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Christian Girl Seeks Attention

I am dating a christian girl. She seeks attention from other guys. She notices every guy and trys to make eye contact with them. I confronted her and she says she is praying. In the meantime its starting to wear on me. What should I do? Why is this wearing on me?

Moderator - Time to move on.

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I've had experience with that type of woman. It's called the Jezebel spirit. Don't ponder, run from her. Search for a woman with a true heart towards God. And you won't have to worry about the swivel neck syndrome, making eye contact with other men.
---Spike on 1/10/08

Wayne has some wise words here, not simply a quick judgement based upon little info. The natural reaction would be to move on, and it is possible that God would lead you to do so, but I would seek Him first in this as He knows all things. Is she a christian, and are you? Remember,There is none perfect. There are some that God has called to love another as He called Hosea. He Knows
---christina on 9/12/06

The next time she initiates eye contact with another man while on a date with you and says she's praying, you may want to advise her to pray for a ride home. (I'm kidding, don't you dare leave a woman on the streets alone).
She's prEying, not prAying, my friend.
Like the others have stated, be gone and never look back. Not only is she disrespectful, but her flirting with other men could put you in a dangerous situation if one of them flirts back and challenges you in the process.
---AlwaysOn on 9/11/06

annie, I will guarantee if the people who know you were asked they would say that you are a giver and not a taker.Sadly givers many times get walked all over.Boy I sure experienced it,but I will continue to be a giver cause I like myself, and my God tells me to be a giver.
---tom2 on 9/11/06

For some of us women, we have the same story reversed. Some of us, like me, stuck around and married the man! Yikes! What a life of adultery, lies, deceit, tears, pain.....RUN LIKE THE WIND!!!!!
---Annie on 9/11/06

I agree with tom2 and a few others, including the moderator. I noticed this was answered by all guys, I think. But they are right, if this girl does not want to give you her attention, then she is just biding her time. Don't wait until you have too much of your life vested in her. End it now. Pray for that special person who Puts God First, and You second.
---Dottie on 9/10/06

Tom... I am so sorry to hear that your newly found wife has left you again.
---alan8869_of_UK on 9/10/06

tim, hers my story of a woman who is attention addicted. my first wife left after 14 years ,cause other men told her how beautiful she was, after 24 years of divorce we got back together 3 years ago ,she left again last week cause a former high school boyfriend found her on the internet and told her he still loved her.COLOR ME GONE FRIEND, thats my advice.
---tom2 on 9/10/06

It is only by love revealed that love can be awakened. You are privileged to reveal true love and encourage her to freely choose. Her choices will make plain when and if you should move on. Jesus came to reveal to us His value and our need of Him. He led us step by step to freely choose Him or to choose Satan and sin. Do as Jesus would do and be thankful as He opens and closes doors.
---Wayne87 on 9/9/06

Dating is a time when we get to know each other, reveal that we have a character worthy of the love of the other. Since true love desires first and foremost the happiness of the other, you will encourage her to have perfect freedom as she makes choices. Your privilege is to reveal to her that your love is true and seeks her happiness before your own. Read 1 Corinthians 13. If you demand that she commit before she is ready, then you truly make it impossible for her to love you.
---Wayne87 on 9/9/06

moderator is correct....I would get gone quick. Her signs are a precursor of things to come or things behind your back.
---shira_9639 on 9/9/06

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