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Obedient To An Angry Husband

Not sure how you're dealing with this, but stay calm as possible with your husband's anger. It's taken me 3 years to get it. It works. The wife's job is to keep peace at home even when the husband wants to fight. A lot of men test wives with outbursts. It takes strength to be patient & long-suffer. Most men will acquire tender hearts over time seeing their wife's reaction. Some men are amused/entertained by their wife's foolish reaction. They want someone to act foolish with them to justify their childishness. Pray, hold fast to patience & God's word. With that said, separation is not divorce, therefore, not sin. If your husband isn't budging within 3 years, I suggest leaving temporarily. Show him you mean business without acting out.

Online Emotional Affair
	You must tell your husband no matter what the outcome may be. Yes, I would seek a counselor so that you can talk about your issues while dealing with the affair.!

Christians Required To Tithe

Matthew 23:23 says How terrible it will be for you teachers of religious law and you Pharisees. Hypocrites!For you are careful to tithe even the tinest part of your income, but you ignore the important things of the law , justice, mercy, and faith. you should tithe, yes but you should not leave undone the more important things. Malachi 3:10 says Bring all the tithes into the storehouse so there will be enough food in my temple. if you do, says the Lord Almighty, I will open the windows of Heaven for you. I will pour out a blessing so great you won't have enough room to take in!Try it Let me prove it to you.

Do You Dress Up For Church

We are always on display before our Lord so, as a Christian teenager, I believe we should show respect by always dressing in a modest and elegant manner. When we look our best we feel our best and do our best. I show respect to my community when I wear a nice skirt and jacket for school. I wear them to work out of respect for the customers. On Sundays to show appreciation for all the blessings in my life I put on my best suit and hat for church. Ever notice how no one is ever discourteous to an elegantly-dressed person? If we all presented ourselves that way perhaps there would be more courtesy and less strife.

Husband Has A Girl Friend
	Oh please woman are you blind, is it not clear to you that he has not come clean at the start by not telling you about the lunches. He is not worthy of you, divorce is the only option for a man who can lie and make a mockery of your marriage. Marriage it about two people not three. Tell him to get rid or you get rid.

Cheating Lying Abusive Husband

you say you dont believe in divorce! so do you believe it is right for you to live in misery? do you think that you should be used and abused? do you think its ok for your man to lie and cheat and hurt you mentally and physically? does he think about you when he is in another womans arms kissing her holding her making love to her, no your the last thing on his mind. If he truely loved you his mind his heart his soul would be with you and the thought of laying with another would not be a passing thought never mind an action he repeats over and over. Your worth more, be more he's not worthy of any womans love specially not yours. Leave him before he hurts you bad.

Favorite Christian TV Show
	I love watching The Billy Graham Crusades on TBN(Trinity Broadcasting Network).

My Husband Doesn't Love Me

my boyfriend of 3 and 1/2 years told me 6 months ago he didnt love me anymore and then about 2 weeks ago he went to ky and while he was there texted me and told me he loved me agian well today he tells me that he dont love me and everything was a lie he said that he told me he loved me so he could stay with our 2 children but i dont understand why he would say that considering i let him stay here with me and the babies when he said he didnt love me the first time...im just so confused please help.

Would You Date A Blind Man

I met a blind man last year Oct, and we have fallen in love. We have moved intogether, and we are very very much in love. I am 42, and he is 39 yrs old. We have loads of fun together. He is very independent and does so much for himself and now for me too. He is witty, and oh so passionate about life and love. I thank God for sending me this angel, after being divorced for 14 years. His timing was once again PERFECT. Keep well. Michelle from Cape Town, South Africa

My Goals Have Stalled
	Like Abraham, you have to be willing to change course. God may be asking you to sacrifice your dream/goal and offer it up as a sacrifice to the Lord. Dedicate your goal back to the Lord. He may have other plans, as with Abraham who was willing to offer up his son as a sacrifice. God may have something better, waiting for you to change course.

What Is The Purpose Of Church
	The Church that Jesus built is comprised of those doing what they're called to do rather than what they thought they had to do to build their individual kingdoms, churches.

Weight Loss Tips And Scriptures
	I would suggest a Vegan diet. It is full of compassion, grace, love and peace. It is wonderful how the choice to go vegan gave me such peace about my choices and the pride to make even more positive changes. You cannot thrive on the suffering of others.

Explain The Great Delusion
	It will encompass a global deception, and bring thousands of fractured and diverse little groups together into one big composite called "A New World". If you're not a "New World" man, you had better be born again or you may be exterminated. Daniel calls it the 'great seduction'. But those that know their God will remain strong and will do great exploits for Him.

58 Year Old Man Wants 29 Old Girl
	Age does not matter. I am 41 yrs. old and met someone 60 yrs. old on here. We fell in love.

Why Don't Christians Witness
	Some Christians are nervous about what will happen. Will there be a fight? Will the person they're trying to talk to hurt them in a phisical or an emotional way? They concentrate more on "What if...?" instead of just trying to share.

Your Church Allow Comfort In Sin
	Unfortunetly, I have a church like that. In fact, the adults at my church don't even seem to care about what the younger members of our church do. It is so frustrating to me! Plus, The adults say they are trying to help, but it doesn't work (and believe me, I would know!!).

Christian Women Dress Scantly
	No they should not be able to. I believe it is important to dress modestly, but so many woman think that dressing in a scantly way makes them look sexy, when in fact it makes them look horrible.

Reconciliation Years After Divorce

Prayer changes people, I am going thur a very unwanted divorce after 19 years of marriage, to someone whom I love so much. He has made no attempts to reconcile, just wants to play mind games. I have since turned to God, and ask for his leading in me and my childrens lives. I do have the peace and strength. I miss him very much, but until you give your spouse totally to God, he will handle the rest. It's soo hard. But I just keep my head high and pray alot. Things will get better.

Different Ways People Healed

I'm taking a break, feel free to use "Michelle", my intitials if you need to. A change is coming. It is time to pray. God's higher government will come to the Church. There will be a sifting between the greater glory and power in His Church and improper ministries. There will be a buffer zone. Without faith it will be impossible to tell the difference. Remember the power of Holy Spirit has not diminished. The gift of faith is a gift from the Holy Spirit. MMR