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Help Save My Family

I have bi-polar and my past I have put my wife down in public, yelled in anger and led us to unfaithfullness. Now I'm on medication and have had counseling for this disease. My wife wants to end our relationship. I have a son 8 and a daughter 13. Will someone please help me save my family?

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 ---Mitch on 9/28/06
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I empathize with your situation. I totally understand how you feel. Pray and see if your wife would be willing to do marital therapy with a licensed psychotherapist. God bless.
---Madison1101 on 12/5/07

I don't think being bi-polar has anything to do with being unfaithful

Medication alone is not often enough - you probably need counseling at least in the beginning and maybe you can get your wife to go to.

God always forgives our sins, but that doesn't mean we don't have to face the consequences of our actions.
---grace3869 on 10/28/06

God in Jesus name I curse Mitch's bipolar disease and plead the blood of Jesus over his health. I come against every attack of Satan on his marriage by the blood of Jesus. I pray for physical and spiritual healing in Jesus name. Amen.
---Alphius on 10/8/06

Mitch , You are covered in prayer, Don't ever doubt God, hang on to Him, because with God, ALL things are possible. I invite you to come vistit my church the info is on ernestangley then type a dot, then "org", you will find the prayer line number on the website too. God Bless. --Mrs. Morgan --
---Mrs._Morgan on 10/8/06

**Correction, sorry! (see bold type all caps):Lost family member's is a very important issue! I think I need to do what my brother and sister has been telling me to do, "get OFF the blogs", and witness to our lost family members! ......
---Mrs._Morgan on 10/8/06

Lost family member's is a very important issue! I think I need to do what my brother and sister has been telling me to do, "get of the blogs", and witness to our lost family members! Time is too short to be debating the "basic essentials" that Christians should already know and accept! God Bless.
---Mrs._Morgan on 10/8/06

Janet, without knowing your circumstances, all I can do is share one very basic step that I have learned. That is the power of giving. The Bible says that God so loved that He gave (John 3:16). There is something supernatural about giving. It causes anger to dissolve and even breaks down walls of bitterness. You can give openly or secretly. You can start very small. Just begin where you feel comfortable.
---DoryLory on 9/29/06

Most women do not want to see their family disintegrate. But they all have their own limits regarding how much they can take. If your wife has reached her limit, she NEEDS a break. I sense a desperatation from your post and I just want to say that your wife needs you to be strong right now and to accept that there are consequences to the choices you have made in the past. She will not be attracted to a desperate man.
---DoryLory on 9/29/06

Be strong, accept the consequences like a man and continue to do everything within your power to become a better person. Allow her the time she needs to see that you are indeed a changed man. And it will take time, perhaps a year or two. You will need to be patient. Turn to the Lord. He will help you every moment of every day. Do not allow yourself to feel desperate. You are not desperate. You can do this. Jesus will help you.
---DoryLory on 9/29/06

Mitch - Cry out to Father God, the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. Cry that exact prayer out to Him, "Father God, please help me save my family." Talk to God about what's happening, tell Him you need his help and repent of any sin you have committed, and if you are not saved/born again, then ask Jesus to come into your heart and be Lord and Savior of your life. We can pray for you, but you have a free will and so does your wife. Only God can do the healing. PRAY HARD !!!!!
---Donna9759 on 9/28/06

The only ones on earth who can save your family are you and your wife.

YOU may need some time by yourself to get physically and emotionally stabilized. Your wife, and doutbless children, need time and space for healing, too.

What steps have you taken to pursue reconciliation?
---Jack on 9/28/06

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