My Boyfriend Plays The Field Blog

My Boyfriend Plays The Field

My boyfriend wants to play the field and still date me. Do I stay with him or tell him no?

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---julie on 3/31/06
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"two's company, but three's a crowd".

---Eloy on 4/18/12

hello,family of God...sister,you are accepting this game? he acts like a boy...boys play games...you better off go finnish some type of studies,you are putting yourself at risk for a whole lot of nasty business...hurt,emotional distress,diseases...you are better than accepting such abuse of yourself! Get into the word of God,pray & thank God for all the good advice here! We care...

---ELENA on 4/18/12

hey this is derrick and i was just wanting to tell u that he dosent need to do that if he wants to be with u if not then let him go and be with someone else that will treat u right if i had u i know i wouldnt do that to u

---derrick on 12/10/07

Just tell him there are some things you do not share with others. Him being one of them.

---Fred_S. on 12/10/07

I wouldn't stay with him. He wants his cake and eat it to. Leave him and find someone else whom is worthy of your time. There are plenty of other fish in the sea. How old are you? Are you ready to settle down?

---Rebecca_D on 5/18/07

It sounds as if you might both be rather too young to understand what committment means. Until you both do I'd say have lots of friends of both sexes and get to know people really well before thinking of a future mate. People date seriously far too early these days i.m.o.

---emg on 5/13/06

You're not clear on how old you and your boyfriend are.

If you're both still in your early teens, you might be seeing more in the relationship than he is.

If you're both in your 20's, it's a different question.

---Jack on 5/12/06

You date to find a future mate. Young people these days hook-up. There's a difference. At any age this behavior of his is reason to tell him go on and do his own thing.

---anjoe on 3/31/06

I'd tell him to walk but first I'd ask how he would feel if I were the one wanting to 'play the field.'

---M.P. on 3/31/06

While he is playing the field he is also playing you for A fool!

---mima on 3/31/06