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Stop Fantasizing About Person

A forbidden person. I constantly fantasize about him. These thoughts would get me in a sexual mood. Making me crave him even more. I am so fed up with lusting for him. Its torture. Are there any prayers that would help, with this lust. One where I can confess him name. And rid him from my mind/body.

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Karen, what are you talking about? What about my message would make you think that I am not saved?
---Jed on 5/30/12


Jed...You need to get saved!!!!!!!
---KarenD on 5/30/12


The Bible says it is your own lust that leads you to sin. You are in control of what you think and feel,but if you are weak God will help you if you ask. However you cannot continue to fantasize and then expect God to pull you away from sin. According to the Bible Matthew 5:28 you have commited adultry in your heart when you look on that man in lust. If a lustful thought comes in your mind,rebuke it in Jesus name,and ask God for strength to fight that battle. Fill your life with prayer,praises to God,reading the Bible,listening to Gospel music. Stop all of your fantasy life. It is easier not to fantasize about one thing if you never fantasize at all. You control your thoughts replace the bad ones with Godly ones and avoid sin.
---Darlene_1 on 5/30/12


Try to find a suitable companion that is not "forbidden" that you can focus your thoughts on to help distract you from your obsession with this man. That should help you get over him. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be loved and pleased sexually, that is a natural desire that God put in us, but you need to find someone more appropriate. The sooner you do that the faster you'll get over this man. Until then, you may have to utilize a girls best friend ,)
---Jed on 5/30/12


God bless you! Jesus is the Lord of all, He's got it all. Jesus is almighty against any lusts, any devils. But most of all is not only to get free from wrong things, but get into what is right, instead. I offer that if you get into how to love people, your caring will make it easy to get free from uncaring lusts which have you just wanting to use someone.

And don't blame the person for your problem, but care in prayer for him. We can have power so thoughts of him can not have power over you. But Jesus is so more than about power. Jesus brings people to God, Himself, our Father for family sharing and "casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you." (1 Peter 5:7) God does care about you (c:
---willie_c: on 5/30/12




The bible tells us to take every thought captive. Take a black whip and whip that thought out of your mind. Replace it with thoughts of Jesus...Keep your eyes fixed upon Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith. Thou will keep in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on thee.
---anon on 5/30/12


Writer-of-blog: It is Godly understanding that u need to be delivered. (1) God made that man, u also. (2) In God's plan he may not be your mate. (3) God that made u has a perfect mate for u. (4) U should focus on God more as HE can satisfy u from an unknown source, the man may not be able to meet the least of your expectations or satisfy u.(5) Pray God to remove this idol from your heart.
---Adetunji on 5/30/12


Dear soul, all you are doing is describing the human condition. I am taking what you say seriously, but this is something that almost all of us (except for a handful of exceptions) struggle with at one time or another, so don't beat yourself up over it.

Look up "Rule against defilement" on your favorite search engine. The Orthodox Christian tradition wasn't invented yesterday, and has some specific frank prayers for this spiritual struggle.

Don't expect it to end shortly, however.

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 5/29/12


Get to know him/her better. Not get to know your fantasy of him better. Everybody has flaws it is what makes us human. Assuming he is married would you want him to leave his wife and come after you thus your fantasy man is now a cheater, home wrecker, committed adultery, runs from his wife (you) during trouble. I know some awesome ladies who are married but they are not perfect for me to become one with. Also look for your identity not your identity through him. He cannot sustain your worship of him, he will fail you
---Scott1 on 5/29/12


Get yourself into a Ladies Bible Study, and dig into the Word of God. Study and meditate on it day and night. Ask a mature Christian woman to mentor you, and ask her to hold you accountable to your Bible study and prayer life. Confess your lust, every single time it happens. Ask the Lord to release you from this obsession.

If you fill your mind with the Word, you will find the temptation is lessened.
---Trish on 5/29/12




No special prayer other than repenting to the Lord for your lustful thoughts. Then hyou MUST stop thinking about this man. You are the one who controls your mind.
---KarenD on 5/29/12


I will be happy to pray for you.
---Catholicus on 5/29/12


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