Well Mike :: You got all 7 colours of the rainbow to pick from, what is your synopsis? characters are surely revealed here this is obvious.For men what are you looking for "a nurse or a purse" For women tall dark & hansome +security to "keep the home fires burning and the wolf from the door" |
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---Emcee on 5/7/08 |
Well, we need money! God knows that we need money.>>>Give us money, and then we will appreciate everything else. |
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---catherine on 5/7/08 |
well mike what you are actually asking about is the way of the world.many women ,including christian women make their decision about relationship based primarily on money as you have stated.and many christian men on looks, and sexual gratification.the real problem is most are of the world.exactly opposite of what scripture tells us.BE IN THE WORLD BUT NOT OF THE WORLD.sadly most people make worldly choices rather than kingdom choices.they let their flesh rule their lives. |
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---tom2 on 5/6/08 |
Money, or an ability to help provide financially, can be really important, especially for a couple planning on having one or more children. That some women only want money, well, some women make foolish choices. Likewise, some men only want a women for how well they perceive she can satisfy them sexually. |
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---Jenny on 4/30/08 |
Well Mike it is my experience many men want money too. Right here on this network, I am sometimes bombarded with poor men looking for a woman with money. They need to be taken care of for what ever reason and seek out women who they think have money and offer security. It is sad. It seems to go in spurts and is getting worse as the world falls apart. They need Jesus. |
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---jody on 4/29/08 |
There are many men who only consider looks when deciding which female to choose. They usually end up with someone beautiful who does not want to do any housework. That makes me laugh. I think such people get what they deserve. |
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---frances008 on 4/29/08 |
There are women who would put their heart before their head, but I wonder how long such marriages work, when hunger is knocking at the door, and arguments arise because the husband has spent the extra money he had on beers at the pub. It is 'his' money, he thinks. When we marry, we would be foolish not to consider the way we are going to manage. A guy with money trumps one without, almost every time. That is just the law of survival of the fittest. |
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---frances008 on 4/28/08 |
Because those other virtues won't keep a roof over their children's heads, clothes on their backs, and food on the table. Nor will they pay for health insurance, a good obstetrician, and time off work to raise their children.
If you want a woman who doesn't want you for your money, find one that either has money of her own, or doesn't want children. It's as simple as that.
And BTW, women don't expect a man to be wealthy. They do expect him to be gainfully employed, however. |
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---Nancy on 4/27/08 |
Truth:: Money is a means to an end .a necesary evil always in short supply to those who desire more in any Human being.Being satisfied with what you have is a Virtue.Cut your coat according to the cloth you Have. |
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---Emcee on 4/27/08 |
boy ,these answrs are so wordly.guess thats why everday for me has become such a fight against becoming even more of a cynic than IAM ALREADY. |
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---tom2 on 4/27/08 |
iam sorry to say that the world has become so cynical its outa control. |
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---tom2 on 4/27/08 |
I know how you feel. I have had lady friends that only called me when I got paid. |
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---michael on 4/24/08 |
I married my husband for his money....It will take me the rest of my life to get it. Ha. God love his heart. If he knew that my health would cause so much money in medical bills. We are now looking at close to over $200.0000 Dollars in medical bills with just me alone. And now I find out that there are more things that need done to better help my bladder and why it is falling out. |
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---Rebecca_D on 4/23/08 |
Because they have nothing else to offer. Money makes an ugly man handsome, an old man look young, a short man look tall, and a fat man look like Rocky. |
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---Jack on 4/23/08 |
An old man with money is better than a young man with good looks. Good looks won't pick up the tab at the restaurant, pay for classes, plastic surgeries, SUV's and clothes. Good looks with a high IQ pays for nothing, money makes the world revolve for the shallow Hal and shallow Holy, I mean Holly. |
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---Jack on 4/23/08 |
material girls, yuk. I'd rather be with a wall, at least you can lean against a wall: but a material girl is like a big hole without a bottom, where the more you try to fill it up the emptier it becomes. |
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---Eloy on 4/22/08 |
Money is a great motivator and its HELL to be poor.But it is basically wrong to only want someone for their money or anything they possess. A relationship should always be built on love but money makes a man more attractive. |
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---Robyn on 4/21/08 |
I married my husband for his money and I'm still looking for it. Seriously, when I was single I found that the men who were afraid a woman was after their money didn't have much of it, but just thought they did. Same for my female friends who think men are only after their money. They don't have much else to offer, I guess. |
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---KarenD on 4/21/08 |
I'm broke as a joke and my wife loves me.
Maybe you are attracted to the wrong type of woman, or maybe you've been in a coma for 30 years and are just noticing how grossly materialistic our society is?
My opinion is this: Don't seek a relationship with a woman unless you have a particular woman in mind. Marriage is a great joy and privilage and seeking a relationship any other way is making an idol of it. |
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---pharisee on 4/21/08 |
Carla...for all we know, Mike could be criticizing women for wanting money, while he himself is after it (o: Birds of a feather attract to each other? If I am not connecting with a real Christian lady . . . well, I have to first become for real as a man of Jesus, so He can get me with a really obedient and sensitive lady. But my paranoia wants to call attention to how everyone else is so wrong . . . just kind of overlook how I myself have been fooling my own self (o: |
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---Bill_bila5659 on 4/21/08 |
I'm sorry, if you have only met such type of women. I believe that there is a right woman for you by God. To find the right one, are you honest and faithful to God and the others? It may depends on how you want to live with a woman in your life. I think that there are many women who really love her partner through her life, not matter how his financial situation is. |
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---em on 4/21/08 |
If you recall the beginning of the world women were created to support men and men were born to protect and provide the needs of women and due ungodly nature men try to run away from their responsbility thats why women select only those that they are sure of being sheltered. The other reason is that the wolrd is lacking Godly love. |
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---madalitso on 4/21/08 |
Mike-not all women want a man for his money. I have been financially independent all of my life, working full-time and even when I was married, I made more money than my husband, that never bothered me. I would rather have a man after God's own heart, one who prays like Daniel, walks like Jesus walks and loves like God loves us. Forget the money - it's only a means to live. |
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---donna8365 on 4/21/08 |
Mike
It seems like you have had an experience where you view all women the same. I think most women have their own money and have worked very hard for it. However try not to stereotype every woman the same although most women may appear that way not all of us are the same. Money makes the world go around and without it you'd just be after a woman for HER money! |
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---Carla5754 on 4/21/08 |
Not all Women are this way! There is some of us that, prefer a "Godly Man", no matter what, he has in this world! |
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---Ruby on 4/21/08 |
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