there is ONE sin that God will not forgive and it is NOT divorce and remarriage. If we repent of our sins, including getting divorce God will forgive us. God is faithful.to divorce your current husband in hopes of getting ex husband back is simply wrong. you are in a marriage. seek God and ask him to restore the love for your current husband and quit looking back.
Simply because your children want mom//dad together, don't make it so.
i am a step mother and therefore, know what it is like to have children wanting mommy/daddy back together-- but was my husband to divorce me and leave our family--to accomodate his other 2 children. He did have grounds for divorce--she committed adultry and left him--and wanted divorce. |
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---jodollie on 11/20/09 |
In response to suzieH-10/19/09
What's your point suzie, david also killed uriah in order to have uriah's wife bathsheba but that still doesn't make god's law void which says that you should not kill or commit adultery just because king david did it, he too was a sinful man. David payed for his transgression of the law, first he lost his first child by bathsheba then he was told that the sword will not leave his house then he was not allowed to build the temple of God because he had blood in his hands. God's law is perfect nothing goes unpunished which is why it's best to do according to the law of God. As I stated before, it is abomination for one to leave second husband to go back to first husband. Stop taking scripture out of context. |
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---metuschelah on 10/23/09 |
the truth i assume that is what you seek is in his word...says till death ..even if your first and only godly accepted husband committed adultry ...we can divorce but we can't remarry anyone but our first..we are to forgive if they repent we are to reconcile. be sure they are a beleiver, dont be deceived.. better to remain single and serve christ..we dont have to remarry our first spouse but we can't marry anyone else..see luke,mark,and even matthew,corinthians..no where does it say we are free to remarry anyone else.. it says if we do we commit adultry...2nd spouse, 3rd or 4th...they are not our spouse that we became one in the lord with..period..don't be deceived..this is satan work...this isnt popular but it is truth... |
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---pat_miaoulis on 10/21/09 |
No *! Break the 'soul ties', the longing for other people.
Jesus prohibited divorce except for adultery, that included lying about ones virginity. The non adulterer could remarry. The adulterer, and anyone marrying one, is entering a prohibited marriage. A divorce without cause, was no divorce, and so, another marriage was a type of bigamy. The exception is in 1Corinthians 7:15. If the unbeliever departs, the Christian can remarry because the marriage was not 'in the Lord'. Remarriage: Matthew 19:9, 1Corinthians 7:27-28.
Deuteronomy 22:17-19, 28-29, *24:1-4, Proverbs 2:17 (forsaketh husband), Isaiah 54:4-8, Jeremiah 3:1, Malachi 2:14-16, Matthew 5:31-32, 19:3-12, Mark 10:2-12, Luke 16:18, 1Corinthians 6:15-16, 7:10-17, 27-28. |
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---Glenn on 10/21/09 |
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---metuschelah on 10/9/09
2Sa 3:14
And David sent messengers to Ishbosheth Saul's son, saying,
Deliver me my wife Michal,
which I espoused to me for an hundred foreskins of the Philistines.
2Sa 3:15
And Ishbosheth sent,
and took her from her husband,
even from Phaltiel the son of Laish.
2Sa 3:16
And her husband went with her along weeping behind her to Bahurim.
Then said Abner unto him,
Go, return. And he returned. |
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---SuzieH on 10/19/09 |
I to stand on the thought of asking GOD what you should do. He will not disappoint or not answer. I personally have read it was Jewish law, that you would be considered defiled, but Jesus said you are living in adultery now. Your first husband, from the way I understand it, is your covenant husband. When you make a covenant, GOD expects you to honor it. Jesus tell the young man in the Bible that we are supposed to forgive 70 times 7, which means there is no end to forgiveness. And you are supposed to have an unconditional love for your spouse. A love that says I don't care how you feel about me, or how you treat me, I am going to love you. As Christ loves the church. New testament as well. |
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---James on 10/19/09 |
This is not something you should handle alone. Seek God in Prayer and he will make the answers clear for you. May God abundantly bless you and give you peace. |
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---Miriam on 10/18/09 |
How do you know she's "defiled"? Perhaps her ex-husband cheated on her, in which case she's not "defiled"! I do, however, think she is in a real mess and should not even consider leaving her second husband to go back to her first--yikes! |
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---Mary on 10/10/09 |
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1 JOHN 1:8-9
8. If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. 9. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.
No one is without sin. No not one. Jesus Christ who was Gods only begotten son was a sinless man. Jesus died and rose the 3rd day so that our sins could be forgiven.
If you trust Jesus Christ as your Lord and savior and ask for forgive of your sins He will forgive you.
You must be the one to decide about going back to your first husband. We all make mistakes.
cp |
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---Charles on 10/9/09 |
It is abomination, because you are defiled, defiled means that you have lain down with someone other than your first husband (deut 24:1-4). |
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---metuschelah on 10/9/09 |
Your Bible calls this an abomination... |
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---amand6348 on 10/7/09 |
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