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Long Distance Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been long distance for a year going on 13 months. It's so hard and painful on us so we prayed that god make a way. Is there anything else we should be doing?

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Nah, Trish, you don't have to back off. People need you here. You just did the same thing you have done for years.... you took up for someone. No Foul! Only honest care giving!!
---Elder on 6/29/12


cluny it doesn't matter how our ancestors used capitalization but I always capitalize God, Jesus,Him when it refers to our Divine Father. I also don't allow anything to be sitting on my bible. I have had people put their glasses and other things on my bible and I just get up and take them off.
---shira4368 on 6/29/12


Elder: Point taken. I've been off my game lately. Need to step back and spend more time praying and less time posting.
---Trish on 6/28/12


\\As for capitalizing Christ, or Christian, I just find that when people don't capitalize God, Christ, or Christian, it's downright disrespectful.
---Trish on 6/27/12\\

Actually, that's a rather late usage in English.

Some languages do not have capital letters.

And in pre-Nikonian Church Slavonic, only the first word of a sentence is capitalized. No other word is, even if it is a divine name.

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 6/28/12


Trish, Cluny said to/about me, "The word is spelled "grammar." Actually "the word" is spelled T-h-e W-o-r-d. Grammar may be spelled grammer, grammar gramer or grandma-ear.
When you throw me a rope when I'm drowning I ain't gonna complain about the color of the line.
So you see we are all able to issue imperfection perfectly.
My response to you was in light heartedness not rebuke. I know you know that.
The Trish Ive known all these years is going to find someone to defend and take up for.
I also thought that Cluny's answer was kinda curt.
We dont understand him
because, maybe, he doesnt understand Mimi. But that is the problem with short word limit blogs. If only we could get 'em on the phone.
---Elder on 6/27/12




Elder: I caught my typo with the you, when I meant your. I also know I got stuck on the to whom, which part.

As for your grammar, I respect you too much to do that.

My point with Mimi was she was so busy trying to insult Cluny, I had trouble understanding her. Plus, she failed to give us the whole story.

As for capitalizing Christ, or Christian, I just find that when people don't capitalize God, Christ, or Christian, it's downright disrespectful.
---Trish on 6/27/12


\\Trish look over your grammer of 6-26 and tell us what is wrong. Then correct my grammer also 'cause I are trying to good at doing writting and stuff, ya know what I mean.\\

The word is spelled "grammar."

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 6/27/12


All these soldiers going to far away places need to find some one closer to them, huh?
Next, if ya are gonna correct grammer be sure that you never make mistakes yourself. There are a whole lot of people that have never had the chance that some of us have had.
Here is a person who wanted good advice and all they got was repremanded.
Trish look over your grammer of 6-26 and tell us what is wrong. Then correct my grammer also 'cause I are trying to good at doing writting and stuff, ya know what I mean.
Someone should have asked some fact finding questions first.
Has Mimi been living with the boyfriend? Could this be two men involved here? That brings another slant doesn't it?
So Mimi tell us more about the relationship please.
---Elder on 6/27/12


We need to get into loving any and all people > "For if you love those who love you, what reward have you?" (in Matthew 5:46) But we humans can have a way of making some one person a love idol to possess. And this keeps us weak in selfish love so we can suffer in various ways. So, it is good to get into loving any and all people . . . so we aren't putting too many emotional eggs into one basket . . . or they can crack and get gooky and then . . . .

Nice eggs do not have a strong smell, but they are nice (c:

So, now you can get into loving different people, get more balance (c:
---willie_c: on 6/27/12


Mimi, long distance relationships usually are difficult to maintain.
---Eloy on 6/27/12




\\and he is condemned to eternal torments and damnation.
---Eloy on 6/26/12\\

And Jesus said, "By your own words you will be condemned."

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 6/27/12


satan speaks more than one language also, but he is proven to have no Jesus, and he is condemned to eternal torments and damnation.
---Eloy on 6/26/12


I know two couples who met here on christianet and are now married. Their long distance relationship was a good thing.
---shira4368 on 6/26/12


\\You're a carnal christian (Fleshy, rude and doesn't read the bible, shows a bad representation of jesus).\\

I read the Bible in 3 languages and 17 translations. Try again.

\\Because God didn't appreciate you representing all of the other christians who poorly represent christ.\\

You don't actually think that YOU represent Christ correctly, do you?

Your pitiful attempt to play the victim card isn't working.

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 6/26/12


Visit each other, and/or you physically move towards his location or he physically move towards your location.
---Eloy on 6/26/12


Mimi,
You failed to mention that you dated this guy for two years prior to his moving, leaving us to believe you met long distance, and that is what Cluny was referring to. If I am wrong, Cluny please correct me.

As for you attempts to insult Cluny, you misused the word "fleshy" when I believe you meant "fleshly." Also, it is proper grammar to capitalize the first letter of a proper noun, such as Christian. It shows respect to the people, place or thing to whom, which it refers. If you are going to insult people for correcting your poor grammar, at least use correct grammar and spelling to do so. It just makes you look bad.
---Trish on 6/26/12


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You're a carnal christian (Fleshy, rude and doesn't read the bible, shows a bad representation of jesus).
He moved over a year ago, we've been together for 3 years. I hope you repent for what you just said to me. Because God didn't appreciate you representing all of the other christians who poorly represent christ. G
---Mimi on 6/25/12


You don't have a long distance relationship. You have a fantasy.

Yes. You should both get acquainted with someone closer to each other.

And "me" is not the subject of a sentence.

Glory to JEsus Christ!
---Cluny on 6/25/12


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