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Do Teenagers Deserve Privacy

My answer is relative to what's going on with the kid. My mother trusts me enough to not need to go snooping. My sister and step-brother were... not the best of children and my mother and father went through their rooms. Reasonable suspicion gives parents a right to go through there kid's room. Maybe only looking around for stuff in the open with the child present. But honestly, if you feel the need to go through your child's room, then there's a trust issue and I would suggest therapy.

Hard To Be A Christian

Because we are human, we all want to be accepted and loved by everyone, its especially hard when u find other groups of ppl who are really nice and sweet and are overall good ppl, but not into the whole christianity thing. we are afraid of rejection and being alone and forfeiting certain intimate friendships that we know can make us happy, but what u should always keep in mind is that there is no greater love then Jesus' and even when the world tries to offer better or equal happiness, we need to show God just how much we believe in him by sacrificing certain things we may want, it hurts, but God will guide u through it and will show a better outcome than u expected. God doesn't want u to be unhappy,but rather get the best out of life

How To Identify Cults
	Always entertained by the infamous "cult" question...look up the definition of a cult...Christianity meets the general definition! The fact is that many well meaning people on these blogs describe a cult as anyone who doesn't believe as they do. They are people who believe whatever they've been taught and don't bother doing any legitimate research on their own.

Young Women Marrying Older Men
	i'm probably too young to be on this website, but i am 16 and all i'm going to say is that i love someone who is 29. he's not the most attractive guy out there, and he's not married. but i'd like to marry him. is it wrong for a 16 year old to be in love with /want to marry a 29 year old? i'd rather marry him than some hot guy my age.

Filing For Bankruptcy

A few years ago I was forced into bankruptcy due to a loss of employment of my ex (no child support) and medical insurance. I have a child with an illness and her medications are over 400.00 per month. Unfortunately I had to use my credit cards to help provide for my children. I tried very hard to work out a plan with the credit card people and they were unwilling. I looked for other solutions but found none. It was the only way to stop the harassment and believe me they are relentless! I would have preferred to pay them off but as I said - they wouldn't allow me to pay what I could afford at that time in my life. I think it should be used only as a last resort but I am grateful that the option exists!

Books Missing From The Bible

Mormons believe the King James Version of the Bible is the most correctly translated. Mormons believe the Bible to be the Word of God. Mormons also believe the Book of Mormon is also the Word of God and that it is another witness of Jesus Christ. Mormons didn't "mess with the original." What books were put into the Bible and left out of the Bible were determined by councils of men...none of which were members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (aka Mormons).

Young Women Marrying Older Men

I would not say things should be this way(society) but we should be free to make our own choices. This type relationship may work for some but not for everyone. If you are faced with this decision, you will have to decide for yourself, what will work for you.Experience is still the best teacher. I married a man 21 1/2 yrs older. I am not really happy now. To be honest. I would like to see those beautiful teeth again(they are gone) that wonderful physique,he's retired ( sits around now)virility is gone. The list is too long to put here. I feel sad sometimes. The memories are not enough.

Praise And Worship Enjoyable
	The fact that God is enjoying it

My Husband Is Narcissistic

Anonymous, I'm so sorry you have cancer and have an unsympathetic, narcissistic spouse! I hope you have friend or family to turn to in this difficult time - it sounds like your dh is not going to be there for you. I am praying for you, that God will help you feel His love and comfort through this difficult time on earth, until you see him face to face. And that he will send some human "angels of mercy" to comfort you.

God Does Not Forgive
	God forgives, it is the devil that cannot forgive.

Can A Virgin Marry A Non-Virgin

Some of you look down on Steve for his seemingly narrow-minded view. I, however, heartily agree with him. There is nothing wrong with setting criteria for yourself as to who you will marry. Perhaps Steve is saying that a non-virgin is not good enough for him. But if that is the truth, so be it. It's his life, and he chooses who he does and does not want to marry. The same of all of us. Since I have saved that gift for my future wife, is it so wrong to want the same? I think not.

Why Is Everything Messed Up
	Everything is messed up because the devil and his God hating family cannot love or forgive. They always want to be before God and his chosen so they push godly people out of the way and use scientic measures to cause chaos and confusion.

How To Save My Marriage
	Reminds me of Scott Peterson, he did the same thing. Is he abusive?

Husband May Be Having An Affair
	The problem is...I have no idea how to find out. I do not have the $$ for a PI, and do not have the time to follow his every move. When I ask him, he tells me if I don't have proof, then don't accuse him. That sounded like a guilty response to me. I would love to hear from some men out there about possible suspicious behavior I should look for.

When Did Lucifer Fall
	It had to be before Adam and Eve was made. It means that this world was already wicked before Adam and Eve was made.

Is Church The House Of God
	Of course the Church is the House of God. But you must beware of false teachers and those that are wolves in sheeps clothing. In Rev. there are two churches in Asia that are the church of satan. So Satan has churches so be careful and study the church that you go to.

Prayer Request For Baby
	I will pray for your situation, jessica.

Do Teenagers Deserve Privacy
	My teen was acting out. skipping school and coming in late so I started watching her extra carefully. one morning I saw her diary open by her bed it looked suspicious so i read it. she said she had tried to commit suicide by over dosing and it didn't work. We went for counseling and now 20 years later I am very glad I snooped.

Illegal To Spank Your Kids
	It is ridiculous. I recently got visited by SS because my preschooler went to school with a small scratch not even as long as my pinky nail and he told them mommy did it. I accidentally scratched him with my fingernail. Luckily it was dismissed but it was still humilitating to go through that.