One Way To Chose Hell
I am a married woman who has been spending time with a married man. We enjoy our time together. We have started spending some time together outside of work with our children too. Our spouses know. Is this normal? I am having mixed signals from him. I am caring more deeper for him.
Moderator - Yes, it is called adultery and people who practice it are hell bound.
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---mia on 4/9/06
Helpful Blog Vote (11)
Are you having problems with your husband? I am wondering why you can spend time with another man. Doing so, you are exposing yourself to temptation. Beware.
---Linda6546 on 2/12/08|
Jesus said: Matthew 5:28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
Which I interpret that as the very thought of adultery is sin.
---chris on 4/12/06|
Mia, That you've even asked indicates you already know that to procede further with this man will end in disaster. Is it normal? Depends upon your point of view. If you are a bible believing christian, it is not a "normal" christian lifestyle choice. If you are not a christian, then it is perfectly normal behavior.
---daphn8897 on 4/12/06|
No it is not normal, but abnormal.
---Eloy on 4/12/06|
why would you post the message without asking a question on a christian site? You should be ashamed for even thinking to see someone if you are married.
---shira on 4/11/06|
as soon as you started 2caring" for him, and receiving "signals" you should have exite very very fsast from the friendship.
At the moment you are both betraying your spouses, yuor children (if you have any) your marriage vows, and yourselves
---alan8869_of_UK on 4/11/06|
Here's a little story: "A chicken and pig were talking one day. The chicken said, 'I'll give the farmer some eggs so he can have a good breakfast and you give him some bacon.' The pig replyed, 'For you it's a committment but for me it's a sacrifice'. You are sacrificing yourself for a man who is committing adultery and has no intention of going any further. (Of course you are too.) Just because your spouces are aware of this doens't make it right.
---WIVV on 4/10/06|
I can understand if both spouses are envolved, but for the two of you just to hang out together without spouses it could be dangerous. It could lead to something that shouldn't happen. I'm not saying stop being friend with him, but stop spending so much time with just him.
---Rebecca_D on 4/10/06|
Anytime you go outside of your marriage to find friendship or comfort or fellowship, then there's something lacking in your marriage. You and your husband should go to professional counselling. Find out what the problem is between you two. See if you can "return to your first love." What you are doing is treading on dangerous ground. The devil can lead you down a path of destruction before you realize it. Stop seeing this man, go to counselling with your husband.
---Donna9759 on 4/10/06|
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