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Reconcile With Ex-Husband

Reconciling with your ex-husband after being divorced a year and lots having been said and done in that time. Is it a good idea and can the relationship work?

Moderator - It's the Biblical thing to do.

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Wow saints where is the love of God! Are we not wrestling against flesh and blood?.... Yes alot has been said and done but if you both are willing and able to forgive one another.I mean truly casting it into the sea of forgetfulness it can and will work! Keep your eyes on jesus. And may be look for another place for supporters cuz theirs no love amoungst these saints. be blessed
---sauda on 9/24/11


ANITA, It could work, but it would take work on both parties.
---Eloy on 9/21/11


Eloy, you are so far off base you are not even in the game.
No one gets Saved according to your gospel as you think you and God are the same.
You have done nothing but spread falsehoods since you came on CN. I remember how you have used other names to spread your lies. Now very plainly you again reject what the Bible has said. It is written there for all to see. Yet you are spiritualy blind and can't see it.
You still remain to think that you are God, but you are the biggest spreader of falsehoods on ChristiaNet! Someday everyone will notice that.
---Elder on 9/21/11


eloy, If I didn't have compassion, I would surely laugh at you.
---shira3877 on 9/21/11


elder and trav, You both need to repent from your foolishness, and accept the Lord Jesus Christ as your Savior, else you both will remain separated from the Lord, and be condemned.
---Eloy on 9/20/11




Eloy, Eve was told to receive Satan's gospel also. You and he are a lot alike.
The message you spread has little to do with the real Gospel from God's Written Word.
---Elder on 9/14/11

I'll be an additional witness. Another of many noted.

Gave the benefit of doubt for a while as pure simple ignorance.
Has gone past that to uphold that which shouldn't and cannot be,...when evil is good and good evil.
I'm doing a feet dusting two step away from.
---Trav on 9/20/11


Eloy, Eve was told to receive Satan's gospel also. You and he are a lot alike.
The message you spread has little to do with the real Gospel from God's Written Word.
---Elder on 9/14/11


I agree with cluny. The gospel should be received thru the Holy Scriptures....see what I said...Holy Scriptures. That is exactly where my beliefs come from. many anti-christ come in the name of Jesus to put themselves on a pedistal for everyone to see and hear...I just don't listen.
---shira3877 on 9/12/11


ANITA, It depends on what damage was done, and whether full recovery can be obtained.
---Eloy on 9/10/11


the gospel which you post????? really??????? why don't you receive the gospel I post because rest assured it is from The Holy Word of God.
---shira3877 on 9/10/11




\\Please do not address me until that time when you are prepared to receive the gospel which I post.\\

I'd rather receive the Gospel preached and lived by our Lord, God, and Savior Jesus Christ, to Whom be glory.
---Cluny on 9/10/11


well, well, some don't want to be addressed here unless their "doctrine" is "received" by all. Believe me, my beliefs are sound and I am not like the tree swaying in the wind. "receiving" from some is like a gale wind that blows one way and another.
---shira3877 on 9/10/11


shira3877, The saint whom walks in truth condemns all falsehood from sinners. Accept the truth I preach, and thereby receive the blessing.
******

WOW I see some have elevated themselves to a "god" status preaching their OWN truths

Christ said MANY would come in HIS name - like wolves seeking searching and preying on people to ACCEPT THE TRUTH THEY TEACH
---Rhonda on 9/10/11


Eloy, I really have no need to ever address anyone with such pompas self righteous attitudes. Mark, thank you for seeing thru the wall of pride in which eloy displays. God bless you Markv.
---shira3877 on 9/9/11


shira3877, watching my posts and not receiving my posts are two completely different things. Please do not address me until that time when you are prepared to receive the gospel which I post.
---Eloy on 9/9/11


Eloy, you could be a great man of God if you just did away with your self-righteous attitute. When you said,
"shira3877, The saint whom walks in truth condemns all falsehood from sinners. Accept the truth I preach, and thereby receive the blessing."
It reminds me of what Jesus said in the parable of the Pharisee and the Tax collector, the Pharisee exalted Himself claiming he done everything perfect, "God I thank you I'm not like other men...." That is you Eloy, And Jesus said,
"For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted" You exalt yourself as above all men, but one day you will be humbled.
---Mark_V. on 9/9/11


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Eloy, God blesses me every single day. I must agree with Markv, no one can seem to get you to see truths. I have watched your post for several years now and you haven't changed one single bit.
---shira3877 on 9/8/11


shira3877, The saint whom walks in truth condemns all falsehood from sinners. Accept the truth I preach, and thereby receive the blessing.
---Eloy on 9/8/11


Shira, it is impossible to correct someone who is perfect and sinless. Anything anyone says is wrong to him. I have asked him questions when he call's me something, but he never answers with Scripture to explain himself. I suppose that Scripture is no use to him anymore. he says 'yes' and I say "no" and tell him why, but since he is sinless he doesn't have to answer.
---Mark_V. on 9/8/11


eloy, you appear to be so educated that no one can point you to the truth. The blog elder posted is the truth. Even tho you may be saved, you can still be deceived by satan. Our struggles are with principalities. Just think...satan has deceived even the truly educated by slowly changing what the Holy Bible really says to what they want it to say.
---shira3877 on 9/7/11


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elder, I say Yes, and the sinner says no, and when I say No, then the sinner says Yes. elder, please to not address me until that time that you are prepared to receive the truth.
---Eloy on 9/7/11


//There was not one mention of blaspheming the HS//
You are right about one thing, there is no mention of this unforgivable sin in the Church age.
---michael_e on 9/5/11


Eloy said, "When the first woman freely chose to disobey God's very clear and straight commandment to not touch nor eat of the tree..."
Eloy, that is NOT what God said. You had better go back and check again.
Being that Eve was Adam's helpmeet it was part of her duty to tend the tree. She would have to touch it in order to do that. The command was not to eat of it.
Compare and see what God really said in Gen 2:8-8, 15-17, with what Eve claimed He said in Gen 3:2-3.
Eve added to what God said and was thereby tricked by Satan. See how important it is to know exactlly what God commands and to not make up our own translations?
---Elder on 9/5/11


The verses that introduce Paul before Acts 9: Acts 7:58, 8:1, 8:3, 9:1-2.

There was not one mention of blaspheming the HS.

Then, in Acts 9:4, Jesus asks, "Saul, why do you persecute me?"(whatsoever you do unto the least...)" and not, "why do you blaspheme the Spirit?

I don't see any evidence that he blasphemed the HS. I doubt that he realized at this time, there was a Holy Spirit to blaspheme. Saul's education in Truth was just starting.

Please do not equate railing against the Father and Jesus as blaspheming the HS. Mar 3:28-29.
---aka on 9/4/11


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// the only unforgivable sin is blasphemy of the Holy Ghost//(Christ dealing with His people, Israel)

Saul, later Paul our pattern was blaspheming the Holy Ghost at the stoning of stephen, do you suppose he was forgiven?
---michael_e on 9/4/11


The only sin that won't be forgiven in this age is unbelief.
---michael_e on 9/4/11

All sin stems from unbelief, the only unforgivable sin is blasphemy of the Holy Ghost.

Paul
---paul on 9/4/11


Eloy, sorry to tell you, but when a person places their faith and trust in the Lord Jesus Christ, all their sins are forgiven. There is no one sin that gets overlooked by God.
If your wife exercise faith in the works of the Lord on the Cross, all her sins would be forgiven, even if you do not believe it. So your vision cannot be true, because she is still alive and there is still hope for her. No one knows if she is one of the elect but God. You can only find out if you make it to heaven and she is not there. She might.
---Mark_V. on 9/4/11


The only sin that won't be forgiven in this age is unbelief.
---michael_e on 9/4/11


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Every unrepented sin cannot be forgiven.
---Eloy on 9/3/11


There is no sin that connot be forgiven other then blaspheme of the Holy Spirit. So anyone can be forgiven. Even when Adam and Eve were deceived, God intervened and made a Covanant of Grace. The New Covanant of grace was ratified by the shed blood of Christ upon the Cross. At the heart of this covenant is God's promise of redemption. God has not only promised to redeem all who put their trust in Christ, but has sealed and confirmed that promise with a most holy vow. So anyone can be forgiven, who put their faith and trust in God no matter what they have done.
---Mark_V. on 9/3/11


Eloy, 1 Timothy 2:14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.
---andy3996 on 9/3/11


Donna, When the first woman freely chose to disobey God's very clear and straight commandment to not touch nor eat of the tree, she no longer was walking in the light but instead she freely chose to join the serpent in rebellion against God and walk in darkness separated from God. If she remained in the light it would have been very difficult to be deceived by the destroyer, tempters and seducers and liars work to bate people every day- Just say No! or Nope! and Go Away!
---Eloy on 9/2/11


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//all things are possible with God".//--chria9396 on 9/1/11

All things ARE possible with God, but man doesn't always Obey God, nor does he always want to change and become Christ like. If the ex-husband hasn't repented and if forgiveness isn't at the forefront of this relationship, then yes, ALL things ARE possible with God, but not all things are possible with MAN and when MAN is involved.

Eve was walking in the light when she believed a lie- that's how simple and easy it is to get deceived.
---Donna5535 on 9/2/11


It depends upon why the divorce took place in the first place. Adultery? Abuse? or what? For example, it might not be wise rejoin again if the person committed adultery, for they might now have contracted and be carrying deadly diseases. So the reunification would have to be analyzed on whether the sin and the consequences of it can be remedied.
---Eloy on 9/2/11


.."can the relationship work?" Very simply, "all things are possible with God". As long as He is the focus, #1, then yes, it can not only 'work', but be a testimony to Gods glory.
---chria9396 on 9/1/11


Healing begins with Forgiveness.

Have you TRULY forgiven him and has he truly forgiven you?

Once you both are walking in a state of forgiveness towards one another, then both of you should "walk by the Spirit and you won't carry out the desires of the flesh"

An example could be when you have your first disagreement (after you get back together) If you two have truly forgiven one another, you won't ever bring up the past.

Do you think you BOTH can do that? Are you sure you aren't just lonely? Are your motives right in wanting to get back together? Or is it just loneliness you are experiencing? (just curious)
---Donna5535 on 9/1/11


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//Is it a good idea and can the relationship work? Moderator - It's the Biblical thing to do.//

we are told not to bite and devour each other, so it really depends on what was said and done. and it depends on if the focus of the relationship has changed.

a wise friend once told me: never go back to the same girl, apartment, or job that you have once vacated.

now, i realize he was talking about relationships.

it will only be good if you BOTH focus on your mutual relationship to the Lord. remember the "biblical" order: God, Jesus, man, wife.
---aka on 9/1/11


anita? In Christ GO FOR IT, pray and be closer God should however be central (thats why it failed the first time
DEAR Father, i pray you give courage patience love and humbleness to Anita and her refound husband BLESS them and melt them stronger toghether in Jesus name amen
---andy3996 on 8/31/11


Your probability of success is exceptionally pool statistically. If you are determined to remarry a prenuptial is highly advisable and you want a good attorney to prepare it for you so it will protect your interest in any legal jurisdiction you may be in if the remarriage fails.

You will both need counseling both jointly and signally and should begin again prior to remarriage and don't get married too soon wait a good while and see how the counseling progresses. You both have issues from the marriage ending in the first place and there are issues you want resolved in advance prior to any remarriage. And most important know the depth of the water and any subservice obstructions prior to taking the leap again.
---Blogger9211 on 8/31/11


If the issues that caused the split to start with have been resolved.

God can do all things but with man some things are impossible, so God can cause reconciliation in your hearts.

But you must hash out your issues by dealing with them, If you go back into a relationship without conflict resolution you will fall prey to the same issues again.

Work out your difference as according to Gods Word and decide to do it Gods way and you will be fine.

Paul
---paul on 8/31/11


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I don't have an ex-husband, Anita.

However, if YOU and YOUR ex-husband are seeking reconciliation, God bless you both!

There's a saying, "Jesus can mend a broken heart if you give him all the pieces." I'm sure this applies to a broken marriage as well, though BOTH must give Him all the pieces.

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 8/31/11


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