her life is take care of the kids, and if she has to work, she has to put them in daycare. if the man does not make enough to pay bills and she can't even afford daycare, she could easily see herself being in the welfare line.i can safely say that most women want a man who can provide for her needs financially, because that is just the way God made us. men seem to look for someone they feel they will be taken care of in other ways, like sexually and emotionally, domestically.
---unionoflove on 9/1/09


Obewan you claim SHE is a mental patient now? why would her remark make you SO sensitive?
---Rhonda

She was open about her mental health. Her reputation preceded her at every church she attended. I was warned by many.

Who says I am sensitive about it. You are the one with the persecution complex. You refuse to acknowledge there are some women with unreasonable expectations.

Why would I go on a singles blog and trumpet all the successful women? They have no need for change.

I admit you have seen my negative side. In reality, I am a nice sweet guy. And, still you defend her with your barter comment. I cited an example of reasonable and comfortable provision that could not satisfy one woman.
---obewan on 8/17/09


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****I think if a woman insults my earnings as she did I have a right to complain****

Obewan you claim SHE is a mental patient now? Are you sure? If she is so unstable why would her remark make you SO sensitive? ...strange

As for JUDGING YOU ...LOL

You should re-read your posts ...for a happily single guy it is rather ironic, or actually more amazing how many of your posts nothing more than rantings of harsh judgmental and condemning words for MOST of the women you encounter in your life

unless, of course, there are two obewans posting under one and YOU just happen to have posted this one

AS FOR Women WANTING money? Unless a man is super successful in bartering for necessities it is a moot point
---Rhonda on 8/17/09


you brag about your salary then become indignant by (sic) her response?

..YOU should be happy without a women (sic) because no women should be subjected to your critical judgmental (sic) ---Rhonda on 8/15/09

You judge ME and you know nothing!

I never told her my salary. I keep it confidential. SHE stated what would not be enough to live on.

As for not finding a woman, I found many and many found me.

There are a FEW good ones. I am lucky to be a happy single rather than an unhappy married or divorced person. That is the REAL poison you speak of.

As for critical judgment, maybe I am too hard on her. She is a CERTIFIED mental patient! I do have sympathy, but don't want to live with her.
---obewan on 8/15/09


Yes, she should be happy with a $6 an hour job, but then what right does she have to moan that my salary is not enough to live on when it is 8 times hers?
*****

Funny thing how you don't SEE you are NO DIFFERENT than these women LOL

you brag about your salary then become indignant by her response? what a curious thing

and likewise YOU should be happy without a women because no women should be subjected to your critical judgmental better than everyone else poisonous attitude ...you are in competition with yourself and ironically in competition with ALL women ...it's no small wonder your underlying hatred of women is evident and why no women would touch you either
---Rhonda on 8/15/09


Obewan oh please boo hoo hoo ...is there not ONE topic here you don't have to incessantly whine about the pathetic women you come across?
---Rhonda on 8/14/09
Blame the OP question. I am not the one who said it. And, I cited ONE example and used the word SOME and NOT "all" women.

I think if a woman insults my earnings as she did I have a right to complain. She can sit there and wonder why no guy in the singles group will touch her with a ten foot pole, or she can change.

Yes, she should be happy with a $6 an hour job, but then what right does she have to moan that my salary is not enough to live on when it is 8 times hers?

If it gets just ONE woman to rethink her "attitude" it was worth it!
---obewan on 8/14/09


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I'm wondering why you seem to attract women who want a man for his money? There are plenty of women who don't, but either you overlook them or they overlook you!

If you are a person who is impressed by expensive things...clothes, houses, cars etc. and provide them for yourself, don't be suprized if you attact women who like the same things. If you send an unconscious message that material things matter to you a lot...you'll attract that kind of woman (and possibly repel some women who are looking for more substantial values in a man).

I don't know you, so have no idea whether this applies, but I've seen this situation in the past.
---Donna66 on 8/14/09


Obewan oh please boo hoo hoo ...is there not ONE topic here you don't have to incessantly whine about the pathetic women you come across?

you must live in a town the size of a box ...why don't you move ...your town is too small and seems to serve up the rejects of society ...you must be the ONLY one in your town who sits on his throne observing all of the peasants beneath you

there are MANY people who would LOVE to have a $6 an hour job because they don't HAVE a job

seems you have created a LOT in life to sneer at all the women you come across
---Rhonda on 8/14/09


This is not a woman issue alone, some men are doing this as well. It is only God that can give anyone the actual friend or spouse that HE/SHE can tolerate her/his strength and weaknesses. If you are a good man/woman believe that God has a good woman/man reserved for you. Remember when Elijah complained to God that they have killed all His prophets that only him remains!(1 Kings 19), God answered him that He still has 7000 that has not bowed to Baal. As many as are seeking Godly spouses, please depend on God to provide. Mike, God has more than 7000 godly women around you.
---Adetunji on 8/14/09


I meet some women who are just plain lazy.

At my age, most women I meet do not want children, or their children are grown.

Still, they want a man with money so that they do not have to work and can sit around and watch soap operas all day.

Sorry, but with no kids, keeping a home is NOT a full time job. I should know. I work 50 hours a week as an engineer and still keep a home all by myself including custom gourmet cooking.

One woman I met who was in her 40's and still in her first semester at a community college with a $6 Wal-Mart job had the gall to tell me that an $85K salary "is not a lot of money to live on!!" I won't be dating her anytime soon!
---obewan on 8/14/09


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It is in their instincts: a man that can help them raise children. Even if some women do not have children or wont ever have them, the instinct acts as a necessity for security.
I think in consumerist societies there are other issues to aggravate this situation too, and also hedonism, cheap high expectations, poor ability to appreciate peoples good features etc.
Exceptions, there are very few. Idealistic women. Never those big lying mouths that say "I would still be with him if he was very poor"
Give me a break...
---Ernie on 8/13/09


Money means nothing to me, there is no pricetag on love. NONE!
---wal_rev on 10/21/08


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SO WHAT I DID WAS SPENT HIS MONEY AND STAYED AWAY FROM HOME AS OFTEN AS POSSIBLE AND HE LOVES ME AS IF I WERE A BEAUTY QUEEN. ISNT THAT STRANGE LADIES?
**

Very precious bridg, funny how your NOT the FIRST women who tried the submissive obediant suzy homemaker thing only to be loved for spending the money...

What is it that men have to offer more than money? Please explain to me WHERE in US one can live without money ...must pay taxes to live on land ...very few merchants would ever "barter" for food supplies etc

if you feel loved by your money only ...then you're not offering anything else ...bee's like honey they only go to honey source

offer something else you will find other women
---Rhonda on 9/8/08


MOST MEN DONT HAVE ANYTHING ELSE TO OFFER BUT MONEY. WHEN I TRIED THE SUBMISSIVE, FAITHFUL, SUZY HOMEMAKER WIFE THING MY HUSBAND DIDNT APPRECIATE IT AND DEMEANED ME AS OFTEN AS POSSIBLE AND DIDNT ACKNOWLEDGE MY OBEDIENCE. IT SEEMS THAT ALOT OF MEN ARE INCAPABLE OF FEELING ANYTHING BUT WHAT AFFECTS THEM. SO WHAT I DID WAS SPENT HIS MONEY AND STAYED AWAY FROM HOME AS OFTEN AS POSSIBLE AND HE LOVES ME AS IF I WERE A BEAUTY QUEEN. ISNT THAT STRANGE LADIES?
---bridg4675 on 9/6/08


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Cheers to you Carla and Ruby!
---deborah on 7/4/08


In the USA, at least, people have been "spoiled" by: what they see on TV, advertisements, culture, selfishness, falling away from God, etc.

Both MEN and WOMEN have unrealistic standards for each other. Many of these standards are NOT from the Bible, but from their own thoughts. It has been said that many Americans have become their own "gods". Notice the little "g" letter.

God, the Father, didn't make every woman with a Barbie-like figure. Likewise, God didn't make every man with a wealthy portfolio. It isn't surprising that the USA has the world's highest divorce rate. Even among Christians. Last year, there were reportedly 2.2 million marriages and 1.3 million divorces. Ouch!!!

---sag on 6/29/08


It sounds like you're all talkin' about "houses" and how much room is available. Here's a question that I've always wondered about:

Elvis and Priscilla Presley had one of the very best houses in the world: Graceland in Memphis, Tennessee. Why do you think they were so... unhappy that the couple got divorced after living in that large house with almost everything that anyone could ever want? Any guesses?

Hint: I think that there is more to marital happiness than the size, and/or value, of the family home, the husband's income, wealth, popularity, etc.
---Augie on 6/29/08


I have not met a woman yet who does not make a huge ruckus about how beautiful and desirable the large home is.--obewan

Well, meet the first woman who does not make a hugh ruckus over how beautiful/desirable of a large home. ME.

The bigger the house the more to clean! I been there and done that. We had over 30 Sisters cleaning the Convent. Cleaning seemed endless. The smaller the better.

Plus, if I ever get married. I do not intend to work outside the home. 2 jobs? No.
If the place is small and my husband's income can support a 1000 sq ft home, or a trailer, it is okay with me.

Why would I get a job to help pay a Mortgage that I only clean and sleep in? Just for people to be envious?
NO INDEED!
---Nicole on 6/27/08


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It's a trade off, they can't stand their husbands. Money takes the place of love they can't have.
---Lisa on 6/27/08


Women MAY say they are not concerned about money, but ALL women have the strong nesting instinct. I have not met a woman yet who does not make a huge ruckus about how beautiful and desirable the large home is. Many women push the mortgage for the large home to the brink of bankruptcy in America today. I can live in a simple 1200 sq ft condo. I know many divorcees at church who live alone in 4000 sq ft houses. They either cleaned out their ex for all he was worth or are painfully deep in debts. One woman I dated would not look at anything less than $400K when $200K would have been fine.
---obewan on 6/26/08


It seems you are putting us women all in one group.Not all women want a man with money,though it shows if a man supports himself he has a solid foot on the ground & doesn't need a womans support. For me,I love my husband & he is the onyl one bringing in income because I am raising our 3 soon to be 4 children, but I contribute in household things so he doesn't have to.Not every woman is out for money.
---canda7893 on 6/26/08


Hooked on Elvis, I've always found that very strange. He may be the king of rock and roll, but he's certainly not the King.
---Donna on 6/24/08


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I have a picture of Elvis & my aunt in the 50's on a date in Las Vegas.
My uncle transported & planted all the palm tree's & such in Vegas back then(50's & 60's), so did my dad.
---Duane_Dudley_Martin on 6/23/08


Elvis Presley was my favorite gospel singer. Wealthy and popular with women. Elvis was both a Christian and an Assemblies of God member. I was shocked to learn that his marriage to Priscilla lasted only 6 short years. Elvis willed almost nothing to his ex-wife but a lot to their only child, Lisa Marie.

Elvis and Priscilla were a great example to other people that money can NOT buy happiness. Jesus Christ didn't have much money at all. Yet, he was happy and sinless. The Bible says that these things are "examples to live by".
---Augie on 6/21/08


Well Mike :: You got all 7 colours of the rainbow to pick from, what is your synopsis? characters are surely revealed here this is obvious.For men what are you looking for "a nurse or a purse" For women tall dark & hansome +security to "keep the home fires burning and the wolf from the door"
---Emcee on 5/7/08


Well, we need money! God knows that we need money.>>>Give us money, and then we will appreciate everything else.
---catherine on 5/7/08


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well mike what you are actually asking about is the way of the world.many women ,including christian women make their decision about relationship based primarily on money as you have stated.and many christian men on looks, and sexual gratification.the real problem is most are of the world.exactly opposite of what scripture tells us.BE IN THE WORLD BUT NOT OF THE WORLD.sadly most people make worldly choices rather than kingdom choices.they let their flesh rule their lives.
---tom2 on 5/6/08


Money, or an ability to help provide financially, can be really important, especially for a couple planning on having one or more children. That some women only want money, well, some women make foolish choices. Likewise, some men only want a women for how well they perceive she can satisfy them sexually.
---Jenny on 4/30/08


Well Mike it is my experience many men want money too. Right here on this network, I am sometimes bombarded with poor men looking for a woman with money. They need to be taken care of for what ever reason and seek out women who they think have money and offer security. It is sad. It seems to go in spurts and is getting worse as the world falls apart. They need Jesus.
---jody on 4/29/08


There are many men who only consider looks when deciding which female to choose. They usually end up with someone beautiful who does not want to do any housework. That makes me laugh. I think such people get what they deserve.
---frances008 on 4/29/08


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There are women who would put their heart before their head, but I wonder how long such marriages work, when hunger is knocking at the door, and arguments arise because the husband has spent the extra money he had on beers at the pub. It is 'his' money, he thinks. When we marry, we would be foolish not to consider the way we are going to manage. A guy with money trumps one without, almost every time. That is just the law of survival of the fittest.
---frances008 on 4/28/08


Because those other virtues won't keep a roof over their children's heads, clothes on their backs, and food on the table. Nor will they pay for health insurance, a good obstetrician, and time off work to raise their children.

If you want a woman who doesn't want you for your money, find one that either has money of her own, or doesn't want children. It's as simple as that.

And BTW, women don't expect a man to be wealthy. They do expect him to be gainfully employed, however.
---Nancy on 4/27/08


Truth:: Money is a means to an end .a necesary evil always in short supply to those who desire more in any Human being.Being satisfied with what you have is a Virtue.Cut your coat according to the cloth you Have.
---Emcee on 4/27/08


boy ,these answrs are so wordly.guess thats why everday for me has become such a fight against becoming even more of a cynic than IAM ALREADY.
---tom2 on 4/27/08


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iam sorry to say that the world has become so cynical its outa control.
---tom2 on 4/27/08


I know how you feel. I have had lady
friends that only called me when I got
paid.
---michael on 4/24/08


I married my husband for his money....It will take me the rest of my life to get it. Ha. God love his heart. If he knew that my health would cause so much money in medical bills. We are now looking at close to over $200.0000 Dollars in medical bills with just me alone. And now I find out that there are more things that need done to better help my bladder and why it is falling out.
---Rebecca_D on 4/23/08


Because they have nothing else to offer.
Money makes an ugly man handsome, an old man look young, a short man look tall, and a fat man look like Rocky.
---Jack on 4/23/08


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An old man with money is better than a young man with good looks. Good looks won't pick up the tab at the restaurant, pay for classes, plastic surgeries, SUV's and clothes.
Good looks with a high IQ pays for nothing, money makes the world revolve for the shallow Hal and shallow Holy, I mean Holly.
---Jack on 4/23/08


material girls, yuk. I'd rather be with a wall, at least you can lean against a wall: but a material girl is like a big hole without a bottom, where the more you try to fill it up the emptier it becomes.
---Eloy on 4/22/08


Money is a great motivator and its HELL to be poor.But it is basically wrong to only want someone for their money or anything they possess. A relationship should always be built on love but money makes a man more attractive.
---Robyn on 4/21/08


I married my husband for his money and I'm still looking for it. Seriously, when I was single I found that the men who were afraid a woman was after their money didn't have much of it, but just thought they did. Same for my female friends who think men are only after their money. They don't have much else to offer, I guess.
---KarenD on 4/21/08


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I'm broke as a joke and my wife loves me.

Maybe you are attracted to the wrong type of woman, or maybe you've been in a coma for 30 years and are just noticing how grossly materialistic our society is?

My opinion is this: Don't seek a relationship with a woman unless you have a particular woman in mind. Marriage is a great joy and privilage and seeking a relationship any other way is making an idol of it.
---pharisee on 4/21/08


Carla...for all we know, Mike could be criticizing women for wanting money, while he himself is after it (o: Birds of a feather attract to each other? If I am not connecting with a real Christian lady . . . well, I have to first become for real as a man of Jesus, so He can get me with a really obedient and sensitive lady. But my paranoia wants to call attention to how everyone else is so wrong . . . just kind of overlook how I myself have been fooling my own self (o:
---Bill_bila5659 on 4/21/08


I'm sorry, if you have only met such type of women. I believe that there is a right woman for you by God. To find the right one, are you honest and faithful to God and the others? It may depends on how you want to live with a woman in your life. I think that there are many women who really love her partner through her life, not matter how his financial situation is.
---em on 4/21/08


If you recall the beginning of the world women were created to support men and men were born to protect and provide the needs of women and due ungodly nature men try to run away from their responsbility thats why women select only those that they are sure of being sheltered. The other reason is that the wolrd is lacking Godly love.
---madalitso on 4/21/08


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Mike-not all women want a man for his money. I have been financially independent all of my life, working full-time and even when I was married, I made more money than my husband, that never bothered me. I would rather have a man after God's own heart, one who prays like Daniel, walks like Jesus walks and loves like God loves us. Forget the money - it's only a means to live.
---donna8365 on 4/21/08


Mike

It seems like you have had an experience where you view all women the same. I think most women have their own money and have worked very hard for it. However try not to stereotype every woman the same although most women may appear that way not all of us are the same. Money makes the world go around and without it you'd just be after a woman for HER money!
---Carla5754 on 4/21/08


Not all Women are this way! There is some of us that, prefer a "Godly Man", no matter what, he has in this world!
---Ruby on 4/21/08


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