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Husband's Life-Style

Do I stay in the present situation or leave? Husband has chosen a life-style which is contrary to Bible. He has committed adultry in the past and says he wants to live as a woman now & has always wanted to.

Moderator - Leave as that isn't a valid marriage.

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I would leave. I married a man, not a woman. This is sick and he needs help. Don't let him tell you that he was born to be a woman. God don't make mistakes. This is a desire by his flesh. If you stay with him, knowing it is against God. You are condoning his decision. And you are just at fault.
---Rebecca_D on 2/2/08

1st Cliff, God does not make mistakes, but that does not mean that we do not have challenges. How we react to those challenges and to others with those challenges is a reflection of our character as a christian. It would be dangerous to assume that Jesus would never meet us as one afflicted, whether by poverty, disease, handicap, or mental illness. But the solution is not to embrace the affliction, only the afflicted. And sometimes, if someone does not want to be helped, all we can do is walk away.
---lorra8574 on 6/23/07

P2, I would add that walking away should only be when the person is capable of fending for themselves, not in the case of those incapable of making a right choice.
---lorra8574 on 6/23/07

*How do you explain "hermaphrodites?"*

It's part of the curse(result of Adam and Eve's sin). Deformities,infirmites is all Satan's doing. Not God's.
---Matthew on 6/23/07

You have my sympathy. May be your husband can be treated, but if he won't even admit that he has a problem then there is not much that you can do. The moderator is right, even in the Catholic Church you would have grounds for annulment and with it the opportunity to remarry. Your current marriage is not a valid marriage as your husband entered into it under false pretenses.
---lorra8574 on 6/23/07

He has broken your marriage covenant. You have Biblical grounds for divorce.

But.. what if God wants you to stay? This is not likely, but you should ask Him before you divorce.
---a_servant on 6/22/07

You must be miserable ! ! Believe me it is better to be alone . Leave it . It has become an ABOMINATION. You do not want to participate in that sin . Condolances and Blessings.
---jody on 5/22/07

1st Cliff: It doesn't matter how a person is born, God does not make mistakes. What your telling me in your reply, that God does make mistakes.
---Rebecca_D on 5/18/07

You cannot be "unequally yoked" with your husband. It is time to leave. If he wants to live as a woman and believe that God made a mistake which he didn't in creating each and every one of us then you can't let him hinder you in your relationship with God and in your faith. Do what the Word says. Continue to seek God.
---chara7388 on 5/17/07

Rebecca D; You say "God don't make mistakes" as tho He blesses every birth! How do you explain "hermaphrodites?"
---1st_cliff on 5/17/07

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