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Partner Cheated On Me

My partner for almost 2 years was cheating on me with my friend. We had a heated argument. Its 3 months today since the split up but I am still crying, love and miss him. He hurt me, I ended it but why I am so hurt and emotional? How does he sleep at night knowing he's broken someone's heart?

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 ---Rachel on 2/18/09
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Forgive me Rhonda

If you can believe?
But I certify you, brethren, that the gospel which was preached of me is not after man. For I neither received it of man, neither was I taught it, but by the revelation of Jesus Christ.

Should I put you before God? Rhonda, I wish there just something, I could do to show you, what I have seen, what I felt. Rhonda, I will let myself lie now! I will not defend myself, against anyone, even you.

He did say, "They will not believe you." His words, so be it!
Even my own family, only my wife believes.
So should I stop? He did not say, "Stop."
He said, "They will not believe you."
Therefore, I go on!
---TheSeg on 2/23/09


The Seg

Heb 10:26 For if we sin wilfully after that we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins

you're antichrist opinion about Gods LAWS deliberately lead MANY AWAY from Christ

...REMEMBER Christ told us to OBEY ...many lessons of NT are about obeying and overcoming

counterfeit christians profess only love and are FAR FROM CHRIST (Matt 15:8,John 14:15, 21, 23, 24)

without the LAW there is NO LOVE

the penalty for sinning outwardly over and over is pain and anguish for the sinner ...it is exactly why this women is in pain ...when she learns to repent and obey God will remove her pain
---Rhonda on 2/23/09


No Deb, I did not get it, it was given to me by the lord himself.
I just did not know it was him, at the time.
Oh my lord please forgive us all.
God Bless
---TheSeg on 2/23/09


Dear Seg,

You are a VERY cool guy who GETS it!
---Deb on 2/23/09


God HATES sin much more than He loves the sinner. MY GOD.
---catherine on 2/22/09




What can a simple man, tell such intelligent women.
Who know the law of God in such an exact way.
Would not I be foolish, to try?
If I tell you to believe with your heart and not your head.
Would you not say to me.
The law, the law, what about the law?
How can we live without the law, God help him understand the law.
Who are the keeper of the law. Me or you?
And unless you are more righteous, then the law.
What? Why don't you stone her, it would be more merciful.
---TheSeg on 2/22/09


What can a simple man, tell such intelligent women.
Who know the law of God in such an exact way.
Would not I be foolish, to try?
If I tell you to believe your heart before your head.
Would you not say to me.
The law, the law, what about the law?
How can we live without the law, God help him understand the law.
Who are the keeper of the law and unless you are more righteous, then the keeper of the law.
What?
Again please forgive me, I am just, a man.
Why don't you stone her, it would be more merciful.
---TheSeg on 2/22/09


PS Rhonda and Betty

Matthew 5
Matthew 23
Pick one!

May God Bless You
---TheSeg on 2/22/09


Seg- God ordained marriage and not partnership. Read all about it.
---Betty on 2/22/09


And Adam knew Eve his wife, and she conceived, and bare Cain, and said, I have gotten a man from the LORD.

Now look at Deb, compassion in her heart, for someone in need of it.
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Compassion for what? the price of sin has consequences ....breaking commandment of adultery causes pain in person who committed this act ....it's why this women is in so much anguish ...if she was a Christian she would not be living for God and committing adultery for 2 long years

we live in end times were liberal ways of society have crept into Christian lives when many are no longer able to separate ways of the world to the Christian life

emotional pain because this man was focus of her life NOT God
---Rhonda on 2/22/09




You are so quit to judge.

For I say unto you, That except your righteousness shall exceed the righteousness of the scribes and Pharisees, ye shall in no case enter into the kingdom of heaven.

Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

Of course they must have been marry, right, tom2

Betty, what is a marriage, in God eye?

Two people loving each other, yes this is, what was it Bill_bila5659, oh yes, immoral.

And Adam knew Eve his wife, and she conceived, and bare Cain, and said, I have gotten a man from the LORD.

Now look at Deb, compassion in her heart, for someone in need of it.
---TheSeg on 2/21/09


Rachel, it is painful to be cheated on. Count yourself fortunate that you didn't invest more than two years with Bozo.

Time will heal you. God is with you. You are loved, girl. You are loved. You were given a gift. You'll see that some day. In the mean time, be kind to yourself. Seek out supportive friends. Do things that are good for you. Count your blessings. Best wishes, dear Rachel.
---Deb on 2/18/09


IF you do what is immoral > I am responsible for my own actions. If I do what is immoral, I have found out how this can make me weak enough so I can get into emotional trouble. Also > Jesus said, "For if you love those who love you, what reward have you?" in Matthew 5:46. So, if I am involved with some one person for all I can get for myself, this is selfish loving witch can make me weak enough to fight and argue for what I have been trying to USE the other person to get. And so, I can get hurt. The other is wrong to hurt me, but so am I wrong to be doing what can get me hurt. In God's almighty love power, we are emotionally safe > "And who is he who will harm you if you become followers of what is good?" (1 Peter 3:13)
---Bill_bila5659 on 2/18/09


God ordained marriage, but not partnership. If you were not married, learn from your mistake and ask God's forgiveness. Many men and women are in hate with each other because of being partners with someone. Charming as he may be, you ought to give him up. Life is too short to give in to every man or woman who wants to use you. Learn to trust God and ask God to find you a husband.
---Betty on 2/18/09


partner?well there is no cheating in the eyes of god between unmarried people.
---tom2 on 2/18/09


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