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How To Make Things Work Out

I need God to show me a way to make the relationship I am in to either work out or show me what to do. I pray and pray and cry. Please tell me how to keep the faith and believe.

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 ---Janette_C on 3/17/12
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Dear Jenette,
If you have true saving faith in God you will always believe in Him. That faith never fails. People fail, husbands, wives, and even those we love close to us fail. That is to be expected. But remember, God never fails. He is always faithful.
Your relationship will either work or not. Praying is not going to change the other person unless God wants to change him. It is all up to God, the reason we put our faith in Him. Agape
---Luke on 5/26/14


Cluny yes I agree there are several sites that say the children went to church with the family but even their mother said they weren't of the true. The boys all tried to hide the fact they were ever connected with the Jehovah Witness church. I am sure they were none the less shaped by part of what they learned. I just said Dwight wasn't JW because he said he never belonged to any organization,of course that was before the Presbyterian. God Bless
---Darlene_1 on 5/21/14


As a matter of fact, Darlene, there are several sites that say that DDE was raised in and joined the Jehovah's Witnesses.

I am mistaken only if they are.

Christ is risen!
---Cluny on 5/21/14


Cluny you are mistaken Dwight Eisenhower was never a Jehovahs Witness. By his own words he said he had never been connected with any church. A few years later after he said that he did become Presbyterian and as you said was baptised by them. God Bless
---Darlene_1 on 5/21/14


Elena : Thank God for His faithfulness. I just read your post of 05/14/14 today and I am very glad and reassured that when we call on God sincerely, He responds to our needs Jeremiah 29:13.
---Adetunji on 5/21/14




Why do you inject a past warrior and hero when I ask "what has happened to america"
---shira4368 on 5/21/14


\\ Shira whats happening here in America is its people voting for leaders without fully knowing their background. \\

And Dwight Eisenhower was originally a Jehovah's Witness, though he eventually received Christian baptism in a Presbyterian Church.

Christ is risen!
---Cluny on 5/20/14


Shira whats happening here in America is its people voting for leaders without fully knowing their background. Obama has a Muslim background and although he is Christian now he had a Muslim step father and attended a Muslim school for several years and had to be influenced in some way by that. If Christians want to be more fairly represented in government they need to vote for Christian leaders who don't have a background of being influenced by other religions for years. We need to remember "Actions speak louder than words" and have our eyes and ears open to those actions. God Bless
---Darlene_1 on 5/20/14


Yes,you are correct my friend Shira4368,this world can.be a hurting.place.The people at my church we prayed for her,For real I.did find the story on.youtube..it shocks me still Shira a woman.pregnant they are said to be wait for two months after baby born.She to be killed.
I remember see Late Daniel Perle and it was an adrocity.
I.just wanted to read why and what was the crime what in the world happen? She married.in.her country A CHRISTIAN MAN! Yes,what you said is real,what's up people can't see it?

Love of Jesus!
---Elena9555 on 5/20/14


Elena, believe me you don't want to see anyone killed. I watched daniel pearl video beheaded. It imprinted vividly in my brain. I will never get over what I saw. It is no longer on the internet. The Muslims who did that didn't flinch. They are so conditioned to that life it doesn't phase them. That is who wants our country. How can america close her eyes to what's happening here?
---shira4368 on 5/19/14




To Shira4368,Goodmorning lady,you sho' is telling the truth! You can't say the name of Jesus in school,library,or
any public place.I had some books a good batch nice books to give away free,I was moving,books from down thru the years served me well,hon I did not know the librarian would be.introuble over religious books!
Our country is in Decay spiritually that's why the people are on crackcocaine,kids are on a tangent of mame & be bosterrous out of control and yes! Our country must pay for the killing of babies..God is Not pleased in No kinda way! Even the rest of the world knows our country has gone down morally & spiritually..
Love of Jesus!
---Elena9555 on 5/19/14


Also,has anybody seen the news ??
Re: Afrikan woman,who is a Christian in some country,muslim country I imagine she is sentenced to death,she will NOT renounce or stop praying to Jesus.She knows she going to be killed. I want to.know if it on youtube so I can see her..reminds me of Rev.12:11.
Love of Jesus!
---Elena9555 on 5/19/14


Hello,Bro.adetunji,all respect in.the name,praise God good see you here.again. wanted you & all my family agape here,found a wonderfull.friend through my therapy and she & others have embraced me in.their mission church as if they knew me forever,very happy! I am.glad to.let you know thankyou all who.prayed for me.They help the poor sick and Godly teach and preach prayer group.I.already join thank you so much
Love of Jesus! Elena 9555
---Elena9555 on 5/14/14


My apologies,re: this topic.to Sis.Jeanette or anyone. This was sent to me while bk by online friend.

To serve God- He requires

....1.SERVE Him! something the world calls unreasonable.
........
2.(Give up YOUR IDOLS) could mean anything,anyone,keeps you.from total.devotion to.God.
.......
3.Sacrifices/ How big is your faith? How much do.you love Jesus?

( have you ever noticed?) God sometimes will ask you to give up something that out of the ordinary,ARE you prepared??

Give up something that is difficult
---Elena9555 on 5/14/14


Janette : Was God involved at the beginning of the relationship? If not, maybe this is the reason for His silence now. Simplify your prayer request to know if you are in His will because it's not good running on the wrong road.
---Adetunji on 5/7/14


Romans 10:17 - So then Faith cometh by hearing and hearing by the Word of God,
---RichardC on 5/7/14


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HeavenlyFather,I thankyou for allow me be here,with internet family

.I beg you bring peace,sincere love,respect let your spirit move instead of angry one.Let this prayer saturate the heart
Plural,for the legion of demons are many to.provoke our beloved family members.

Let us be carefull,Satan.has raised his head to stir discord among our family.I love you.all.in.love agape Not a carnal.love I.try my best to.Respect my brothers as well as mySisters in Christ.but I pray we all be patient.we have great high priest to.help.us through.Christ Jesus.

Love of Jesus!
---Elena9555 on 5/6/14


a relationship is not the same as marriage although many attempt to treat them as if they were because they have invested so much time and energy into a temporary union

If you are attempting at all to keep faith and believe you should ask for the STRENGTH to walk away and LEAVE this relationship

too many are incorrectly taught to believe prayer can be used like a voodoo doll and you can GET people to do things YOU want them to do (essentially make them puppets) so things work out they way YOU want them to work out

if your relationship were to work out then this man would be asking you to make your union a permanent one by marriage a very unlikely event from the emotional turmoil you are experiencing
---Rhonda on 3/24/12


Jeanette, are you waiting to become a priority in this person's life when he sees you as only an option?

If the answer is "yes", then you know what to do: Move on.

Prayer is NOT a way to make God do what you want Him to do, but to get attuned with HIS program.

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 3/21/12


elena,i thank u,and am glad i could help,believe me ,life for me has always been serving,and helping,encouraging, whenever,and wherever i can,i will pray for u dear sister.believe me emotions can be overwhelming,but God can be trusted dear sister,and jesus died so that we might live forever,and believe this ,every promise God has made he WILL KEEP.
---tom2 on 3/21/12


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May the Lord richly,bless you sister,bro.Tom2 really great your post of 3/18/12... Think you sum it up quite well! Love of jesus!
---ELENA on 3/21/12


Janette, Why are you asking God? Why not just ask your partner what the problem is?
If you're not compatible, separate.
My daughter has been married 3 times and now looking for #4. Some people just can't handle relationships.
Why does everything become a religious issue?
---1st_cliff on 3/19/12


Hello,family,I will say it that becuz many are/or been same /we do not like or understand...God'truly wants the best for us!I say fr the heart withlove,if it doesn't wrk out your way!God has better for you!love of jesus
---ELENA on 3/18/12


2Cor.11:3...your minds be led astray from your sincere love and devotion to Christ. Been my own exp.the evil one gets your mind wrap up thinking 'n worry,doubt and despair.God will work it out & If he not for you,look tothe Lord,allow His will be work out
---ELENA on 3/18/12


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Janette....You can keep the faith and believe by asking for God's will and not yours to be done. If you are truly in a real relationship (and not one you are imagining) then this will work very well. Today I see too many "Christian" women who are imagining serious relationships with men that are just friendships.
---KarenD on 3/18/12


In a war, we need to be ready to die. We need self to die, so we can be with God in His love better than we can have with just some one favorite person who is more the way we want than other people are. We want want want and then get frustrated. But Jesus says, "If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me." (in Luke 9:23) So, are we first about our relationship with Jesus our Groom working out?
---willie_c: on 3/18/12


What do you mean by "work out"? You mean you want him to marry you?

How long has this "relationship" been going on?

Depending on your ages, 3 years might not be long enough, and six months might be too long.

And does this "relationship" exist for both of you--or only in your own mind?

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 3/18/12


jeanette,faith. Faith is a personal thing,affected by many different things. but let me say that either allowing circumstances,and emotions to have an overwhelming impact on it is always an issue with many people. faith in God,and his promises,and those of his son are what keep me going,and a good healthy ignoring of peoples moods.
---tom2 on 3/18/12


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