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Bikini Swimwear For Christians

Are bikinis such as g-strings or exotic swimwear appropriate for Christians wear? And how do I tell my Christian friend who wears these types of bikinis?

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I do hope that she does not have a little plastic FISH SYMBOL or I LOVE JESUS STICKER on her car. I think skimpy bathing suits or other skimpy wearing apparel are a disgrace to the cross. She knows what she is doing so I don't think telling her will help. But it won't hurt either:).
---jody on 5/14/08

A man and wifes bed is UNdefiled...
---Duane_Dudley_Martin on 5/14/08

It is Buster who has the imagination.
---alan_of_UK on 5/14/08

So, what about lusting after your wife wearing skimpy clothing (privately?)

Does that also grieve the Holy Spirit? Is it lust in general, excessive lust, or just lusting after someone we're not married to?

And what about lusting after someone we are not married to yet? -I'd really like to know.
---me on 5/13/08

Alan of UK, don't sweat the small stuff.
Everyone knows that Alan of UK and Elder do not even exist. They are imaginary bloggers that belong in the mind of Linda, for Linda's imaginary alliances against imaginary conflicts that Linda starts against her own imaginary bloggers.
---BusterofAR on 5/13/08

Elder and I made up a long time and somehow the order of these post has been jumbled and makes it apprear tht I sm still in dispute with him
---alan_of_UK on 5/13/08

John T ... "You accepted the rebuke, agreeing you often post before you think". I don't think it me whom you rebuked, but someone who had insulted me
The spat here is because Elder has made insulting and scandalous insinuations about me. I don't know how much he thought beforehand. If he didn't think, I accept he may just have been thoughtless of the hurt he could cause, but in that case why does he not withdraw the insinuations.
---alan_of_UK on 5/10/08

Beth ... This blog was laid to rest over a year ago, but if you want to get it going again, please write in English!
Not all of us are familiar with TextSpeak, and I for one cannot make out what you are trying to say!
---alan_of_UK on 9/20/07

R U kidding?,it's NOT OK!Time goes on, standards lower.Purpose of swimsuit:swim/ tan not show UR underwear!Devil's peer plot =pre-teen/teens 2 not feel different tho Christ-like in their "other" life.They walk the beach,guys almost fall over condo/motel balconies(lust=adultery).It's seeking self-esteem,attention,gaulking.We're NOT of this world!We're 2 TRANSFORM THEM by R walk/talk with Christ.Embarrasses ALL Christians 2 see this "sexy" clothing,it grieves the Holy Spirit 2!
---Beth on 9/19/07

Not in public. They are unacceptable and too suggestive. At home with a married mate would be a different circumstance. In public I would wear a one piece bathing suit with a large tee shirt over it. Coming out of the water, I would still be covered and nothing revealed.
---Robyn on 9/19/07

The last entry on this blog (mine) was over 6 months ago ... yet has been redated to resurrect this dead discussion.
---alan_of_UK on 9/19/07

Tankin It is strange is it not that Elder does not try to justify his earleir slur, or withdraw it?
---alan_of_UK on 9/19/07

Pucker up, Buttercups. I'm sending you smooches and kisses all around.

Elder, do you miss the days of old on CN?
I suppose there were fewer people with a smaller mixture of beliefs. Time/enemy has intensified the fight against Christianity.
What do you see that wasn't here many years ago. Would you share what you see now?
---Buttercup on 3/29/07

Alan, ChristiaNet is changing almost daily. We have all seen that. What they might have been able to do yesterday, with all things the same, may not be available today.
The President of CN told me as much as he could about your account. They watch out for and minister to as many as they can. If it were possible to reinstate your PenP account it would have been done.
The system, set up for the benifit of everyone, will not allow it.
Be thankful for what you have.
---Elder on 3/29/07

Alan, JohnE is not Buster.

I believe you, nothing untoward.
However, why not exchange private e-mail addresses while you are on P.P.
Then you can say whatever you want.
I can imagine there is some talking about other bloggers; so and so is nuttier than a fruitcake. So and so needs a straightjacket.
So and so is ....
---BusterofAR on 3/29/07

While no bad words may be spoken, maybe it's the talking about others that raises a flag, too.
Why not do that on private e-mails?
If we can't say it in public and air it out, why the need to talk about anything privately. We're all here to learn. If beliefs are contrary to the beliefs of CN, they can read the P.P.'s, too. It is their site. No shoes, no shirt, no service.<
---BusterofAR on 3/29/07

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Don't take my opinion personally, Alan, please.
But if someone needs to get a posse together to scoot someone off the blogs, that's not Christ-like.
Keep it all out in the open air.
Talk amongst yourselves privately for all criticisms of others and preserve your P.P. rights for something important.
---BusterofAR on 3/29/07

Alan of UK::Friend you are not the only one who is excomunicated from the sacred Halls of our Illustrious provider, where Humor is NIL & the swift sword of reproval like those who held sway in the synagogues "Let him who is among you cast the first stone"It was ok to be judgemental in those days!!!or was it?
---Emcee on 3/29/07

JohnE ... Well, why would one want to write on email, when the PP correspondence is going quite well?
In the past someone has been reinstated after the Site cancelled the PP account because of a misunderstanding of a word used.
It is right for the Site to monitor within reason, but to cancel and refuse to explain is not honest. In any case nothing untoward was said.
---alan_of_UK on 3/29/07

Sorry ... My last should have been addressed to BusterofAR not JohnE.
---alan_of_UK on 3/29/07

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How about this?

Rating Example
0 Naked
10 G-string alone
20 String Bikini
30 full cut 2 piece
40 2- piece tankini
50 One piece (Speedo)
60 Sprinter Suit (covers more but still skin tight)
70 Lane Bryant one piece
80 Modern swimdress
90 1930s style
100 Burka
---JohnE on 3/26/07

Digression seems to be the main theme of this blog.
Since specific guidelines for swim/beach wear can not be found in scripture, there will be 100 differing opinions from 100 different people.
I wonder if a "sliding scale" would work.
e.g. What's appropriate on a scale from 0 to 100.
0 = Sans clothing and
100 = burka.
This would most likely require example representation of numbers to swimsuit style.
---JohnE on 3/26/07

Here's the thing, when you had the P.P. account intact, AlanofUK, why would you not exchange private e-mails and talk amongst yourselves?
I'm not surmising anything untoward was spoken over your P.P. account, but it's down the drain now.
It's difficult to contact one another unless you've known each other previously via telephone or some other form of communique.
Wouldn't the CN P.P. site be monitored for safety/appropriate chat, exactly like we are here. It is their site.
---BusterofAR on 3/25/07

Try what I suggested Alan, did you get an e-mail from CN?
---NVBarbara on 3/25/07

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Alan I received a message today from CN.
Sorry but it is impossible for the system to reinstate a Pen Pal account for you.
We tried but you can still post.
---Elder on 3/24/07

Do you guys use this site to receive attention or to release stress? Honestly, if I was a non-Christian, searching this site to see what Christianity is about, this dialogue would be far from what I would expect to see. Don't you know that the world is watching you?
---Cheryl on 3/24/07

What I really hope you will be able to do is influence them to allow me to join the PenPal system again ---alan_of_UK on 3/23/07

Alan you may be considered "evil" because you don't attack the RCC :))
---Caring on 3/24/07

It is a disgrace, one pieces are better if you want to go swimming,no body needs to be inticed by the wardrobe of the opposite sex, this includes males wearing those tight briefs when swimming boxers are more appropriate. If someone does where them then Please let it be in their own pool or property.
---Candice on 3/23/07

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Alan you know I use the name nvbarbara on here. Are you familier with hotmail?
Put those together and see what you get!
---NVBarbara on 3/23/07

Elder ... I'm not seeking explanations as to why some of my posting were not published. It often happens, sometimes the Mod may feel the point has been made so many times before, or is unsuitable to be put on CN, or may imply criticism of CN
What I really hope you will be able to do is influence them to allow me to join the PenPal system again
---alan_of_UK on 3/23/07

Alan Bill is still searching about what happened. I will contact him again.
When blogs are not posted it may be that CN never received them and they are still floating in cyber space.
My intent was never to defame you. I considered you a good blogger and friend.
---Elder on 3/23/07

Elder ... Anything to report?
---alan_of_UK on 3/23/07

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Thanks nvB but I can't write to you on Penpal, because I can't get on to it.
---alan_of_UK on 3/21/07

Thanks nvB ... Nor can I see your profile
---alan_of_UK on 3/21/07

Elder ... And on the Ashes blog, only part 3 of my post has been published.
Not your fault, nor mine, but why?
---alan_of_UK on 3/20/07

Alan, have you been able to post a new profile? If you would like Elder's EMail address, contact me at barba4556. You can get to my profile even if you don't have one posted.
My email address is on my profile. I'd LOVE to know that you 2 could contact each other and resolve this issue. I spoke to Elder yesterday and I think he'd like that too!
---NVBarbara on 3/20/07

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Elder ... I've now seen what has been recently published from me. You will see I have been trying to amke peace.
BUT, the most peaceful of my posts have not been published, so you still don't know in full what I am saying.
Not your fault, nor mine, but I wonder why it happens
It will be good to talk privately to you, then maybe all we say will be read by the other!
---alan_of_UK on 3/20/07

Elder, well, I had to wade through lotsa stuff, but THANK you for teaching me about David and Goliath, the true story! That is so cool, I never knew that. I always thought he killed him with a stone.
---sue on 3/20/07

Elder ... "How can I be responsible for that"
In no way can you be responsible for that. I was trying to explain why I had not answered. I still cannot answer because I still don't understand your question.
I'm not blaming yuo, just explaining why I can't answer still.
Yopu see you have read me wrong?
---alan_of_UK on 3/20/07

Elder "Your statement shows that you know that. I also told you why I said what I did and you acknowledged what I meant"
I wrote that statement very recently, in an attempt to understand how it is we have rubbed each other the wrong way.
I did not realise it before ... that when you make a very barbed comment it is perhaps just to create a response, rather than to give offense.
If we don't intend insult, but in fact it is taken as insult, perhaps we have said something in the wrong way?
---alan_of_UK on 3/20/07

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Elder "What's your purpose?"
My purpose has been ... as on a previous occasion when you clearly did not recognise ... was to explain (as I saw it) how we have rubbed each other up the wrong way, and caused offense when when none is intended, and how maybe you have could have misunderstood what I havebeen saying (as you have here)
I am trying to make peace, and you have not seen it, perhaps because you have expected me to continue the dispute, which I don't want to, because it grievesme.
---alan_of_UK on 3/20/07

Elder Another thing to remember is that often post do not get published, which mean that what is published can give entirely the wrong impression
I recntly wrote a three-parter to you ... but only part 3 was published. Parts 1 & 2 were not offensive or inappropriate, but were essential to what I was trying to explain.
This sort of thing can so easily cause misunderstanding.
---alan_of_UK on 3/20/07

Elder "What's your purpose?"
My purpose was originally to defend myself against what seemed to be unwarranted attack and insult (although I now realise you probably did not mean it)
My recent purpose has been to make peace, but you have not recognised it.
---alan_of_UK on 3/20/07

Elder ... we should be able to disagree without winding each other up.
Perhaps we get wound up because we expect the other to try to wind us up.
A sort of self-fulfilling suspicion.
let's start afresh. in peace
& I wouyld so like to be able to correspond via PP with my friends here.
---alan_of_UK on 3/20/07

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I really liked Walter Matthau. To tell you the truth, my Grandmother looked like Walter Matthau!
My favorite scenes in Grumpy Old Men; he told his son to close the screen door so the bugs couldn't eat his macaroni dish; and when he handed out staplers, toothpaste, laundry soap to the neighbor kids for treats.
---R.A. on 3/18/07

v51 David ran, drew Goliath's sword and slew him and cut off his head.
Goliath died the same way he lived by the sword.
David hit him with a stone and he cut off his head with a sword.
V50 says what David did and v51 tells how he did it.
---Elder on 3/18/07

David's stone I sure hope nothing happened to v51 in your Bible.
v49 David smote the Philistine in his forehead.... and he fell upon his face to the earth.
v50 tells what David did. He prevailed over the Philistine with a sling and stone, (and) smote the Philistine, (and) slew him.
v50 but there was no sword in the hand of David. (so)
---Elder on 3/18/07

mpa says, "Alan, for the 4 years that I have come and gone from C.N........
I agree with your argument here, he has insulted you, but it just isn't worth continuing with this."
Strange mpa remembers what I have done for 4 years and forgets what he's done.
You tell Alan this is not worth continuing yet you try to start something.
We can still see your eyes in the dark.
---Elder on 3/18/07

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mpa, You've just given me the biggest laugh of the week!
m.p.a. on 3/18/07
Try not to laugh outta both sides of your face that'll hurt.
---Elder on 3/18/07

Your statement shows that you know that. I also told you why I said what I did and you acknowledged what I meant.
That was good enough for a day. Now it is not.
What's your purpose?
That is a question not an accusation, body slam, character attack, or anything else your mind may tell you.
---Elder on 3/18/07

Alan you said, "I aksed you to rephrase it to make it clear what you meant.
But my reply appears not to have been published"
---alan_of_UK on 3/18/07
How can I be responsible for that.
You said, "when you say something seems to me like an insult, you probably don't mean it that way."
---Elder on 3/18/07

Seems as if we have here the Christainet version of the movie, "Cranky Old Men".

Which one of you is Jack Lemmon?

The one who calls the other "Moron!" is Walter Matthau.
---Observer on 3/18/07

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1 Samuel 17:49, 50
So David prevailed over the Philistine with a sling and a stone, and struck the Philistine and KILLED HIM. But there was NO SWORD IN THE HAND of David.
---DavidsStone on 3/18/07

Should Christian woman wear only bikini underwear or a low cut bra in public?? Is 1 more "covered" when wearing a bikini swim suit? NO. Is it okay for men to wear a bikini that covers yet accents parts? SAME thing... I once saw a female in a mall who wore a fishnet top & no bra, I couldn't help but take a 2nd look. She glared & said I shouldn't stare... How different is that? The verse about lusting in your heart also applies to how you dress causing one to lust... Modesty is scripture.
---mikefl on 3/18/07

Elder, please enlighten me of this event "John T, MPAs recommendation comes from a time when he was caught in a trap also for posting something misleading and wrong. He had his encounter with ol'Elder and was set correct. He is just still upset about that." You've just given me the biggest laugh of the week!
---m.p.a. on 3/18/07

Elder "But maybe you can tell me why no one else was pointed out that said the same things I did. I have asked Alan that and he doesn't answer"
I answered to say that I did not understand your question as written, because it just did not make sense. I aksed you to rephrase it to make it clear what you meant.
But my reply appears not to have been published
---alan_of_UK on 3/18/07

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Elder ... You say "YOU bring it up again. The only thing I can imagine is that I have hit a pocket of sin in your life and you are having a hard time dealing with it"
All through this "spat". Elder, I have been responding to what you have said to me. I hope you do not again say that I "have brought it up again", when I respond that I do not have a pocket of sin in my life, and repeat that I am NOT turned on, either to disgust or to lust, by bikini's girls.
---alan_of_UK on 3/18/07

Elder ... WE each need to learn something. Me, I should learn that when you say something seems to me like an insult, you probably don't mean it that way.
And you, perhaps to learn that if someone protests that you have insulted them, you that means that they have felt insult.
Let's close it here.
---alan_of_UK on 3/18/07

Hey Sue, Ha! We got another blog outta this one.
Guess what David did not kill Goliath with a stone.
This is, did not as in nope he sure didn't kill the giant with a stone.
David killed him with a sword......
Betya betya betya.....
---Elder on 3/17/07

John T, MPAs recommendation comes from a time when he was caught in a trap also for posting something misleading and wrong. He had his encounter with ol'Elder and was set correct. He is just still upset about that.
But maybe you can tell me why no one else was pointed out that said the same things I did. I have asked Alan that and he doesn't answer.
Not everyone is as blind as some would hope nor as forgetful.
---Elder on 3/17/07

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Proverbs 9:10--The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom and the knowledge of the holy understanding....amen
---teresa on 3/17/07

HEY! Elder! Wait a minute here: Didn't David kill Goliath with a stone?!
---sue on 3/17/07

A Christian can wear a modest bikini, but if it advertizes the flesh, then it is no longer modest. Thus g-strings in public are a no-no for the Christian, and many exotic swimwears are also sin. Tell your Cristian friend the Bible specifies moderation in dress, and we are to represent holy Christ and not give him a bad reputation or a bad name, by calling ourselves Christian but dressing like whores dress. Your friend should be taking Christ everywhere everyday, including the beach.
---Eloy on 3/17/07

Karen ... You say Elder showed me no disrespect.
Just read what he has insinuated with regsrd to my morals.
---alan_of_UK on 3/17/07

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Elder ... i would not want to lose you as a friend
"Alan you are speaking like you are an authority on this issue.
Now you even try to make it wrong for Rhonda to cover up"
That sounded like an insinuation and it was a twisting of my words.
It would be OK in a spoken debate, where maybe the smile could be seen. But here, it is all so serious, and one assumes you mean what you say.
I think we both have someting to learn from this.
there's no funeral to attend.
God bless
---alan_of_UK on 3/17/07

Alan, you don't have to lose your respect for anyone. Taking m.p.a. advice is even worse. Everyone here on line, answers questions that many others oppose. They go around looking for that person on other answers just to throw not only rocks but bricks every time they have a chance to throw them. What does that tell you about that person? Elder didn't show any disrespect to you. You just took it wrong. Don't let your emotions and feelings guide you Alan, we know you are a nice guy already. Don't change.
---karen on 3/17/07

AlanofUK - Forgive, and you will be forgiven.
---Helen_5378 on 3/17/07

I think you should warn your friends. No one should be able to tempt another and certainly not use your body to do so, as it is a temple of God. It says that when a man desires a woman, he already sins in is mind. Responsibilty towards others and self. What happened to self-respect and moral values.
---Junia on 3/17/07

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Alan I asked you simple questions and something in your heart must have panged. It was not me that did that. I think my last post proved that.
You claim offense. If others had not asked the same type things, which you did not attack, it would not have gone this far.
I am known by the people that are my friends and those who are not. I cannot lose a friend who I never had but only thought I had.
Many tried to show you but you don't want to see.
I shall not attend the funeral.
---Elder on 3/16/07

Dear Alan,I have neither lost respect for you nor old Elder. This has gotton to be a jumbled mess! I understood what you meant from the beginning. If a lady is at the beach and is more covered up than those in 'strings' there is a bit of mystery there and gentlemen may just be more attracted to her. Simple eh? ENOUGH battling guys, I love you both.
---NVBarbara on 3/16/07

Yes Helen ... I am upset at the way things have been said about me that have become lies, because people have accepted them.
However, I will take mpa's advice, and leave the subject.
But someone has lost my respect.
---alan_of_UK on 3/16/07

Yes Helen ... I am upset at the way sly way that accusations about my morals have been put here, so that even you appear to beleive them.
However, I will take mpa's advice, and leave the subject.
But someone has lost my respect, first because of the way he has made those insinuations, and secondly because he appears now not to have the guts to justify or apologise.
---alan_of_UK on 3/16/07

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So now, Alan, YOU bring it up again. The only thing I can imagine is that I have hit a pocket of sin in your life and you are having a hard time dealing with it.
If that is not the case then Tofurabby must have offended you also by saying to you;
"So is today's culture right? Maybe if you are worldly, but not if you are trying to live for God."
tofurabby on 3/1/07
But, then you are not after Tofurabby are you?
---Elder on 3/16/07

Alan read our dialog, think where the problem is;

-Where ya gonna spend your weekend?
Elder on 3/3/07
-Elder ... "Where ya gonna spend your weekend"
I wonder whether you intended that question to be insulting?
alan_of_UK on 3/3/07
-I asked about your week end because I knew you would say "Not at the Baywatch scene."
Elder on 3/4/07
-Elder #2 I acccept yuor assurance that you did not intend the question to be insulting,
alan_of_UK on 3/8/07
---Elder on 3/16/07

Alan wrote: Please show where I have insulted Elder on this blog.

Sorry about that, friend, no harm meant, and I made a singular you, directed to Elder, seem like a plural.

Please forgive me for causing you grief. I should have been more specific, but I was careless due to tiredness.

Hey Elder, my point was to point out a pattern. m.p.a. gave a four-years long retrospective, saying the same as I did.

Please heed his (and other's) advice.
---John_T on 3/16/07

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