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Tell Girlfriend About God

How can I initially start telling my girlfriend to accept my God.

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 ---abhisek on 10/21/10
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Pray first, pray earnestly and persistently. Pray during your daily bible reading and God will show and help you with what to say and then present the opportunity.
God will never give you a mission without the provision. Never ever.

Trust him not you.


Take care.
---larry on 10/26/10


Cluny: "Now, just who is it here who is specializing in worldly knowledge?"

You are such a card, cluny. You remind me of the democrats (and a couple of republicans) who dig up little bits and pieces of info from way in the past and twist it to discredit his opponent.

You surely are a person of this world, a person who thinks he is a christian. You try to use worldly knowledge to interpret spiritual matters. You certainly fit in with the people who have the knowledge of God, but deny his true power.

Today, I am, as instructed in the bible, aware of current events - observing the world around me during these end times.
---Steveng on 10/26/10


\\My background as an investigative reporter during the 1980s has gotten me into the habit of keeping up with current events especailly concerning human endeavors.\\

Now, just who is it here who is specializing in worldly knowledge?
---Cluny on 10/25/10


---abhisek - you haven't told us yet WHO is YOUR God?

Because of how you phrased your question, calling God, MY GOD, leads me to believe you believe in a different God than I do.

I never refer to God as MY God. I call him God or Father or Lord.

Did your God send his only begotten Son to die for your sins? Did your God raise his son from the grave 3 days after he was crucified?

Can your God Son blood cleanse us from all unrighteousness?

Just curious, can you please answer these questions? Thank you.
---Donna5535 on 10/25/10


Church history--the study of the how God acts in history--is hardly worldly knowledge.

I'll be happy to pray for your salvation, Steveng.
---Cluny on 10/24/10




Cluny: "I'm a student of..."

That's your problem, you'll always be a student of worldly knowledge. When are you going to graduate from worldly knowledge to spiritual knowledge and then from spritual knowledge to having a true relationship with the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob?

I surely pray it's sometime soon.
---Steveng on 10/24/10


Though not popular, the children of Israel were told to marry within their tribes.
The early church Paul warned to marry within the faith.
Getting girlfriends and boyfriends and using man's devices or acting on appearances or lusts will damn many souls.
But, people don't wish to submit to God and allow his Spirit to bring the mate he wishes.
After all, that person might be poor or ugly.
---Frank on 10/24/10


\\Also, list all the prophesies concerning human attributes (love, etc) and compare today with say sixty years ago. Then compare sixty years ago to a thousand years.\\

I'm a student of Church history, and people have thought they were living in the end times since the Ascension.

Even the discovery of the New World was considered an Apocalyptic sign.
---Cluny on 10/23/10


You can't. You CAN however show them by the way you live your life. is it according to scripture? Do you walk the walk and not just spew out the talk? If you show her by your Christian example ,and then show her some scriptures and how history really lines up with them, then maybe you can plant a seed in her to want to grow to learn about God. however unless she really is ready , we can't "make" anyone believe in God. Why should we? It should be a "want" not "make".
---candice on 10/23/10


Little late aren't you? You should have told her about "my God" before things got serious, assumming they are. But, that's water under the bridge. The longer you wait, the harder it will be. Your best avenue is let her see God working in you. If she can't see how God has effected your life, just telling will have little good. Ask yourself, "What is the worse thing that can happen?" (She may break-up with you, but while it may hurt in the short run, you might be grateful before long.) Remember, God see's the "big picture" and we don't. He knows what's best even if we can't understand that in the short run.
---wivv on 10/23/10




Cluny: "Of course, what has not yet been established is if the original poster in fact worships the REAL God (as others have pointed out)."

That's why I included the words "the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob."
---Steveng on 10/22/10


Cluny: "Why should these be the "end times" any more than the last 2000 or so years have been since the descent of the Holy Spirit at Pentecost?"

My background as an investigative reporter during the 1980s has gotten me into the habit of keeping up with current events especailly concerning human endeavors. For example, bible prophesy tells us that at the end times knowledge will increase a thousandfold. Well, of all the scientists born throughout all of earth's history, ninty five percent of them were born within the past hundred years.

Also, list all the prophesies concerning human attributes (love, etc) and compare today with say sixty years ago. Then compare sixty years ago to a thousand years.
---Steveng on 10/22/10


It is not a matter of her accepting God, will God accept her? Maybe your concern is, will she except the fact that you are saved? If that should be your number one concern, and it ought to be, the answer is, she won't enjoy this after you are married.
---catherine on 10/22/10


You should have done that before she became your girlfriend. She may not ever accept your God. Then what? You will have to go through a period of letting her go, possible fights and misunderstanding, hurt feelings etc....Or you may choose to stay with her. There might still be problems to contend with. Perhaps she might be willing to see things your way! Choices, choices in life. I hope things work out for you in the end. God bless
---Robyn on 10/22/10


What are you doing with her? She may beat you to the punch. She may tell you about her's.
---catherine on 10/22/10


\\Don't try to convince her to your way of thinking because she might be the seed that fell on a rock (read The Parable of the Sower) - and it would be too late after marriage to try to straighten things out. \\

Of course, what has not yet been established is if the original poster in fact worships the REAL God (as others have pointed out).

\\As for my personal opinion, don't get married in these end times.\\

Why should these be the "end times" any more than the last 2000 or so years have been since the descent of the Holy Spirit at Pentecost?
---Cluny on 10/22/10


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Hello, I am very new here.

I would try telling your girlfriend about all the good God has done in your life. Recall anything specific where God has truly helped you through things. Maybe God has brought you to her to try to help her learn of the beautiful ways of God. Best wishes.
---Christine on 10/22/10


Break your relationship with this gal.

Don't try to convince her to your way of thinking because she might be the seed that fell on a rock (read The Parable of the Sower) - and it would be too late after marriage to try to straighten things out.

Find yourself a godly women in the beginning, one who is already established in the family of God - the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob.

As for my personal opinion, don't get married in these end times. These are difficult times to try to focus on God and develop a personal relationship with him.
---Steveng on 10/21/10


\\THEN when we find that out, we can then tell HIM (you refer to Him as Her) and if this is a female asking, then she has a girlfriend????\\

Please re-read carefully what I actually wrote.
---Cluny on 10/21/10


Cluny, you're way off base here.

We're trying to determine who is his God.

THEN when we find that out, we can then tell HIM (you refer to Him as Her) and if this is a female asking, then she has a girlfriend????

When we find out who is his God, then we can guide him how to start telling his girlfriend about his/our God.

If it's a false god he's following, then I can't help him, but maybe you can Cluny since you are very doctrine-oriented and very intelluctual, I'm not. I'm just trying to figure out who his God is first before I give any further advice. What are your motives for your assumptions?
---Donna5535 on 10/21/10


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Let your relationship with Him speak for itself and when she asks, be ready to give an answer.
---Linda on 10/21/10


This sounds suspiciously like the search for the magic bullet to get someone to make the quick evangelical decision for Jesus RIGHT NOW! that so many people ask for here.

You are not the Holy Spirit, remember that.

You can share with her what you believe and why, but her spiritual choices are her own business, not yours.
---Cluny on 10/21/10


Who is YOUR God?

If it is the Lord God of Israel, then she should be saved BEFORE you start dating her.

If your God is any other God than the Lord God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, the God of Jacob, then he's a false God, and he did not send his only begotten son to die for your sins - only the Lord God Jehovah did that for us.
---Donna5535 on 10/21/10


---abhisek could you please tell us something about what you believe about your God first?
---mima on 10/21/10


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---peter on 10/21/10


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