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Having Thoughts For A Pastor

I met a pastor while assisting someone. He invited me to his church. We are contacting each other by phone and I visited him at his church. I am having thoughts that I shouldn't be having for this married man of God. Should I decline his ministry? What should I tell him?

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This is a blogg..forever the thief Satan comes to kill steal & destroy! One thing I notice WE ALL on ONE accord! Yes! Do not contact at all neither answer fon calls..MOVE ON! This will only spell ruinYou stay with GOD! He will never let you down! Remember Satan loves to work om our minds & Wear us down! God bless everyone on here!
---ELENA on 6/14/11

Move on and flee from temptation.
---Ed on 6/17/09

Yes, it is time to move on to a different ministry and church.
---Tom on 6/17/09

Read an meditate on I Thessaloniaca 4 : verses 3,4 & 5 -- flee from lust
---Joy on 6/16/09

you need to run away fast......a also ask God to forgive you if you haven't.You don't even have to tell him you can't help. That would leave an opening for him to protest and if you are weak,you may not do as you are supposed to.
---robin_durfey on 6/16/09

Talk to him and tell him that God is not leading you into that ministry right now. Then go search for another church to go to. Cut him off completely.
---amand6348 on 6/16/09

You did not visit HIM at his church as you said. You visited the church where he pastors. You are about to make a fool of yourself if you pursue this married man. It doesn't matter if he is a man of God or a heathen. LEAVE MARRIED MEN ALONE!!!!!!
---SusieB on 6/15/09

This man is not available. It's not possible for the two of you to be together. Its totally ok to say you think the Lord is leading you in another direction or something like that. Attraction is a very powerful thing. So are thoughts and human sexual desires. Move on before trouble and the enemy has any opportunity to mess with you or this pastor.
---Vicki on 6/14/09

You can't help being attracted to him, but you CAN help what you do about it.

Whether he's man of God or not, he's married. He's strictly off limits, and for you a temptation and possibly occasion of sin.

Simply stop going to his church and stop contacting him. (I didn't say it would be easy.)
---Cluny on 6/14/09

my advice to you is whatever it takes to stop this feelins you do it.for your sake and for the sake of this pastor.he has a ministry and he has a you think its worth it?ave been in the same situation i didn't stop myself and the price is too costly.remember u kan prevent a bird from building a nest over ur head but you can't prevent it from flying over ur head.
---amani on 6/14/09

1 Corinthians 6:12-13"All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any. Meats for the belly, and the belly for meats: but God shall destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body." 1 Corinthians 6:12-13
---scripture on 6/14/09

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