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I have been away from this forum for a few years. Has anyone noticed that most of the discussions here are brutal. My question: would you treat the other believer you disagree with the same way in person, as you do in line ?

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 ---Willow on 4/5/14
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I want to say it a really good feeling, when you realize how God can keep you calm, in a storm,I really thank the Lord even the mgr. at the bldg.was calm, not mad I just got to catch up on my rent by nxt month. I thank God.
I always praise the Lord, been good bout it.I thank God for keep my mind.
I don't know but, say God sure is good! I began a prayer for her, she is an old woman, has a husband she out here stealing, I see what my pastor was saying now, I see what he meant.His car was stolen, he just pray for the man to get saved, to the utmost. He didn't let it worry him, his other church got burned up, he did not let that worry him..
Love of Jesus!
---Elena_9555 on 9/8/14

Elena : Thank God.
---Adetunji on 9/7/14

Hello, Family, yes,want to say thanks Shira4368,Darlene1,Bro.adetunji & Anybody else,who kept me n prayer.
I was able get my paperwork, together. God really stood by me.. thankyou all here at Cnt.thanks Moderators, too.
Love of Jesus!
---Elena_9555 on 9/6/14

One never has to mention religion. Just tell what God has done for you. Tell them how joyful a Christian life can be. Tell of the benefits....eternal life in heaven where Jesus has prepared a mansion. He also prepared things that man can't comprehend. See.... I didn't mention religion.
---shira4368 on 8/28/14

//When man brings there on religion they will fight to defend it. But if believers bring the Gospel everybody gets it. Jesus said it is given for you to know. Never said it is only given to a few.//

Here is the truth, Jesus told the apostles,
"And He said, "To you it has been given to know the mysteries of the Kingdom of God, "but to the rest it is given in parables that "seeing they may not see, And hearing they may not understand" Luke 8:10.
From this passage we learn that Jesus only wanted the disciples to know the mystery of the Kingdom of God, but not the others. So the gospel was not for everyone. Agape
---Luke on 8/26/14

When man brings there on religion they will fight to defend it. But if believers bring the Gospel everybody gets it. Jesus said it is given for you to know. Never said it is only given to a few. He gave it to people who just follow him. If your just following you get to know the Gospel and it sets you free. It needs no defence. If what you say condemns it is not the Gospel.
---Bryan on 8/22/14

Heavenly Father,I pray for them to.get deliver from every drug made cause addiction,crackcocaine,any drugs what ever it really bad.It affects ones breathing stuff comes through the walls.We need divine intervention.
This is a problem many places.
Please I believe nothing impossible with God.
Love of Jesus!
Realese them from this bondage.
I beg in Jesus name.
One of them,goes mission and she is more polite,help.her get free from , the addiction,in Jesus mighty name.thankyou O God all you going to do.amen.
---Elena9555 on 5/23/14

Elena9555 on 4/7/14,

Ive had limited time on cnet, so it sometimes takes a while to respond.
Cnet is indeed a blessing with many who care. I am glad you've had the opportunity to share here and be blessed. Im especially glad that you know that God has been good to you and that He remains faithful.
May He continue to bless.
---Chria9396 on 4/11/14

Thank you and my the LORD allow you to bless others.

---Samuelbb7 on 4/9/14

To Bro.Samuelbb, Hello, words can not express my sincere gratitude for your kindness, your prayer I know has been carried by special hdlg.from the Father God above! Wow! It really touch my heart Brother Samuelbb.
May the Lord richly, bless you for your kindness, it brings tears to my eyes.that' what I try to say on CNT.
It' about us as a people caring and put forth a kind prayer if only you could know how it lifted my contenance.
Thankyou very much.
In Jesus we all are one..
Love of Jesus! Elena9555
---Elena9555 on 4/9/14

Dear Elena9555 GOD be with you and help you. May the angels of the LORD be at your side. May the HOLY SPIRIT give you comfort.

---Samuelbb7 on 4/9/14

Actually, Chria9496, didn't take long, to know who the culprit was...I will not say online.I just felt it was wrong and disrespectfull. I am ill, most days as you know still going thru treatments..CNT like a family to me.
I don't have a family, I can go see or talk to sad to say, but God been good to me and remains faithfull..yes, I agree with well and thankyou very much, along with all here.
Love of Jesus!
---Elena9555 on 4/7/14

We should all treat others with great kindness. JESUS said:

John 13:35

By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.
---Samuelbb7 on 4/7/14

Elena, thanks, its good to see you too. I noticed a Lydia here and thought she was genuine. It did not occur to me that she was someone using your name maliciously. God knows who we are, even if some confuse identities.

Yes, continue in prayer concerning all. It might be good to not answer some posts that are negative. However, being silent does not always indicate disagreement. There have been posts I most agree with to which I have not posted an answer.

Appreciating a polite critique,a good word, is important for growth. Also agree with no grudges, even if hurt at one time. If one is hurt by correction and learns, it is as intended. If we are hurt from malice, forgiveness towards the other may be beneficial.
May God bless
---Chria9396 on 4/7/14

Hello, all respect to Sosteriology and Willow..well, written.
Elena' opinionated!

God bless in honest my mom who adopt me (sad, aethiest) my grandmother sneak took us to a mission,living with my mom was really WHAT desire to be a christian! so, that was even before I went..
I knew there's agape love- christians ..bk then they smiled
& were warm, kind. Ok just had to say that.:) love of Jesus!

the moderators are great!
---Elena9555 on 4/6/14

Thanks . Please do not get me wrong,in defending the gospel there are times when we get and should get mad we put up our fists spiritually. I will and have called people out in public and private for taking the bible out of context and twisting it to further their own agenda. So please brothers and sisters if you think im wrong in a post tell me. Love y'all looking forward to posting here again
---Willow on 4/6/14

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Instead of courteous thoughtful comment I often read PERSONAL ATTACKS! ("Read your Bible, fool, and make sure it's in a translation I approve of."). (My God is bigger than your God.). ("You need to be saved!). How do these caustic comments look to sincere seekers? No wonder the western church has a reputation for being anemic. PLEASE stop the mudslinging! It breaks my heart!

Sone of you let your egos guide you. PLEASE stop the childish bickering. What are non-believers to think? We should be Christlike examples. I like this site, I can learn alot. Don' t cheapen this site PLEASE!
---Soteriology on 4/6/14

Hello, to Willow, all respect to you, pardon me,I beg you.
Not often see Chria9396
Willow, nice to see you.

2010, in hospital found CNT online by myself.
It has been a good help to me.
"more thickskined" used to cry o'er things,bad done here.
Prayer is best, for me.
Now if someone tries to say negative.
I will not answer.

I am amazed at all the wonderfull people also, here. If someone gives me a polite critique, that is helpfull & try to be cordial,it' ok.

one brother
He gave me a legitimate critique.

Learn & hold no grudge.
I have alot of respect for this brother in Christ.we learn and we should all pray one for another.
Love of Jesus! Thankyou, Willow.
---Elena9555 on 4/6/14

No, most people who say hurtful things here do so because they are cowards and bullies who know that they can get away with it here. Being allowed to be anonymous brings out the worst in bullies and cowards.

I leave the site periodically to allow unpleasant matters to die down.

It seems that one bully might have been removed but there is one here still who should be removed also i.m.o.
---Rita_H on 4/6/14

Jesus would surely get flamed if he posted anything.
---Steveng on 4/6/14

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Hello, all respect my Sis.Chria9396, great see you!.back to Elena, someone was using my Lidia4796, didn't want folks mad at me!so, bk to

Makes sense, my feelings exactly, why argue? We not perfect, but, we are children of the most high God
we should treat one another- dignity & love, not be tossed,turn to speak here bad to one another.

A song, I love so much..
"How many times have I broken your heart? Still you forgive if only I ask..
For love was crucified.."
Love of Jesus
---Elena9555 on 4/6/14

They don't believe they reap what they sow. They thing if they talk down to people they are blessed by there god. God does not talk down to people. He sent Jesus to lift us all up were we belong and that is done by the Gospel not condemnation.
---Bryan on 4/6/14

Welcome back Willow.

Some do seem brutal....

I would hope to treat others as I would like to be treated.

If discussions tend towards disagreeing on anything, sometimes it may be best to just let it go, especially if there's a tendency to get ugly. If compelled to answer, sometimes a verse or verses that answer, without getting caught up in doctrinal differences that are heated.

Generally, what edifies,

whatsoever things are true, honest, just, , lovely, of good report, (if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.)
---Chria9396 on 4/6/14

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