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Divorce Over No Sparks
	It sounds like she has a man on the side. This could be the reason as to why she says there isn't a spark between you two anymore, and for you to get out. If she wants out of the marriage, then tell her to move out. You shouldn't leave just because she feels unhappy. There is a reason behind her teling you to leave, and the reason could be "the another man".

How To Speak In Tongues
	You're friend needs to seek God while fasting and praying. He needs to have faith and have patience. He will speak in tongues when God wants him to and use him the most.

Why Did Lot's Wife Look
	Because when she looked back, she looked at what she was leaving behind. A person can't look back behind their shoulder and have their eyes on God at the same time. God said Chose ye this day in whom you shall serve. When Lot's wife looked back, she took her eyes of off God and made her choice.

Get Out Of This Marriage

If I were you, I would take my children and leave this abusive man. God did not make us to be punching bags for anyone. While you may have falling in love with another man, cheating on your spouse is not the solution. Stand up for yourself and your children. I had a friend who wouldn't divorce her abusive husband, because people told her she would be in the wrong if she filed for a divorce. So she listened to them and her husband kept abusing her, night after night. Until one day he took it too far and took her life. If she would have stood up to him and divorced him, she may still be alive today. Do not be a door-mat for anyone.

How Did Life Come To Exist
	Adam came from dirt, and Eve came from Adam's rib. Because God spoke, and all things were created. We are all made from dirt.

Wife Spends All My Money

My husband has always told me that as long as I pay the bills andbuy groceries, he doesn't care what I do with the rest as long as we have money till next payday. Dude, when you said I Do, things are no longer yours or hers, but our's. Telling a woman to stop spending money is like telling a pig to hatch an egg. If seh is paying the bills and take care o things and you still have money left over, what is the big deal? Face it, you're not single anymore man.

The Clean Joke Blog

A man was robbing a house, he heard a bird say Swak, Acts 2:37. The man didn't pay any mine to it, he stole the tv, dvd player and other things. The next night he decided to rob the neighbors house. He pryed his way in, he still heard that bird, Acts 2:37. Again he chose to ignore it. He was about to make it outside until this little ole lady said, Stop right there in the name of Acts 2:37. The mugger stopped and the lady called the police. A Policeman asked why was he so afraid of a 83 year ole woman? The buggler said because she said she had an ax and 2 37's. Here's the saying....Here's your sign.

Remarried In Constant Adultery

No. The first time I was married, I was a sinner, as well as my (ex) husband. He cheated on me, I found someone else before my divorce was final. (My husband now). I was a sinner then, as well as the man I married. I believe that once we went to that alter to accept Christ in our heats, that erased our past. Meaning God forgave us from all the wrong doings that we have done in our past. So if someone here, tells me different, I would have to beg the differ. Because once a person comes to God and accepts him and invite him into your heart and asks for forgiveness, then whatever we've done in the past, is forgiven.

How To Get People Saved

Yes I desire to see people saved, all the time. What can I do? Pray for them in hopes that they will except Jesus in time. Just because a person repeats after you in prayer that doesn't make them saved. Until that person is ready to make that change, and to take that first step, we can't do anything except pray that they will make the right decision. You can't tell a person, you either get saved right now or else. Patience is a virtue. They are willing or their not.

Is Remarriage Accepted By God

Wal rev: Ya' know there are woman out there whom has had their spouse cheated on them. I am one of them. You cannot tell me, that me re-marring someone else is my fault, when he was unfaithful. I did not cheat on my spouse, he cheated on me. And yes I remarried and I'm glad that I did, cause I have two wonderful children. I think you need to re-read the bible. Just because there is a divorce that doesn't mean it is the woman's fault.

What's Up October 2009

Thank you all for being so concered. I have another problem though. Somehow, I slept on my right wrist far too long in the same position, that it damaged some of my nerves, controlling my wrist and my thumb. S o if i misspell a word, i'm sorry. i am typing with my lkeft hand, which is awkard. my doctor said that it could tzke up to a year with physical theopry for me to get use of my hasnd. i'm sick of this, i get somewhat ober something and something elkse happens. in case you haben't noticed, my right hand id my dometic hand. i hane to udse my lefy hand for almost everything. anc i havw two kids.

What's Up October 2009

Hey Ya'll. I know I haven't been here for quite some time, but I had more kidney problems, and plus my internet got turned off. Cause I had to pay something on my medical bills. And at that time the internet wasn't a priority like just my phone, power and mortgage was. I am doing better now. I still have mulitiple kidney stones and my Urologist is still doing test to see what kind of stones my body is producing. He also said that I still have a lot of scar tissue, and it takes one year for scar tissue to heal after surgery. I've had 14 surgeries in the past 2 1/2 years so you can imagine how much scar tissue I have. Just wanted to touch base with all and say Howdie.

Can A Drunk Get Saved

Yes a person can receive Christ while being drunk, but they must repent with a sincere heart and ask God to forgive them. Once they do this, God will save them. Before that person leaves the altar, they will be sober and saved. Robyn: God can save anybody as long as they come to him wanting to change, wanting to be saved. A person doesn't have to be sober in order for them to receive Christ. I've seen a really drunk man stagger inside the church, he reaked of alchol. The Pastor was giving an altar call, the man staggered to the altar and fell on his knees and became very humble. When he left that altar, he was sober and saved. The smell was gone. Never hinder or deny a person from going to the altar.

What's Up May 2009

Donna: How can this man get help if Mary deserts him? She is trying to get him help, he went to church, was prayed for. If God can't help a person, then no is no hope. If people reached out their hand a little farther to show some kindness toward others, then maybe there might be less suicides. Mary: Keep praying for your boyfriend. He needs you more than ever. Continue to show God's love to him. The worse thing you can do is pressure him into going to church with you. If he says no when you ask, then drop it. Don't hound him, because that will drive him further away. God Bless.

Sinful To Eat Too Much

The only power Satan and his demons have is what we give them. A Christian has the power in them from the Holy Spirit over Satan and his demons. If Satan is on your back, you can't run in a corner somewhere crying leave me alone. Because he won't leave you alone, he'll keep on and on. A person has to stand on God's word and put the fear of God in them. They'll run like a pup with it's tail between his legs. They'll leave you alone for a while, but come back again. Paul said it best, when I do good, evil is always present.

Wearing Pants To Church

It is not a sin for a woman to wear pants to church or any other place just as long as she is decent. Women is always getting downgraded for some reason. I wear pants, I don't wear them to church, but that is between me and God as to why I don't. I can't tell a women that she is sinning just because she choses to wear slacks to church. I believe some people need to check themselves instead of pointing their finger at others. Wearing pants isn't wrong for a woman to wear to church just as long as she is covered.

Does Hell Really Exist

Hell is very real. And it is a shame that way too many people will be in hell because they were not washed by the blood of the Lamb. God gave me a vision a while back on how hell is going to be. I wouldn't wish anyone to face God's wrath, but I can't make that decision. People think they have so much time, even the people that have been Christians for umteen years. But time is running out fast, and I pray that people are ready. If they're not ready then they need to get ready and stay ready.

Mow Grass On Sunday

That all depends on if one rests on Saturday or a Sunday. Not everyone has the same beliefs. I was taught that Sunday was the day of rest, and while I try to rest it is hard to do with two youn-in's and a husband that works evenings, even on Sunday's. I don't rest in church, Lord no. I'm just so happy to get out of the house and be around adults. But that isn't the reason I go to church. But doing work on Sunday or Saturday is up to each person and God. I was told to rest but with two children it is hard to do...unless their in school or asleep.

I Hate My Husband

You must understand that your husband is out there providing for you and your family. Support him in his work. My husband is a Police Officer and I worry alot about, I worry if another will have his back when out and about. I can't go with him, but I can send God and his angels to guide and protect him. Appreciate what your husband does. At least he does work for his family. There are alot of men out there who won't even do that, they'd rather suck it up living on welfare. Take your kids to the park, and watch them play. Get a hobby, make crafts or knit. If you want to be happy then chose to make it happy. Being happy is a choice.