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My Son Ignores My Texts

Why does my son ignore my calls and texts? Why does he not seem to love me? How can he be so heartless and cruel to my feelings? Why does he not want me in his life? I do not bother him. I do not nag him. He is very cold when he does talk to me. He is going to be 20 in a couple of months.

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 ---Tami on 6/27/13
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lidia, I am shira4368. I put it on all posts. I wont put my email on here but I will give to you on christianet. I tried to log In again and it told me you were no longer a member. go to my profile and write me then I can see how to find you.
---shira4368 on 10/30/13

Hello,again.. I find that my accpunt already been compromised.. amd so,yes! Tell me please how can I reach you on ChristiaNet ... all I know is they have that ChristianMingle and also, I am use android not computer so that is the issue...
Please tell me what to do and I apologize to the people on here..
Ok get bk to me. Someone has messed up my facebook.. I can't even get into it! Crazy ... lol Lidia4796
---Lidia4796 on 10/30/13

Shira4368Maybe, help you to find me.. they spell it wrong.. Lisette Alvarez... you can't miss if you see the Ha!ha! The Brown skin one..with dark sunglasses that'me! I am in Detroit.they keep put Philadelphia
I am a Black woman maybe that help you. Oh,let me see if I can find again my facebook e-mail.. then you find me for sure. I love to hear fr people on here. I be back! Smiles.. don't give up! Thanks!
---Lidia4796 on 10/30/13

lidia, I tried to find you on facebook but couldn't so please tell me how I can narrow my search for you. if you don't feel good about putting in the blogs, send to my christianet mail. thanks and waiting for you to respond.
---shira4368 on 10/30/13

Yes,in short I just closed my cookie adjuster.. door shut.ok look me up on facebook.. I hope to hear fr you,so ha ha we can chat...smiles! Love anybody text me up on facebook.
I already explain not masses but keep it simple. Nice.
---Lidia4796 on 10/29/13

lidia, be careful about web sites you log onto. when you log on they put cookies from your email and they have your email and the cookies let me do certain things. I also went to their website so I could see some of the things muslims believe. sorry you had a bad experience. God is still in control.
---shira4368 on 10/29/13

Wow! SHIRA 4368! I went last nite on a website just looking to ask questions,it was a "christ like ministry" Supposedly! Next thing,I get this words all in arabic and I know,and understand it ( you remember I told you some of my family) they are muslims ( left the faith( Jesus)and I tell you I got off there so fast! Right away,they were had some sort of words in red... cover up the stuff about JesusChrist turn into about the leader & about the koran! I was shock for real... I have a neighbor who dates only arabic guys she says Do Not believe nothing! They want evrryone to become muslim or we will be taken away and done away with! For real.. they want the whole planet to become muslims!
---Lidia4796 on 10/28/13

wow lidia, you hit the nail on the head. if you think back, things changed when madylyn ohare single handed got prayer out of schools. our society has gone downhill since then. now, some are trying to get it out of the military. God will not bless our army when He is taken out of swearing in ceremonies. I can say I believe muslims will intergrate their beliefs in our country. people can't see it but I see it. the left has ruined America.
---shira4368 on 10/28/13

Hello,Shira4368 and anyone else,goin thru hurt like we are going through..My heart goes out to late mother & myself made great sacrifices for my daughter,as well as her dad' late mother - she was "spoiled rotten" got everything she could ever want... I believe alot has gone awray, NO prayer (christian) in the schools, nor allowed in school yards,games,etc.. It's PRAYERTIME!!

beloved family.. we got even church's now where SADLY, NO prayer..

Politics, church dinners,fashion shows, everything but True WORSHIP!!! Titus1:16 Mrk.8:36,37
Lk11:22 ,23 Lk11:24-28
Satan has "fine tuned" how to make our children hate instead of love. More,so if you are a child of God..
Jn18:20 Rom.8:14,15
---Lidia4796 on 10/27/13

tami, I have a grandson who was my heartbeat. all of a sudden he don't want to go to church with me and he hates me. I have tried to find out why and he just grits his teeth and says leave me alone. all I have done for him and done with him, bought him an ipad and laptop an expensive head phones. took him everywhere and he hates me. God knows
---shira4368 on 10/26/13

Sister, my daughter no contact over 10 yrs! She got into a cult. I cried over 25 yrs! I rarely got a text, no fon calls,hardly nothing.Last I saw her she came to beat me up! God stoped it. Guess she too,ashamed to see me. I also, decided can not make her my idol. I pray she give her mind,soul,body,spirit to the Lord.

I feel God lead me to do it, I do not cry all the time like I used to- my battle against a foe I can No longer fight alone.

God is big enough to "fit into the heart of anyone" If they want him. I will keep you in my prayers. I pray God will move in a special way,calm all your doubts and fears, help you as He can above all we can say here. In love I say this my sister.
Love of Jesus! Lidia4796
---Lidia4796 on 10/24/13

Tami, you should have not been surprised that things like that happen to many families. But it did surprise you because you must have been very close to him. There is many reasons why a child once he is gone doesn't want to hear from the family. Only he knows why. No one here can know what is in his heart. They hear what is in your heart but not his. This is the time when all you can do is pray for him that it be God's will that he will change. God already has something worked out for him as He does with all of us. Keep him in your prayers. Let him live his life, we all learn by our mistakes.
---Mark_V. on 10/24/13

Why not just ask him? No one but your son knows the answer. If you decide to make contact, DON'T call or text him - GO and see him. (In my opinion, calls and text are just too impersonal for something this important).
---wivv on 10/23/13

Hi, Tami (c: How are you doing? You might share here some more. We are praying for you.

You can see from things you do why he might not be in touch. Sometimes you are busy so you don't communicate with certain people. You can have other reasons . . . how about unforgiveness? Whatever can effect your actions is what he could have learned from you.

Did he grow up sharing with you, or did he have most of his time free for bonding with toys and video games and other kids?

A number of us have brought up our children, using toys and payed babysitters and video games "and pets" to keep them company. And so, now who are they bonded to? They "might" now be listening to whoever and whatever grew up with them!
---willie_c: on 7/2/13

Do you know a lot of unmarried grown up ladies are fond of disrespecting their mothers. When they start having children, most come back to their senses and appreciate their mothers more. Tami, please give your son more time & pray for him that he will live always in the Lord.
---Adetunji on 7/2/13

We are living in such a world. The heart has grown cold and callous. Do not take it personal. You are not the one with the problem, your son is the one with the problem. Wait, he may come around.
---Catherine on 7/1/13

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Tami, all families are different. Some are very close, some not and there are families where some children remain close to parents whilst others don't.

This is something you cannot change. All you can do it to treat them all the same. Always remember every birthday, if you call one then call the others, don't give any of them an opportunity to say "Mum treats me less favourably that she treats you" etc. Play your part as you know you should, pray for them all (or just the one if one is all you have) and rest in the knowledge that God knows why this situation is how it is.

I have a great relationship with all five of mine and will pray that yours, with this son, gets back on track.
---Rita_H on 6/30/13

Tami, there's a little rhyme you might meditate upon and take to heart:

How very selfish others can be.
They think of themselves instead of me!

Did you really expect to remain the center of your son's life?

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 6/29/13

tami, in just a few questions and comments posed by you, i can understand a 20 year old's distance.
---aka on 6/29/13

Tami...Don't text or call your son. The day will come when he gets concerned with your not contacting him and he will check on you. It is normal for a 20-year old MAN to want to cut ties with his mother. Don't bug him all the time. Wait until he calls you.
---KarenD on 6/28/13

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Please, dont let this bring you to a bad place. He is almost 20, he is still serching out things for his life. this will change in time.
Its not his heart or his love for you. these things, we need to lift up in prayer and let the Holy Spirit touch his life. In time, he will see his own ways. For now, just enjoy knowing you have a son and you have love for him. God bless you.
---Nat on 6/28/13

Why don't you ask your son why he is ignoring you. (He's the only one who really knows.)
---wivv on 6/28/13

Tami, You're lucky you only have one like that, four of my five children don't speak to me.
Drugs, bad relationships and a cult have destroyed my family (almost) I still have one and that's 20% right?
This is a very bad world!
---1st_cliff on 6/28/13

Tami:What were your Dad's or Mum's complaints about you?
---Adetunji on 6/28/13

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Tami, did it occur to you that from his point of view, you ARE nagging him?

Maybe YOU are being insensitive to HIS feelings. Everything you're saying here is "Me, me, me, me."

You don't know his schedule. Maybe he has to work nights and sleep days.

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 6/28/13

Major typo: live = love. In previous post.
---Grandma on 6/28/13

Your son is doing what my sons did at his age. Being a normal young adult man, exploring life without his parents. It's a time of setting boundaries and he's setting his. I sent my kids letters at that age, and reminded them of my live, and prayers. I also asked them to call now and then to let me now how they are. Now that they're in their in their 30's, they're more communicative.

Give him his space, and let him him know you love him.
---Grandma on 6/28/13

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