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Are Women High Maintenance

Why did God create so many high maintenance women that are so very independent, very selfish, very spoiled, and very greedy, today which the good old fashioned women of years ago were never like that at all?

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Jason I don't know where you have been, but most women what a husband so bad they don't care how much they make as long as they WORK.

But it doesn't matter how spoiled Daddy or Mommy made them, why are you picking up where they left off?

Keep your money in your pocket. They will leave you alone.

Let me repost what I said a month ago. It isn't women's fault, but men:




Circle of life, my friend.

This is really men's fault.

If they stop feeding these women's greed it would stop.

Of course gentlemen, let's not PRETEND we don't know why these women are so EXPENSIVE.

You know, the TRADE?

---Nicole_Lacey on 11/14/15
---Nicole_Lacey on 12/10/15


Mommy and daddy spoiled the hell out of them when they were growing up which most of them now want a man with money since they want everything that they can get. Most women now will never marry a man that makes much less than them which certainly does make them very selfish, spoiled, and very greedy as well. It is just too bad that they can't accept a man for who he is, especially when many of us men do make much less money than many of them since a lot of women now have their careers.
---Jason on 12/10/15


You men really amazes me!

You (men) are causing women to be high maintenance, but instead of STOPPING IT, you blame us women???????

That's like blaming McDonald's for being fat due to their well crafted commercial tricking me into buying a large Whopper Combo.

Who fault is it for me being fat: McDonald's or Me?

Who fault for these high maintenance women: Men or Women?

Keep YOUR money in YOUR pocket.
Do not tell any woman you have money and she won't ask you for any money.

SIMPLE
---Nicole_Lacey on 11/24/15


Not all women are high maintenance. Just the ones you want to avoid.
---Scott on 11/23/15


///Leon said, "I'm very leery of contentious, egalitarian feminist who aggressively disrespect & try to lord it over (dominate, usurp the God-given authority of) men,"

Are you aware that it is these kinds of women who are refereeing?

They love refereeing men and boys to say they tell males what to do.

equality is one thing,however, God given Innate Differences in the sexes are totally different.

the national football league is a man's game to be refereed by men over men...---john9346 on 11/20/15///

John A. Bunker! Is that you Archie?
---Leon on 11/23/15




I really blame TV since there is too much going on today which their parents raised them very poorly when they were growing up as well. But the problem is that many of them really haven't grown up yet since many of them are very spoiled and selfish which still isn't good enough for them. With the reality shows that they have on TV these days which makes them such Losers too.
---Ron on 11/23/15


Leon said, "I'm very leery of contentious, egalitarian feminist who aggressively disrespect & try to lord it over (dominate, usurp the God-given authority of) men,"

Are you aware that it is these kinds of women who are refereeing?

They love refereeing men and boys to say they tell males what to do.

equality is one thing,however, God given Innate Differences in the sexes are totally different.

the national football league is a man's game to be refereed by men over men...
---john9346 on 11/20/15


John: I haven't a problem with a women refereeing so long as they know what they're doing. For that matter, equal opportunity & pay in the workplace should be available to all people regardless of gender...

I'm very leery of contentious, egalitarian feminist who aggressively disrespect & try to lord it over (dominate, usurp the God-given authority of) men, e.g., women pastors).
---Leon on 11/18/15


Dave,

There are even denominations that teach God is "Feminine."

Not to mention Gender Neutral Bible Versions.
---john9346 on 11/18/15


Dave ask, "
Much more women today do want the best and won't settle for less which really makes them very selfish and spoiled these days, and most of them were Never like that years ago. What in the world happened to the women of today which certainly became a real Mystery to me."

Well sir you can thank the feminist Movement.

So disgraceful that many women even "Christian Women." have embraced Feminist Philosophies and ideaology.

Ever heard, "A woman can do anything a man can do." "Men are oppressors and Abusers." "I don't need a man."

These are Feminist Statements.

BTW, a woman now referees in the NFL



---john9346 on 11/18/15




The late font of earthly wisdom, George Carlin, once said, "Women are crazy & men are stupid. The reason women are crazy is because men are stupid."

There's a lot of truth in Carlin's statement. The serpent got into Eve's head, tricked & caused her to loose her mind (go "crazy") by choosing to sin against God.

Adam, not being an ignorant (dumb) fella, knew better. But, for whatever reason, he chose to irresponsibly do "stupid" (knowing better, but not doing it).

I believe, when Adam came home from working in the Garden, if he had've turned to God for help with his suddenly "crazy" wife, our lives would be completely different now. ijs :)
---Leon on 11/16/15


What in the world happened to the women of today which certainly became a real Mystery to me.---Dave on 11/14/15

No mystery at all.

Their Daddies didn't teach them how men should treat women.
Or their daddies didn't treat their mother right.

So, that the high maintenance women learned the only good thing from men is their money.

Circle of life, my friend.

This is really men's fault.

If they stop feeding these women's greed it would stop.

Of course gentlemen, let's not PRETEND we don't know why these women are so EXPENSIVE.

You know, the TRADE?
---Nicole_Lacey on 11/14/15


Much more women today do want the best and won't settle for less which really makes them very selfish and spoiled these days, and most of them were Never like that years ago. What in the world happened to the women of today which certainly became a real Mystery to me.
---Dave on 11/14/15


Well to finish what i was saying earlier, much more women today are much more Spoiled And Selfish more than ever. Now many women out there just Can't accept us Good men for who we really are since many women these days really want the Best and won't settle for Less which many of them are looking for the Rich Guy today. And it really amazes me how much of the women of years ago were so much more Nicer and much Easier to meet since the good old days really had much better women since it was much Easier for a man to find a good one back then to settle down with, which today finding Love is very difficult for us now. And many of us can treat a woman with a lot of Love And Respect if we were that Lucky to find a good one. Peace.
---Dave on 11/14/15


Nicole, believe it or not, I agree what you wrote on 11/8/2015.

Before I retired, I earned what many considered to be good money. They wondered why we didn't have a huge home, and drive expensive luxury cars.

My answer to them was why should we.

Believe it or not, a lot of the money I earned went to help those in their time of need, and were less fortunate.

This is how I was raised, and seems to be a foreign concept in the world we live today!
---Rob on 11/8/15


Nicole Lacey It is evident you love God and I don't think you would miss the signal from God because He would give you one you couldn't miss. ---Darlene_1 on 11/2/15

Thanks Darlene, but I know I am content with my life as a single woman.
Better than bitter married woman.

My grandmother and mother were simple ladies.
They didn't demand an expensive new car every 4 years from their husbands nor jewelry.

I believe as you have in your marriage is that couples attractive the same mind set.

A man who gets a high maintenance woman WANTS that woman, HIGH maintenance and ALL.

If not, QUIT BUYING her STUFF!
---Nicole_Lacey on 11/8/15


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Even if i meet a woman who is poor it wouldn't bother me at all since Love is much more important than Money.
---RealityCheck on 11/8/15


To me high maintenance means the women who love fancy furs,jewelry,cars,fine clothes and shoes,and a Penthouse apartment in the best building. As for women deciding everything that's not true in 99 99/100 % of the cases,and if she didn't want to be a baby machine thats her right unless a man can start having them physically. The time has past for having a docile wife who submits to her husbands whims even when they are abuse. Marriage now is all about respect for one another and work together to build a good life filled with love. God Bless
---Darlene_1 on 11/2/15


\\They decide whether to have kids or not and the number of kids and the Bible has no say.\\

According to the Bible, how many children is a woman supposed to have?

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 11/2/15


A very excellent reason why many of us Good men can't meet a Good woman anymore these days which it is the absolute truth.
---Paul on 11/2/15


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Nicole Lacey It is evident you love God and I don't think you would miss the signal from God because He would give you one you couldn't miss. When I was about 13 I had a dream and in it I was in a certain situation and a man said some personal,not bad,things to me and God showed me I would marry him. When I was 16 I was in a situation very close to my dream and the man said exactly the same things to me as the man in my dream I did marry him. I know God doesn't speak to everyone in dreams but whatever method He uses a person in tune to God will know it's the right person. Just my thoughts on that. God Bless
---Darlene_1 on 11/2/15


Cluny:

You said: Some women might be high maintenance, but some men are, too.

I have to take about 15 pills a day to be healthy. Am I high maintenance?


The colloquial term "high maintenance" generally refers more to psychological issues (vain, spoiled, depressed, etc.), although it could considerably apply to physical ones as well. If someone else had to feed you every meal and give you pills you can't take for yourself, that could apply, but it tends to be used more for things that are under someone's control (i.e. "higher maintenance than they have a right to be").
---StrongAxe on 11/1/15


And many of them nowadays are Narcissists as well.
---RealityCheck on 11/1/15


Yes, women have changed. They have become the decision makers. They decide whether to have kids or not and the number of kids and the Bible has no say. They decide whether a family stays together or not and the Bible has no say. They decide whether a dad sees his children or not and a man must win in court for it to be otherwise. Yet women are the only way for a guy to have kids. Being on a different page is very costly, so women cause a man to lose everything.
---yon on 11/1/15


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Don't forget, St. Elias is a MARONITE CATHOLIC Church, not an Orthodox one.

It doesn't even use the same liturgy. OTOH, ST. George, the Melkite Catholic Church, DOES use the same LIturgy the ORthodox do.

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 10/31/15


Cluny, from Birmingham? I was at St Elias 5 years ago. Men at a 10:30 am Sunday Mass seemed outnumbered by about 3 to 1.(Not counting teenage boys forced to go with their mothers.)

I must admit it was one of the highest man to woman radio in Alabama.

I would assume more men go to Church in the South than in any other part of the United States. Midwest 2nd.

I am sure a Catholic man is saying the same thing as you right now.

BeingHonestHere, Yes, but imagine for us women who outnumber men feel.

It is harder for us as well.

Maybe we single folks missed God's signals: They were too fat, old, odd looking, skinny, too young or even too pretty or husband to believe God chose them for us.

Who knows?
---Nicole_Lacey on 10/30/15


Even in church it is very hard meeting a good one too. Can't win either way.
---BeingHonestHere on 10/30/15


In my experience, Nicole, Orthodoxy tends to appeal to men more than to women.

There certainly were not any single Orthodox women around when I was looking for one.

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 10/29/15


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.. and if i was that Blessed which i Wasn't at all..instead of being by myself.---Seriously

Where have you been looking for this 'good' woman?

I am alone and wanted to be married with children as well.

Am I cursed, or allowing God to chose for me my life style?
Marriage or Single?

I have always been told if you want a Godly Man, you most likely won't find him in a club or bar.

Usually in Church.
I am surprised you can't find a 'good' woman at Church since we usually OUT NUMBER men 4 to 1 when it comes to Church attendance.

Go to Church faithfully to Worship God. If God wishes to share you with another human He will unite you both.
If not, Praise Him still for keeping you from an awful marriage.
---Nicole_Lacey on 10/29/15


Well for many of us good innocent men out there which i do speak for others as well, it is very extremely hard to find a good woman for us to Accept us for who we really are since there are so many that have their Careers now which it is all about Money for them. Why would many of us men out there Blame ourselves for the way how women have completely Changed over the years? Absolutely Not. And i always thought that i was going to meet the right good woman for me which Never happened, and if i was that Blessed which i Wasn't at all which i would've been married with a wife and family by now instead of being by myself. And God did say that man should Not be alone which i totally agree.
---Seriously on 10/28/15


There are frequent posting from women about how mean men are.

This is the first one I've seen complain about women.

Some women might be high maintenance, but some men are, too.

I have to take about 15 pills a day to be healthy. Am I high maintenance?

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 10/27/15


Mark said, "What many in the church world know is that it is difficult to get men involved because men are involved in so many selfish activities."

Well, really, the church has turned its back on men and gravitated to women and children.

Ever look at a Church Bulletin, there is 1 Men's Group compared to numerous children and Women's Programs.

the church has become feminine and has said to men, "You are not needed."

Would you stay around if you were told and made to feel that you are not needed??

men are masculine not feminine

Thank God there are churches and ministries that are noticing this and are working to bring about change.

Jesus was a man who had 12 male disciples...
---john9346 on 10/26/15


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We no longer live in 'old fashioned' times. Everything has changed. Women have freedoms never dreamt of by our grandmothers.

Women never were meant to be treated like animals but they were, assumed to be the slave of the man and a permanent baby machine. God created human beings to be higher than animals and work together as couples. He never intended us to be slaves to men.

Women would be far more content to give in to their man if their man obeyed the rules set down for the male of the species also. It's two way traffic.
---andreea on 10/26/15


Most women these days are very spoiled and selfish.
---TheHonestTruthOfAll on 10/23/15

Wow, you are calling the kettle black.

I assume you are a man. Let me ask you one question.

How many hours of TV, conversation, fantasy leagues, gambling, tickets, etc. do you spend on Sports? Or Politics? Or Work?

Compare that number to how many hours you spend on your wife, your kids, your community, your church, your God.

What many in the church world know is that it is difficult to get men involved because men are involved in so many selfish activities.

I think you will find that your own equation is also very slanted.
---Mark_Eaton on 10/23/15


Just to many wannabe barbie dolls out there these days which their parents today had a lot to do with it too as they were growing up. Just look at the TV today that steers them in the Wrong direction, especially with the Reality shows that they have on today as well as the Media which makes it real Worse too. Most women these days are very spoiled and selfish.
---TheHonestTruthOfAll on 10/23/15


It will be the same as asking you why did GOD create so many men who are heart breakers,cheats, selfish.I highly doubt GOD created any person and told them to be all these things we are saying. The world and the society is the one that has instilled these characters in these people both men and women. The world has molded them in to that.
---Jaclyn on 10/23/15


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Your first mistake is claiming GOD CREATED those women you describe.

2nd, only men can make these women in high demand.

MONEY is used to get these women.

Poor men usually have LOVELY women.
---Nicole_Lacey on 10/22/15


Independent--she won't let you give her orders and will not jump when you say jump. Selfish--she actually does not want to do everything like you think she should. Spoiled--she expects you to treat her like a lady and you never learned how to be a gentleman. Greedy--she does not want to support you or give you her money. The good old fashioned women would not consider a man with a bad attitude.
---KarenD on 10/21/15


tutthtuller asked, "Why did God create so many high maintenance women that are so very independent, very selfish, very spoiled, and very greedy,

Well sir, I can guarantee God didn't create women in this fashion, he actually created them the opposite of what you describe.

Most women today have brought in to feminism which has destroyed the family, the society, and nations and ultimately themselves.

Some women today are actually confused and when you get to the bottom line they don't know what they really and truly want.

see Gen 2:18-25, Eph 5:22, 1 Tim 2:13-14, and 1 Pet 3:1-7.

If you are having marriage problems, you can call (800) 232-6459 there are counselors available to help you.
---john9346 on 10/21/15


The good old women of long ago were slaves,a piece of property,to their husbands,having one baby after another and so worked down many died young or in child birth. It isn't wrong to be independent that doesn't make them selfish or spoiled. It depends what you call High Maintenance,it may be it's just the woman insisting on the things she needs in life. Love your wife as Christ loved the Church and gave Himself for it. Love produces more love and the more that makes a circle from husband to wife and back the better life you will have. God Bless
---Darlene_1 on 10/21/15


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The question is, "Why did God create so many high maintenance women that are so very independent, very selfish, very spoiled, and very greedy, today which the good old fashioned women of years ago were never like that at all?"

The women you are talking about are self-made women--thereby relieving God of the responsibility of the mistakes.

Pray for me,
the unworthy monk Brendan
---Monk_Brendan on 10/21/15


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