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Can You Be Saved At Age 5
	If a child has reached the age of accountability at age 5, then YES he can be saved. It's different for every person. Once you are old enough to understand it, then you can be saved. That age could be 3, 7, 18 or 92.

Are Men's Speedos A Sin

I'm not a skinny boy by any means, but I choose to wear speedos. I think it's unfair that a girl, of any age, can wear revealing swimwear and a guy can't. It's not about the fact it's revealing, I simply find it more comfortable. I don't like having 40lb shorts coming out of a pool. I don't think there is anything sexual or revealing about it. I don't think there is any problem with any religion about what to wear swimming. After all, before swim suits what did people wear? I doubt all of them were fit. My name is Jamie. I'm a chubby guy. And yes, I wear speedos. If you don't like it, simply don't look.

I Need A Good Pastor In Church
	I just came across your prayer request about in need of a Pastor. Where are you located and does your Church still need a Pastor? God Bless, Pastor Jamie D. Coley

How To Properly Spank My Kids
	A hand spanking the bare bottom is always best I believe. To use implements seems harsh but your hand on their bare bottms is fine. Over the pants is ok, but definately less affective.

Living With Wife A Sin

I think that as long as the marriage is recognized by the state(i.e. you got a marriage license and it was signed by the two of you, your officiant and two wittnesses), then you are truly husband and wife. There are so many people that get married in a JP, on cruise ships, etc. And they are just as much husband and wife as someone who went through a church ceremony. If you are recognized as husband and wife then you are married and your church is just trying to be "stupid" or something.

My Dad Had An Affair
	I know how it feels to have the pain of an adulterous father eating away at you. The only thing that saved me was meeting with a Christian counselor and being painfully open and honest with my dad. Other than that, I just had to learn to have tremendous faith in God's plan for my family and to lean on him when I am broken and hurting.

Want My Husband To Leave

OK, I have one of those also. I have tried to get him to leave but he won't. It's not your fault. My husband would go off for no reason. He's not happy with himeself. Honestly there is nothing you can do to change him, but I guarantee if you leave he'll see that you are serious and change. Make sure you lay down the law and do not let him back in until he has completed every task. I made that mistake and regret it.

Living With Wife A Sin

I think that as long as the marriage is recognized by the state(i.e. you got a marriage license and it was signed by the two of you, your officiant and two wittnesses), then you are truly husband and wife. There are so many people that get married in a JP, on cruise ships, etc. And they are just as much husband and wife as someone who went through a church ceremony. If you are recognized as husband and wife then you are married and your church is just trying to be "stupid" or something.

Is Purgatory A Real Place

If you believe in a Purgatory, then you are not born again, because if you were, you would know that Jesus paid the price for all sin. You must be born again. Purgatory is a lie and a child of God knows this. Not everyone is a child of God. Only the simple believe in Purgatory. Why, becase if you are not rooted in Christ (Born again) you will follow any wind of doctrine and can be led astray, and that's dangerous, spiritually. This is the truth in Christ. There is no Purgatory.

Disobedient Children Blues
	Both of my parents were church goers, as was I, and our town was 100% Christian. I moved out of that town because of all the child abuse (spanking) that I saw and was sick of it. I will just never understand how people can deliberatly hurt their kids.

Disobedient Children Blues
	I remember I was spanked as a child and I always hated my parents for it. When I was alone I would break something of theirs and then glue it back together to say "Haha!" and as a way of silently getting back at them. I left home as soon as I could and to this day I hardly ever speak to my parents.

Ten Commandments On Buildings
	Mark, thats still not fair if they put up only JESUS. Its still just a 10 Commandment discussion all over again. If they put up one religious figure they might as well do them all to keep people happy. But then again no one ever seems happy no matter how much people try to compromise. : P

Thoughts On Reincarnation Demons
	Yeah Shadoe. Ive heard of that too. It does make sense when you wonder why some people are born the way they are. Phobias are supposed to be from past life expeiences too. Like if you were drowned you'd have a fear of water. It really does make a person see a bigger picture. And try to be a better person too. No harm in that whatsoever!

TV Kid's Shows Banned
	I wont let my daughter watch Bratz or the Winx club. Too sexy outfits and all the girls want on the shows are boys, boys, boys, that and material things.

Who Is Edgar Cayce
	I used to watch John Edwards and I saw him on Glenn Beck. I'd like to have a reading done myself but I heard his waiting list is two years long! I think Edgar Cayce was a bit better because he could tell you all sorts of things about yourself, what you should or shouldn't do, how to cure an illness, etc. but John is sort of just a messanger. I'd still like to meet him though for the experience.

Was Jesus Born With A Sin Nature
	Helen, Where in the Bible does it say Adam and Eve were created with a sin nature? It's one thing to say something from our own human understanding. Did God say they were? We must be careful not to add what is not spoken. Just as those who believe Mary was sinless.

Have You Seen An Angel

I have not but I believe others have seen who I now call my guardian angel. I was in a horrible car accident almost six years ago and was knocked unconscious. My driver's side door had flung open and I was hanging out of the door by my seatbelt. I was told that when police arrived on the sceen, there was a man holding my head. After the ambulance people took over, the police officer went to ask the man what he saw and the man was gone. No one saw him after police came.

I Don't Want To Eat Food
	been battling a eating disorder and, my fiance and family don't event know it. too scared to tell them and been hiding it from them especially from my fiance.