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My Husband Doesn't Love Me

I feel sorry for you. You have a terrible problem on your hands. I would not want to be in your shoes. I am so tired of this psycho babble about how people are raised and how they are affected later in life. This was suppose to be a grown man you married not a baby who never grew up. Now you have to deal with this very difficult problem trying to fix him. God bless you. Note: I took off from work a few days ago,made a nice romantic dinner(cooked myself),lit candles,nice bubble bath, the works. Only to be rejected by my spouse. By the way he is 74 yrs old. I am 53.

Husband Argues With Me

My spouse refuses to attend church or take leadership role in the home. He drinks beer and smokes everyday. He barely will bathe and keep himself clean. Looks to me to feed,dress and bathe him. Otherwise he will lay around in nasty,smelly clothes and eat very little.His teeth has fallen out because he refuses to go to the dentist. He does not take regualr check-ups.He has lost his virilty now and is very unaffectionate towards me. But he does say he loves me everyday.Is pretty civil to me. Is like a mother hen towards me. Worrying constantly about me. Even when I am at work. He is very generous towards me with money. Not selfish at all. Should I go on?Should I divorce?

Reconciliation Or Divorce

I am feeling somewhat sad myself today over this same issue. I have been married 28 yrs. So much invested in this relationship but now its just not working anymore. Your case if different. You have small kids. I do not.That is going to make it even more difficult.Also your husband is wanting the divorce and not you. That is difficult. I wish I had magic words to make it all better but I don't. You have a lot of work ahead of you. Once the love has gone from a relationship, usually,its best to let it go.Start over with someone new. I think this is where a lot of the bitterness come from in divorces. Part2coming

Economy Is In A Recession
	I am happy to have this opprtunity.Yes,the worlds economy is collapsing especially in Africa.I think it is because people have turned away from God and seek for money,and the littlew they get they don't honor God with their substance as per the word of God from Malachi 3:7-11 God bless you.

Alcohol Rehab Treatments
	A member of my family-child had the problem. He died young, but I feel he was saved by his faith & God took him home because it was best for him.