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Loss Of My Parter To Cancer

As I write this note a hold back the tears from the loss of my Partner on 4/28/2011 - a loss to the ugly word , cancer. We would be together 10 years this September. I cry daily, I can't begin to try and live, I need help.

Moderator - I am sorry about the loss of your Partner and the deep grief that you must be feeling. Have you accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior?

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 ---Randy on 8/15/11
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When people do not have the Spirit of G-d within them, they create a false Piety through Humanism to fill the empty gap. From outside G-ds Kingdom(where these Apostates reside) They observe the byproducts of True Christianity and attempt to mimic them through humanistic means since they have no Spirit.

So they act"NICE". They truly think the Bible is a book about LOVE. This is Humanism. Giving birth to Satans new church: Liberalism.

These Pseudo "Christians" who are empty Godless shells then fill the empty vessel with Political Correctness (Niceness) as they continue to drink the wine and fornicate with the Harlot(Liberalism) for they have no other G-d.

THIS IS WHAT YOU SEE OCCURING HERE...
---John on 9/10/11


Andy - how does the computer program of the moderator contribute as you noted below?
---Rocky on 9/10/11


Rocky, bravo, this is what should be done of all, but be warned too keep this "mind you'll need to be strong
to keep blessing whilst everyon's cursing is harder then you might think. i agree with you that some have high-jacked the cnet, but it partly because the "computer programm of the moderator is outdate"
---andy3996 on 9/10/11


Randy, my condolences for your loss. May the healing and peace of God find you as quickly as possible, and lighten your sorrows in the interm. I apologize for the behavior of the non-Christians on this site who violate the sites requirement for "Christ-like replies only" and instead hijack the thread for their own purposes. Please forgive them for they know not what they do. Again my condolences.
---Rocky on 9/9/11


\\Please tell me, if you dare, who said "judge not, lest ye be judged"? Was it Satan, or was it Jesus?
---StrongAxe on 9/9/11

For those who follow the beliefs I described...

IT WAS SATAN!\\

John, I realize you're not okay, but can you please tell us how much of the Sermon on the Mount and other words of Jesus in Red Letter Bibles were actually said by Satan?

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 9/9/11




John:

I said: Please tell me, if you dare, who said "judge not, lest ye be judged"? Was it Satan, or was it Jesus?

You said: For those who follow the beliefs I described...

IT WAS SATAN!


In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus said: Matthew 7:1: "Judge not, that ye be not judged"

So, basically, you think Jesus is Satan?

Note that, regardless of the fact that Satan may twist scriptures, that doesn't change the fact that those same scriptures were nevertheless originally written by God.
---StrongAxe on 9/9/11


Please tell me, if you dare, who said "judge not, lest ye be judged"? Was it Satan, or was it Jesus?
---StrongAxe on 9/9/11

For those who follow the beliefs I described...

IT WAS SATAN!

Satan has used scripture since the beginnings of mankind.

He did it with Eve.
He did it even with My Lord Jesus Christ.

BUTT...

He mostly does it through Antichrists and Apostates!!!

Satan knows scripture better than any man.

And he knows how to use it to advance his twisted, perverted, and EVIL goals.

HE HAS DONE SO SINCE THE BEGINNING!!!
---John on 9/9/11


John:

You wrote: "Judge not/be not judge" Usurped from Scripture in a twisted/perverted attempt to equate G-ds scriptures with the Scripture of Satans Political Correctness.

Please tell me, if you dare, who said "judge not, lest ye be judged"? Was it Satan, or was it Jesus?

And if it was Jesus, why do you hold his explicit words in such contempt?
---StrongAxe on 9/9/11


....."Christians" but fornicate/drink the wine of the Harlot(Liberalism).

I'm okay, you're okay crowd. The "we just want to be nice!" neutered pseudo "Christians".

YOU'RE THE REASON THIS NATION IS WHERE IT IS!
---John on 9/8/11

Your statement/s above should be framed. Ha. Original Johnism's?

Deserves to be bumper stickers.

The Harlot is liberalism.

Isa 1:21
How is the faithful city become an harlot! it was full of judgment, righteousness lodged in it, but now murderers.

Have to say isn't clear what "parter" meant.
Abraham tried to save a city of sodomites.....to save his own. His own family being key. Ended up three,cont'd liberal problems.
---Trav on 9/9/11


PLEEEZZZ!!! SEE NO EVIL/HEAR NO EVIL/SPEAK NO EVIL.

The APOSTATES of our modern culture. The Fakes who call themselves "Christians" but fornicate/drink the wine of the Harlot(Liberalism). The I'm okay, you're okay crowd. The "we just want to be nice!" neutered pseudo "Christians".

APOSTATES FAVORITE VERSE...
"Judge not/be not judge" Usurped from Scripture in a twisted/perverted attempt to equate G-ds scriptures with the Scripture of Satans Political Correctness.

YOU'RE THE REASON THIS NATION IS WHERE IT IS!

The neutered so-called "Christians" who watched/laughed alongside the Liberals, watching a man urinate on Jesus face on HBO. (No complaints, No cancellations)
---John on 9/8/11




Elder:

Yes, exactly!
---StrongAxe on 9/8/11


Who cares what the word "Partner" means. We have someone here that is hurting and needs the Lord to comfort them.
This "Partner" could have been a spouse, friend or a buisness partner.
We can send this hurting person to Christ for comfort or poke them in the eye with a hot stick.
One uncaring post from a stranger is not going to change a lifestlye if it even exist. The judges here don't really know if it does or not.... but then again, who cares?
Comfort with Christ not self-righteousness.
---Elder on 9/8/11


KarenD:

You are making presumptions about what a person meant. Read below - NurseRobert specifically commented that he considered his wife his partner.

As far as preaching the gospel at funerals, that is, of course, the family's prerogative. However, a preacher asked to preach a funeral should not presume, without being asked, to preach a "Your loved one is in hell - and you will be too if you don't wise up" type of sermon.
---StrongAxe on 9/8/11


TRAV i know that what i'm going to say is going to make more sense to you

i tryed to reason with you as a normal human being, i tried to appeal to CHRIST IN YOU
and i tryed to but obviously one canot appeal to anything absent. i wasnt' aware that i was talking to an aleister Crowley. .... what will follow is nothing i'm only glad that i now know that your selfrighteousness is beyond saving
---andy3996 on 9/7/11


Our spouses are many things - beloved, mate, friend, partner - all of these things apply (or should apply). I agree you didn't judge anyone. It was Karen and John who read between the lines and made unwarranted assumptions.
---StrongAxe on 9/7/11

In today's world, the word "partner" does not mean married and represents a lifestyle that is not of God. As far as preaching a salvation message at funerals, we have had several families ask to do just that so that their family members at least have a chance to hear about the GOSPEL OF JESUS CHRIST.
---KarenD on 9/7/11


This loss may be so you will run to Jesus for the comfort you need at this time. God loves you with a perfect love. Now you need fellowship with Him more than ever. He can and will ease your pain no matter your status in the world or with Him. God Bless.
---Elder on 9/7/11


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so we can enjoy ourself raving like madmen guided by the wise TRAV. (is that short for something?)
---andy3996 on 9/7/11

Ha,interesting that you pick your own description. Raving like mad men. Had my own laugh at the truth of it. You guys are past guiding. but scriptures warning of, can guide a sheep past you.
Numbers 22:28
And the LORD opened the mouth of the ass, and she said unto Balaam, What have I done unto thee, that thou hast smitten me these three times?
Numbers 22:29
And Balaam said unto the ass, Because thou hast mocked me: I would there were a sword in mine hand, for now would I kill thee.

N ur case short for Traveller. Visiting a scripture near you.
---Trav on 9/7/11


TRAV i regret your bad case of memory loss, and i hope it doesnt' hurt too much, but "shouting like a prophet" is a title YOU gave me, a little bit like Christians where called that way as a mockery but they felt flattered instead.
in case you didn't notice by now I'm laughing hilariously.
By the way the one between us who wants to impose himself as a prophet is defenately not me, i know what i am, trust me on this one, i have no need to quote anything (a bit like James).
normally i wasn't going to anwer but this i thought so funny i couldn't resist. so please, will you start the blogg why i think and3996 and Paul... so we can enjoy ourself raving like madmen guided by the wise TRAV. (is that short for something?)
---andy3996 on 9/7/11


TRAV YOU FINALLY SEE WHAT IM UP AGAINST
....you saw I WAS SHOUTING LIKE A PROPHET AGAIN?
---andy3996 on 9/7/11

You have only run up against scriptures. They do try one I admit.
I've met OT Prophets through the scriptures.
You sir are not one.

Kinda like the public thing here, as maybe a sheep will hear the master calling through scriptures posted.
Ezekiel 34:11
For thus saith the Lord GOD, Behold, I, even I, will both search my sheep, and seek them out.
John 10:26
But ye believe not, because ye are not of my sheep, as I said unto you.
---Trav on 9/7/11


StrongAxe - dont take John personally - while I applaud his zeal, I believe it needs some humbling out. Blasting people who dont agree with you because your 'always right' will get you nowhere. None of us 'others' are looking to just get along - to be politically correct etc...on the contrary, If our hearts are right, we are to bring the gospel to the sick because we care about their souls. John looks to toss tables at any chance he gets. I know alot of his type - pound the sinners so they dont get away with it, rather than share with the sinners, so they wont die without it. Peace to you Mark V. & StrongAxe - I like you guys...
---Mikeman on 9/7/11


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TRAV YOU FINALLY SEE WHAT IM UP AGAINST by the way if you want to continue do as i told you, open a blogg dedicated to the two of us, from now on i will in respect for my fellow bloggers no more use up space trying to help you (but that doesn't mean i'm not praying for you don't worry, i'm still there for you my spouse).
Ephesians 6:12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.
you saw I WAS SHOUTING LIKE A PROPHET AGAIN?
---andy3996 on 9/7/11


really you start to sound like the wife i never wanted
---andy3996 on 9/6/11

Which one was that. Get the impression you want/ed them all.

Ephesians 6:12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.
---Trav on 9/7/11


Randy:

(I should have said this the first time I opened my mouth on this blog)
You have my deepest condolances.


shira3877:

Genesis 2:18
"And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone, I will make him an help meet for him."

"meet" in 17th-century English meant "suitable" - God created Eve as a suitable help for Adam. She was not his slave, but on an equal footing with him - i.e. a partner, rather than a subordinate.

Our spouses are many things - beloved, mate, friend, partner - all of these things apply (or should apply). I agree you didn't judge anyone. It was Karen and John who read between the lines and made unwarranted assumptions.
---StrongAxe on 9/7/11


YOUR BACK MY FRIEND,GOD BLESS YOU please can you do a favour to the rest who are blogging, create a blogg WHY I THINK andy3996 is an..... . youl be doing everyone else a favour and i'll be there privately amusing myself upon your intelligence.

really you start to sound like the wife i never wanted
Proverbs 21:9 It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house.
---andy3996 on 9/6/11


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strong ax: my husband was my husband and mate....he was not a partner. I never judged anyone..just ask what partner meant. By the way, when my daughter passed away she ask for our pastor to preach a salvation sermon and he did just that. He didn't condemn anyone to hell, just preached Jesus Christ and Him crucified. Amen and praise the Lord.
---shira3877 on 9/6/11


JOHN REALLY SHINES ACCORDING HIS FATHER ISN'T HE?
---andy3996 on 8/31/11

Lets see. Yells in print. He has passion and is not lukewarm. Don't see him promoting doctrine of Balaam. Hmmmm. Can see where you would not approve.

Revelation 3:16
So, because you are lukewarm neither hot nor coldI am about to spit you out of my mouth.

Wait just a minute let me get out of the way.
---Trav on 9/6/11


JOHN REALLY SHINES ACCORDING HIS FATHER ISN'T HE?
---andy3996 on 8/31/11


Mark_V.:

Don't worry - I'm not upset. It's just that whenever I see anyone making unsubstantiated claims on these blogs, and especially unsubstantiated accusations against myself and/or others, I challenge them to provide evidence or corroboration for such claims (as the Bible frequently demands). In most cases, however, such requests are ignored, and until they are, I just assume that such claims are little more than hot air.
---StrongAxe on 8/31/11


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Strongaxe, I have no clue why John would say what he did. Not one clue. I went back to read what everyone said and for the life of me I cannot understand his statements. He sounds very much judgmental for no reason at all. He has a real problem in his mind from the past that haunts him and cause him to say what he does. Do not let him get to you.
---Mark_V. on 8/31/11


John:

I was not apologizing for you. I said glee at someone going to hell (which you repeat here) is inappropriate for Christians.

Pseudo Christianity? Show (chapter and verse) what I said contradicting what Jesus taught, and where the Harlot is identified with Liberalism. In the bible, "liberal" is universally used in a POSITIVE way. I do not worship liberalism. I detest Political Correctness.

Who is the Edomite? Who is urinating? Show SPECIFIC evidence.

Judge not, lest ye be judged. I asked for evidence of your accusations, but instead you hurl abuse.

Whom did I marry? Who is is a Deviant/Pervert? What behavior? Be SPECIFIC!

What harlots? Why hyphenate "God"? The Bible doesn't.
---StrongAxe on 8/29/11


Don't apologised for me CraigA/StrongAxe EVER!!!

I'M not part of your Psuedo("Aren't we just NICE people FAKE/NEUTURED CHRISTIANITY).

You are the ones who drank the wine and fornicated with the Harlot(Liberalism). You worship Her sacred scripture Political Correctness.

And when you saw an Edomite unrinate on the face of Jesus you said... NOTHING!

So ALL these accepting PC non judgemental posts... JUDGE YOU!!!

Yet you married this Deviant/Pervert an defend him and his behavior even against the throne of G-d,

WHY???
Because you want to just get along with this Harlots world.NOT G-D!

SO YOU TOO WILL ROAST ALONG SIDE THESE AN OTHER EVIL DEMONS YOU SO READILY DEFEND!
---John on 8/29/11


John:

Just whom are you accusing, and of what? Claiming that someone is roasting in hell is an extremely serious charge. What are your charges? Where are your witnesses?

You almost seem to take pleasure in such a comment. You sound almost as happy as the people from the Westboro Baptist Church who seem to chortle with glee when people die, and rejoice that they are in hell.

In contrast, God does not take pleasure in the death of the wicked (Ezekiel 33:11, 2 Peter 3:9), and neither should we.
---StrongAxe on 8/29/11


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Youll have to forgive John. He seems to lack the ability to show the love of Christ (which is what changes people). All he knows is bitterness, judgement and condemnation.
---CraigA on 8/28/11


And now he's roasting in Hells fire!

Maybe that fact would "Straighten" you out.

(Pun intended)
---John on 8/27/11


NurseRobert....You are not so naive to believe that this is a spouse. And I find it humorous that many refer to Randy as a "he" when nothing was said about whether this was a man or woman. The reference to "be together 10 years" says this was not a marriage. The Bible is true no matter what anyone wants to think about living together in ungodly relationships.
---KarenD on 8/28/11


Living together as "partners" is a sin and anyone who is born again would not be in that lifestyle.
---KarenD on 8/26/11

My wife of 35 years is my "partner." Does that mean we are living in sin too?
---NurseRobert on 8/26/11


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KarenD:

You are reading much between the lines that was not stated. He used the word "partner" which can mean many things. The word "lifestyle" was never mentioned. Yet you automatically assume a meaning that implies sin, and then condemn him for it. Why do you do this?

If I told you I drove a car to work, it could be my own car, or a borrowed car, or a stolen car. Without any other evidence of the fact, would you automatically assume that it was a stolen car? I hope not.

Some people look for sin under every rock. As it has been said, Jesus called us to bear fruit, not to be fruit inspectors.
---StrongAxe on 8/26/11


StrongAxe....The Bible says that we will know them by their fruits. Living together as "partners" is a sin and anyone who is born again would not be in that lifestyle.
---KarenD on 8/26/11


KarenD:

What ever led you to assume that Randy ISN'T already born again?
---StrongAxe on 8/26/11


Hello! Randy, My heart goes out to you & to be honest. The Lord knows I try to be console,pray. 'n my heart pray to the Lord how oh! Lord,what can I say to comfort this person? See,Randy I goin be honest & I just some months ago left from Chemo... breast cancer & Randy,God has been my Rock of Gibraltar! He has given me strength! The housekeeper,she took off first day!This my 2nd time with this...So,my friend I live for the Lord,really am not complain about cancer,it does not determine my destiny! It does not own my heart,my soul...Jesus lover of my soul! God Loves you so much! He loves you! I do not spend much time on talk bout cancer... you in my prayers Love of jesus!
---ELENA on 8/25/11


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Clunny, I think were all a little confused as to what you are saying. Are you simply arguing over what we call the event in which a believer begins a relationship with God, or are you arguing that making a personal choice to follow Christ and accept his free gift is unbiblical? If it is the later, could you please then, using scripture, tell us your interpretation of God's plan for our salvation?
---Jed on 8/25/11


Randy NEVER used the word he or she is this question. I have known women called Randy. I also know what "partner" means in the world's society. Although Randy is in grief, Randy will be more uncomfortable in eternity if Randy doesn't get born again.
---KarenD on 8/25/11


Randy, I am sorry to hear of your loss. God knows your pain and will see you through. He too watched someone that he loved very much die. It was his own son, a part of himself, who had never sinned. He sent his son, Jesus, to pay the death penalty for our sins that we deserve to pay. He died in our place, but rose again, and is now preparing a place for you in heaven. If you believe and confess that this is true, and repent of your sins, you will be saved, so you can one day spend eternity with the one who loves you more than anyone ever has, God.
---Jed on 8/25/11


KarenD (and also note shira3877):

Why are you worrying about trying to pre-judge Randy based on the use of a single word, suggesting "ungodly relationship" based on no evidence whatsoever, and then, based on such a conclusion, preaching repentance at him in his time of grief?

I have heard of preachers who use funerals as an excuse to ram the gospel down people's throats - by telling the mourners that their loved one is going to hell because he's an unbeliever, but they should have good cheer because they can avoid the same fate if they come to Christ. Far from comforting the mourners, such a message can be very distressing at such a time.
---StrongAxe on 8/25/11


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\\You "believe in" (accept) Jesus and in the sacrifice he made for us (is thye anot the same a personal saviour?) \\

Nope. Not personal at all.

The very fact you're using a PLURAL pronoun, as St. Paul did, means it's not "personal savior."

One wag said that some people think when Jesus comes on His white horse at the climax of Armageddon, he will have not two but THREE names on His thigh: King of kings, Lord of lord, and Personal Savior.

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 8/24/11


You people amaze me. Randy has lost someone near and dear to him and this blog turns into another arguement about who right and whos wrong on how to word a message on salvation...

Randy, you have my deepest sympathy. May God grant you strength and understanding in this time. We cannot understand all the ways of God, just know that he loves you and cares for you. May God bless you..
---NurseRobert on 8/24/11


Cluny ... I think Mod is trying to find out what vasrious phrases or words are used by different peoploe for what is basicically the same thing.

You "believe in" (accept) Jesus and in the sacrifice he made for us (is thye anot the same a personal saviour?) and try to follow the life he asks of us.

There are so many different words, saved, converted, and many more

Many seem to imply that to be saved (oe whaever else you call it) you have to use those words ... but they are wrong.

Its not essential to say personal saviour, nor is it wrong
---alan8566_of_uk on 8/24/11


Cluny,

Sorry, for my poor wording of the question. The question is directed at other bloggers not you. I wanted to know what phrases others use and why.
---Moderator on 8/24/11


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\\Thanks for the phrase "believed Jesus and repented" instead of "accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior".

Which phrases do others use and do both of the above phrases mean the same to you?\\

I have no idea what others use.

St. Paul talks about faith in Christ and repentance. Nowhere does he talk about "accepting Christ" or "personal savior."

Glory to Jesus Christ.
---Cluny on 8/24/11


Cluny,

Thanks for the phrase "believed Jesus and repented" instead of "accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior".

Which phrases do others use and do both of the above phrases mean the same to you?
---Moderator on 8/23/11


\\If I am stating a nonBiblical concept, this is your opportunity to state things properly.

I highly doubt that you are stating a Christian should be void of Jesus Christ. What are the semantics you wish to convey?\\

Please show me anywhere in the Bible there is anything like "accepting Christ" or "personal Savior."

I see where people believed Jesus and repented, but I don't see the other two.

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 8/23/11


For 2011 years people have been coming to Christ,asking forgiveness,and taking a new Spiritual road of life to follow Jesus. Whether they called it accepting Christ,getting saved or any other titles doesn't matter one iota. What denomination they did it under or no denomination doesn't matter either. The only thing which matters is they found God through his only son Jesus and are following and obeying God and lining up their lives to God's Word. In this age Christians need to be concerned with the important Gospel of Christ and not such trival things as titles or denominations for that matter.
---Darlene_1 on 8/23/11


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Cluny, really try to live outside the orthodox box, christians of other mansions do tend to use other phraseology in expressing totally the same thing.
the shism about trinity between ancient churches shows how dangerous it can be, the differnces are sometimes no more then two words put differently therfore
accept Jesus indicates....
receive Christ tells us...
if you know the meaning you'll probably agree, but will you be able to admit it or will formalisme be your stumblingblock.
---andy3996 on 8/23/11


Cluny,

If I am stating a nonBiblical concept, this is your opportunity to state things properly.

I highly doubt that you are stating a Christian should be void of Jesus Christ. What are the semantics you wish to convey?
---Moderator on 8/22/11


\\Cluny,

How would you more properly word the meaning of the phrase "accept Christ" to a lay person in a few words?
---Moderator on 8/22/11\\


Why worry about defining or explaining non-Biblical formulae or concepts at all?

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 8/22/11


Cluny, you always make remarks at others for saying, "do you accept Christ as your Lord and Savior" why do you do that? Don't you ask yourself if you have or not? If you don't think because of your religion you have to admit that, then you never have. Did you not read,
"That if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved" Pride can only bring shame and death? Your religion cannot be that important.
"For with the heart one believes unto righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation" and here is the reason,
"Whoever believes on Him will not be put to shame" (Romans 10:9-11).
---Mark_V. on 8/22/11


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Cluny,

How would you more properly word the meaning of the phrase "accept Christ" to a lay person in a few words?
---Moderator on 8/22/11


\\In respect Cluny, the blogger kept referring to the person who died as a partner. \\

With respect, shira, the original poster referred only ONCE to anyone as a "partner." He did not "keep referring" to him.

Moderator, where does the Bible use the formula "accept Christ" as anything at all?

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 8/22/11


In respect Cluny, the blogger kept referring to the person who died as a partner. Without judgeing anyone I can see why Karen would want to witness to this person. In this day and time with all the political correctness, a partner means a "partner". It is the appearance of evil that was bothering Karen.
---shira3877 on 8/22/11


\\Futhermore you have never seen me write one prayer is the end all to be all past,present,and future because I don't believe that way.\\

Good for you. But you have to admit there are OTHERS who think that, and they post here.

**Jesus did not put limits on when HIS GOSPEL could be preached.
---KarenD on 8/22/11**

There's a difference between Christ's Goispel and yours, KarenD. It's obvious that you want YOURS preached to him.

You know absolutely nothing about the relationship between the original poster and his late friend, so you're in no position to make judgments about it.
---Cluny on 8/22/11


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Shira3877 thank you that means a lot to me that you know what I mean and agree. God Bless
---Darlene_1 on 8/22/11


Jesus did not put limits on when HIS GOSPEL could be preached.
---KarenD on 8/22/11


I am the one who once said the "sinners prayer" is sending plenty of people to hell. Anyone can recite the sinners prayer and there in lies the problem. Darlene, agree, there is a ton of difference between the sinners prayer and praying with a sinner.
---shira3877 on 8/22/11


Cluny I am calling you to task for that answer about what I wrote. You may read that here but not from me. You picked on the wrong person. You have never seen me write about a set sinners prayer and I think thats what you mean,praying with a person in a prayer asking God for forgiveness isn't the same thing. Futhermore you have never seen me write one prayer is the end all to be all past,present,and future because I don't believe that way. Get your facts straight before you pop off like a bully on the playground. I really expected better of you.
---Darlene_1 on 8/22/11


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\\ I know how you feel,a close friend kept telling me she was going to heaven,yet she was sleeping with one man and married to another.\\

Why I thought once you said the "sinner's prayer," all your sins--past, present, and future--are forgiven.

That's what I frequently read here.

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 8/21/11


\\Cluny...Would you miss this chance to tell someone about the saving grace of Jesus? If this person lost a "partner" in an ungodly relationship, shouldn't this person be told about repentence and the gospel of Jesus Christ?
---KarenD on 8/20/11
\\

KarenD, worry about your own repentance. Let me worry about mine, and let him worry about his.

We should not cross-examine people suffering bereavement.

Glory to Jesus Christ.
---Cluny on 8/20/11


KarenD with all respect for your reason for wanting to win souls,I must tell you it isn't the time to preach to a person when they have just lost a loved one. They need to be left alone to the natural process of grief so they can heal. There is no harm in telling them Jesus loves them and wants to be nearer to them and help them if they want him. Then just pray for them. I know how you feel,a close friend kept telling me she was going to heaven,yet she was sleeping with one man and married to another. I didn't tell her it was wrong or condeem her,one time she said she was going to heaven I simply,and gently told her to go to heaven your life must line up with the Bible. Then I prayed for her salvation. She is a Pastors wife now,living for God.
---Darlene_1 on 8/21/11


Cluny...Would you miss this chance to tell someone about the saving grace of Jesus? If this person lost a "partner" in an ungodly relationship, shouldn't this person be told about repentence and the gospel of Jesus Christ?
---KarenD on 8/20/11


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\\Randy...I am sorry for your loss. However, why do you refer to this person as your partner?
---KarenD on 8/17/11
\\

Does it matter, KarenD?

Someone close to Randy died, and he's in mourning, and that's all that matters at this point.

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 8/19/11


Randy...I am sorry for your loss. However, why do you refer to this person as your partner?
---KarenD on 8/17/11


I sm sorry to herar of your loss and pain. I feel for you.I went through something similar with my young son who's life had just begun and it was snuffed out. Taken by someone we don't even know or how it really happened. That is living hell. Please try to move on but I know you don't see it right now. But you will. You have to go through the stages of grief. If you don't, you will be stuck at one stage for a very long and painful time. This will do you no good. Please read the Word of God for comfort. I pray you and your partner were christians. The Word of God and time lifted me up to a level where I felt better and not so defeated. I still miss my son everyday but the hopeless feeling is gone somewhat.
---Robyn on 8/16/11


Randy, God's with you, but you'll need to let go, and He will guide you. your partner wouldn't want it any other way
my prayers are with you
---andy3996 on 8/16/11


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Randy, I'm so sorry for your loss. I went through the same thing. I didn't know what I was going to do next. My daughter helped me so much to cope with all of our loss. I used to go to the cementary everyday for over a year. I would take flowers at first to her, then to others around her who never got any from anyone. There I met a guy who had been going there for over 15 years everyday. I didn't want my life to be like his. I knew in time God would allow me to go forward with my life, and He did. Each one of us deals with this kind of pain differently. God has given you a longer time then your wife's, use it wisely for the glory of God. Many have gone through this, and many more will. I will pray for you Randy and your family.
---Mark_V. on 8/16/11


I lost my sweet husband of 50 years to cancer from agent orange. It has been almost 4 years and it is still fresh. I don't know if I will ever get over it. I see his face every day of my life..every minute of my life. I will see him one day soon.
---shira3877 on 8/15/11


It takes a couple of years to truly recover from the death of someone very close.

I know it took me 1.5 years to get over the death of each parent.

Give yourself time to grieve. As Queen Elizabeth said, grief is the price we pay for love.

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 8/15/11


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