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Trav
You do not know me nor can you judge the matter earnestly.Paul
---paul on 9/1/11

Thanks. As with Andy, you come on here with all the answers and no witnesses. Rebuked your lack of by scripture.
This dialog should be useful to u. A Berean,non wolf would have scripture to show approval. Required to sell yourself. To me anyway.
You probably are a good guy. You may do works. GOD weighs these, not us. Why sell us your goodness of works?
Why sell the flock your "love" knowledge. Your own brothers and sisters? True, it would get tested here by scripture. Maybe that's why.
We do know you. Your heart shows at particular places paul. As does all of us, but then we're not "ministers".
---Trav on 9/2/11


Trav "My peace is perfect".
and then you keep rebelling.
---andy3996 on 9/1/11

andy you are a foundationally a good guy, maybe a sheep, who shouldn't preach or teach until you connect,search scripture.
Two + witnesses on anything, are in scripture freeing you from me and any other than GOD.

It is not rebelling but, scriptural rebuking. i came back, through scripture witnesses by being rebuked. It should force one concerned to go to scripture to prove right or wrong as a Berean would.
Those not concerned,not searching are a mark/sign unto themselves.....
It does take self vs scripture analysis. The hard part is unlearning.
Be totally free.
I pray for andy's freedom.
---Trav on 9/2/11


TRAV
Psalms 60:4 Thou hast given a banner to them that fear thee, that it may be displayed because of the truth. Selah.
Song of Solomon 2:4 He brought me to the banqueting house, and his banner over me was love.

GOD BLESS (as if i was a prophet)
---andy3996 on 9/2/11


Trav

Good luck to you, I will not engage in your foolishness.

If my brother desires to it is up to him.

I hope one day you can see the truth for I to care deeply for the flock and have given myself for them.

I do not sale out to the publicity and commercialization of the Gospel.

You do not know me nor can you judge the matter earnestly.

You have no clue how God uses me to benefit His kingdom but I pray He will use you some how to do so.

And to me you are a brother and I'm not willing to get into a slam fest with you.

God Bless, Paul
---paul on 9/1/11


Trav "My peace is perfect".
and then you keep rebelling. could be that i donot use the scriptures literally but so did the letter of James use the least direct quotes and yet looking at the letter we can see that he's the most consistent in talking in Christ's line. not that i say that ido, only MY LORD AND MASTER Knows. i can see however that you really know how to use the word of God, and a great knowledge dwells in you. all i pray is that these same words you search will give you the life you seek.
(as if i was a prophet)
---andy3996 on 9/1/11




TRAV your convinced that what i say is falsehood, Which one is?
.... my words seem to pierce as a double-edged sword? ---andy3996 on 9/1/11

My peace is perfect.

What word? You lack of scriptural sword to anything posted preacher. You've drawn no blood, other than yours. You've pierced nothing except the blogs and wind.
Matthew 10:34
Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.

Hebrews 4:12
For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.
I c u.
---Trav on 9/1/11


TRAV your convinced that what i say is falsehood, Which one is?
My Godly concern for you?
The fact that however i never met you, my words seem to pierce as a double-edged sword? LOVE & CARE i proclaim ?
the blessings i keep sending?

for which of these good works will ibe stoned?(using the words of master Jesus)
may GOD bring you the peace you need so badly
and MAY GODS SPIRIT lead you to the experience of Christ(again i shout as if i was a prophet )<
---andy3996 on 9/1/11


trav try to figure out follwing scripture:Genesis 45:6.
I BELIEVE THAT GOD WANTS TO PREPARE YOU FOR A RESTORATION THAT IS WHY I CANNOT WALK AWAY FROM THIS, EVEN GOD LOVES YOU SOMUCH AND HE SEES YOUR DROUGHT,
---andy3996 on 8/30/11

Ha. Now your a "SHOUTING"....prophet. Never seen where they needed too....but, you're special I guess.
It is not called restoration, to go back to the falsehoods/darkness I left. GOD opened my eyes to false,preachers and prophets through his witnesses. Thank you for nothing.
Joshua 24:10
But I would not hearken unto Balaam, therefore he blessed you still: so I delivered you out of his hand.
---Trav on 9/1/11


trav try to figure out follwing scripture:Genesis 45:6 Genesis 45:6 For these two years hath the famine been in the land: and yet there are five years, in the which there shall neither be earing nor harvest.

THIS SCRIPTURE REALLY TALKS ABOUT YOUR ACTIONS AND YOUR HEART? I BELIEVE THAT GOD WANTS TO PREPARE YOU FOR A RESTORATION THAT IS WHY I CANNOT WALK AWAY FROM THIS, EVEN GOD LOVES YOU SOMUCH AND HE SEES YOUR DROUGHT,
---andy3996 on 8/30/11


1 John 4:20 If a man say, I love God, and hateth his brother, he is a liar: for he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how can he love God whom he hath not seen?
---andy3996 on 8/29/11

Again, there can be no unity with us. My scripture of light has no concourse with yours in the dark.
Isaiah 8:20
To the law and to the testimony: if they speak not according to this word, it is because there is no light in them.
Jeremiah 2:8
The priests said not, Where is the LORD? and they that handle the law knew me not: the pastors also transgressed against me, and the prophets prophesied by Baal, and walked after things that do not profit.
---Trav on 8/30/11




TRAV love is the message Psalm 133 Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity! It is like the precious ointment upon the head, that ran down upon the beard, even Aarons beard: that went down to the skirts of his garments, As the dew of Hermon, and as the dew that descended upon the mountains of Zion: for there the LORD commanded the blessing, even life for evermore.
1 John 4:20 If a man say, I love God, and hateth his brother, he is a liar: for he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how can he love God whom he hath not seen?
---andy3996 on 8/29/11


TRAV, i regretfully live too far off but i'm convinced that there are quite a few in your neighbourhood to help.
---andy3996 on 8/27/11

Ha,regretfully. My blessings, and Sheeps blessings again.

You are but another legend in his own mind who cannot and will not look into the scriptural mirror.

Isaiah 8:20
To the law and to the testimony: if they speak not according to this word, it is because there is no light in them.

Psalm 27:1
The LORD is my light and my salvation, whom shall I fear? the LORD is the strength of my life, of whom shall I be afraid?
---Trav on 8/29/11


TRAV, and still God wants your total freedom instead of this burning hate YOU SAID:
//Even Cluny?// How generous. ha.
---andy3996 on 8/27/11

Even Cluny was stated by your new master paul. I noted how generous he was as an irony to his self seen glory as a tongue speaker who doesn't know what he is saying or care too.
There is no hate in my post to you or these false ministers. It is allowed though.
Psalm 119:128
Therefore I esteem all thy precepts concerning all things to be right, and I hate every false way.
Psalm 119:104
Through thy precepts I get understanding: therefore I hate every false way.
---Trav on 8/29/11


TRAV, and still God wants your total freedom instead of this burning hate that consumes you: May i suggest you find a good pastor who can help you with delivery and restoration? i regretfully live too far off but i'm convinced that there are quite a few in your neighbourhood to help.
YOU SAID:
Even Cluny? How generous. ha.
You don't understand even yourself. You cannot interpret but you ignorantly babble on?
You make merchandise of Christians on topics you say GOD's book needs help with? When does the mouth of the body of Christ charge the toe or leg of body for help?
I've interpreted your tongue & tinkling ministry.
THIS SHOWS YOU NEED HELP
---andy3996 on 8/27/11


//Aka, everything you said inspired me.//
everything that i understand up to now about the Messiah (which is very little compared to who the Lord really is) has inspired me...inspired me to decrease as He increases. in order to do this, i had two imperatives: to know Him as He is and to realize who i am really not. my whole life, I resisted the denominational lies that instantly we know Him reinforced through single verse theology. Throughout that time, i did not realize what i was not. However, through my 2nd wife, the Lord showed me the truth. I learned that until He shows me who i really am not, i cannot know Him at all. Over time, God gave me many mirrors, but I would not see. So, how can i blame her for being another mirror?
---aka on 8/27/11


Aka, everything you said inspired me. You did not blame your wife for everything, that is very unusal. Most everyone has something bad to say about their wives. God blessed me with two wifes. The first one died, and though we separated once, for lack of both of us trying, and my failure to love Christ as He loves the Church. I got married at 18 years old and did not know the Lord. My first wife and I got married by a judge, and when we got back together we invited Christ to our real wedding. After my wife's death, I remarried again, and Christ was invited. He has blessed both of us. We have a great God.
---Mark_V. on 8/26/11


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tRAV that'll be the day GOD BLESSES YOU
---andy3996 on 8/25/11

My cup has run over.
1The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not want.

2He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.

3He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake.

4Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me, thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.

5Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil, my cup runneth over.

6Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the LORD for ever.
---Trav on 8/25/11


tRAV that'll be the day GOD BLESSES YOU
AND THE EXPRESSION GOES
when hell freezes over
don't be holier then you are
---andy3996 on 8/25/11


TRAV APOLOGISE APOLOGISE APOLGISE
---andy3996 on 8/24/11


Ha. When Hades is frozen over solid..... I'll apologize.
If my fruit is not of ur spirit it is of the rebuking scripture.

Ezekiel 3:19
Yet if thou warn the wicked, and he turn not from his wickedness, nor from his wicked way, he shall die in his iniquity, but thou hast delivered thy soul.
Malachi 3:18
Then shall ye return, and discern between the righteous and the wicked, between him that serveth God and him that serveth him not.

I have warned, I have discerned.
---Trav on 8/25/11


TRAV APOLOGISE APOLOGISE APOLGISE
---andy3996 on 8/24/11


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By the way your answer didn't say anything.
---andy3996 on 8/23/11

It didn't because you are not listening...to scripture. Judeans are 1/13th of Israel. They are not all Israel. They may or may not be Judeans these "jews" of yours you're paying so much allegiance and respect too.
There are "jews" who claim to be Judean....but are liars. Revelations.
There is no such thing as a "messianic jew". They may Christians of Judean descent who have chosen Christ. I'm proud they done so. Messianic Judeans? Remains to be seen in scripture or reality. Was only one Messiah for all Israel, your's don't qualify.
---Trav on 8/23/11


Trav, A JEW. before i had the same problem as you, i would say a judean, or an Israelite,this i did not to offend. I was corrected by a Jewish Rabi i translated (yep i'm involved with messianic jews)
what i say comes directly from what they have exposed unto me. mostly judaisers are a stench to true messianic jews, because it makes them to be even more seperated from the people they try to reach. fellow jews.By the way your answer didn't say anything.
---andy3996 on 8/23/11


trav, a jew that receives Christ is he still a jew, in what way and why?
a gentile who receives Christ, is he still a gentile in what way and why?
---andy3996 on 8/16/11

A Judean who is "drawn" to Christ can follow or not. As anyone else drawn of the House of Israel.

Anyone drawn to Christ/GOD has their own relationship to work out. With Israel's book being the guideline.
Deuteronomy 4:7
For what nation is there so great, who hath God so nigh unto them, as the LORD our God is in all things that we call upon him for?
Deuteronomy 4:8
And what nation is there so great, that hath statutes and judgments so righteous as all this law, which I set before you this day?
---Trav on 8/21/11


trav, a jew that receives Christ is he still a jew, in what way and why?

a gentile who receives Christ, is he still a gentile in what way and why?
---andy3996 on 8/16/11


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with God Yea and nay donot dwell together.
---andy3996 on 8/10/11

Well, you make the marriage cake for us, with the prophets scripture you stopped short in. Lost Sheep Israel and Judah. Jews, maybe, maybe not.

Ezekiel 16:60
Nevertheless I will remember my covenant with thee in the days of thy youth, and I will establish unto thee an everlasting covenant.

Heb 8:8 For finding fault with them, he saith, Behold, the days come, saith the Lord, when I will make a new covenant with the house of Israel and with the house of Judah:
Jer 31:31 ditto.
---Trav on 8/16/11


aka, amen and keep hoping for hope is the proof of our faith.
---andy3996 on 8/14/11


//i see that the potential is in you.//

following the posts, i thought this may be where you were going. i would like to claim that i was lost (but not educated) both times and i would like to blame my childhood and i would like to point out the culpability of others. however, when my heart and head finally reached integrity in the reality of the Word, i realized i (for whatever reasons) am what i am (less than zero). moreover, there was One who provided a way out and already paid the bill.

However, for now, i am still stuck in this lifeless shell and in this lifeless world. what potential that you see in me is life of Jesus Christ and Jesus Christ alone.
---aka on 8/13/11


aka, sorry to here this, but when i read your posts, i see that the potential is in you.
what is a good husband (or wife indeed)? someone who knows he's fallible and looks for God, someone who's willing to sacrifice for the other. i can see this in your posts,
again sorry that it didnt work with your spouse, but then again the best F1-drivers are not free from crashing.
---andy3996 on 8/12/11


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aka, Jerry and I now are examples of a good husband, c'mon men add here some name
---andy3996 on 8/9/1

andy, i just served papers on my second wife. i am not a good husband.
---aka on 8/11/11


Revelation 21:2 And I John saw the holy city, new Jerusalem, coming down from God out of heaven, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband.
Revelation 21:9 And there came unto me one of the seven angels which had the seven vials full of the seven last plagues, and talked with me, saying, Come hither, I will shew thee the bride, the Lambs wife.
Revelation 22:17 And the Spirit and the bride say, Come. And let him that heareth say, Come...
Who's Bride? The lamb
Ezekiel 16:8-14 (Adonai YHWH)

for the Jew to be "remarried" he needs to die and be born again(Romans 6:3)
since the jew who comes to christ died to the law(of moses indeed)and lives now in Christ. (Romans7)
with God Yea and nay donot dwell together.
---andy3996 on 8/10/11


...this "divorce and remarriage theory of the father is absurd.
---andy3996 on 8/9/11

Where your witness proving andyman? You have none. U R urs.

Hosea2:16 And it shall be at that day, saith the LORD, that thou shalt call me Ishi, and shalt call me no more Baali.
19 I will betroth thee unto me for ever, yea, I will betroth thee unto me in righteousness, and in judgment, and in lovingkindness, and in mercies.
20I will even betroth thee unto me in faithfulness: and thou shalt know the LORD.

1 Corinthians 2:14
But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.
---Trav on 8/10/11


Abba father and Jesus Christ is not the same person,
YHWH of the OT bible is the father, YHWH of the NTbible is the son (to discuss wether or not the father divorced israel, is a question, However YHWH Jesus did not divorce before he remmaried.
the church is made out of those that died and rose again, therfore this "divorce and remarriage theory of the father is absurd.
---andy3996 on 8/9/11


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aka:
Yes, there is a place for divorce.
Even God divorced Israel. Interestingly He also forgives and willing takes her back again.
---Haz27 on 8/5/11

There was some legality's in GOD's remarriage.
GOD will not break own laws. Marriage law is wife must be a widow 2 remarry.
Rom 7:2
For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth, but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.

Christ died....Israel (All)was freed from first...acceptable now,as say...."Ten" virgins.
Romans 11:26
And so all Israel shall be saved: as it is written, There shall come out of Sion the Deliverer, and shall turn away ungodliness from Jacob:
---Trav on 8/9/11


Andy and Aka I agree with both of you very much. It is the power of Christ which transforms us. Before God saved me, I did what the world does, drink with the guys, enjoying my life and doing what most did. Never drugs though, not out of respect for Christ since I did not know Him for who He really is, but out of respect for my mom who brought my sister and I up. Had no father to teach me. I took life for granted together with Christ, my wife who gave me four wonderful children and my children. It was not until Christ was a part of my life, that I recognized the sin within me. It is a life changing experience. Peace to both of you.
---Mark_V. on 8/9/11


aka, Jerry and I now are examples of a good husband, c'mon men add here some name
---andy3996 on 8/9/11


My wife (of 42 years) and I once hated each other and nearly divorced. But we each found Jesus and He fixed all that. We now understand that marriage is a love triangle with Jesus in the middle. Without Him, there is no marriage - only an arrangement. I know that my wife may have some faults, but they don't seem important anymore. I adore her!

My wife is mentioned in the Bible:

Pro 31:10-12 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.

Pro 31:30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.
---jerry6593 on 8/9/11


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//we need to change this by the power of Christ//

andy, i agree. that why i said that i was the flip side of the same coin...unimaginative, very unconvincing, and when i put my heart into something,i really held on.

my faults are not hers. our lack of God kept us on the same coin. i served the coin and not the Master.

we need to change this by the power of Christ Jesus.
---aka on 8/9/11


aka, everyone is prone to this kind of behaviour, it is the first thing man did after his fall, avoiding responsibility, and accusing his partner. so in his image we havent developed much inventive ways to sin,
a prisoner had bad parrents, a prostitute did not get sufficient love a divorce is with most people the other one's fault a car accident was the other one not looking well etcetera. we need to change this by the power of Christ
---andy3996 on 8/8/11


monrow_williams,

difficult but not impossible.

e.g. she is imaginative, very convincing, and when she puts her heart into something, she really holds on. ---aka on 8/3/11

as far as merit...i used to be the flip side of the same coin.
---aka on 8/7/11


Good point Reba on Monrow!

It always amuses me to hear a spouse complain about the other spouse as if He/She was just a potted plant that got kicked over.

Like hmmm? Maybe they "may" have something to do with it too?

LOL! Good post!
---John on 8/7/11


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Sorry monrow, you're commenting on the wrong blog. You belong with all the women who find fault with their husbands.... come to think of it, I wouldn't be surprised to learn that one of those women were married to you.... now we have new insight on their complaints. Perhaps she's waiting for you to give her a glimmer of hope that you can love her like Christ loves the church. You're attitude toward your wife Sheds new light on things don't you think?:-/
---Reba on 8/7/11


i love Her with all my heart,the best i can... considering She left me for the Dr. 12 years ago :/
---kevin5443 on 8/7/11


Monrow asked a very important question,
and Yes monrow, the fact that she's willing to stay with such a demanding husband allready should make you praise her, surely there's something about her you like, or do you need any special reason to see She is unique.
---andy3996 on 8/7/11


do i give praise to my wife even when she has done nothing to marrit it
---monrow_williams on 8/7/11


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Haz27 exactely, you made a great point. the old structures are not better then the new. but with all the improvements made, we still see the old ones working and the new ones failing. we don't need to be rocketscientists to figure out wich system is better?
bassically modern society is blurred with NEW FREEDOMS whilst the old ways worked for centuries maybe if we could integrate the old values in the new system the new could be fixed
GOD IS ETERNAL
---andy3996 on 8/7/11


//her only fault.... shes a republican//

perhaps that explain in part her ability of being a great helpmate. the wonderful woman part is probably due to her belief in Jesus Christ.
---aka on 8/7/11


Thank you AKA.. she is a wonderful woman and helpmate..

her only fault.... shes a republican ,)

But, that I can certainly overlook
---NurseRobert on 8/7/11


NurseRobert on 8/6/11

CONGRATULATIONS!
---aka on 8/6/11


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andy3996 said:
"men force their wives in leaving, women force their husbands in abandoning, in all this nobody turns to God (as a family) because one would want a restoration..."

But Jesus said it's out of hardness of heart people divorce.

The high divorce rate is seen in some countries but not others. Past generations did not have high divorce.
It's not like people in high divorce modern cultures are any more dysfunctional than low divorce societies.

All it takes is one partner to become hard of heart in wanting divorce in the great majority of cases. It's an unforgiving, critical, selfish attitude that does it.
---Haz27 on 8/6/11


Divorce isn't the end, in a lot of cases it is the beginning.
---paul on 8/6/11

I needed to hear that.

For me, divorce has been the beginning of understanding how difficult it is to forgive an ex-spouse.

At the same time, it is an awesome understanding about just how great God's love is for us. Even when we've really messed up.

I know that the Bible says that God hates divorce. Yet, He still loves me. How wonderful.
---Augie on 8/6/11


Paul-- Thanks for your encouraging note about divorce not necessarily being the "end". It was for me. One bad experience, and I never found the courage to try again. Maybe others will find a glimmer of hope from your post. God cares for us in whatever state we find ourselves.
---Donna66 on 8/6/11


Divorce isn't the end, in a lot of cases it is the beginning.

I have been divorced and re-married and i can tell you my marriage now is a true blessing.

My wife is humble, loving, helpful and very caring and concerned about my quality of life.

My ex-wife was not so much, once the enamortion of being a Pastors wife wore off she quickly realized the struggles of being a Pastors wife and became burned out.

My present wife understands what it is truly all about, winning souls and equipping saints and she is very adapt at both and sometimes grows tired but never weary.

But my ex-wife gave me my son whom i love dearly, God knows what He's doing and how to do it.
Remain faithful and watch him work.

Paul
---paul on 8/6/11


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Good to hear the kind words you all have for your brides.

I truly am proud of mine and thank the Lord for her, she is top notch and I look forward to spending the rest of my days with her.

I wish you all well for i am signing off from Cnet.

It is consuming me and causing me to become fleshly and I do apologize if my responses have offended any of the innocent here.

God bless you and always cherish your wife, she is a gift from God and deserves to be treated as such.

Paul
---paul on 8/6/11


JamesL you posted a good thing, but let me correct your correction a bit. the only reason for divorce is that humanity discided not to honour God any longer.
men force their wives in leaving, women force their husbands in abandoning, in all this nobody turns to God (as a family) because one would want a restoration yet in marriage there's one thing needed ABOVE LOVE. HUMBLING for eachother.
i humble myself before my wife, and she does the same.
---andy3996 on 8/6/11


andy, I do believe many times we have a lot to do with the person leaving. I did and didn't realize it until much later. But many times you can do everything possible to please your wife or husband and they just don't want to be with you anymore no matter how much you try. I remember when my wife left, I was devastated. I had four kids who stayed with me, but in my time of trouble I could not see anything. I was so obess with her and what she meant to me and my life, that I did not see how much it meant to her also. I had failed as a husband and a father. But God was gracious to save me and later my wife and bring us both together again after a year apart. He had to change me and also work in the life of my wife.
---Mark_V. on 8/6/11


Today is our 35th wedding anniversary. I married a very special woman. She is my lover, my confidant, and my soul mate. She has stood with me through all he good times and the bad times. I love being with her and miss her when we are apart.

I am very blessed to have her in my life...
---NurseRobert on 8/6/11


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Haz27,

//Your post counts. (I filed for divorce 1.5 weeks ago.) there was a place for [her] and there always will be while you are alive here on earth.//

somehow, i omitted one very important word in my post, but i do agree with your latter post. my first got her wings in the service and then flew the coup. my second decided that a life doing what she will is better than a life with her husband and kids. for legal and personal reasons, it is time.
---aka on 8/5/11


Andy3996,

There is only on cause for divorce -

One spouse (or both) decides not to honor the other until death.

There is no other cause than that.
---James_L on 8/5/11


aka:
Yes, there is a place for divorce. Even God divorced Israel. Interestingly He also forgives and willing takes her back again.

But sadly the great majority of divorces in this world are unnecessary.
---Haz27 on 8/5/11


James_L:
I can relate to the multiple marriage experience with the wives easily taking the divorce option. Sadly the cultural mindset of the countries we live in seem to encourage that behavior.

andy3996:
Unfortunately restoration with the last ex-wife is out. She dumped me for the marriage councellor who was undermining our marriage in counselling sessions.
He lost his job over his unethical actions.
They have now married.

But God has taught me much through such trials. I put my trust in Him.
---Haz27 on 8/5/11


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haz27, you post counts very much, it is not because it didn't work out between two people that there should be hat gall and brimstones as a compliment. i really appreaciate you continue to see (now your ex)wife's qualities. may God grant a restoration. If it is in his plans.
---andy3996 on 8/5/11


Or James, maybe some of the reasons where generated by you. being married myself, i know what i'm talking about. i've almost ghot a divorce myself. however i came to my senses and did not continue my idiotic ideas. instead i looked for my mistakes in the situation, my wife abandoned her senseless ideas as well, and submitted to Christ. however i am aware we should never say never, i know that as long as Christ is the focus of our life, whatever happens, we'll be allright,TODAY AT LEAST MY RELATION WITH MY WIFE IS free open and powerfull, and i know that tomorrow in Christ WE will become better. James, i pray that you learn from your mistakes, rather then to think it were your exes who abandoned too early
---andy3996 on 8/5/11


Reba,

You got me. I was "mouthing off" on the other blog, but like Haz27 I am divorced so I didn't think this blog was for me.

Actually, I have been divorced twice, both of them initiated by "her"

The first one, though, asked me to be her son's dad when he was two years old and didn't know his father. I told her only on the condition that it is for life. He will turn 18 this month, and I am still dad. God bless her for that.

The second wife is an AMAZING cook. She made a dish called Chicken Paprikash with paprika and bell peppers, WOW can she cook.

Too bad both were like many of the women who ask questions here, looking to divorce as a first option
---James_L on 8/5/11


Haz27,

Your post counts. (I filed for divorce 1.5 weeks ago.) there was a place for and there always will be while you are alive here on earth.
---aka on 8/4/11


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Thanks Reba!
Well someday G-d willing I will find a good Christian Woman to marry.

But then I was thinking she would be stuck with this imperfect wretch!

hmmm?
Thats sounds fair!
---John on 8/4/11


Paul...Stop trying to sell your wife's book.
---KarenD on 8/4/11


Karen

Believe me when I tell you I don't need any revenues generated from this book.

I am far more concerned about helping people than making money, that is why I also recommended The five Love Languages by Gary Chapman

Shattered to Succeed is a great book full of insights that will help many people.

If I had a way I would give it out simply to get the truths out that are within its pages.

Thanks for your concerns though,
Paul
---paul on 8/4/11


Not sure if my post counts here, being a divorcee, but will try anyway.

When I was with my wife I loved her just for who she is. Even the sound of her voice, her enthusiasm, her smile were all special to me.
---Haz27 on 8/4/11


Andy, let me start by saying I said only 2 men responded,BEFORE your comment was posted.Mine got sent in with yours.Sorry about that. & now to John, SO funny. I laughed out loud & had to read it to my husband. When reading the first 2 lines I was thinking,"now he's just showing off, ain't no wife THAT perfect." Then WHAM, really funny, thanks for the laugh:-)))))))
---Reba on 8/4/11


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Andy3996..Thank you for the awesome post about your wife.

Paul...Stop trying to sell your wife's book.
---KarenD on 8/4/11


maybems husbands are afraid, i found if a man praises his wife usualy the wife will ask
so what have you been up to,
or, so what dp you need?
OR WHAT's YOUR PROBLEM?
and this is gently said. thank God my wife isn't like tis
i love her
---andy3996 on 8/4/11


Equal Time! Not bad!

My wife is absolutely perfect in every way possible. I have not found a single flaw in her at all. She fulfills my every need!

Of course I haven't found her yet:)
---John on 8/4/11


WOW!Only 2 men have good things to say about their wives? You guys were mouthing off fairly strong about the ladies not praising their husbands. Sooo,where are those men now? Why are the praises for the wives not pouring in by now???
HELLO??? :-/
---Reba on 8/4/11


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MY WIFE, she's my African Queen, the most beatifull woman i've ever seen (from a song)
she is spiritual, loves Christ first, rebukes me when nesecary listens to rebuke when needed, helps me in the ministry, supports me in raising my children, disagrees with me yet does not rebel against me,
cooks only things i don't like , (she says it is to keep me healthy, and she's right about that)i loveheriloveheriloveher.
---andy3996 on 8/4/11


Let me also honor my wife by acknowledging her Pastorship at Clearview as well.

She is a fine teacher and preacher of the Gospel and quite capable of performing the Pastoral office.

I recommended her book on another blog and I desire to do that here as well.

You can google it the name is Shattered to succeed by Canie.

It is an excellent read about her journey through brokenness to achieve success she never thought possible.

Great book to promote healing and overcoming brokenness, check it out.

Again God gave me His very best and i truly am thankful to him for it.

Paul
---paul on 8/3/11


God gave me his very best.

My wife Loves the Lord, is beautiful, successful, caring, compassionate, understanding, highly motivated and always desiring to do and be more.

I attribute my deep since of gratitude to her due to my respect of her.

She came here from a very poor family in the Philippines.

She dedicated herself to the American dream and through great adversity met a level of success most Americans will never see.

She is an accomplished singer and songwriter with her own label, she is a published author,a CPA with an MBA and secondary masters in health care management she owns her own consulting firm and teaches at the masters level for University of Pheonix.

I am very proud of her.

---paul on 8/3/11


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