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Can I Remarry My Husband

Kandee, I think that it is great if you can find forgiveness in your heart for your x. That is a part of healing and that is very Christian. I do think that if he was abusive that maybe you are hanging on to something other than love and forgiveness. You must find healing for yourself. God made you to be strong and happy. Forgive and heal you and then forgive him and move on loving God and yourself as much as God loves you. Wouldn't it be great if you could find the good Christian man that God has picked for you? Good luck.

My Husband Will Not Work

I am in the same position and I have been for 20 years, I have finally decided to leave. I refuse to pay all of these bills by myself any longer, so by default a seperation will take place. I have searched the scriptures and I just don't have an answer. The bible says that for the hardness of their hearts he allowed for a divorce. I have no respect for him, nor can I pretend. He does not care, the many evictions that me and kids have faced, ment nothting to him. If you get an answer please let me know. I have stayd because I thought it was Biblical, but there is nothing Godly about staying in a marriage full of bitterness, and strife.

Church of Christ A Good Church
	everyone mentions the thief on the cross as reason not to baptize. He died before Jesus, before the new law. Baptism was commanded in the great commision, after Jesus' resurrection.

Christians Remarry After Divorce
	Part II-I have been divorced now for a year and began am dating a wonderful, loving, honest, and trusting man who is also divorced. His situation was very similar. His wife cheated on him and, in fact, had a child with another man. He too, went back to her trying to live by God's word and not divorce. Her cheating and lying only continued until he finally filed for divorce.

Christians Remarry After Divorce

Part III-We have been dating almost a year and are very happy together. We think about our life together as a married couple. I am torntorn.. I do know that I love him but I want to make sure it is right with God. Can someone point me to a scripture or a verse that says it is ok to remarry? Neither of our exspouses are remarried YET. I just feel like we were both victims in our own marriages and it seems that God would not want to punish both of us by not allowing us to marry and not live in sin.

Christians Remarry After Divorce
	I was married to a man who committed adultry several times. I tried to stay and make things work but his decietful ways only worsened. Eventually he struck up an inapropriate relationship with an underage girl and I ultimately filed for divorce.

Disabilitity People Go to Heaven
	I believe that it is an accountability issue. I believe that God would not hold severe mentally disabled individuals accountable. I know that there more than likely not any scripture to back this up. It is an issue of the heart and I know my God is a God of Mercy and compassion. As far as the babies go I most definitly believe they go no question about their accountability.

Spirit-Filled London Churches
	Emily try looking up Elijah List on the net. They may be able to help you. God Bless

Divorce For Emotional Adultry

I am not lusting over my women friend. I simply enjoyed her time more than my husbands time. When I was home we argued constantly. I ran away. I know it was wrong. I just dont know what to do next and I dont want to make it look like it is acceptable to me the way he treated me. Yes, I messed up but we cant just throw out why I was tempted to mess up. No wife should be treated the way that he treated me. Got to the point on a few occasions where he would speak and I would jump out of fear.

Father Of My Child Will Not Marry
	Did you become a christian before or after the birth of your daughter?

I Want To Become A Christian

In order to become a Christian , you have to accept Jesus. Jesus is God's only Heavenly Son. God sent Jesus as ransom for our sins. Jesus died for our sins and rose on the third day. If you confess with you mouth and believe in your heart this is true, you are saved from the penalty of sin which is eternity in hell. Accept Him and pray for His guidance in finding a bible based church home with sound doctrine.

Are The Bloggers Christian
	Only God knows the heart of man. Judge and ye shall also be judged.

Divorce For Emotional Adultry
	We had an amazing night last night actually. He was in awe at how faithful I have remained and steadfast during his wishy washyness. I think we both needed a wake up call. Good things will come of this. I know that. I am jsut waiting on God to tell me what to do every single step of the way. I genuinely want his will more than my own. I have not felt that in years.

Divorce For Emotional Adultry

You are right Faye. You are totally right. Not sure if I have been layed on anyone on heres heart to pray for but if so please keep praying in the spirit of God. My husband called me last night with three simple questions and it opened a huge solid stone door that I never thought would open. NOT MY WILL FATHER GOD, BUT YOUR WILL. I have been praying this everyday for the past few weeks. Time will tell.

Divorce For Emotional Adultry

NUMBER 1: I do not believe in my heart that my husband is in anyway a narcissist. Not at all. He does not find pleasure in hurting me. He has made bad choices, but so have I. My one wish is that he would have been completely honest with me and said "I miss my wife, please be with me" I know that was what he was feeling but what came out was anger because he was hurt. I am young. I did not know that he was hurt all I saw and heard was screaming and things flying across the room.

Divorce For Emotional Adultry

Faye...I LOVE YOU!! ;) I was just reading about being unevenly yoked a few nights ago. I dont think it is wrong to have none Christian friends but when I dont think your best friends should be none Christians. Just like Jesus and the diciples. He choose his best friends wisely. Thank you Faye. You have been most helpful. I know I cant make him stay. I am going to continue following God's will and if I feel peace in signing the papers I will do so. But not until then.

Divorce For Emotional Adultry
	It seems like you are like poor him poor him, well yes I screwed up, BIG TIME but he did to. Is it ok for him to love me any other way other than the way Christ loved the church? Is it ok to verbally abuse your wife? No. Its not. At all. Just like its not ok that I did not submit to him. We BOTH messed up. Not just me. I feel like I am pleading a case for my marriage to be saved. Why?

Divorce For Emotional Adultry

I will never forget the many names that I was called and the many times I was told that he hates me. I will never forget the times when he told me to stop talking b/c he was not interested but that does not matter. I have forgiven him. I cant forget but I have forgiven. I also now know that I have been forgiven for my wrong doings as well. By the one that matters. I dont understand the cold spirit of just let him go stop doing nice things and such. I dont get it. Help me understand.

Divorce For Emotional Adultry

I did not brake the covenant. I never committed adultry. I never had any sexual relation with another person. He is not leaving town because of me he is leaving to be with his family back home. The church wants him to stay. Yes he did treat me like crap and still is but its not God's will for me to leave him just like its not God's will for him to leave me. Ever read the book of Hosea? I cant believe that you are encouraging me to sign. Not the advise I thought I would get at all.